Upon further thought to this subject matter, are you serious that women/men (called parents) are not teaching their daughters the basics: men think/act/are different and here’s why in a word: testosterone, bc if this blog has women over 21 who really have ‘no idea’ when to know when they’re engaging in a fling, an FWB or a full on LTR, or when they should engage in sex to know when they are in the aforementioned, then it’s possible that women really are a bit stupid.

& before you think I’m sticking up for men, I’m not, reread that. I’m railing against not communicating with your daughters and sons, I’m addressing a parenting issue here (no wonder why my ‘conscious parenting’ tidbit I posted elsewhere got so much feedback, it ain’t happening!), so it’s men (fathers) not teaching sons how to handle their hormonal urges and surges (and about unwanted pregnancy and diseases), and women (mothers) not clueing their girls in on hormonal urges and surges and the intricacies of handling them and men (often dawgs, and babies/diseases), it’s simple biology that boys/girls and grown men/women have these urges, lessons in handling them (and how men and women think lessons) should take place well before freaking 21-35-omg/40!!

Even old fashioned women threw out the old ‘don’t put out, he won’t respect yeh’ bs, now all of sudden Steve Harvey is giving unknown advice about ‘how men are’ to woman over the age of 21?? & women are sending books to daughters already in teens and twenties about this, seriously, you people don’t sit with your kids and discuss with your 9-10-11 yr olds the impending ‘raging hormones’ that is a part of life?? – you’re not having conversations about the birds/bees (should be known as dawgs/pussies)?? I thought more highly of this special blend of women here, it always seems like a more intelligent crew than most of your ‘women’s blogs’ and now we suddenly should get a man perspective on this, did we suddenly have amnesia about how we know some (not all) men think/act?? & clammed up when it comes to sharing the info with our children??

It comes down to one thing: communication, if you are not willing to share vital info with your sons and daughters and you leave them to wing it on their own without explaining testosterone and estrogen (sheer biology) and how behavior is affected in tweenie/teen years (sheer animal instincts), then we are bringing in another generation of dumb girls/women who will be unarmed and ill equipped to handle many things, not just men. Teach your own peeps some self mastery, if they have that, they will instinctively know right times to move ahead and feel safe in their own choices and they won’t need a MAN, Steve Harvey or any other to tell them how many exact freaking DAYS it takes to have sex to know if your just a piece of meat or in a relationship.

It is challenging trying to present the testosterone/estrogen – male ‘spread the seed’ and female ‘spread the love’ issues without making all men sound bad though I always preface the convo with saying exactly that (some men are bad, and some men are OK, and some are good, etc…I’m going to write & sell my sex talk scripts based on this apparent lack of finding the words, I’ll make millions) & now you know why it took an hour to read his book cover to cover, bc he wrote nothing I did not know simply by living and engaging in life and yes, some sex, too : )

Luv, Zen Lill

What transpired yesterday with Joan #38 and your answer #41 was not unforgivable. Since you apologize, I forgive you.

After all, It was very thorough. After reading the post, I would like to add one more bit of information about ISSA’s that was not mentioned by JBE.

Their Female makers are located on the planet laf (located in the Rosetta Cluster), as mentioned.

That was all.

HOWIE