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		<title>By: Zen Lill</title>
		<link>http://blog.michellemoquin.net/?p=4937#comment-7032</link>
		<dc:creator>Zen Lill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 14:51:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[FYI...I watched that match. That call was so dead wrong, that lineswoman would&#039;ve had the ball up her ass if it were me and I did not think Serena overreacted she was po&#039;d as she should have been. Lineswoman got intimidated bc she F&#039;d up and probably knew it, that and Serena is one built babe. Was the call racist?  Not sure but it was totally wrong, and match point so I did and do wonder what the helll she was thinking at the time. S did not go off anywhere near as much as MacEnroe in his day.  

Ma Qin, excellent! I am so glad your digging the ZL program and that your hubbys customers like the recipe! Where exactly do you live?

- ZL]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>FYI&#8230;I watched that match. That call was so dead wrong, that lineswoman would&#8217;ve had the ball up her ass if it were me and I did not think Serena overreacted she was po&#8217;d as she should have been. Lineswoman got intimidated bc she F&#8217;d up and probably knew it, that and Serena is one built babe. Was the call racist?  Not sure but it was totally wrong, and match point so I did and do wonder what the helll she was thinking at the time. S did not go off anywhere near as much as MacEnroe in his day.  </p>
<p>Ma Qin, excellent! I am so glad your digging the ZL program and that your hubbys customers like the recipe! Where exactly do you live?</p>
<p>- ZL</p>
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		<title>By: Zung</title>
		<link>http://blog.michellemoquin.net/?p=4937#comment-7031</link>
		<dc:creator>Zung</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 14:47:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We may rant at George. But the he was being truthful when he stated that whites would root for the white girl. 

I used to hate it that Michelle allowed his racial hatred to be spewed on her blog. But now I see her wisdom. 

She lets us see that some of the pretend non bias whites among us are the most diabolical racist ever. They would swat us like so many bugs. 

Why worry about aliens from outer space making a meal of us when the real evil walks among us every day in sheep&#039;s clothing. 

I like this quote from &quot;Waitaminute.&quot;
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I&#039;d like the commentaters to act with decorum. Especially the American ones, including former American tennis players. Other then John McEnroe, I have failed to see one time, where American commentaters and sportcasters showed through their commentary, support for the William sisters during their matches. They alway seem to be rooting for the other player. Most times itS the foreign players. They even root for the foreign player when the matches are in the U.S.. 

At one time i admired these former tennis players. But since the William sisters, they disgust me. Especially some of the former female players.
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George would have seen it coming.  He would have warned us in his racist way. 

We would have reacted to his racial delivery.  We would have missed the message he was delivering.  That message is most of white america sees thing through a color spectrum. 

For those whites who would argue otherwise. Try being asian in america for a week. I guarantee you you will hate white people. 

The miracle is that I and most asians don&#039;t. We are able to take your racism in stride. 

Zung]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We may rant at George. But the he was being truthful when he stated that whites would root for the white girl. </p>
<p>I used to hate it that Michelle allowed his racial hatred to be spewed on her blog. But now I see her wisdom. </p>
<p>She lets us see that some of the pretend non bias whites among us are the most diabolical racist ever. They would swat us like so many bugs. </p>
<p>Why worry about aliens from outer space making a meal of us when the real evil walks among us every day in sheep&#8217;s clothing. </p>
<p>I like this quote from &#8220;Waitaminute.&#8221;<br />
&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<br />
I&#8217;d like the commentaters to act with decorum. Especially the American ones, including former American tennis players. Other then John McEnroe, I have failed to see one time, where American commentaters and sportcasters showed through their commentary, support for the William sisters during their matches. They alway seem to be rooting for the other player. Most times itS the foreign players. They even root for the foreign player when the matches are in the U.S.. </p>
<p>At one time i admired these former tennis players. But since the William sisters, they disgust me. Especially some of the former female players.<br />
&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br />
George would have seen it coming.  He would have warned us in his racist way. </p>
<p>We would have reacted to his racial delivery.  We would have missed the message he was delivering.  That message is most of white america sees thing through a color spectrum. </p>
<p>For those whites who would argue otherwise. Try being asian in america for a week. I guarantee you you will hate white people. </p>
<p>The miracle is that I and most asians don&#8217;t. We are able to take your racism in stride. </p>
<p>Zung</p>
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		<title>By: Maria</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 14:28:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whites justifying their opportunity to be bigots. That is what I get out of the over reaction of the tennis officials. 

As a mexican american, I see it all the time. 

Maria]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whites justifying their opportunity to be bigots. That is what I get out of the over reaction of the tennis officials. </p>
<p>As a mexican american, I see it all the time. </p>
<p>Maria</p>
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		<title>By: Beverly</title>
		<link>http://blog.michellemoquin.net/?p=4937#comment-7027</link>
		<dc:creator>Beverly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 13:49:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ruth

I am a souther white woman. I read the article and the subsequent comments. It is a shame that the commenters race can be ascertained by their comments. 

Most of the white commenters ignored the facts used by the author to back up his claims of over reaction by the tennis association. 

They spent their time claiming as we hypocritical whites often do that they were just judging this situation on it own merits.  Al the while rushing to condemn an action by a black much more severely than they ever would of a white person. 

That they were being disingenuous is to put it mildly. They were being covertly(they think) racists. 

I too thought about some tennis matches that I had seen white players act out in that weren&#039;t addressed in anywhere near the way this one was. 

It is truly tragic to be black and and american in your own country. The average white person will never know how lucky we are to white in america.

Beverly]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ruth</p>
<p>I am a souther white woman. I read the article and the subsequent comments. It is a shame that the commenters race can be ascertained by their comments. </p>
<p>Most of the white commenters ignored the facts used by the author to back up his claims of over reaction by the tennis association. </p>
<p>They spent their time claiming as we hypocritical whites often do that they were just judging this situation on it own merits.  Al the while rushing to condemn an action by a black much more severely than they ever would of a white person. </p>
<p>That they were being disingenuous is to put it mildly. They were being covertly(they think) racists. </p>
<p>I too thought about some tennis matches that I had seen white players act out in that weren&#8217;t addressed in anywhere near the way this one was. </p>
<p>It is truly tragic to be black and and american in your own country. The average white person will never know how lucky we are to white in america.</p>
<p>Beverly</p>
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		<title>By: Ruth</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ruth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 13:23:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I read this article about Serena Williams. It gives an intelligent analysis of what it means to be black and a woman in America.
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Can anyone still recall the hazy afterglow following the presidential election -- that orgy of premature self-congratulation about suddenly becoming a &quot;post racial&quot; society?

That prematurity was on full display the other night in the women&#039;s semifinal match at the U.S. Open between Serena Williams and Kim Clijsters. Clijsters&#039;s thrilling return to the women&#039;s circuit was overshadowed by an intemperate outburst by Williams, who menacingly gestured to the line judge, who had just called a foot fault on a second serve which brought the game to match point. Williams exploded in a profanity laced-tirade. You don&#039;t have to be a lip reader to see she yelled that she was going to shove that bright yellow tennis ball up the line judge&#039;s butt.

Okay, let&#039;s acknowledge that this was not Serena&#039;s greatest moment, that she lost her temper -- it was match point in the semi-finals, after all -- and became both unhinged and enraged. And Serena is one big, strong woman. And a big strong black woman.

Those two last points, though, seem crucial. Serena&#039;s outburst -- and the rule-based, draconian penalty that cost her the match -- were both racial and gendered. Let me be clear: I am not saying that the call was overtly, intentionally, racist or sexist. But the context for both the line judge&#039;s reaction and the chair umpire&#039;s call depended on Serena being a strong black woman.

Ask yourself this: would the line judge have felt so threatened had she been yelled at by perky, pretty little Melanie Oudin, all 5 foot 6 of her bouncy teenage self?

How about a white man? White men can express anger and outrage -- indeed, they&#039;re supposed to. It&#039;s one of the few emotional men are allowed to express -- and we express it often, and often without penalty. And sometimes we go even further. Don&#039;t get mad, the saying goes, get even.

Hey, don&#039;t take my word for it. See for yourself. One of the pleasures of the rainouts and rain delays that marred the end of the tournament schedule was that CBS and ESPN rebroadcast some &quot;classic&quot; matches from earlier eras, matches in which the ever-bratty Jimmy Connors&#039; rants and the once-bratty now elder statesman and superb TV commentator John McEnroe&#039;s outbursts were greeted with whopping rallying cries and often supportive crowd reactions. Check it out here and here.

Line judges didn&#039;t typically feel threatened by Marat Safin -- and he&#039;s 6 foot 4! (Safin broke 48 tennis racquets in 1999 alone.)

And watch Jimmy Connors in his famous 4th round match at the 1991 Open, when he twice explodes at the chair umpire (who seemed more bemused than afraid).

Note that Connors was not assessed any penalty, and went on to win the match. The crowd went wild.

Yes, Serena lost her temper, yelled and cursed at the line judge. Bad sportsmanship. Very bad. But the line judge said she felt her life had been threatened. (A charge Serena instantly and vehemently denied.)

Let&#039;s face it: it&#039;s different when black people get angry. Even black men. Being a 58-year-old Harvard professor with a cane didn&#039;t protect Henry Louis Gates when he lost his cool. And Joe Wilson sure felt entitled to express his outrage at that uppity black guy -- except that uppity black guy lecturing him happened to be the President. Being the Commander in Chief of the world&#039;s most powerful military didn&#039;t protect President Obama either.

Nor did being arguably the best female tennis player in the world protect Serena. She was a furious black woman with a weapon. Serena was neither ladylike nor did she &quot;act white&quot; and keep her cool.

The fans booed Serena, as they surely would have if President Obama had ever taken the bait and replied to relentless race-baiting in anything but an even-tempered, even-cadenced, tone. But make no mistake: those same fans found John McEnroe&#039;s antics &quot;cute&quot; and Jimmy Connors&#039; constant tirades energizing, and plenty of other white male players just too tightly wound.

Memo to Gael Monfils, Jo-Wilifred Tsonga and James Blake: do not ever lose your temper. Ever. Memo to Venus Williams: double ditto.

America&#039;s post-racialist glow only lasts as long as you stay more serene than Serena.
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George your rages are needed on this blog. It keeps us on our toes. Otherwise when the undercover racists rear their heads we see them for what they pretend not to be. 

Ruth]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read this article about Serena Williams. It gives an intelligent analysis of what it means to be black and a woman in America.<br />
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Can anyone still recall the hazy afterglow following the presidential election &#8212; that orgy of premature self-congratulation about suddenly becoming a &#8220;post racial&#8221; society?</p>
<p>That prematurity was on full display the other night in the women&#8217;s semifinal match at the U.S. Open between Serena Williams and Kim Clijsters. Clijsters&#8217;s thrilling return to the women&#8217;s circuit was overshadowed by an intemperate outburst by Williams, who menacingly gestured to the line judge, who had just called a foot fault on a second serve which brought the game to match point. Williams exploded in a profanity laced-tirade. You don&#8217;t have to be a lip reader to see she yelled that she was going to shove that bright yellow tennis ball up the line judge&#8217;s butt.</p>
<p>Okay, let&#8217;s acknowledge that this was not Serena&#8217;s greatest moment, that she lost her temper &#8212; it was match point in the semi-finals, after all &#8212; and became both unhinged and enraged. And Serena is one big, strong woman. And a big strong black woman.</p>
<p>Those two last points, though, seem crucial. Serena&#8217;s outburst &#8212; and the rule-based, draconian penalty that cost her the match &#8212; were both racial and gendered. Let me be clear: I am not saying that the call was overtly, intentionally, racist or sexist. But the context for both the line judge&#8217;s reaction and the chair umpire&#8217;s call depended on Serena being a strong black woman.</p>
<p>Ask yourself this: would the line judge have felt so threatened had she been yelled at by perky, pretty little Melanie Oudin, all 5 foot 6 of her bouncy teenage self?</p>
<p>How about a white man? White men can express anger and outrage &#8212; indeed, they&#8217;re supposed to. It&#8217;s one of the few emotional men are allowed to express &#8212; and we express it often, and often without penalty. And sometimes we go even further. Don&#8217;t get mad, the saying goes, get even.</p>
<p>Hey, don&#8217;t take my word for it. See for yourself. One of the pleasures of the rainouts and rain delays that marred the end of the tournament schedule was that CBS and ESPN rebroadcast some &#8220;classic&#8221; matches from earlier eras, matches in which the ever-bratty Jimmy Connors&#8217; rants and the once-bratty now elder statesman and superb TV commentator John McEnroe&#8217;s outbursts were greeted with whopping rallying cries and often supportive crowd reactions. Check it out here and here.</p>
<p>Line judges didn&#8217;t typically feel threatened by Marat Safin &#8212; and he&#8217;s 6 foot 4! (Safin broke 48 tennis racquets in 1999 alone.)</p>
<p>And watch Jimmy Connors in his famous 4th round match at the 1991 Open, when he twice explodes at the chair umpire (who seemed more bemused than afraid).</p>
<p>Note that Connors was not assessed any penalty, and went on to win the match. The crowd went wild.</p>
<p>Yes, Serena lost her temper, yelled and cursed at the line judge. Bad sportsmanship. Very bad. But the line judge said she felt her life had been threatened. (A charge Serena instantly and vehemently denied.)</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s face it: it&#8217;s different when black people get angry. Even black men. Being a 58-year-old Harvard professor with a cane didn&#8217;t protect Henry Louis Gates when he lost his cool. And Joe Wilson sure felt entitled to express his outrage at that uppity black guy &#8212; except that uppity black guy lecturing him happened to be the President. Being the Commander in Chief of the world&#8217;s most powerful military didn&#8217;t protect President Obama either.</p>
<p>Nor did being arguably the best female tennis player in the world protect Serena. She was a furious black woman with a weapon. Serena was neither ladylike nor did she &#8220;act white&#8221; and keep her cool.</p>
<p>The fans booed Serena, as they surely would have if President Obama had ever taken the bait and replied to relentless race-baiting in anything but an even-tempered, even-cadenced, tone. But make no mistake: those same fans found John McEnroe&#8217;s antics &#8220;cute&#8221; and Jimmy Connors&#8217; constant tirades energizing, and plenty of other white male players just too tightly wound.</p>
<p>Memo to Gael Monfils, Jo-Wilifred Tsonga and James Blake: do not ever lose your temper. Ever. Memo to Venus Williams: double ditto.</p>
<p>America&#8217;s post-racialist glow only lasts as long as you stay more serene than Serena.<br />
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George your rages are needed on this blog. It keeps us on our toes. Otherwise when the undercover racists rear their heads we see them for what they pretend not to be. </p>
<p>Ruth</p>
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