Cultivate Love
Posted by Michelle Moquin on 14th January 2009
Hello again Carmen: Happy that you got in to be able to say more. I first have to say how grateful I am that I started my blog a year and a half ago. However it is somewhat bittersweet. I love the fact that I am able to converse with so many people around the world and yet I am exposed to so much more than I would be just watching the news. Don’t get me wrong though, Information is power and the more information, the more knowledge, that I have at my fingertips…the more atrocities that I am exposed to, the more I know I/we have to do more for this planet, especially the women.
Your story is different and yet the outcome is the same. Women are subjected to the brutalities of men on a daily basis. I really was living in a bubble when it came to knowing about my sisters around the world. Yes, I knew that life for many women was a hard life but I had no idea just how difficult it was and that most of their daily struggles and ‘challenges’ (put very mildly) was due to the simple fact that they were not supported or treated equally by the men that supposedly loved them.
On my way to work yesterday I tuned into NPR and caught Hillary Clinton and Nancy Pelosi in some sort of ‘disgussion’. My new word because what they were discussing was absolutely disgusting. Pictures were involved but being on the radio I was happy that I did not have to view them. The descriptions were enough for me to want to rip someone’s eyes out. In fact, one young girls did have her eye gauged out. Why? Because she was too pretty. I don’t need to go into more. My point being that…and I will steal Hillary’s words because they were very on point: ‘This isn’t custom. This isn’t culture. This is criminal.’ How true of a statement. I wish that I could’ve heard the rest of the ‘disgussion’, even though the subject was not pleasant whatsoever, it needs to be talked about and action needs to happen. Not tomorrow, but today, NOW.
And the more that I hear the stories of so many women and how they would gladly hand over their men to Madaline, it saddens me. Because women are not innately about hate and vengeance; they are about love and care. Their true nature has been buried deep and if their men only knew what they were missing…if they only knew how to cultivate their relationships, love and care for the women in their lives, they would be given the world and treated like kings by their women. And their women would relish in their natural spirit.
The devotion of women cannot be penetrated when she is loved and supported and protected. I know this because I am this way. I am a one man woman and when I feel protected and loved and cherished, respected, supported and valued….I am his forever. And in return, he gets the best of me; my innate love is limitless. It is not, ‘If you are this way, I will be this way.’ No, it is not conditional. It is more environmental…when I have a solid foundation, or rich soil, my love and care grows endlessly. Women don’t need the perfect environment. Just like a flower…it will grow naturally, even planted in contaminated soil and surrounded by weeds. But give it a little water, enrich its soil, nurture it…and it will blossom into something so abundant and beautiful, one would be crazy not to care for it forever, for the love and joy one would receive in return. A woman’s love if experienced in full blossom is addictive, intoxicating, and contagious….all in a good way. A woman’s love can change the world if cultivated.
I know I may sound dramatic or maybe it is because I am just such a romantic and I believe so deeply in the power of love. It seems so simple. If only men could see how stupid they are for abusing women physically and trying to keep a woman powerless and dumb…intellectually and emotionally stunted. They are so missing out in their lives.
And as you mentioned Zen Lill ‘Intellectual foreplay’. Yes, that is so desired and required. Pure animal sex is good but short lived. One wants to be able to have an intellectual conversation before and after. I was watching ‘Brothers and Sisters’ – the television show the other night, and they had a perfect example of ‘intellectual foreplay’. The two involved both got so turned on by their conversation, that had nothing to do with sex, that within minutes, the office door was locked and they were locked in each other’s arms. Loved it! Women want this and I think men do too, but are intimidated by it….afraid that their woman might be smarter than they are…making them look bad. So what? Get over it. I have more to say but I am already a bit off subject. I look forward to your two.
Anyway, I got a little carried away in the moment Carmen. I did not mean to run in that direction but evidently I felt the need. I will research South America and since requested by Alita, I will make Mexico a priority.
Bitches Rock: Love the name! I am sure that if Madaline is reading this she will take your request seriously. As far as becoming a GirlZ…time will tell. LOL at the ‘spading’ line!
Carlos: As I said awhile back…“Man’s deep-rooted instinct to survive, and the means that he has chosen, will be to his demise.” So be accountable for your actions…it is YOU who is responsible for the outcome of your future.
Oh…just caught your last comment. Haha!! A little frightened are we? Think about all of the women out there who are frightened on a daily basis because of the things their men do to them. See what it is like for one moment in your life. Are you still ready to whip a bitche’s ass or have you a change of mind? Where’s your bark now? A bit of an attitude adjustment when you know that some bitch could whip your ass eh? No Maddie will not touch you but I do hope this little lesson makes you think. But my guess is, it won’t. Oh…if it was that easy….
Got to run.
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michelle
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