Health info: by the time people get to a ‘marriage counselor’ it’s usually a moot point, which is why a woman would benefit more, bc if she chooses to stay she needs help keeping her sanity (translation: gain communication skills, maybe that should be renamed: speak up for yourself more?) .
Try to remember that we are not that far above acting like chimps and most communication is happening on another level altogether, the unconsciously programmed one, (if want to shift that, you can to a great degree…) and the instinctual one (it’s not an out for explaining bad behavior, it’s biology, I could elaborate on this but I won’t right now).
Google the Johari model for a glimpse of what’s really going on in the unconscious soup, notice the ‘secret’ self – and yes, sometimes, most of the time, it’s even hidden from you (thus the word: secret) and that is likely why brain research can only go so far, the psyche is a deep/shallow, dark/light place. It’s tough to pattern or accurately predict anyone’s behavior based on that. It’s no wonder counseling and personality testing is so popular, peeps feel like they get a clue into their own uniqueness…

Anonz, is that really you, back and speaking on the subject of love? If so, you were missed, and your desk…well, it provides interesting information, but it’s the writer we’re all interested in, I’m very excited that you’re safe and sound.

I’ve been doing the blog back ass-wards lately, reading comments and commenting on that and then going back and reading posts (or the videos embedded) today is that last day of that, I’ll get caught up right now…

/SB, I’m glad Cooper did his announcement the way he did, and while I do think it was a pre-emptive maneuver on his part, it did not steal his thunder in my opinion. There’s a classy way to do things and a not so classy way to do things, when you’re under the gun is when you show which one you are, he came out in the classy department as far as I’m concerned.

Luv, Zen Lill

Have you noticed that all of the white pundits when they discuss the negatives that states can expect for not accepting Obamacare they talk in terms of the amount of money the states will lose.

Why is it whites can’t value life as much as they do money? It seems to me that it is so much as the billions of dollars those states will be losing as it is the number of lives that those states will cost their citizens.

How much efforts does it take to imagine how many people will die from the lack of proper medical attention. This does not count the quality of life that will decline because of the lack of prevention health care.

When it comes to abortion, the Right doesn’t hesitate to show the grisly results of some abortions. The Left should list the deaths in states that result from lack of proper medical attention because those states chose to not implement the ACA.

Let the citizens of those states hold their legislatures accountable. Arizona was able to get away with ignoring Medicaid for a decade because a few whites in that state hold enormous sway over the OTWs there. They did not want to provide for them medically so they were content to let them suffer and die prematurely.

The white conscious has its own unique non human way of functioning towards the OTW people they have police power over.

Paul

He is the typical rich coward who is attempting to use the current tolerance and support that we gays have worked so hard for to his advantage. He knows that the ratings at CNN are at an all time low and this is a feeble attempt to cash in on his coming out gay to increase the ratings of his show.

He did not make himself “visible” on his own volition. He knew it would not have the same value if it was seen that he was forced to admit that he was gay. So he pre-empted his outing by this grand standing.

Donald

Ginned up white fear that the OTW will take some sinister lead in government that will result in the kind of treatment to whites that their male led government leaders have routinely made the OTW citizens of this country endure.

Hence two thirds of white americans can be driven by fear or racism to vote not only white only, but for the party that implies that they are for white dominance in politics.

Lance.