You do make some good points. But the women on your blog except for Zen Lill are too shrill. I can tell that she was brought up right by a strong father. I can also see that she must have picked a daddy image for a husband and for some reason she has strayed from his lead.

I tell my daughters to look for strong man. One that is grounded in his belief in God and who loves his country. I guess it goes without saying that you know that i am against mixing the races. My family knows the importance of keeping this country God’s country.

I would not allow my daughters to read your blog because the women on it are bound for hell. They blaspheme at every opportunity. And the non whites feel free to say whatever pleases. How I long or the 50′s when they knew their place or we showed it to them.

Jack

Thank you for writing in and talking about something that has been on my mind for years. I have been married for 22 years and I have been with only one man my entire life. I, also, have had many opportunities to have an extramarital affair. I always declined because I believe in the vows I took before God.

But your statement that God would not have wanted a person to have only one sexual partner his/her entire life has gotten me thinking. This is not the first time I have questioned the bible.

Michelle and Zen Lill both of whom I have come to respect and admire have inspired me to read that book written by men to enslave women and keep them thinking of themselves as something God made to be subservient to men.

I don’t encourage my daughters to read the bible anymore. I used to read that thing from cover to cover every year. I blindly accepted the words in it as scripture from God. Now when I read it my mind is very critical of the words that put women down or make no sense because they contradict themselves.

I still refrained from cheating on my husband because I believed in my vows. Now I feel that even there I was taken advantaged of. My husband has like yours did Wilma admitted to several sexual encounters before we got married. I am 40. He is 47.

Our sex life if pretty good. But what am I comparing that to? Yes, I have orgasms, but as compared to what? I feel that all these years I have been cheating on myself. So here I sit planning to have sex with someone other than my husband. The only two things I know is that I will not have sex without a condom.

But I don’t even know what a condom looks like. Do I buy them? Does he buy them? Where does one go Michelle to discover what dating and having sexual is all about. I’m not talking about extramarital sex. I’m talking about when do I give it up?

I am so anxious, I could give it to the first man who makes a play for me. I get propositioned every where I go. I wouldn’t do it with someone that could hurt my husband. He is a very good father and husband. He is getting a bit on end about be taking exception to his being the de facto head of the household.

I work and bring in almost as much money as he does. Yet, he has always been the one to decide how the family money is spent. I never questioned that until I started reading your blog about a year ago Michelle. Your sharing your sexual past and its acceptance by Doug told me that a woman does not have to be a virgin to have a man feel that she is special.

Your frankness about everything sexual made me feel that I had nothing to contribute in that category. I had no sexual life before my wedding night. I did some petting but that was it. I gave no head, held no penis in my hand and bared no breast to a boy.

Men stare at me even when my husband is present. When we go out, they ask me to dance. I had never accepted until I started reading your commentary. I was being faithful to my husband. I only got to dance when he felt like it. He is a good dancer, but sometimes I like the beat of records he doesn’t.

Now I dance whenever I feel like it. I have noticed that we leave earlier than we used to and that we don’t out as often. I encourage him to ask other women to dance, but he is content to dance only with me. I sense that he is not too pleased with me dancing with other men.

I don’t know why, I don’t allow men to dance too close to me or put their hands on me. I never dance more than two dances with the same guy. I always return promptly to be with my husband. I never allow the other man to say more than a few words to me after the dance. I just enjoy dancing to the tunes I like.

So, Michelle, what is your advice. I am not asking you whether I should cheat on my husband, that would be rude and tacky. I have decided that it would be cheating on me not to experience sex with someone else. Therefore that will be done.

What I am asking you is about the dating aspect. I have never dated a man up to the point where I went to bed with him. Just how does one get to that point?

Miranda

I am being transferred to San Francisco from New York in three months. Let us know on the blog when you will be at the Starlight Room. I have googled it and am looking forward to checking it out. Michelle, I will be looking for your picture and perhaps the vision of the lady herself. I will be polite and observe from a distance.

Looking forward to a dance.

Burt

I have never had an orgasm. My husband is the only man I have ever had sex with. I have turned down more than a few opportunities to cheat on my husband. All four of our children are at least 18. It is time I started thinking about myself.

I have no reason to suspect my husband of infidelity. He is 5 years older than me and has admitted to having had several sex partners before we were married. I don’t know if he has cheated on me. He has given me no reason to think otherwise. But he is rich and quite handsome.

All I know is I have been missing something in bed. I am not satisfied. I have learned from this blog that if I am to do it, it is imperative that I practice safe sex. My husband did not bargain to get AIDS or some other STD or whatever from his marital partner.

As the saying on this blog goes “No Glove, No Love” will be my motto and creed. Now I have to find a man who I can trust not to embarrass my husband, family or me. I have no problem finding men who want to have sex with me, I get propositioned all the time.

My question, to those of you out there who have successfully done it, is what are the signals that may indicate that a man can be trusted not to blab about the woman he is having sex with? Is there such an animal or am I being too naive?

Joan

Looks like there will Guam will be getting its original name Guahan back. Even the Governor is calling for it.
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amacho wants Guam renamed “Guahan”

Posted: Feb 16, 2010 10:42 PM
Updated: Feb 16, 2010 10:42 PM

by Mindy Aguon

Guam – Governor Felix Camacho is requesting for the island of Guam to now be called “Guahan”. The chief executive transmitted Bill 331, which would change the official name of Guam to its name in the Chamorro language. Guam was predominately referred to as Guahan from 1521 until 1898.

Guahan means “a place that has”, for example, a place of resources. Camacho noted his desire to change the name during his State of the Island Address on Monday.
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It’s about time

Peter