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Creepshot Photos Are Now Legal In Texas

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 23rd September 2014


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Just when you thought Texas couldn’t get any worse with their laws against women, this is what just got passed. Brace yourselves, this is one sick piece of legislation.

This is a state that makes it illegal for a woman to decide what she does under her skirt with her body, but finds it unconstitutional to make it illegal to decide what a male can do under her skirt, without her permission.

‘Creepshot’ Photos Are Now Legal In Texas

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A Texas state law prohibiting people from taking photographs “with the intent to arouse or gratify the sexual desire of any person” if the person being photographed does not consent is unconstitutional, according to the state’s highest criminal court. Under this decision, so-called “creepshot” photos, where men often take photos of unconsenting women that they encounter on the street, are legal in Texas.

The facts of this particular case are far more disturbing than a more ordinary case where a man spots an adult woman that he finds attractive and then snaps a picture of her. According to the Houston Chronicle, a man named Ronald Thompson was charged with “26 counts of improper photography after taking underwater pictures of clothed children – most wearing swimsuits – at a San Antonio water park.”

Yet, as the Texas Court of Criminal Appeals explains in its opinion, the mere fact that this law applies to cases that are disturbing — or even the fact that it criminalizes some activity that is not protected by the First Amendment — is not sufficient to save the law from a constitutional challenge. “The statutory provision at issue is extremely broad, applying to any non-consensual photograph, occurring anywhere, as long as the actor has an intent to arouse or gratify sexual desire. This statute could easily be applied to an entertainment reporter who takes a photograph of an attractive celebrity on a public street.”

A major thrust of the court’s reasoning is that, when a person produces photos that would otherwise be protected by the First Amendment, the fact that they are motivated by sexual desire (or nearly any other particular motivation) cannot make an otherwise constitutionally protected act illegal. “[W]hen the intent is something that, if accomplished, would constitute protected expression,” Presiding Judge Sharon Keller wrote for the court, “such an intent cannot remove from the ambit of the First Amendment conduct that is otherwise protected expression.”

The court did suggest that a more narrowly drawn law would survive constitutional scrutiny — “substantial privacy interests are invaded in an intolerable manner when a person is photographed without consent in a private place, such as the home, or with respect to an area of the person that is not exposed to the general public, such as up a skirt.” Thus, if the Texas legislature responds to this decision with a more narrowly tailored ban on “upskirt” photography, for example, it is likely that this law would be upheld.

In this sense, the Texas court’s decision resembles another decision last March by a Massachusetts court holding that the state’s “Peeping Tom” laws did not extend to non-consensual photographs up a woman’s skirt or dress. The Massachusetts legislature responded to that court decision in just 36 hours, passing a law that specifically bans upskirt photos.

Texas’s legislature can now take similar action to ensure that women in that state will not be the victims of predatory photographers.

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Readers: Well?

Lill Of Guam: That is disturbing. If you think you’ve got an obesity problem in Guam now, it will only get worse with Jack in the Box and McDonalds coming into town. Many places that never had a problem with obesity before, had a problem once those fastfoodies moved in. I HOPE your people heed your words. Hafa Adai.

Drew: Your comment is very scary, and as we know, the Koch brothers and the repubs will do anything to prevail in November. I read that write.

Readers: Please be sure to make it known, especially to the elders in your town, that if they get any notice that they can vote after voting day, it is a farce and they will lose their chance to vote. You can vote early but you won’t be able to vote late after Tuesday November 4th.

Uca, Jabo:  Your comments were disturbing. I will do some research and see what I can find with respect to what you are referring to. I wish you both safety and good health.

Laura:  Thanks for the kind words and kudos. I don’t get the chance to write that much anymore nor comment as much as I’d like to, however, I am delighted to be read by the both of you. I HOPE you’ll continue to comment. What’s your thoughts on today’s write? I’d love to hear from you and judge Lora.

Zen Lill: I HOPE you are feeling better and getting rest.

Peace out.

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Once Again…The One and Only Mo’ne :)

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 28th August 2014


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Lisa, and your daughter Debbie, Vivian,  all the women who wanted to be Mo’ne Davis growing up, and all the little girls, who because of Mo’ne, can now have an inspiration…a role model, to follow, I just couldn’t help but give Mo’ne Davis another day.

Here’s the write from The Bleacher Report:

Female Little League World Series Star Mo’ne Davis Proud to Pave the Way

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WILLIAMSPORT, Pa. — On the eve of Philadelphia’s Taney Dragons’ opening game at the 2014 Little League World Series, 13-year-old Mo’ne Davis sat in a quiet wooden dugout on one of the back fields following her team’s latest practice.

It’s amazing Taney is even here to begin with, in its first World Series in only its second year of existence since chartering in 2012.

We talk about the constant onslaught from the media. “For people that want to take pictures and stuff,” Davis, a South Philly native, explains, “I always say ‘no’ most of the time ’cause I get tired of it … ’cause I’m probably just tired at the end of the day.”

At the end of this day, she’s just finished long-tossing and taking ground balls for nearly two hours. Cameras are getting packed up into vans. Elbows have stopped leaning on the yellow padding lining the fences.

Most kids her age might struggle with the exposure, but Davis sees the positives.

“I was on Sports Science earlier,” she snaps back. “It was pretty cool.”

I ask if they came to Williamsport to talk with her. “I didn’t know I was going to be on. I was playing Ping-Pong and Zion [Spearman, her teammate, sitting in the dugout with us] spotted it. It said: ‘Sports Science with Mo’Ne Davis’ … even though they spelled my name wrong” (the ‘N’ is not capitalized).

Visiting the international stage of Little League baseball and walking past every other team that has made it this far, you’d think it was required that all the players wear their new gear every step of the way. Each regional team is a like a mini marching band in a different bright color. Instead of hearing music and seeing instruments, you hear plastic cleats on concrete and see two aluminum bats in each bag.

But let’s be real: Everybody looks the same.

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Mo’ne tosses signed baseballs to fans during the 2014 LLWS Parade.

Yet something about Mo’ne Davis stands out.

As much as the world wants to know her all of a sudden, wants to figure her out and tell her who she is, wants to remind her of all that she means—she knows herself better.

Even if Davis changes the Little League World Series forever, it doesn’t stand a chance at changing her.

And it’s so much more than her gender, her appearance and her clothing, which included a worn-in red Chase Utley Phillies shirt and Kevin Durant basketball shorts.

In talking to her, you find that she’s both magnetic and intimidating. But the beginning of her young baseball career was a bit less smooth.

“I started playing when I was seven,” Davis explains. “I knew a couple people on the team because of my cousin, but I didn’t talk to most of the teammates ’cause I didn’t know them.”

In Little League, kids ages four to six play in the T-ball division, so Davis missed the chance to hit a static baseball. She was also seven, without close friends, on an all-boys team.

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So forget inquiring about the first game she must’ve realized she was as good as, if not better than, most of the boys. How about hitting a moving fastball?

“I don’t remember [a first game] actually,” she admits, eyes widening, smirk forming. “But I remember my first baseball practice was with a pitching machine.

“I struck out, like, every time except for my last at-bat. I hit it off the end of the bat … it was foul and it rolled fair. It was my very first hit. It didn’t really sting. It was one of those off the very end. That’s how it was.”

How it is now: Davis grips a ball and blows her competition away. In the regional championship, she threw a complete-game shutout to help clinch her team the final spot in the field of 16. She struck out six, walked three and allowed just three hits.

She’s the celebrity of the Little League complex. She’s the center of the sports world this week.

But Davis isn’t the first girl to come this far—she’s actually the 18th—and she isn’t the only one competing in Williamsport in 2014. She’s rooming with Canada’s Emma March.

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Canada’s Emma March.

They don’t sit up late at night discussing their role in reconstructing gender lines in America. Do they share a little advice for each other?

That’s different: “Kind of. Sometimes.”

But for anyone who’s ever played baseball, you know it’s really about the game, the quirkiness and, of course, the competition.

“She tells me about how her teammates act, and I tell her how crazy we are,” Davis says. “But I don’t tell her too much, like, too much about baseball, how our team plays … I don’t really do that.”

Though Davis appears to be one of the most dominant players in Little League—and perhaps will prove to be one of the most impressive females to ever play—it wasn’t like that every step of the way.

“Well, my very first year I wasn’t the best, but I kind of got better. The next year, that’s when I was really starting to get better.”

Once that learning curve took hold, there had to have been only a few select gut reactions from an opposing team: awe or anger. And don’t forget assumption.

“Teams actually thought I was a boy. They didn’t know I was girl till, like, almost a year later. It was just weird.”

And of course, once her gender was known, there must be something else giving her a competitive advantage.

“Some teams thought I was cheating because my hair was long. They said I had more power when I was pitching, so I had to, like, hold it up in a ponytail.”

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“It was a lot of rumors going around. They tried to get me not to play,” Davis says, now cracking a smile and a shrug. “But we just kept playing.”

She’s also quick to give credit where it’s due. She remembers a longtime South Philly umpire—and ally—and how he routinely came to her and her team’s side, having called many of their games.

“We knew the umpire—Mike … I don’t know his last name—he knew us very well. He’d say, ‘No, they’re not cheating. She’s a girl … she’s just as good as every one of the guys on your team.’”

Davis wasn’t just playing against guys; she was playing against older ones. ”We actually played a year up so it was more different. It made us better. We came this far, so…”

And in talking to her, it’s that “we” that’s so central to this 13-year-old.

So how’s all this attention on the collective “we”? She explains: “We kind of take turns with people being interviewed. Some [teammates] don’t want to do it, but they still kind of do it.”

By “do it,” she doesn’t mean solely talking to reporters. “Not just the interviews, but most stuff … being together for so long. It’s been really annoying. ‘Cause teams just break up [sometimes]. But we’re still together on the field.

“It seems like we don’t fight at all.”

Except—I remind her—for that one fly ball. The one toward the end of their practice, misplayed out in center field, giving way to a chorus of strained voices that it should have been caught—especially with Game 1 the next day.

“Yeah…that fly ball,” she says with a sharp look.

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I ask Davis if she’d ever consider opting to play with girls in spite of the, at times, suffocating attention.

“No. I already play basketball and soccer with girls for school. I don’t think I’m ever going to go to softball. I hate softball. I even tried it in sixth grade, so I can say, I hate softball.”

Basketball, however, is what she really loves.

So we started talking about another female making history among the men: the San Antonio Spurs’ Becky Hammon, the first full-time female assistant coach in the NBA.

Says Davis of Hammon’s story and success: ”That’s cool,” in a matter-of-fact manner. A subtle reminder that “matter of fact” is perhaps how we should look at these stories. “They might win another championship … I’m rooting for the Warriors.”

I ask her if we’ll see a female head coach in the NBA in the next 10 years. “Maybe. Hopefully. Yeah, I could see that … maybe even the next five years.”

We discuss how Dallas Mavericks owner Mark Cuban said he’d draft former Baylor star Brittney Griner if she were the best available. Media members like ESPNW’s Kate Fagan had shot it down with narrow headlines like, “No woman, not even Griner, could play in NBA.”

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Brittney Griner (right) of the WNBA’s Phoenix Mercury.

Says Davis of that idea: “I think in a couple years, that will change. Hopefully because of this. Hopefully it changes.

“If it doesn’t, I will change it for myself.”

So when all’s said and done—in spite of the endless focus on her and Taney, and on the female-among-the-boys storylines—does she still embrace the power of what she’s capable of doing on this stage?

“I guess it’s my pride to pave the way. Hopefully we [Davis and March] will pave the way for more girls to come.”

Before she begins paving the way in Game 1 on Friday, one last thing Mo’ne just wouldn’t want you to screw up—after you make that “N” lowercase, include the apostrophe, and appreciate her athleticism rather than the fact she’s in a boys league. Beyonce’s “Run the World (Girls),” as has become a myth of sorts, is not her go-to.

“No,” she says. ”That’s actually not my walkout music.”

“My walkout song is ‘Girl on Fire’ by Alicia Keys. His [Zion's] mom says I look like Beyonce. But I really don’t, so I don’t know where that came from.

“It’s just that song.”

Want proof that Davis is on fire? She can’t go more than 10 yards without being stopped—more apt: stopping for—anyone and everyone. Their jaws slack, their eyes are big, their hands are out, they’re tearing furiously through scorebook pages to find that one space for that one signature from that one girl.

People don’t just want to see her; they want to be around her. You get that sense from the types of people who approach her: young kids, big kids, adults, boys, girls, black, white, American, Japanese, Caribbean.

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She is going to make a statement and have an impact in whatever she pursues. If it’s not through Little League, she’ll be a trailblazer in an older, larger baseball league. If not baseball, it’ll be basketball. And if not sports, it’ll be with her personality, her brain and her voice.

But first thing’s first: those sports. Where does Mo’ne Davis see herself in five to six years? In 10 years?

She thinks for a moment: “Probably be the point guard for UConn wearing No. 11, starting point guard.

“Then hopefully I’ll be in the WNBA.”

 UPDATE: Mo’ne Davis’ amazing story kept growing on Friday afternoon, as she pitched a complete game shutout to help defeat a team from Tennessee 4-0. Her team next plays Sunday, Aug. 17, against the winner of Friday night’s Texas vs. Rhode Island matchup.

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Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my “loyal”(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

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Keith Olbermann’s Powerful Speech: A Must watch

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 29th July 2014

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I miss you Keith Olbermann….miss your take and approach on the things that matter. So good to see you doing what I love to see you doing: Calling people out on their shit. Thanks for standing up for women. You rock.

From the Huff Po:

Keith Olbermann’s Powerful Speech About Lack Of Respect For Women In Sports Is A Must Watch

Sports has a sexism problem, ESPN2 host Keith Olbermann argued in this powerful segment from his eponymous program, and it’s self-perpetuating. He began by listing instances where women in sports have been targeted by sexist comments. The list is long, rapid-fire, and only scratches the surface.

“By some tiny amount each one of those things lowers the level of basic human respect for women in sports. And sooner or later, there are so many tiny amounts that the level of basic human respect is gone altogether,” he says, his gaze trained on the camera and his audience. “Eventually after all the b-words and ho comments and penis remarks and nudity demands and waitress jokes, the most powerful national sports league in the world can then get away with suspending a wife-beater for just two games.”

Olbermann’s poignant commentary was inspired by the NFL’s recent suspension of Baltimore Ravens running back Ray Rice. In February, Rice was arrested in Atlantic City for allegedly striking then-fiancee, Janay Palmer. Surveillance footage surfaced of him carrying a seemingly unconscious Palmer out of an elevator, his arms hooked under hers, her legs dragging on the ground.

In May, Rice pled not guilty to third-degree aggravated assault. The NFL announced on Thursday that he will be suspended for the first two games of the upcoming season, a punishment that has been widely criticized as far too lenient. The culture of the NFL and professional sports in general, Olbermann argued, not only permits but encourages the verbal and physical abuse of women.

“The message to the women who the league claims constitute 50% of its fan base is simple,” Olbermann says. “The NFL wants your money. It will do nothing else for you.”

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Readers: As the article states…Olbermann’s list only scratching the surface. What this says is something we’ve seem evidence of time and time again…women’s health, well-being, protection etc., is just not that important. We can keep HOPEing that men will “man up” like Olbermann and some others here…ya know…be a voice in support of women…but like I have said before, I am not holding my breath. But a girl can HOPE.

Speaking of being a voice for women…

Robert: Too bad. I was looking forward to seeing it. I just might out of curiosity, even though you gave it a thumbs down for some very good reasons. Thanks for the review. I wish more men would see what you are seeing, voice their thoughts, and take action.

Brad: Many years ago I read Sidney Sheldon novels. – loved ‘em. Reading the titles you posted brought a smile to my face. Read 3 out of the 4 you mentioned. I also started “50 Shades…” and didn’t finish it, I was bored, and like you stated…”What the hell???” Not the finest –  I have read much better writing. It’s all in the timing and marketing, and “50 Shades…” got it.

Barry: Don’t be shy, the next time you see me, come up and introduce yourself. You too Owen. I won’t think you’re a perv. But. Hey, I might not mind considering I do have a “kinky side.” :)

TC: I am so grateful that you were there to assist Anonz. Thank you. He is a Hero and a Man like no other. As always wishing him and his men continued safety and success.

Happy Birthday T! Thinking of you today. 

Peace & Love…

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my “loyal”(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

Gratefully your blog host,

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Wonderful Women Of The World

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 12th July 2014

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Ladies: What does your “natural look” entail? On the days I don’t see clients or I am not going out socially, I am make-up free and slathered in my favorite moisturizer: coconut oil. When I am seeing clients, or out for a night on the town, I like to add lipstick and play up my eyes…wearing as little make-up as possible to get my desired “look.” The latter being an approach that isn’t the standard amongst most stylists, who usually love all the latest trends in cosmetics.

I know I am not the standard. That’s fine for me. My approach works for me and serves my clients: I seem to attract women who also want to wear very little make-up to get that “natural look,”  and appreciate products that are not damaging to the skin and organic. The “natural look” is big in my styling world. It’s trending in the fashion and beauty world too. The difference is, I encourage my clients to wear just a few products to bring out their best features. In the beauty world, getting that “natural look” takes 18 different products layered on your face. Really. I read a write the other day and to get that “fresh, natural look” it literally took 18 different products! No thanks.

Late last night after I got home from a fabulously fun GNO, I came across this write. It seems this singer-songwriter Colbie Caillat decided to show the skin she was born in and showcase her ”natural look.”

Here’s the write from Elle.com

Colbie Caillat Is Tired of Being Photoshopped: Here’s What She Did About It

Grammy Award-winning, singer-songwriter Colbie Caillat returns with a brand new EP, Gypsy Heart and a powerful new music video in which she makes a powerful statement about unfair beauty ideals by shunning hair and make-up. Here, we talk to Caillat about the man (yup!) who inspired the song, the impact of Photoshop, and why all women hate the way they look in photographs:

How did the idea for your brand new single and video, “Try,” come about?

I went into the recording studio with Kenneth “Babyface” Edmonds and I told him that I was getting a lot of pressure to be someone I’m not, both musically and image-wise. Although I don’t want to do it, I’m just going to make these people happy. He started laughing, and said, we’re not going to do that. That’s not you, and that’s ridiculous of them to ask. That right there gave me the creative freedom. He said, “Let’s write about exactly what they’re asking you to do—to change yourself.” We started checking off all these things that all of us girls do everyday to get ready to go out. I told him that before coming to the studio I wanted to look pretty so I had my nails done, I made sure I had the best outfit on, I had my hair and makeup artist come over and make me look all polished. And the thing is that I like myself when I’m not that way, but I feel like other people might not like me that way. And I know that most women go through that. When you have blemishes on your skin, gain weight, or my friend has crooked teeth, or my mom’s roots are going gray. And everyone is trying to hide their faults from each other when we all have it. So Babyface inspired me to write this and it’s all from a personal experience.

Photo: Courtesy of Republic Records

It’s funny because one would think that these messages are coming from a man to make a woman look a certain way. But here’s a man encouraging you to write about it.

I know, and a very powerful man at that. It’s so true that you can go so far down the rabbit hole of altering yourself to where you’re not happy anymore. And Kenny gave me that freedom and it’s really helped me with the direction of this album. I don’t have Photoshop on my album cover. At the video shoots, I’m doing less hair and makeup. For the “Try” video I didn’t prep or starve myself and over-exercise. And then I didn’t get my nails done, I didn’t get my hair done. I didn’t get a facial. I didn’t have a stylist.

Related: “I Woke Up Like This” Is the Biggest Myth of All

It really does take a lot.

I still love getting all dolled up. And then most of my days I love walking around with no makeup, my hair dried straight from the shower, in workout clothes or pajamas.

What is the hardest part about being a female in today’s society?

Trying to live up to other people’s expectations. When we do get dolled up, we get more compliments. It’s just what happens. When you have a cute outfit on and your makeup looks amazing, the first thing people comment on is your image. When you don’t wear makeup, you hear things like, “Oh wow, you look tired or you’re so brave for not wearing makeup!”

Photo: Courtesy of Republic Records

It’s very easy to get caught up in what’s considered the norm. But I think it all begins with our parents. Was there a lesson that you learned as a kid that you still use today?

My parents are total hippies. My mom never wears makeup and she hates getting her hair done—exactly like the song. She doesn’t think you have to try for anyone. She thinks you should be yourself. My grandma, too—they’re so natural, and everything they put into their body is clean and they just live a clean life. And growing up with a mom who never pressured me into looking a certain way was really great because it embedded that it’s okay walking around with no makeup on most of my days. It’s more for the public appearances as an artist that I feel like I have to be polished, and now I’m excited to stop that and just kind of go as I naturally am more often.

Related: Sutton Foster on Going Makeup Free on Broadway

Do you feel responsible as an artist? Do think about the message the music videos, album covers, and magazine spreads send to fans?

There’s major responsibility. When I see gorgeous models and singers and they look perfect on their album covers, it makes me want to look like that, too, and it makes me feel like if I don’t Photoshop my skin on my album cover, I’m the one who’s going to look a little off and everyone else is going to look perfect. And that’s what everyone is used to seeing. They’re used to seeing people on the album covers completely Photoshopped. On one of my album covers, my arm was shaved down and it made me look very skinny. I think that gives a false reality. When I did the lyric video for “Try,” and I asked some of my celebrity friends if they would send a picture of themselves, you have no idea how difficult it was. Some of them said no, some of them said they’ll send me a picture in a couple of days because they have a pimple on their chin, and they didn’t want it showing in the picture. And I was like, no, no, no! That’s good! Let’s let all of our fans know that we get them too, because otherwise they’re just think that they’re the only ones who get acne. We all get it, so let’s just kind of laugh about it together. And then some of the girls still wore makeup in the pictures because they felt like they needed to at least look–I don’t know, in their eyes, decent or something when they still look beautiful. It was so hard for them to show any degree of realness.

Photo: Courtesy of Republic Records

I think that once a person gets used to something, it’s hard to change your habits. In the video you took your hair tracks out, you took all the makeup off–did you feel naked? And how did the other women in the music video feel?

We shot the video in reverse, we started bare, and by the end we finished with the full hair and makeup, and then reversed the film for the finished product. All of the women were amazing. My favorite was the woman who has no hair. I first saw her completely bald, no makeup, with a huge smile, she was just so happy and confident. She was so beautiful to me. And then we kept getting more hair and makeup on, and the next scene I saw where she’s in full make-up and wig, I was like, Who is this woman? She was not the same person. She still looked beautiful but it wasn’t the same beauty that I saw when she was liberated, showing who she really was. When I shot the first scene with no hair and makeup on in front of an HD camera in my face, flashed with bright lights, everyone was watching. I thought, “Oh my god, I bet they’re all looking at my blemishes, thinking that I should cover them up, or that I should put some volume in my hair.” But it also felt really cool to be on camera with zero on, like literally nothing on. And then when it got to the full hair and makeup, I actually felt gross. I was just so caked on.

 B*E*A*U*T*I*F*U*L*

Readers:  I love what Caillat did. I think she and the other women are rockin’ their “natural look.” Agree? PS: Love the song too.

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Wonderful Women Of The World

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 14th June 2014

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Another Vogue Magazine discovery…

Another Wonderful Woman Of The World

The Fashion Industry Teams Up with Born Free in the Fight Against AIDS

Born Free fight against AIDS

In the global fight against AIDS, South Africa is making extraordinary strides in reducing mother-to-child transmission. Now a philanthropic initiative called Born Free is teaming up with the fashion industry to lend a hand.

Los Angeles has its sprawl, Paris its lights, Beijing its smog. Cape Town, especially in the summer, is windy. On a perfectly beautiful, blue-sky day—one like today, as it happens—a wind can kick up out of nowhere and blow so strongly and constantly that you have to all but give up on trying to talk to the person right next to you. This happens with such regularity during the week I spend here in late February, the height of the South African summer, that I grow accustomed to the small army that emerges from my colonial-era hotel to tie down all of the lawn furniture lest it end up in the pool. These persistent winds are called “the Cape Doctor” because, for so many years, they were thought to be powerful enough to blow away all the pestilence.

If only it were that simple.

On this particular hot, windy afternoon, I find myself riding in the passenger seat of a black Toyota belonging to Dr. Michael Phillips. We are driving out of Cape Town through the eastern suburbs of Kraaifontein, on our way to the Bloekombos community, a former shantytown of poverty-stricken squatters—an “informal settlement,” in the technocratic lingo. Since the late nineties, the South African government has put a lot of effort and money into pulling this place onto the grid, building housing, schools, and one crucial clinic.

Phillips, a genial, soft-spoken 41-year-old black South African, grew up on the edges of the gang life that dominated his northern Cape Town suburb, went to medical school, and found work in an HIV clinic. Five years ago, he became a district manager for Kheth’Impilo, an ambitious public-health NGO that supports more than 300 facilities in the poorest—and hardest hit by HIV—districts in South Africa. As the landscape shifts to arid empty lots followed by mile after mile of shantytowns, Phillips recalls for me how South Africa became virtually synonymous with the AIDS crisis in the developing world. “South Africans endured a lot of bureaucracy around the availability of antiretroviral treatment with the previous ministers of health,” he tells me, referring to the administration of Thabo Mbeki, one of current president Jacob Zuma’s predecessors and an AIDS denier whose health policies, according to a 2008 Harvard study, led directly to the deaths of hundreds of thousands of people. But things have turned around dramatically since President Zuma was elected, partly because he had the sense to install an actual doctor as the minister of health. “Now,” says Phillips, “we have one of the biggest antiretroviral programs in the world, if not the biggest.”

See Victoria Beckham’s South Africa photo diary with Born Free.

Spending time with people like Phillips, you can’t help feeling the newfound sense of hope and optimism in South Africa when it comes to HIV/AIDS. I quickly learn that nowhere is this more evident than in the excitement around the issue of ending mother-to-child transmission. It’s been only a couple of years that a pregnant woman with HIV could take one pill—a combination therapy of three antiretroviral medications—every day of her pregnancy and practically ensure that her baby would be born free of the virus. “It’s one of the greatest inroads we have made in fighting this,” Phillips says. “Because you’re talking of a new generation. Parents are positive or mother is positive, but the child is born negative. A brand-new start.”

We pull into the Bloekombos community just after 2:00 p.m., as hundreds of kids in maroon school uniforms are just beginning to fan out across the windswept, rubble-strewn roads toward their homes, many of which are single-parent households. We pass one little girl with a backpack slung over her shoulder, walking very slowly: She is intently studying a piece of sheet music, singing to herself. Though there is now formal government housing in Bloekombos, with piped-in water and flushable toilets, a good many of the 30,000 residents still live in tin shacks, and one-third of them are unemployed. The prevalence of HIV hovers around 11 percent.

Today Phillips wants me to see the Bloekombos Clinic, which treats 300 people a day on average. Inside, he and a pharmacist named Lizette Monteith proudly show me around the facility: It is plain, well organized, and spotlessly clean. Cartoon posters on the wall—say “no” to teenage pregnancy and diarrhea (runny tummy) can kill babies and young children—lend it the air of a grade school, but one with lessons that have life-and-death consequences.

We walk into a lab where Monteith takes out a white plastic bottle with an orange-and-black label with the word tribuss on it and sets it down in the middle of a big metal table. It’s almost impossible to believe that this bottle of pills is the main cause of so much momentum in bringing the rate of mother-to-child transmission of HIV down to zero in Africa. First developed in the late eighties, antiretrovirals didn’t become truly effective until used in combination in the mid-nineties. But even then the regimen was brutal, often requiring up to 20 pills a day with debilitating side effects. “Now, when an infected mother comes in,” says Monteith, “you just have to give her one bottle of pills, not this huge bag filled with drugs.”

After we leave the clinic, Phillips takes me to the home of Barbara Matisane, a 30-year-old with HIV and a mother of two—a three-month old and a nine-year-old—both born negative thanks to Matisane’s determination to continue her treatment throughout her pregnancies and breast-feeding so that she did not pass the disease along to her children. Phillips calls her “the special one,” as she is now part of the Kheth’Impilo network, a social-auxiliary worker who helps other women to get tested, join support groups, and take their medication.

Take a look at the Born Free Collection.

Matisane represents a growing cadre of young mothers who, by taking charge of their children’s fates and becoming mentors to other afflicted young women, have turned a potential death sentence into a cause for hope. The influence of these “mentor mothers,” who may not have more than a second- or third-grade education, is confirmed when I speak with Robin Smalley, a former Hollywood producer who cofounded mothers2mothers in Cape Town in 2001, a grassroots organization that has reached more than 1.2 million people through programs in nine countries throughout sub-Saharan Africa. “These mentor mothers have really become a professionalized tier to support the rest of the medical team,” says Smalley. “And then, when they go back into their communities, they are fighting stigma in the townships, just by their example.”

Though Matisane’s house has running water and electricity, it is clearly not part of the so-called formal government-housing initiative that has transformed this “settlement” into a “community.” Indeed, her house is pieced together out of particleboard and corrugated aluminum, with a tangle of wires crisscrossing her ceiling and newspapers stuffed in the cracks between the roof and the walls. Matisane is pie-faced and ebullient in her red scoopneck T-shirt, blue jeans, and red tasseled loafers. Though the predominant language in this community is Xhosa, Matisane speaks pretty decent English, sometimes to unintended comic effect.

She was diagnosed HIV positive in 1998, when she was fourteen. “I was still young, and then HIV was like a bad disease. Let me put it that way: It was a baaad disease. I stole my medical file, I put it in my bed, because I didn’t know how to tell my parents.” Eventually she told them, insisting that the doctor said they must all go together to the clinic as a family. “I was not happy. Maybe if I cook, my mother would take the food and throw it out.” Before long, she joined a treatment action group. “I asked my family also to join the group and then they see that, OK, we can live with a positive person in the house.”

Suddenly, Matisane’s sister appears with three-month-old Neo in her arms—a plump, gorgeous baby boy with big brown eyes. I ask Matisane if it’s possible for her to describe the feeling of finding out that Neo was born without HIV, and she jumps out of her chair. “AAAAH! Yes! It’s so happy! I don’t know what! I feel like screaming!” She talks about the stress and fear of sitting in a corner waiting for the results. “The nurse ask me, ‘Why are you sitting there?’ I said, ‘I’m scared.’ And she said to me, ‘Come.’ When I come in, she said, ‘Wow, your child is negative. All because of you.’ I said, ‘He is?’ I’m proud of myself because I don’t forget to take my treatment every day, every night. I wish some of the other mothers could be as brave as I am. They can take that treatment every day, every time. And they must go to the antenatal clinic as soon as possible when they realize that they are pregnant.” She goes on, “While I’m sitting here, I’m on maternity leave, but my phone keeps on ringing day and night, day and night because of my patients. The thing is, I have the passion; the work that I do is always here in my heart. I’m proud of myself. I love what I am doing. I’m not doing it for me, I’m doing it for my children and my community.”

As Dr. Ashraf Grimwood, the CEO of Kheth’Impilo, later tells me, “Barbara’s journey is an example of moving from patient to health-care provider, from victim to hero.”

One surprisingly unwindy afternoon outside Cape Town, I have lunch with Dr. Linda-Gail Bekker, deputy director of the Desmond Tutu HIV Centre, and Erica Barks-Ruggles, consul general for the United States in Cape Town. We meet in Woodstock, a recently gentrified suburb on the lower slopes of Devil’s Peak that seems to be trying to live up to its name, with locavore cafés where modern-day hippies (and hipsters) hang out.

An intense, wiry platinum blonde with a pixie haircut, Bekker, who grew up in Zimbabwe, is one of the foremost experts on HIV in South Africa. She has been agitating for access to antiretroviral treatment and destigmatization since the late nineties. “Initially, with our patients, there was an overwhelming sense of ‘Well, that’s it: Your sexual lives are over, as is the likelihood of your having a child,’ ” she says. “And what changed—this was around 2004—is that there was a soap opera on our national television, and one of the characters had the virus and got pregnant. Suddenly it kind of hit us between the eyes that women had a right to be pregnant, and that it was all about living a normal life with this disease. For the six million South Africans who have it, let’s make it a normal, destigmatized condition, like any other. We don’t stop diabetics from getting pregnant. We don’t stop heart cases. So it needed that paradigm shift.”

I tell her about going to another clinic earlier that day in Hout Bay and meeting a woman with HIV named Thabisa, who has given birth to not one but six HIV-negative children. “And that is why there is so much hope: For the first time, we actually have things we can do that we know will work,” says Bekker. “And the big issue now is, How do you apply them? How do you scale it up to the degree that you actually can talk about an AIDS-free generation?”

Since 2003, countries coping with an AIDS crisis have been able to rely on PEPFAR—the U.S. President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief. Launched under President George W. Bush, it has since given $52 billion dollars to the cause. South Africa, which was long considered ground zero for the epidemic, was one of its first beneficiaries. As of 2013, 2.5 million people in South Africa were on antiretroviral treatment—the most in any single country on Earth.

As Barks-Ruggles tells me, “This is one of those mystical, magical issues where we continue to have bipartisan support in Washington, not because people are unrealistic but because people are very brass-tacks realistic about it.” So far, in South Africa alone, the chance of mother-child transmission of the virus has gone from 30 percent to less than 3 percent. “That’s a huge number of lives,” she says.

But the next phase for PEPFAR has begun: handing off the baton. “We use the term country ownership,” says Deborah von Zinkernagel, the acting U.S. global AIDS coordinator who runs PEPFAR. “Because in every country, we’re there to help, but the local governments are increasingly running the show, which is how it should be.” As the South African government has stepped up its involvement, for instance, it has built 3,000 new clinics.

Though fears about cuts to PEPFAR this year went unfounded (its funding has remained essentially flat for the past five years), this kind of commitment and financial aid from the U.S. won’t last forever, which is why it is more important than ever to find new ways to give African governments the support they need. One way to do that, of course, is to marshal resources from the private sector. (As Michel Sidibé, the executive director of UNAIDS, said to me, “Eighteen pills a day is now one pill a day—that’s the private sector.”)

Enter the American philanthropist John Megrue, the chairman of the private-equity firm Apax Partners U.S. Megrue has a long history of trying to solve the problems of extreme poverty and related issues in Africa. Once the Global Plan to eliminate mother-to-child transmission of HIV by December 31, 2015 was announced by UNAIDS, Megrue was approached by Eric Goosby, then the U.S. global AIDS coordinator; Sidibé; and Ray Chambers, a longtime philanthropist and special envoy to the United Nations, to be the private-sector voice at the table as the group came together to try and figure out, once and for all, how to reach this goal. Megrue founded Born Free, a foundation dedicated to the single task of pushing the not-inconsiderable success with reducing mother-to-child transmission in Africa over the finish line. One of the ways Born Free is doing that, says its president, Anna Squires Levine, is by “amplifying the effects of all the other people working on this topic already”—people like Robin Smalley at mothers2mothers and Michael Phillips of Kheth’Impilo. The trick now is to capture the American imagination. “We know there are huge movements in the U.S. that catch fire and make real change, and this is not one of them,” observes Levine. “If it could be, it would be huge.”

To that end, Born Free joined forces with Vogue to ask 23 designers who are mothers, including Diane von Furstenberg, Tory Burch, Sarah Burton, Donna Karan, Jenna Lyons, Donatella Versace, Carolina Herrera, Vera Wang, Liya Kebede, and Victoria Beckham, to create a Born Free Collection of women’s and children’s clothing and accessories based on the work of the Kenyan artist Wangechi Mutu, to be sold on Shopbop.com, an Amazon Fashion site. The limited-edition collection, which ranges from Alexander McQueen baby blankets to matching mother-and-child pleated skirts by Prada, will go on sale on April 23, with all of the proceeds going toward helping Born Free. (The MAC AIDS Fund recently announced it would match dollar for dollar all proceeds up to $500,000.) “The question was, How do you get the message out?” Megrue says. “You either go to Hollywood, sports, or the fashion industry, because all three have these huge megaphones.” He chose the fashion industry largely because of its history of facing down its own HIV/AIDS crisis in New York in the early nineties by raising millions and changing minds.

Watch the Born Free series here. 

Until about a year ago, Megrue had been entirely focused on policy issues and implementation—and not thinking much about public awareness, particularly in America, where coverage of the success of mother-to-child transmission rates in Africa has been all but nil. As Smalley puts it, “I find my most educated, brilliant friends don’t know about it. Because we don’t see babies born with HIV in the U.S. very often anymore, we sort of assume it’s not happening anywhere. It makes headlines, it’s so rare.”

It is another incredibly windy afternoon, and Victoria Beckham, who is in talks to become an ambassador for UNAIDS, is standing in a parking lot in Hout Bay in front of the Desmond Tutu HIV Foundation’s mobile HIV clinic (also known as a Tutu Tester), holding a little girl in an apricot dress. Annie Leibovitz is behind the camera, here to capture the Born Free initiative on the ground. Behind her there are three men hanging on with all their might to the lighting equipment, lest the wind rip it from their hands and launch it into the sky.

Hout Bay is a coastal suburb, about ten miles west of the center of the city. It is about as beautiful a place as I have ever seen. In one direction there is the harbor and the fishing village that surrounds it. Beyond that there are neighborhoods with names like Hillcrest and Beach Estate. This is a surfer’s paradise: The annual Red Bull Big Wave Africa competition is held here. But up the hill behind us, there is the Imizamo Yethu (in Xhosa, literally “our struggle”) community, which is also known as Mandela Park. It is a shantytown that climbs up the steep slope right behind where Beckham, Leibovitz, and her crew are trying their best to get the right shot. Imizamo Yethu is home to 15,000 people, yet has an extremely limited sewage system. Many of the residents use the Hout Bay Main Road Clinic, supported by the TB/HIV Care Association, when they need medical attention—which, as you can imagine, is frequently.

As I did a few days earlier, Beckham will tour a facility and meet the doctors and mentors and nurses—all women—who are, among other things, striving to keep the unborn from contracting the virus. She has been supporting various charities for years now, but she had long wanted to do something more.

“It’s taken a long time to find a charity that I really feel a connection with,” Beckham will tell me later, “and it’s kind of changed how I feel about everything, really. I have met a lot of HIV-positive women who told me their stories. My eyes were opened. I had no idea that this pill existed, and because of these pills, we are now at a statistic of 97 percent of babies born free of HIV. The statistics are nothing short of mind-boggling. Obviously I am a woman and I am a mother, and this touched me. I really feel like I can do something to make a difference.”

The Ethiopian model Liya Kebede, who already has a foundation dedicated to maternal health in her native country, “was surprised by how little I knew about this maternal-transmission issue, and how within reach it is.” All of the designers seem genuinely invested in the cause. “This kind of thing I am happily roped into,” says Stella McCartney, whose contributions include onesies, T-shirts, and dresses for children. “It’s a great way to balance fashion with something incredibly vital. I love the idea of pulling out working mothers in the industry and giving us something important to tackle for a change. I mean, you know, I love shoes, but there are more important things in life, like survival, and creating the next generation of healthy humans on this planet. That’s what’s so startling about this particular cause, seeing that kids, just because of where they’re born, are not given the same set of chances.”

When I ask her about what she designed, she says, “They’re approachable pieces. I already do childrenswear, so it seemed like a good idea to bring that into this project because it’s about seeing the connection between mother and child.” Of Mutu’s artwork she says, “It’s quite ornate; there’s a lot of emotion and storytelling within it. As someone who normally creates her own prints, I found it was sort of a new way of approaching design.”

Mutu, who lives in Brooklyn and just had a big show at the Brooklyn Museum, was born and raised in Nairobi, went to high school in the U.K., and then to art school in New York, where she has now lived and worked for more than 20 years. A collage artist, she cuts up magazines and blends them with ink and paint. Intriguingly enough, she mostly uses images from fashion magazines. (She chose two pieces for the designers to work with: one from 2003, from herAlien series, and the other “a kind of a sweet figure seeded with big red ponytails.”) “It’s funny how it comes all the way around,” she says of the fact that her work, based on things torn out of fashion magazines, will now be made into fashion that will be featured in fashion magazines. “But I sort of believe that’s how it all works anyway. Everything is connected. So there’s an interesting relationship between how this project is transforming people’s lives and bodies, and allowing mothers to raise healthy kids. It’s just phenomenal. It’s a miracle project. It’s the kind of thing I’ve dreamed could be done—a project where art and fashion are used to empower, to educate, to give someone who might not be as fortunate as those who are making art or fashion an opportunity to enjoy their lives, and even enjoy their clothing, perhaps. Thatis what is shockingly amazing: It’s pointing out what is possible.”

One Saturday night in Cape Town, I meet John Megrue and the CEO of Born Free, Jennifer McCrea, a senior research fellow at the Hauser Institute for Civil Society at Harvard University, at a dinner for the initiative for about 40 people at a Vegas-like resort on the waterfront called One&Only. As I watch the guests arrive, including UNAIDS’s Michel Sidibé and Caroline Rupert, the daughter of a South African business dynasty that owns Cartier, among other things, it strikes me that country ownership of the fight against AIDS can’t happen without the rich and powerful of Africa really getting behind the cause, people like Megrue’s South African cohost tonight. A woman named Dr. Precious Moloi-Motsepe,  she is the kind of person who could only exist in Africa: a doctor by training who is married to one of South Africa’s first black billionaires and also runs Fashion Week in Cape Town. She travels with her stylist in tow, an exceptionally pale white man wrapped in layers of fabric who towers above everyone. Wearing a slinky black Azzedine Alaïa dress, she reminds me of some otherworldly combination of Naomi Campbell and Diahann Carroll, with all the charm, glamour, and imperiousness that that suggests.

It turns out that Rupert works closely on film projects with her good friend Kweku Mandela, whom I also meet at the reception. He is Nelson Mandela’s 29-year-old grandson, who lives in Johannesburg but spends a lot of time in Los Angeles, where he has produced and directed both feature films and documentaries, including Mandela, about his grandfather, and The Power of Words, a project made for the Tribeca Film Institute last year. Wearing jeans, a gray T-shirt, and a dark denim jacket, Mandela seems to have picked up the L.A. custom of dressing down for semiformal events. When I ask how he got into show business, he tells me a story about watching Dick Tracy, starring Warren Beatty and Madonna, with his grandfather when he was a kid. When the credits rolled, he asked, “What are those?” and his grandfather said, “Jobs.”

The next morning, an op-ed piece runs in the Sunday Times under the headline born-frees set to make their mark. It is not about HIV/AIDS but about the 600,000 or so eighteen- and nineteen-year-olds—new voters—who were born right after apartheid ended and are now old enough to cast a ballot in the presidential election this month. I am reminded of something that Kweku said to me about why he chose the Power & the Glory café as the location for hisVogue shoot with Rupert and another Mandela grandson, Ndaba, who was recently appointed deputy president of the Pan African Youth Council: “Twenty years ago a place like this wouldn’t have existed, and the three of us wouldn’t have been able to be here together.”

In 2009, Kweku and Ndaba founded the organization Africa Rising, which is committed to honoring and carrying on their grandfather’s towering legacy while trying to tackle some of the continent’s biggest problems, including HIV. “Obviously our granddad was extremely passionate about HIV, and our family was also personally affected by it,” Kweku tells me. “So I think for me and Ndaba it’s actually a personal thing more than anything else.” They have lent their full support to Born Free. “I think it’s vitally important that, if we are going to stop the next generation from being infected by this epidemic, it really starts with newborns,” says Kweku. “It’s the first step.”

But Kweku and Ndaba are also, as one person put it to me, “using the media to change people’s perceptions of Africa, particularly young people.” They themselves may not be “born-frees,” this new demographic who are of great interest to South African politicians, but that is where their focus lies as well. “Now it’s got to fall on this generation; that’s the exciting part,” says Kweku. “We’re at the point where we can actually finally see the end of it.”

But as Linda-Gail Bekker reminded me, it’s important that we not get ahead of ourselves with all this hopeful born-free talk. “Now, for the first time, we really need the resources. This is where we say, ‘Don’t disengage, because we’re on the cusp of getting it right.’ ”

Wangechi Mutu agrees. “A lot of the issues in my country, and in Africa in general, are solvable. And what bothers me—and this is part of why I am doing this—is it’s really just about doing that one thing that gets everything going in the right direction so we can actually do something about it. The fact that one drug can allow the baby to survive, which happens in the U.S. all the time. . . . It’s a no-brainer. But it’s so great that someone has figured out a way to make these beautiful products, these pieces of clothing for sale, into messengers—disciples of this message about prevention of this transference of disease. Go for it.”

Her words bring me back to sitting in Barbara Matisane’s living room as she was lamenting the fact that her nine-year-old daughter, Uthandile, whom she has already educated on the reality of HIV/AIDS, was late coming home from school. She wanted me to see and hear for myself just how healthy and wise her little girl has become. Suddenly Uthandile burst into the tiny room in her school uniform and, speaking to her mother in Xhosa, asked if she could go outside and play. Yes, said Barbara. Her daughter pulled a box from underneath the bed in the corner, grabbed some sneakers and shorts and a T-shirt, changed behind a bedsheet hung as a curtain, and then ran out the door, like any other kid in the world.

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Readers: This is a huge breakthrough for women with AIDS. So much good juicy stuff here in this article and video, and so many wonderful ways to get involved with the Wonderful Women Of The World who have committed their time to support women. If it moves you, please get involved.

Clyde: I love reading posts such as yours. Thanks for sharing your story. Thanks to Howie too for posting his writes and getting you hooked in so that you would be exposed to and have to “tolerate” my “tirades.” Whatever it took, I’m delighted it happened. :) I HOPE your “broadening of political perspective,” and change in political party will ripple out to your friends and family. We could certainly use all the Dem votes in this coming midterms. Thanks too for supporting Grimes.

Karen: I don’t like the same same LSOS BS that the repubs voice here, but I don’t mind them visiting. Like I said to Clyde, whatever it takes. Repubs have flipped from reading this blog and, I will make a nod to Clyde, because it is the truth, “the links you and some of your enlightened readers suggest.” Perhaps more will too.

Jeffrey: Good questions. Perhaps you can clue me in. None of my friends talk to me about it either. It doesn’t bother me...just noticing. 

Dianne: Thank you for contributing to Grimes!

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