Wonderful Women Of The World
Posted by Michelle Moquin on June 14th, 2014
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The Fashion Industry Teams Up with Born Free in the Fight Against AIDS

Los Angeles has its sprawl, Paris its lights, Beijing its smog. Cape Town, especially in the summer, is windy. On a perfectly beautiful, blue-sky day—one like today, as it happens—a wind can kick up out of nowhere and blow so strongly and constantly that you have to all but give up on trying to talk to the person right next to you. This happens with such regularity during the week I spend here in late February, the height of the South African summer, that I grow accustomed to the small army that emerges from my colonial-era hotel to tie down all of the lawn furniture lest it end up in the pool. These persistent winds are called “the Cape Doctor” because, for so many years, they were thought to be powerful enough to blow away all the pestilence.
If only it were that simple.
On this particular hot, windy afternoon, I find myself riding in the passenger seat of a black Toyota belonging to Dr. Michael Phillips. We are driving out of Cape Town through the eastern suburbs of Kraaifontein, on our way to the Bloekombos community, a former shantytown of poverty-stricken squatters—an “informal settlement,” in the technocratic lingo. Since the late nineties, the South African government has put a lot of effort and money into pulling this place onto the grid, building housing, schools, and one crucial clinic.
Phillips, a genial, soft-spoken 41-year-old black South African, grew up on the edges of the gang life that dominated his northern Cape Town suburb, went to medical school, and found work in an HIV clinic. Five years ago, he became a district manager for Kheth’Impilo, an ambitious public-health NGO that supports more than 300 facilities in the poorest—and hardest hit by HIV—districts in South Africa. As the landscape shifts to arid empty lots followed by mile after mile of shantytowns, Phillips recalls for me how South Africa became virtually synonymous with the AIDS crisis in the developing world. “South Africans endured a lot of bureaucracy around the availability of antiretroviral treatment with the previous ministers of health,” he tells me, referring to the administration of Thabo Mbeki, one of current president Jacob Zuma’s predecessors and an AIDS denier whose health policies, according to a 2008 Harvard study, led directly to the deaths of hundreds of thousands of people. But things have turned around dramatically since President Zuma was elected, partly because he had the sense to install an actual doctor as the minister of health. “Now,” says Phillips, “we have one of the biggest antiretroviral programs in the world, if not the biggest.”
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Spending time with people like Phillips, you can’t help feeling the newfound sense of hope and optimism in South Africa when it comes to HIV/AIDS. I quickly learn that nowhere is this more evident than in the excitement around the issue of ending mother-to-child transmission. It’s been only a couple of years that a pregnant woman with HIV could take one pill—a combination therapy of three antiretroviral medications—every day of her pregnancy and practically ensure that her baby would be born free of the virus. “It’s one of the greatest inroads we have made in fighting this,” Phillips says. “Because you’re talking of a new generation. Parents are positive or mother is positive, but the child is born negative. A brand-new start.”
We pull into the Bloekombos community just after 2:00 p.m., as hundreds of kids in maroon school uniforms are just beginning to fan out across the windswept, rubble-strewn roads toward their homes, many of which are single-parent households. We pass one little girl with a backpack slung over her shoulder, walking very slowly: She is intently studying a piece of sheet music, singing to herself. Though there is now formal government housing in Bloekombos, with piped-in water and flushable toilets, a good many of the 30,000 residents still live in tin shacks, and one-third of them are unemployed. The prevalence of HIV hovers around 11 percent.
Today Phillips wants me to see the Bloekombos Clinic, which treats 300 people a day on average. Inside, he and a pharmacist named Lizette Monteith proudly show me around the facility: It is plain, well organized, and spotlessly clean. Cartoon posters on the wall—say “no” to teenage pregnancy and diarrhea (runny tummy) can kill babies and young children—lend it the air of a grade school, but one with lessons that have life-and-death consequences.
We walk into a lab where Monteith takes out a white plastic bottle with an orange-and-black label with the word tribuss on it and sets it down in the middle of a big metal table. It’s almost impossible to believe that this bottle of pills is the main cause of so much momentum in bringing the rate of mother-to-child transmission of HIV down to zero in Africa. First developed in the late eighties, antiretrovirals didn’t become truly effective until used in combination in the mid-nineties. But even then the regimen was brutal, often requiring up to 20 pills a day with debilitating side effects. “Now, when an infected mother comes in,” says Monteith, “you just have to give her one bottle of pills, not this huge bag filled with drugs.”
After we leave the clinic, Phillips takes me to the home of Barbara Matisane, a 30-year-old with HIV and a mother of two—a three-month old and a nine-year-old—both born negative thanks to Matisane’s determination to continue her treatment throughout her pregnancies and breast-feeding so that she did not pass the disease along to her children. Phillips calls her “the special one,” as she is now part of the Kheth’Impilo network, a social-auxiliary worker who helps other women to get tested, join support groups, and take their medication.
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Matisane represents a growing cadre of young mothers who, by taking charge of their children’s fates and becoming mentors to other afflicted young women, have turned a potential death sentence into a cause for hope. The influence of these “mentor mothers,” who may not have more than a second- or third-grade education, is confirmed when I speak with Robin Smalley, a former Hollywood producer who cofounded mothers2mothers in Cape Town in 2001, a grassroots organization that has reached more than 1.2 million people through programs in nine countries throughout sub-Saharan Africa. “These mentor mothers have really become a professionalized tier to support the rest of the medical team,” says Smalley. “And then, when they go back into their communities, they are fighting stigma in the townships, just by their example.”
Though Matisane’s house has running water and electricity, it is clearly not part of the so-called formal government-housing initiative that has transformed this “settlement” into a “community.” Indeed, her house is pieced together out of particleboard and corrugated aluminum, with a tangle of wires crisscrossing her ceiling and newspapers stuffed in the cracks between the roof and the walls. Matisane is pie-faced and ebullient in her red scoopneck T-shirt, blue jeans, and red tasseled loafers. Though the predominant language in this community is Xhosa, Matisane speaks pretty decent English, sometimes to unintended comic effect.
She was diagnosed HIV positive in 1998, when she was fourteen. “I was still young, and then HIV was like a bad disease. Let me put it that way: It was a baaad disease. I stole my medical file, I put it in my bed, because I didn’t know how to tell my parents.” Eventually she told them, insisting that the doctor said they must all go together to the clinic as a family. “I was not happy. Maybe if I cook, my mother would take the food and throw it out.” Before long, she joined a treatment action group. “I asked my family also to join the group and then they see that, OK, we can live with a positive person in the house.”
Suddenly, Matisane’s sister appears with three-month-old Neo in her arms—a plump, gorgeous baby boy with big brown eyes. I ask Matisane if it’s possible for her to describe the feeling of finding out that Neo was born without HIV, and she jumps out of her chair. “AAAAH! Yes! It’s so happy! I don’t know what! I feel like screaming!” She talks about the stress and fear of sitting in a corner waiting for the results. “The nurse ask me, ‘Why are you sitting there?’ I said, ‘I’m scared.’ And she said to me, ‘Come.’ When I come in, she said, ‘Wow, your child is negative. All because of you.’ I said, ‘He is?’ I’m proud of myself because I don’t forget to take my treatment every day, every night. I wish some of the other mothers could be as brave as I am. They can take that treatment every day, every time. And they must go to the antenatal clinic as soon as possible when they realize that they are pregnant.” She goes on, “While I’m sitting here, I’m on maternity leave, but my phone keeps on ringing day and night, day and night because of my patients. The thing is, I have the passion; the work that I do is always here in my heart. I’m proud of myself. I love what I am doing. I’m not doing it for me, I’m doing it for my children and my community.”
As Dr. Ashraf Grimwood, the CEO of Kheth’Impilo, later tells me, “Barbara’s journey is an example of moving from patient to health-care provider, from victim to hero.”
One surprisingly unwindy afternoon outside Cape Town, I have lunch with Dr. Linda-Gail Bekker, deputy director of the Desmond Tutu HIV Centre, and Erica Barks-Ruggles, consul general for the United States in Cape Town. We meet in Woodstock, a recently gentrified suburb on the lower slopes of Devil’s Peak that seems to be trying to live up to its name, with locavore cafés where modern-day hippies (and hipsters) hang out.
An intense, wiry platinum blonde with a pixie haircut, Bekker, who grew up in Zimbabwe, is one of the foremost experts on HIV in South Africa. She has been agitating for access to antiretroviral treatment and destigmatization since the late nineties. “Initially, with our patients, there was an overwhelming sense of ‘Well, that’s it: Your sexual lives are over, as is the likelihood of your having a child,’ ” she says. “And what changed—this was around 2004—is that there was a soap opera on our national television, and one of the characters had the virus and got pregnant. Suddenly it kind of hit us between the eyes that women had a right to be pregnant, and that it was all about living a normal life with this disease. For the six million South Africans who have it, let’s make it a normal, destigmatized condition, like any other. We don’t stop diabetics from getting pregnant. We don’t stop heart cases. So it needed that paradigm shift.”
I tell her about going to another clinic earlier that day in Hout Bay and meeting a woman with HIV named Thabisa, who has given birth to not one but six HIV-negative children. “And that is why there is so much hope: For the first time, we actually have things we can do that we know will work,” says Bekker. “And the big issue now is, How do you apply them? How do you scale it up to the degree that you actually can talk about an AIDS-free generation?”
Since 2003, countries coping with an AIDS crisis have been able to rely on PEPFAR—the U.S. President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief. Launched under President George W. Bush, it has since given $52 billion dollars to the cause. South Africa, which was long considered ground zero for the epidemic, was one of its first beneficiaries. As of 2013, 2.5 million people in South Africa were on antiretroviral treatment—the most in any single country on Earth.
As Barks-Ruggles tells me, “This is one of those mystical, magical issues where we continue to have bipartisan support in Washington, not because people are unrealistic but because people are very brass-tacks realistic about it.” So far, in South Africa alone, the chance of mother-child transmission of the virus has gone from 30 percent to less than 3 percent. “That’s a huge number of lives,” she says.
But the next phase for PEPFAR has begun: handing off the baton. “We use the term country ownership,” says Deborah von Zinkernagel, the acting U.S. global AIDS coordinator who runs PEPFAR. “Because in every country, we’re there to help, but the local governments are increasingly running the show, which is how it should be.” As the South African government has stepped up its involvement, for instance, it has built 3,000 new clinics.
Though fears about cuts to PEPFAR this year went unfounded (its funding has remained essentially flat for the past five years), this kind of commitment and financial aid from the U.S. won’t last forever, which is why it is more important than ever to find new ways to give African governments the support they need. One way to do that, of course, is to marshal resources from the private sector. (As Michel Sidibé, the executive director of UNAIDS, said to me, “Eighteen pills a day is now one pill a day—that’s the private sector.”)
Enter the American philanthropist John Megrue, the chairman of the private-equity firm Apax Partners U.S. Megrue has a long history of trying to solve the problems of extreme poverty and related issues in Africa. Once the Global Plan to eliminate mother-to-child transmission of HIV by December 31, 2015 was announced by UNAIDS, Megrue was approached by Eric Goosby, then the U.S. global AIDS coordinator; Sidibé; and Ray Chambers, a longtime philanthropist and special envoy to the United Nations, to be the private-sector voice at the table as the group came together to try and figure out, once and for all, how to reach this goal. Megrue founded Born Free, a foundation dedicated to the single task of pushing the not-inconsiderable success with reducing mother-to-child transmission in Africa over the finish line. One of the ways Born Free is doing that, says its president, Anna Squires Levine, is by “amplifying the effects of all the other people working on this topic already”—people like Robin Smalley at mothers2mothers and Michael Phillips of Kheth’Impilo. The trick now is to capture the American imagination. “We know there are huge movements in the U.S. that catch fire and make real change, and this is not one of them,” observes Levine. “If it could be, it would be huge.”
To that end, Born Free joined forces with Vogue to ask 23 designers who are mothers, including Diane von Furstenberg, Tory Burch, Sarah Burton, Donna Karan, Jenna Lyons, Donatella Versace, Carolina Herrera, Vera Wang, Liya Kebede, and Victoria Beckham, to create a Born Free Collection of women’s and children’s clothing and accessories based on the work of the Kenyan artist Wangechi Mutu, to be sold on Shopbop.com, an Amazon Fashion site. The limited-edition collection, which ranges from Alexander McQueen baby blankets to matching mother-and-child pleated skirts by Prada, will go on sale on April 23, with all of the proceeds going toward helping Born Free. (The MAC AIDS Fund recently announced it would match dollar for dollar all proceeds up to $500,000.) “The question was, How do you get the message out?” Megrue says. “You either go to Hollywood, sports, or the fashion industry, because all three have these huge megaphones.” He chose the fashion industry largely because of its history of facing down its own HIV/AIDS crisis in New York in the early nineties by raising millions and changing minds.
Watch the Born Free series here.
Until about a year ago, Megrue had been entirely focused on policy issues and implementation—and not thinking much about public awareness, particularly in America, where coverage of the success of mother-to-child transmission rates in Africa has been all but nil. As Smalley puts it, “I find my most educated, brilliant friends don’t know about it. Because we don’t see babies born with HIV in the U.S. very often anymore, we sort of assume it’s not happening anywhere. It makes headlines, it’s so rare.”
It is another incredibly windy afternoon, and Victoria Beckham, who is in talks to become an ambassador for UNAIDS, is standing in a parking lot in Hout Bay in front of the Desmond Tutu HIV Foundation’s mobile HIV clinic (also known as a Tutu Tester), holding a little girl in an apricot dress. Annie Leibovitz is behind the camera, here to capture the Born Free initiative on the ground. Behind her there are three men hanging on with all their might to the lighting equipment, lest the wind rip it from their hands and launch it into the sky.
Hout Bay is a coastal suburb, about ten miles west of the center of the city. It is about as beautiful a place as I have ever seen. In one direction there is the harbor and the fishing village that surrounds it. Beyond that there are neighborhoods with names like Hillcrest and Beach Estate. This is a surfer’s paradise: The annual Red Bull Big Wave Africa competition is held here. But up the hill behind us, there is the Imizamo Yethu (in Xhosa, literally “our struggle”) community, which is also known as Mandela Park. It is a shantytown that climbs up the steep slope right behind where Beckham, Leibovitz, and her crew are trying their best to get the right shot. Imizamo Yethu is home to 15,000 people, yet has an extremely limited sewage system. Many of the residents use the Hout Bay Main Road Clinic, supported by the TB/HIV Care Association, when they need medical attention—which, as you can imagine, is frequently.
As I did a few days earlier, Beckham will tour a facility and meet the doctors and mentors and nurses—all women—who are, among other things, striving to keep the unborn from contracting the virus. She has been supporting various charities for years now, but she had long wanted to do something more.
“It’s taken a long time to find a charity that I really feel a connection with,” Beckham will tell me later, “and it’s kind of changed how I feel about everything, really. I have met a lot of HIV-positive women who told me their stories. My eyes were opened. I had no idea that this pill existed, and because of these pills, we are now at a statistic of 97 percent of babies born free of HIV. The statistics are nothing short of mind-boggling. Obviously I am a woman and I am a mother, and this touched me. I really feel like I can do something to make a difference.”
The Ethiopian model Liya Kebede, who already has a foundation dedicated to maternal health in her native country, “was surprised by how little I knew about this maternal-transmission issue, and how within reach it is.” All of the designers seem genuinely invested in the cause. “This kind of thing I am happily roped into,” says Stella McCartney, whose contributions include onesies, T-shirts, and dresses for children. “It’s a great way to balance fashion with something incredibly vital. I love the idea of pulling out working mothers in the industry and giving us something important to tackle for a change. I mean, you know, I love shoes, but there are more important things in life, like survival, and creating the next generation of healthy humans on this planet. That’s what’s so startling about this particular cause, seeing that kids, just because of where they’re born, are not given the same set of chances.”
When I ask her about what she designed, she says, “They’re approachable pieces. I already do childrenswear, so it seemed like a good idea to bring that into this project because it’s about seeing the connection between mother and child.” Of Mutu’s artwork she says, “It’s quite ornate; there’s a lot of emotion and storytelling within it. As someone who normally creates her own prints, I found it was sort of a new way of approaching design.”
Mutu, who lives in Brooklyn and just had a big show at the Brooklyn Museum, was born and raised in Nairobi, went to high school in the U.K., and then to art school in New York, where she has now lived and worked for more than 20 years. A collage artist, she cuts up magazines and blends them with ink and paint. Intriguingly enough, she mostly uses images from fashion magazines. (She chose two pieces for the designers to work with: one from 2003, from herAlien series, and the other “a kind of a sweet figure seeded with big red ponytails.”) “It’s funny how it comes all the way around,” she says of the fact that her work, based on things torn out of fashion magazines, will now be made into fashion that will be featured in fashion magazines. “But I sort of believe that’s how it all works anyway. Everything is connected. So there’s an interesting relationship between how this project is transforming people’s lives and bodies, and allowing mothers to raise healthy kids. It’s just phenomenal. It’s a miracle project. It’s the kind of thing I’ve dreamed could be done—a project where art and fashion are used to empower, to educate, to give someone who might not be as fortunate as those who are making art or fashion an opportunity to enjoy their lives, and even enjoy their clothing, perhaps. Thatis what is shockingly amazing: It’s pointing out what is possible.”
One Saturday night in Cape Town, I meet John Megrue and the CEO of Born Free, Jennifer McCrea, a senior research fellow at the Hauser Institute for Civil Society at Harvard University, at a dinner for the initiative for about 40 people at a Vegas-like resort on the waterfront called One&Only. As I watch the guests arrive, including UNAIDS’s Michel Sidibé and Caroline Rupert, the daughter of a South African business dynasty that owns Cartier, among other things, it strikes me that country ownership of the fight against AIDS can’t happen without the rich and powerful of Africa really getting behind the cause, people like Megrue’s South African cohost tonight. A woman named Dr. Precious Moloi-Motsepe, she is the kind of person who could only exist in Africa: a doctor by training who is married to one of South Africa’s first black billionaires and also runs Fashion Week in Cape Town. She travels with her stylist in tow, an exceptionally pale white man wrapped in layers of fabric who towers above everyone. Wearing a slinky black Azzedine Alaïa dress, she reminds me of some otherworldly combination of Naomi Campbell and Diahann Carroll, with all the charm, glamour, and imperiousness that that suggests.
It turns out that Rupert works closely on film projects with her good friend Kweku Mandela, whom I also meet at the reception. He is Nelson Mandela’s 29-year-old grandson, who lives in Johannesburg but spends a lot of time in Los Angeles, where he has produced and directed both feature films and documentaries, including Mandela, about his grandfather, and The Power of Words, a project made for the Tribeca Film Institute last year. Wearing jeans, a gray T-shirt, and a dark denim jacket, Mandela seems to have picked up the L.A. custom of dressing down for semiformal events. When I ask how he got into show business, he tells me a story about watching Dick Tracy, starring Warren Beatty and Madonna, with his grandfather when he was a kid. When the credits rolled, he asked, “What are those?” and his grandfather said, “Jobs.”
The next morning, an op-ed piece runs in the Sunday Times under the headline born-frees set to make their mark. It is not about HIV/AIDS but about the 600,000 or so eighteen- and nineteen-year-olds—new voters—who were born right after apartheid ended and are now old enough to cast a ballot in the presidential election this month. I am reminded of something that Kweku said to me about why he chose the Power & the Glory café as the location for hisVogue shoot with Rupert and another Mandela grandson, Ndaba, who was recently appointed deputy president of the Pan African Youth Council: “Twenty years ago a place like this wouldn’t have existed, and the three of us wouldn’t have been able to be here together.”
In 2009, Kweku and Ndaba founded the organization Africa Rising, which is committed to honoring and carrying on their grandfather’s towering legacy while trying to tackle some of the continent’s biggest problems, including HIV. “Obviously our granddad was extremely passionate about HIV, and our family was also personally affected by it,” Kweku tells me. “So I think for me and Ndaba it’s actually a personal thing more than anything else.” They have lent their full support to Born Free. “I think it’s vitally important that, if we are going to stop the next generation from being infected by this epidemic, it really starts with newborns,” says Kweku. “It’s the first step.”
But Kweku and Ndaba are also, as one person put it to me, “using the media to change people’s perceptions of Africa, particularly young people.” They themselves may not be “born-frees,” this new demographic who are of great interest to South African politicians, but that is where their focus lies as well. “Now it’s got to fall on this generation; that’s the exciting part,” says Kweku. “We’re at the point where we can actually finally see the end of it.”
But as Linda-Gail Bekker reminded me, it’s important that we not get ahead of ourselves with all this hopeful born-free talk. “Now, for the first time, we really need the resources. This is where we say, ‘Don’t disengage, because we’re on the cusp of getting it right.’ ”
Wangechi Mutu agrees. “A lot of the issues in my country, and in Africa in general, are solvable. And what bothers me—and this is part of why I am doing this—is it’s really just about doing that one thing that gets everything going in the right direction so we can actually do something about it. The fact that one drug can allow the baby to survive, which happens in the U.S. all the time. . . . It’s a no-brainer. But it’s so great that someone has figured out a way to make these beautiful products, these pieces of clothing for sale, into messengers—disciples of this message about prevention of this transference of disease. Go for it.”
Her words bring me back to sitting in Barbara Matisane’s living room as she was lamenting the fact that her nine-year-old daughter, Uthandile, whom she has already educated on the reality of HIV/AIDS, was late coming home from school. She wanted me to see and hear for myself just how healthy and wise her little girl has become. Suddenly Uthandile burst into the tiny room in her school uniform and, speaking to her mother in Xhosa, asked if she could go outside and play. Yes, said Barbara. Her daughter pulled a box from underneath the bed in the corner, grabbed some sneakers and shorts and a T-shirt, changed behind a bedsheet hung as a curtain, and then ran out the door, like any other kid in the world.
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Readers: This is a huge breakthrough for women with AIDS. So much good juicy stuff here in this article and video, and so many wonderful ways to get involved with the Wonderful Women Of The World who have committed their time to support women. If it moves you, please get involved.
Clyde: I love reading posts such as yours. Thanks for sharing your story. Thanks to Howie too for posting his writes and getting you hooked in so that you would be exposed to and have to “tolerate” my “tirades.” Whatever it took, I’m delighted it happened. :) I HOPE your “broadening of political perspective,” and change in political party will ripple out to your friends and family. We could certainly use all the Dem votes in this coming midterms. Thanks too for supporting Grimes.
Karen: I don’t like the same same LSOS BS that the repubs voice here, but I don’t mind them visiting. Like I said to Clyde, whatever it takes. Repubs have flipped from reading this blog and, I will make a nod to Clyde, because it is the truth, “the links you and some of your enlightened readers suggest.” Perhaps more will too.
Jeffrey: Good questions. Perhaps you can clue me in. None of my friends talk to me about it either. It doesn’t bother me...just noticing.
Dianne: Thank you for contributing to Grimes!
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June 14th, 2014 at 11:33 am
Michelle, first I would like to correct the order in my last sentence. I said “I can understand the Left wanting to treat you as if you don’t exist, but what is with the gutless Right?” When I actually meant the opposite. I can understand the RIGHT wanting to treat you as if you don’t exist, but what is with the gutless LEFT?
As for you question. I really don’t know. I asked my good friend Gail why she didn’t speak up at the luncheon she said that your blog had so much racism and profanity on it she didn’t think she should admit that she was a regular. Then she added it is precisely because of the freedom of that blog that allows that freedom that she is “literally hooked.”
Others have also admitted to starting their day with a dose of michelle’s characters. Most love to mention the latest Zen Lill comment. Of course my closest friends admit they read it. But since most of them are Republicans they rail at the latest comment from the lib..
Some can’t wait to debate with me on Howie’s latest post. Or argue whether he is a “Blue Book” old warrior telling tales out of school.
June 14th, 2014 at 11:41 am
Back when computers were being built in the 1970s, the technology was so new that people would pass their software around to one another at creative gatherings such as the Homebrew Computer Club. And each person would tweak or hack the software a little bit, changing and usually improving it to meet their need.
It wasn’t until the late 1970s or early 1980s that people started “closing” their software and forbidding others to look, change or even fix it. Bill Gates was one of the biggest proponents of proprietary software. In a famous open letter to hobbyists, he asked that anyone using Window’s software to pay up.
But a loose confederation of hackers challenged Windows by collaborating on what’s called “open source” software – something different than “proprietary” software. “Open source” extends to many different technologies… but is most famously represented by the operating system of Linux (the stock of which far exceeded investors’ expectations when it went public). To make “open source” easier to understand, a lot of people use the play on words “copyleft” to describe it:
Copyleft: Making a creative work as freely available to be modified, and requiring all modified and extended versions of the creative work to be free as well.
Basically, the idea of “copyleft” was that not having intellectual property rights over software would actually encourage people to collaborate and change the technology based on how they want to use it. In a free market context, it could be considered a form of “hypercapitalism”. And with each time it passed through peoples’ hands, it was improved, modified and passed on again.
So why on earth have I told you this story?
Because our favorite tech entrepreneur just announced yesterday that he’s going “open source.”
The implications for the future cannot be overemphasized. The markets are in for an orgy of innovation that will disrupt the energy, automotive and computer industries.
An Orgy of Innovation Has Just Been Unleashed
“… there was a wall of Tesla patents in the lobby of our Palo Alto headquarters,” said superstar Elon Musk yesterday. “That is no longer the case.”
“They have been removed, in the spirit of the open source movement, for the advancement of electric vehicle technology.”
That’s right. Musk just enlisted a militia of innovators to take and improve upon his electric vehicle patents. But there is a business tactic in here as well. Tesla Motors has established infrastructure to benefit from new demand from electric vehicle users. The company is getting into the big battery business, and it already has electric charging stations throughout the country.
As Musk said recently while being interviewed about his $5 billion battery factory, “There will have to be hundreds of [similar] Gigafactories.” Tesla is at the top of the food chain, and it’s giving away free seeds to grow an ecosystem that it can ultimately feast upon.
Below, we feature Elon Musk’s announcement that his electric vehicle patents are going open source. Read on… It’ll make you proud to be a Tesla owner and/or shareholder… or simply a more optimistic, temporary resident of a threatened planet…
June 14th, 2014 at 11:45 am
This weekend, the Texas Republican Party approved a platform endorsing so-called “reparative therapy”—also known as “conversion therapy” or “sexual orientation change efforts”—for gay people.
That’s right—many delegates in Texas still believe that gay Americans need to be cured.
You don’t think this could actually happen? That’s what I thought until the ultra-extremists of the Tea Party just ousted sitting House Majority Leader Eric Cantor in Virginia.
Even during this time of unprecedented progress, we must remain visible and vigilant.
I’m from a proud Texan family and I’m outraged that some Texas politicians continue to discriminate against their LGBT constituents—people like me.
And to add fuel to the fire, Texas Governor Rick Perry waded into the debate. According to press reports, when asked whether he believes homosexuality is a disorder, Perry responded that, “whether or not you feel compelled to follow a particular lifestyle or not, you have the ability to decide not to do that.” Shame on you, Governor Perry, for fanning the flames of discrimination.
Meanwhile one of the proposal’s main proponents, Texas Eagle Forum president Cathie Adams, said, “I do not think homosexuals are born as homosexuals.”
This backwards platform was voted on without providing an opportunity for debate—and two gay GOP groups, Log Cabin Republicans and Metroplex Republicans, were denied formal participation in the annual convention where the language was approved.
The Texas GOP thinks that being gay is a choice, but this has no basis in scientific reality.
The American Psychological Association released a report in 2007 stating that there is very little sound research on sexual orientation change efforts. In fact, there is ample evidence that societal prejudice causes significant medical, psychological and other harms to LGBT people.
Republicans in other states have already awakened to this reality. Last summer, New Jersey joined California when Republican Governor Chris Christie signed a law banning reparative therapy on minors in New Jersey.
So shame on you Texas GOP. We have evolved as a nation past this harmful, discriminatory way of viewing sexuality or gender identity as something that can or should be changed.
LGBT people don’t need to be cured.
Please stand with me and take action.
Lindsey Twombly
Deputy Director, Online Strategy & Social Media
P.S. This language targets gay Texans—but it’s exactly the kind of discriminatory, painful thinking that keeps lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people living in fear of being true to themselves. And what kind of message does this send to our children? Tell Chairman Steve Munisteri to speak out against this harmful practice. Sign the petition now.
June 14th, 2014 at 11:48 am
Bruce Says:
June 14th, 2014 at 10:34 am
as I agree with you on the social morals thing I have to totally disagree on the violent video games..as someone who is 30 now that grew up on violent video games and STILL play them to this day ohh and I own and carry guns too…
does not make me want to go out and shoot a place up I mean really some people are screwed up and can’t be helped we need to arm teachers and administration( that want to go through a training course paid at their own expense, last thing we need is ANOTHER government program) ever notice most of these “mass shootings” happen at “GUN FREE ZONES” that is because they know their targets are probably law abiding citizens and don’t have theirs on them if they have one BECAUSE they obey the law and that is a perfect target range is any gun free zone..whoever came up with that crap needs to be drawn and quartered it does the public no good other then endanger more people
June 14th, 2014 at 4:37 pm
Never mind, I said I agreed totally, and if course there should be gun control, that’s the simple part of the equation. I added that society is fucked up, if you don’t agree then carry on. I’d like to fix the bigger issue AND have gun control! You forgot to read the first part closer and then a few of you copy and pasted it,wtf?! it’s okay it wouldn’t be the first time I’m misunderstood here. It’s a very good thing I’m understood off line. But seriously, you don’t give a shit about assisting society? It’s cool and no need to send me your NRA bullshit. Done. Let’s just do the law thing and carry on. -ZL
June 14th, 2014 at 6:59 pm
Again you are missing the point the rest of us are making Gun Control IS the bigger issue. Controlling who can get a gun is just is one aspect. One has to be able to control what TYPE of guns an ordinary citizen can get and the CAPACITY of the magazine the gun holds.
Simply put if an insane man gets hold of a gun that can’t fire a hundred runs a minute with a magazine that allows him to do just that the damage he can do is minuscule.
That is the point Zen Lill, limiting the horrendous multiple killings by limiting the power of the gun and the capacity of the magazine. Then we can tackle WHO can own one.
But the Right doesn’t want to discuss limiting the power of the guns or the capacity of the magazine they would rather spin some bullshit about insane people getting their hands on guns.
Sure we give a shit about assisting society. But there will always be the crazy or violent character among us. Let’s pass gun laws restricting the ability of anyone from buying an assault rifle or a magazine that holds more than 15 rounds.
If you can’t see how that would have prevented many of the multiple shootings, then you need to go to a gun range and discover how difficult it is to reload a gun once your magazine is empty and to discover how slow a gun that is not an assault rifle fires.
June 14th, 2014 at 7:06 pm
We love you Zen Lill. I don’t think the comments were directed towards you as a person. We are just tire of hearing that lame talking point about the “greater need of society: when the issue can be solved as easily as outlawing magazines that hold more than 10 rounds.
I am an avid gun enthusiast, but I don’t see a logical reason why I or anyone else should own an assault rifle. That is a gun designed to kill people as fast and as viciously as possible. It is not for personal defense or hunting.
Who care if he/she is crazy if they can’t purchase it because it is illegal for ANYONE to own one.
June 14th, 2014 at 7:25 pm
Then why the fuck would anyone here having followed my comments fr 5 years plus think I would be FOR automatic weapons. Just never mind…if you cannot follow the nuance of the remarks then just leave it, that whole NRA talking point crap was bullshitty and yes it had my name there.
Rufus. I’m not stupid so talk to your 4 year old like that. I understand the point just fine but thank you for the rudimentaries. It is important to implement the gun control (rereAd I’ve said it twice now) and then equally important is to handle the.crazies bfr there’s more violence bc there will always be guns just less and then we can have a crazy or two but reAd the article is it about a Crazy or 2 only? No it’s about a deepening of the dark side so one more time, gun control YES, and then fix the OTHER JUST AS DEEP issue.
-ZL
June 14th, 2014 at 7:38 pm
Ps Rufus I know my way around handguns and automatic weapons but thanks for that lesson in reloading also. Go spank yourself very much!
June 15th, 2014 at 12:04 am
Zen Lill you are by far the sexiest thing on this blog with perhaps the exception of Michelle. But I would love to meet you and get the spanking I deserve from you. You are a sparkling example of beauty and brains.
I can only imagine how HOT you must be in bed when you are fired up to be made love to. Whenever I read your fiesty responses to others, I got this incredible boner going and i would read them over just to imagine you standing over me naked and demanding to be pleased.
I never imagined I would be in a position to be the recipient of that vivacious retort. The Gods are indeed kind. Tonight I beat to a different tune of my own.
June 15th, 2014 at 1:00 am
Michelle, I live in Donetsk, Ukraine. We are being terrorized by the Russians and the separatists who are being supported by Russia. The world needs to know what is happening in my country. Please put it on your blog.
June 15th, 2014 at 1:06 am
I agree with you Rufus. Zen Lill is definitely one hot ticket. I also enjoy her responses to those that piss her off. Sometimes I think they do it just to get a response. I too bet she is one helluva ride between the sheets when she is aroused.
Enjoy
June 15th, 2014 at 9:00 am
Michelle, thank you for recognizing this organization. They have been the best towards my people. It is so inspiring to see that the world cares.
June 15th, 2014 at 9:00 am
Howie, what is happening in the world of Aliens?
June 15th, 2014 at 9:26 am
доброе утро, Мишель;
I woke this morning with that beautiful picture of you looking down at me and I decided it was about time I made myself known to you.
I leave Russia for New York on Tuesday. I will reside in your country for 18 months while I work on acquiring a company your government needs to sign off on before it can be owned by a foreign entity.
I will have my broker purchase a condo in San Francisco so I can have a convenient place to stay when I visit. Do you have any suggestions. Preferably a place that is close enough for you to visit, or if you prefer, for me to come to see you.
I am 43, unmarried, and uncomplicated romantically for the present. Perhaps we can have Breakfast, Lunch, or Dinner some time.
I have your email address. If it is acceptable to you, I can email you my picture and my particulars. You may have already seem me in the financial section of your newspapers, but I look much better when I am not agitated.
I thoroughly enjoy your take on the events that trouble us on this planet. And I can’t take my eyes off that picture you post with “Though she be but little, she be fierce.” – William Shakespeare Midsummer Night’s Dream
You and that long black stream of grace that frames the most beautiful smile I have ever seen, have been my “Midsummer Night’s Dream” for more than a few years. Now that you are no longer married, I would like to say my intentions are honorable.
Breakfast, Lunch, or Dinner, or all three anywhere in the world you wish to dine will be fine and on me of course, first class all the way. No strings, I will be a perfect gentleman.
I just want to meet the beautiful face that fills my dreams with hope. I also have your telephone number. I would be delighted if you would allow me to call and plead my case orally.
Скажем, да Мишель, чтобы приключение вы не пожалеете. (Say, yes Michelle to an adventure you will not regret.)
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