Look, your advice “”If you think he or she is cheating, it’s likely they are,” was good, very good. So why did you have to qualify it with that “jealousy and trust issues shit?

I wasn’t jealous until my husband made a slip and claimed he was with a co-worker who had called that night to ask him a question about a case they were working on together.

The jealousy came when I checked to see why he lied. I did not have trust issues, it was obvious that he had lied. If I did not check it would not be because I trusted him, it would be because I was too stupid to check.

Take a stand lady and stick to it.

Does that mean I have the right to forcefully enter your property and make money from something you didn’t realize was available to your property. Oh and will it be alright if I share some of the bounty with you?

If that makes sense to you, then you can make the lame claim you did in your comment.

Would you be asserting Black men and other OTW men glommed onto an sexual opportunity when it wasn’t being reaped by the natives of the land, seems like that’s human nature, I doubt it.

You were just doing what whites do all the time justifying the wrongs they have done to OTWs by claiming that it was an opportunity unrealized those they were exploiting.

No, it is not “man shit.” It is white boy shit. They are the ones that use military power to take advantage of weaker nations.

Zen Lill, once colonization is part of the event, it becomes criminal not economic. You don’t get a pass to look over that and proceed to the next part of the event.

I,e. if a man forces you to submit to his advances, he doesn’t get to claim he showed you sexual moves that could improve your sex life, you know, things you could have or should have learned on your own.