Good morning.

My cousin Mary emailed this to me and I found it so interesting. Thanks Mary!

So…to all my readers around the world, if you could vote for our next President, whom would you vote for? Go to ‘If the world could vote’  website and vote. The results will show you who (what country) and how many people in that particular country around the world voted on who they would like to see as our next President.  Will it be Obama? Or will it be McCain? You must vote to see the results.

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Ah..Al: Are you feeling the angst and worry of the country and taking it out on me?  Not too long ago your words would’ve sent me over but today they mean nothing. They are only words spewing from your mouth. 

If you remember way back when I discussed advertising you suggested that I ask for donations and that you would donate. Do you remember Al? Why don’t you put your money where your mouth is?  

This may be a PT job for ZL; she’s a trained writer, but as for me I am not, and it feels like a FT job.  This blog is work for me, and hard work it is. I have never been a writer and I am not sure I consider myself one now, even though I have written every day for the past 16 months. Unfortunately writing has never come easy to me, and to this day it is still challenging. 

I don’t do anything half assed. So when I started this blog I got inspired when I realized that I could channel my creativity through writing.  I made a commitment that I would write everyday and do my best no matter what I wrote about. Some subjects are very easy to write and some are very challenging. But because I care about what is written, it is paramount that I read and research, no matter if my readership is a thousand or a hundred thousand.  

It’s no one’s business where the state of our finances are, but if I can make money on my blog and not have to abandon it for work that I know I can make a living at, (I have been designing clothing for the past 20 years and I am good at it.) then I would rather do just that, so that I can continue to do something that I love and be here everyday for my readers who look forward to the daily writes.  It’s really that simple.   

No Al, your words did not bother me. What bothered me is what Anonz said, “…I doubt the gov’t would allow her to experience that kind of encouragement.” If I do not make money on my blog, at some point I may have to abandon it. That is a fact. 

This is not a ploy to get people to contribute. There are plenty of people asking for donations that are far more in need than I am and still…people don’t donate. And really Al, if there are only a few readers as you seem to think, then why be concerned that I am profitable.  As far as advertisers are concerned, they know how to get the numbers if they are interested. 

Lastly, I have never had the word cunt used in a derogatory way towards me before, and especially not ‘greedy cunt’.  No…my cunt is very ‘giving’.  ”You have the most beautiful cunt.” “I want to fuck your cunt.” “Your cunt is the tightest, hottest, juiciest, sweetest piece of meat I’ve ever had.” Now, those are words that have been spoken. I never thought I’d write about my cunt on my blog. How delightful…

So…Got the visual? Just in case you haven’t, let me tease you with a little photo.  I know you don’t like my face, so I’ve cropped the photo just for you. I left my mouth though….just for a little added pleasure.  

PS: Don’t try to zoom in and see my cunt. Hahhaha! I know you’re messed up Al, so I’ll let you slide. Tao’s been screwing with your mind getting you ready for that space travel that you so desire. Just remember….If we ever do have that ride together, I’ll let you smell it, but you’ll never get a taste of it.  You’ll wish you had the chance to be pussy whipped by this!…C’mon… tell me your laughing. 

I just had to end there…much better with a laugh than anything else…yes?

Loyal Readers: You know who you are…Comments? You know what to do.  As always….

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Hello Maddie:  I am assuming that you are talking about the girls in training. What do you suggest the American women do?  I’ll tell you what I suggest. Tell the girls to get over it….in an empathetic way of course. If you remember you too were once an American woman so far behind the rest of the worlds girls.  

Embarrassment is a form of self pity. If one is going to wallow in it one will not learn the lessons from the mistakes that one has made that brought on the embarrassment in the first place.  I speak this way because I recognize this behavior in myself. 

Feeling sorry for ones self is one of the biggest mistakes American women make over and over again. It not only is not empowering but it has no benefits what-so-ever. I would say to these women to look at what circumstance brought on the embarrassment, and look at it from a mature, unemotional perspective. One can not use the excuses….’Oh I was too young to know’,  or ‘I was never taught or informed.’ At some point, one has to wake up and see the accountability in the actions and take responsibility.  When the ‘poor me, I didn’t know any better’ victim attitude is buried, strength rises. And that strength is powerful.  They only need be embarrassed if they don’t learn from their mistakes and rise above. Use the embarrassments to grow and to be able to teach other women. 

Am I off base?…maybe you weren’t seeking this advice and I am just projecting and sharing my views from a recent incident in my own life. I am not immune from such lessons. I have been embarrassed and ashamed over actions that I did when I was very ‘young and dumb’.  It wasn’t until recently that I was privy to my own mistakes and how they have shaped my life.  Yes, I was embarrassed, yes, I was ashamed, and yes I was wallowing.  But all it left me feeling was helpless and out of control. Now, what good does that do me? Nothing, I was not empowered at all.  

What did I do? I had to consciously control my emotions and get present so that I could examine my actions. No crying…no ‘buts’. It was not easy. I was major PMS but again…excuses aside. If I had continued wallowing I would not have learned what I am passing along today. No one is perfect. Shit happens. Life hands us lessons, sometimes embarrassing ones, and it is up to us to learn from them and more importantly pass them on. If one can learn and be able to share by teaching with an empathetic ear, then wouldn’t you say the embarrassment was worth it? It’s not about making embarrassing mistakes it is about what you do afterwards. Put it behind you and stop being ashamed. Use your embarrassing moments to your benefit not to your detriment. By the way, this is me passing this on. 

Am I making myself clear here? I’m not sure if I have articulated my thoughts well this morning, or if you even wanted to hear all of this…..too late, it is out there now. 

Readers: Care to share? Blog me.

Hi Valerian: As I write this, I am hoping that you are safe. I have only read briefly about what is going on in your country but already I know that the death toll is high. I realize that time is of the essence here…please give me a day or two to research. Be safe. 

‘sweet pea’ and ‘sweetness’: Get a room :) 

See ya tomorrow….

Gratefully your blog host,

michelle  ?

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Hello Maddie:  I am assuming that you are talking about the girls in training. What do you suggest the American women do?  I’ll tell you what I suggest. Tell the girls to get over it….in an empathetic way of course. If you remember you too were once an American woman so far behind the rest of the worlds girls.  

Embarrassment is a form of self pity. If one is going to wallow in it one will not learn the lessons from the mistakes that one has made that brought on the embarrassment in the first place.  I speak this way because I recognize this behavior in myself. 

Feeling sorry for ones self is one of the biggest mistakes American women make over and over again. It not only is not empowering but it has no benefits what-so-ever. I would say to these women to look at what circumstance brought on the embarrassment, and look at it from a mature, unemotional perspective. One can not use the excuses….’Oh I was too young to know’,  or ‘I was never taught or informed.’ At some point, one has to wake up and see the accountability in the actions and take responsibility.  When the ‘poor me, I didn’t know any better’ victim attitude is buried, strength rises. And that strength is powerful.  They only need be embarrassed if they don’t learn from their mistakes and rise above. Use the embarrassments to grow and to be able to teach other women. 

Am I off base?…maybe you weren’t seeking this advice and I am just projecting and sharing my views from a recent incident in my own life. I am not immune from such lessons. I have been embarrassed and ashamed over actions that I did when I was very ‘young and dumb’.  It wasn’t until recently that I was privy to my own mistakes and how they have shaped my life.  Yes, I was embarrassed, yes, I was ashamed, and yes I was wallowing.  But all it left me feeling was helpless and out of control. Now, what good does that do me? Nothing, I was not empowered at all.  

What did I do? I had to consciously control my emotions and get present so that I could examine my actions. No crying…no ‘buts’. It was not easy. I was major PMS but again…excuses aside. If I had continued wallowing I would not have learned what I am passing along today. No one is perfect. Shit happens. Life hands us lessons, sometimes embarrassing ones, and it is up to us to learn from them and more importantly pass them on. If one can learn and be able to share by teaching with an empathetic ear, then wouldn’t you say the embarrassment was worth it? It’s not about making embarrassing mistakes it is about what you do afterwards. Put it behind you and stop being ashamed. Use your embarrassing moments to your benefit not to your detriment. By the way, this is me passing this on. 

Am I making myself clear here? I’m not sure if I have articulated my thoughts well this morning, or if you even wanted to hear all of this…..too late, it is out there now. 

Readers: Care to share? Blog me.

Hi Valerian: As I write this, I am hoping that you are safe. I have only read briefly about what is going on in your country but already I know that the death toll is high. I realize that time is of the essence here…please give me a day or two to research. Be safe. 

‘sweet pea’ and ‘sweetness’: Get a room :) 

See ya tomorrow….

Gratefully your blog host,

michelle  ?

Aka BABE: Your  ’Bad Ass Bitch Editor

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or click here: “A Day in the life of…” 

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