My sister was raped 7 years ago by a brute too. She confessed when he became a news item concerning a rape charge that he beat in court.

I made friends with him and lured him to hunt with me and some friends in the back woods of Louisiana. I’m sure you won’t mind me not telling you exactly where when I tell you he is still missing to others.

I haven’t told my sister about it because she isn’t the vengeful types. We have trained dogs that rape him occasionally. In three more years we will put him out of his misery. So far he has confessed to 31 rapes. He has a fantastic memory of his “conquests.”

We have the time and the tools to keep them coming.

Men don’t think about it much bc they don’t have to, and bc we don’t live in the world as it ought to be yet…

I would also like to share this story with no names…
I’ll add my disclaimer first: yes, we SHOULD be able to walk down the street naked and not be touched unless we invite it, we also should be able to invite a man into our home/apt without him assuming things are on and even if they are for a minute (make out session) and a woman then says no, it should mean no, yes-we should, we should…
We also shouldn’t leave ourselves open to the idea that no always means no especially when that man who is visiting is 3x’s your body weight and is suddenly aggressive and scary. You must be self protective, bc no, even a strong woman like myself could be overpowered (oh but he’d be looking like a barroom brawl had taken place on his face first).

…so here’s the story, a friend texted me that she was having a drink with a hot harley driving, tatooed man who recently opened a biz in the area, to her he was hot in a bad boy way, to me I know that look and it can be enticing and bad boys aren’t always bad but this dude’s eyes said ‘thug’ through and through (to me) so I suggested that the drink takes place somewhere other than her place (she invited him to her place, possibly she was looking for a friends with benefit arrangement, not for me to judge and not the point), she went ahead with the plan and when push came to shove and she’d verbalized no several times, he got aggressive and she got date raped.
Sad but true and I’m sure it isn’t the first time he’s done that. She felt like shit and this is not unusual either. She wasn’t wrong in wanting it her way, though I’m asking all of you to always, please, be self protective. I’d rather you be well than be right in saying you should be able to do that. (sigh, yes, you should but clearly rape culture and no means yes/maybe culture is also giving bad men the go ahead and who’s going to argue with a burly dude?) – like I said, he would’ve left with bruised balls even if I got beaten and raped anyway, but my friend is petite and was scared.
It’s still a violation to the woman, my friend (any of your friends, too) and you can’t take that back, and those awful feelings tend to linger…

…and that’s my two to the good men, please share that no means no, not yes/maybe or ‘I like it when your rough like that’, unless a woman explicitly asks for ‘rough’ (and that’s more likely to happen well after a first session), then NO is NO.

Thank you to the good dudes here, and women of MM blog, please watch yourselves bc this kind of scenario could happen to you, a friend, anyone…men are physically stronger (most of the time). I hope this one gets what’s coming to him…somehow…

Luv, Zen Lill