I love this joke and I have to say if I were there when anon’s hubby made that statement in comments yesterday (hello, since when are being good looking/hot and being smart mutually exclusive???) he’d of had my mood ring embedded in his forehead, #1 wtf how does that mean he thinks/views his own wife (so, are you good looking and therefore dumb or smart and therefore eh-ho-hum in the looks dept?) again, wtf?! No offense to any of your friends but hey man, no name i.e. ‘anon’ means you’re fair game for a male ass chewing by ZL : ) I’m not holding back…

BillyTheKid, I don’t think you say stupid shit at all, but believe it or not I’m one of those clever looking blonds anyway – it’s the intelligent eyeballs – and no offense taken though I do appreciate you addressing me in your PS

Howie, I was just wondering what happened to you and Al fresco till I read today’s comments now, (Hey Al!)

AH – stockings and garters are hot, don’t blame you for wanting to see Bita or any other female in that. I think male and female friends are both worthy, just bc your infatuated right now does not mean you can’t be friends now and later, I have several male friends, a few were past loves, a few who wish they were ; ) but were not, but love being a part of my life and the feeling is mutual. Not to correct Howie, but I just think if you can minimize the ego regarding about how the love liason fell apart you can still be friends. On that note, I am back in contact with my high school boyfriend, he’d made the fatal mistake of setting me up for disaster with his last gf, he’s got a new love and now we are on again (as friends) and it’s so great talking to him, he’s lone person who always totally understood me (and no, there is no romantic interest anymore).

Ok, women of MM blog, you ready for that sit up technique? This is going to kick your ass (and tummy), lie on your back, knees up with feet planted on the floor (as with yoga ‘bridge’ exercise) so just below your buns a few inches, almost shoulder width apart, now – this is the important part – place your hands back to back in between your legs, just above your knees (not mid-thigh) lift your head and shoulders off the floor until you can reach your arms straight out to the sides (elbows are lifted and hands are straight line with arms) this is the position you’ll hold the uppper body in without moving your shoulders/head and torso, now life only one inch using your tummy muscles only to lift, do 10 build up to 25 and go for building to 2 stes of 25, keep going past 10 as long as you are not compromising that position, when you start to use more of any other muscle to lift, drop down, recupe your original position, concentrate and resume, 50 of these is like triple the amount of regular crunchs, you will be stunned how quickly this will result in a hard tummy, I have a tiny bit of ‘baby making’ skin there but my kid touched my stomach once when I was lifting this sit up and she said, what do you have under there? She thought I was hiding something hard under my shirt, I had to prove it was just me, yep it’s that hard but I’m a soft body girl by nature and I’m ok with that look also, bc it looks just fine : ) master this and I’ll give you the position for the lower belly also, it’ll turn that teeny potbelly into a sexy bellydancer poof in 3 weeks, guarenteed : )

Ok, enough out of me for now, Luv, Zen Lill

Try it everyday 5x’s a week (even if you miss your walk, so this, it only takes a few minutes)

Adam is still around for you to befriend. What if he chose to leave and find someone else to learn history from?You would not be very happy about that. That is what is being done to Adam and I feel bad for him. That is one of the characteristics we Humans have that interest Addam and the Tao — Compassion and empathy.

You are a brilliant Man and will see this wisdom whem you are ready to accept it. The Tao believe Humans have the capacity to expand our Brains and bring something to the universal Community. That is a great leap for Humankind.

Bye the way, both Adam and yourself have an open invitation to meet in person any time. Adam can find my address and get in touch with me via e-mail or telephone if the thought of visiting Al and I ever happened. I hope it does.

HOWIE

I woul take one Adam as a friend over 100 grilfriends, just as I have my felationship with my friend. I would never let A w

Do not forget that Adam made your meeting Bita possible, and your friendship between two sentient species with Adam is one in millions. It does not occur every day.

No one can counsel you at the moment because of your infatuation with Bita, but Adam feels neglected and a waste of brilliance.

You are entitled to your romance, however ple3ase do not forget Adam and the relationship you have with him as Alexi. There is lover there as well — a different kind of love. It is not physical, but mental.

I am happy for the resurrection of your feelings — and strong ones they are, but one should never ignore a true friendship such as the one you have with Adam.

Your ego tells you that you are making the proper decisions, however they are influenced by hormones pumping through your veins. The friendship you have with Adam cannot be forgotten or replaced by the infatuation with a Human Woman.

HOWIE