I’m actually using it as groundwork with my followers and clients, it’s just chock full of important to know bc we all know someone with all of the traits. Their ability to be authentic is extremely limited so beware …

(* and it’s been my observation that males with mother issues tend to have a gradation in a few of these traits, much higher than the man with a nice relationship with his first female primary caretaker)

I tend to attract these types, so I was investigating my own energy pattern on that (why me? lol) when the title caught my eye … check it out bc it goes way deeper than I can mention here.

I hosted my first webinar for a large audience on NLP recently, I share replays free.

Luv, Zen Lill

… however, through my own work with other people dealing with their relationship issues and beliefs and patterns has helped me tremendously, as much as them actually …

so I also realized that in educating and teaching others in sessions what I teach that during session I’m actually a student of as well. Very much so …

I just received a call this am from a man I know wanting to come in bc he’s entering a blended family situation, he asked ‘is this weird? Does anyone else have these fears?’ It was vulnerability at it’s finest and I assured him that it is universal and he can stand proud that he brought his inner awareness to his lips and my ears and I look forward to colaborating with him.

… This work, it’s been enlightening and almost everyone (no, everyone) has some issue or another with intimacy and/or passion and/or expressing authenticity within any of that.
Sorting out this stuff is the very best thing you can do for yourself bc it all starts with you and you must be the change in every way, vulnerability can be a difficult thing. I first noticed people can be very vulnerable with me when I was a hairstylist bc that is an intimate act. I won’t elaborate bc this is getting long already …

Cheers to vulnerability (rhymes with fears but don’t let that hold you back) it truly is the only way to change up your somewhat patterned energetic imprint (what people read
/feel of and ‘about’ you as soon as you meet).

& professionally … the minute you meet people where they are rather than ‘helping them’ is a life changing one esp for peeps in the helping professions (I’m sure this stuff will assist you with clients as well, it changes you so it has to affect that).

I do my very best to just listen and walk through their beliefs (& why, where started, etc) HOPEing we can collectively reframe their past in a way that serves their future so they can feel more like what they had or have in mind (without perpetuating projected fantasy outcomes based on outdated beliefs) … Awesomeness …

& I do appreciate your honesty and vulnerability in broaching this topic, Mischa

This is a topic in can Spend hours on with a group of therapists and Hypnos and I do with a hot topics group meeting, more fun and interesting than you can imagine.

Luv, Zen Lill