Since the military has completely failed to fix the problem, Senator Gillibrand has proposed moving control of sexual assault cases outside the “chain of command.” The military essentially said, “We don’t like that idea.” Yet there was a deafening silence about what, if anything, they were going to do differently to fix the problem.

That hearing was a “poster child” for what Jackson Katz is saying. Each one of those men (and one very frightened looking female officer) sat there, all solemn and shiny in their uniforms, content with the personal satisfaction of perhaps never having assaulted a woman themselves (?), content with the status quo and their glorious career success. Not one of them was willing to risk “breaking ranks” to get personally involved, to feel the outrage or the helplessness of women who are sexually assaulted under their commands every day.

If you want fresh, powerful footage of men in leadership positions, men who otherwise might have been considered well above average, collectively dodging responsibility, failing to understand sexual assault of women as a men’s issue, you need go no further than the national embarrassment which was that hearing yesterday, on display for the world to see.

In a remarkable moment of candor, it may have been the very pro-military, hawkish Senator John McCain (R-AZ) who made the most honest assessment when he said, “{Because of this issue] I would not recommend my daughter join the military.”

SO these female teachers that are having sex with underage female/males students most time in the law eyes that is rape.

Sometimes women will get feed up and go beyond abusive to murder as some men do!