I am embarrased but I think my intentions were understood.

Sorry about that.

HOWIE

PS your statement about good men like Anonz or Al or Howie doing their own type of vetting is for sure, man or woman, we all vet on some level to test if someone meets our personal standards.
In many ways – The true vetting in life is in who keeps in touch with you after the affair is over…in my experience within 2 weeks or 2 months or 2 years (once) I get the call about how much they miss my smile, how much they learned from me and how different I am, etc…and if they didn’t behave like a total jack at the end I remain in contact (unless their current GF or wives take issue with the friendship bc I don’t like causing trouble in anyone’s paradise…& sometimes my archetype is trouble in and of itself)

I would also venture to guess that both Al and Anonz would probably be vetting the lady to see if she would put out too soon. Of course in Anonz’s case, life’s events occur on a more perilous stage than most of us, and that might make a 90 day wait about 89 days too long if his life ended in some noble cause somewhere.

Therefore I would give him a pass. The urgency by which he lives demands it. One can hardly say that about 99.9% of those other two legged male creatures however desirable they may be.

Anonz is in a class of his own. My advice to the ladies seeking his attention, give it your all. If he takes the time to notice, consider yourself fortunate to have garnered it.

The man seems to live at such a fierce and dangerous pace that if I were interested and he merely had time to bed me. No regrets sugar. Sometimes we eat the sweet merely for the sweetness.

I know that I could go on with the knowledge that I had shared a tinder moment with a gentleman and a hero to women everywhere. I sincerely believe that Anonz is not the type who would deliberately harm a woman emotionally or otherwise. But he is a man and as such, a quickie before the battle could be appealing since it could be his last.

I am too old, 73, for an Anonz, but I do have money to provide sources for information. From what I’ve learned, the term PALADIN is well deserved. If I had a single daughter, I would not hesitate to give my blessing to any union she was fortuitous to have happen between them.

I have donated and continue to support his causes in Africa, and Asia. Anonz, may God always bless his heart and look after him, has done more for the plight of defenseless women and to advance the cause of democracy than most will ever know.

I was one of those women during a most perilous time in Northern Africa. I saw fist hand how incredibly inconsiderate he was of his own life when a woman needed his assistance to preserve hers. He will always be my PALADIN.

I don’t know what your relationship was with him, Zen Lill, and I don’t expect you would reveal it here. No woman that Anonz took to heart would. But I envy the time you have shared with him. He saved my life, opened my eyes to the sufferings of those less fortunate than I, changed my politics, and got me to donate millions to his causes without once stepping down from the lofty pedestal I put him on.

Ah, to be younger and have those arms hold me or to see that smile that springs upon his face when he gets his way. After all I went through before he arrived like a one man calvary to save us, I sleep very well, because I remember that smile on his face as he said “don’t worry, I’ve got you, no one will hurt you while I live.”

Nine horrific hours later he got us all out. We stay in touch to honor this man. He put his body and life before us and brought us home safely. We all made it. When we were put on that plane to safety, he remained, even though he was wounded because his job wasn’t done.

I returned home callous and angry. But I had to know if that man had survived. When I discovered who he was, I made sure to meet him again. I was much younger and more obstinate then.

He entered the room not with swagger, but with a shyness one would not expect from one with such a fierce reputation. I thought to impress him with my wealth, connections and power. He smiled and said “I see you are as determined to have your way today as you were to live that day.”

The smile, the very same smile that comforted me that day, won me over again. I smiled and we have been good friends ever since. I absolutely adore Anonz.

So let me say, if he is harmed in any way by anyone, I will move Heaven and Hell to avenge him.

Helena

Hmmm, Why when you toss in panties and get banged and then dumped is that man an asshole?

You offered up side salad, he took, got done with it bc he’s married, end of story…

I’m not defending men but listen to yourselves – if you’re going to act like low hanging fruit you’ll get picked, tasted and tossed and (I don’t care what fancy words he throws in there that sound otherwise), this topic has been worked over here before and I thought everyone agreed with our blog host and steve Harvey that women should vet for 90 days (or they are basically thought of as sluts though I was willing to defend less time and took plenty of shit for it, so 90 it is!) … Is it now 90 days except for Anonz AND Al?
Lol… Whatevs … I live and let live … And don’t actually care what anyone else does with their own panties (or Lack thereof) … Let the tossing continue…!

-ZL

He banged me for a few months and then the creep acted as if he didn’t know me. I keyed the asshole’s car and had my BFF tell his wife about our affair.