That being said I have to disagree with the punishment he has been given by the NFL as a result of a doctored tape by TMZ.

Those white boys are doing to the young black man the white boy does to black in their just US justice system all over the country.

The punishment does not reflect the crime committed. He should NOT be banned indefinitely because of this.

TMZ who edited that video to give the worst scenario possible to the event is being proclaimed as a champion of women when they sacrificed this young man’s career to boost their sales.

TMZ publishes the worst pictures of women and degrades them at every opportunity for profit. White boys do god awful things in every sport and they are not banned indefinitely.

Black people from every social position are rallying behind the TMZ trashing of Ray Rice. Get a clue fools.

You are being used to fuck over another black male who has made a mistake and the white boy wants to not just make him answer for his mistake but to destroy him.

I didn’t report him, but after reading your post I called the FBI, got a lawyer, and he contacted the police department the cop works for.

I don’t know what’s going to happen but I thank you for giving me the courage to speak up. I have been a mental wreck for the last 3 years since it happened.

Thank you.

I know most of you are fans of Michelle so I decided to answer you here, ala Zen Lill. We girls have talked about this a ton. So I won’t recover it. Suffice it to say NEVER trust a man you haven’t met yet.

If you are meeting him through a medium that doesn’t allow you to see him first, then be very, very careful. A man who plans to drug you or over power you upon meeting you is probably a serial molester.

That means he is a professional at it. That includes those who use the sites just to find women to pleasure themselves with and move on. Most men are not emotional creatures. They are merely looking at you as an object to fuck and another notch on their scorecard.

Now for the real purpose of this post:

Shelly, you and a few others have voiced concerns about your male relatives or friends that have been texting women they met on a date app.

Men have to be careful for a different reason. The most they have to lose is that the woman is just after some money. They are not in danger of losing their lives or being raped.

So my advice is NOT to part with any money no matter what the reason they are given. If they are truly interested in meeting said woman and she continues to resist after they have talked for a week or two, then end it.

Tell your male friends that when they suggest a place to meet the first time to suggest a public place and meet for a coffee – Not a meal – that way if it is not going well they can get out without it being a big deal.

Since women have the most to risk by agreeing to meet a man they don’t really know, I don’t see a real problem for a man. The most he risks is a few dollars for the coffee or meal.