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“The Other”

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 24th August 2010


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On my blog we call “Other Than Whites” “OTWs”; he calls them “The Other”. The “He” I’m speaking of is Will Bunch, writer for the Huff Po and author of the book “The Backlash”. I haven’t read his book but when Bunch facebooked me, the title of his e-mail, “Backlashing against the Right-wing Backlash” intrigued me, so I clicked over and checked out his new FB page promoting his new book. Which led me to his write on the Huff Po. I liked it, so I decided to post it.

It’s Not About the Mosque! It’s America’s War on ‘the Other’

A few months ago, I spent a Sunday morning in the parking lot of the Wal-Mart on Thomas Road in East Phoenix, just on the cusp of the immigration flare-up over racial profiling and Arizona’s repressive law called SB 1070. It was quieter then — a weathered 39-year-old Mexican in a wool cap with a New York Mets logo named Roberto Valdez told me of his trek across the desert to seek work in Phoenix as a day laborer. Weeks earlier, Mexican day laborers like Valdez had been harassed on the weekends by angry white nativists, but in March of 2010 the nativists had moved on. Many had joined the Tea Party, and some were campaigning for GOP anti-immigration zealot J.D. Hayworth for U.S. Senate. Why waste time on “the Other” Roberto Valdez, when America now had “the Other” daring to occupy the Oval Office in the person of Barack Obama.

Five months later, the American political debate — in a time of crushing 9.5-percent unemployment, record foreclosures and bankruptcies, and climate change linked to catastrophes from Moscow to Pakistan to Iowa — has been hijacked over the arcane question of whether to allow an Islamic cultural center in lower Manhattan. The controversy is stunning — but it should not be. The national brouhaha over the $100 million Muslim Park51/Cordoba House proposal is not an anomaly but rather the culmination of an alarming downturn in America’s mood, its discourse, and even our former ambitions as a beacon of religious and political tolerance. In 2010, a large swath of the American public — led by ratings-mad media mavens and immoral politicians like Newt Gingrich and Sarah Palin — had declared out all-out war on “the Other” in America in all its alleged forms, from immigrants to Muslims to non-white aides working in the West Wing of the White House, and of course the president himself.

And it is threatening to rip America apart in a way that we have not seen in 145 years.

Over the last year, I traveled across the country seeking the sources of right-wing outrage and anger in the Obama era as I researched my new book — The Backlash: Right-Wing Radicals, High-Def Hucksters and Paranoid Politics in the Age of Obama — that will be published at the end of the month. What I discovered was fear — some of it innate and much of it whipped up by high-def hucksters on TV and in talk radio and even in the corridors of political power in America. Much of that fear centered on one simple fact: that America is increasingly becoming a non-white-dominated country. While many Americans take no issue with that, the prospect of an America with an increasingly non-Caucasian face is a deeply disturbing one to millions of people — people for whom a unified and traditional culture is a source of solidarity and comfort, even — according to some sociologists — a bulkhead of immortality.

In the mid-2000s, an anti-immigration frenzy took root across right-wing talk radio. It seemed largely a matter of entertainment and most likely changing the subject, since the George W. Bush presidency was at low ebb because of Iraq and Katrina. The increasingly paranoid conversation about the threat from brown-skinned, Spanish-speaking people grew in a way that was completely disconnected from realities, that immigrants were growing the economy in places like Arizona and Nevada, that crime rates among immigrants were quite low, and that these arrivals were paying more in taxes than they received in services.

But the bottom line was that for many, reports that whites will be a minority of Americans by the year 2050 carried the shill ring of an alarm bell. But this concern about the submersion of a dominant white culture in America spiked prematurely in 2008 with the political rise of Obama. In researching the book, I spoke with many conservative voters who talked of their “discomfort” the first time they watched Obama speak on television, who said that in particular they were alarmed at the future president’s use of the specific word “transformation.” These voters were egged on by political “leaders” like vice presidential candidate Palin, who didn’t just voice traditional policies differences with the Democrat but accused him of “palling around with terrorists.”

It is no surprise that by mid-2009 I was hearing from the leader of the anti-Obama group, the Delaware 9-12 Patriots, that the 44th president of the United States “is absolutely not American” while his neighbors were screaming at town hall meetings: “I don’t want this flag to change. I want my country back!” These rank-and-file citizens were often echoing what they heard in a 24/7 right-wing media bubble of ratings-driven irresponsibility — outlandish neo-McCarthyite allegations that Obama had Commies and Maoists working in the West Wing, Glenn Beck’s notorious claim that the president has “a deep-seated hatred of white people” and, perhaps more tellingly, of “white culture,” and most recently radio’s Rush Limbaugh’s bizarre charge that Obama is probably the “best anti-American president the country’s ever had.”

In this paranoid environment, the president looked as much “the Other” as the day laborer Roberto Valdez in the Wal-Mart parking lot. High-employment and the destruction of the working class in America is increasingly demanding a scapegoat, and the right-wing media and an increasingly erratic GOP establishment is more than happy to direct people’s palpable anger down the economic ladder. The result is something like the most un-American piece of garbage legislation that most of us have seen in our lifetime — Arizona’s racial profiling law SB 1070, whose sponsors admit they were seeking to drive Mexican immigrants out of the Grand Canyon State in droves, which is exactly what is happening.

But the modern-day American Diaspora is only the beginning. Once the Pandora’s box of emotion and rage against “the Other” has been opened so wide, it is almost impossible to close. Now the backers of Arizona’s hideous law want to rip apart the 14th Amendment — the one that ended slavery, once a high point of American history, especially for the extinct brand of Republican that drafted it — in order to prevent children of Mexican immigrants from becoming American citizens. The xenophobia has reached the point where a U.S. congressman took to the House floor — with zero supporting evidence — to charge that terrorists had a scheme to breed future U.S.-citizen bombers in maternity wards here.

Which brings us to the present crisis: Mosques in America. It should tell you something that the backlash against Muslims practicing their faith in America is far greater in 2010 than it was in the months immediately following the Sept. 11, 2001 attacks. That’s because the political firestorm with its epicenter in lower Manhattan really has nothing to do with 9/11 or its aftermath and everything to do with “the Other,” and the awful forces and fears that have been unleashed in the last couple of years — fears that craven politicians like Gingrich, Palin and the formerly rational Tim Pawlenty of Minnesota are eager to surf into the White House in 2013. If the Manhattan mosque controversy were really about our 9/11 sensibilities, how does one explain the opposition to other Islamic houses of worship from Tennessee to California to Staten Island?

America, we are in for the bumpy political ride of a lifetime. It will take enormous courage for defenders of two centuries of religious freedom and tolerance toward both religious and economic refugees to stand firm in the face of the kind of raw public anger and emotion that have caused backbone-impaired politicians like Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid or supposed progressive stalwart Howard Dean to wither in mere days. Our determined minority may be barely clinging to our cherished traditions — as best expressed by President George Washington in 1790 when he wrote: “the Government of the United States, which gives to bigotry no sanction, to persecution no assistance, requires only that they who live under its protection, should demean themselves as good citizens” — in the face of this onslaught for the next few years.

Let’s face it: This country has long had its Know-Nothings and its Birchers and its McCarthyites, but it never had gizmos like Fox News or Sarah Palin’s Twitter feed to fuel toxic ideas so far so fast. It’s time we admit these seemingly disconnected battles over “anchor babies,” mosques, and a black man in the Oval Office are all part of the same war against “the Other,” and that we are in the fight of a lifetime.

Readers: Starting this morning, I  will be out of here super early on Tuesday mornings. Have anything to say? Say it here. Blog me.

Doug: Thank you!

Hey ZL!

Hullanta: If you stick here reading my blog, it is not easy to forget how cruel and evil some men can be. I, and many others, have a way of reminding my readers often. I wish that was not the case, but there are many articles that one can find on a daily basis that reminds us of the abuse and plight of women.

I have blogged many times about Congo. I did not see this one. Thank you for posting. I wish this mineral madness would end. People just aren’t aware. They need to become conscious and responsible when it comes to knowing the affect their buying power and need for consumption of the latest and greatest technologies has on the livelihood of others. PS. Believe in Madaline.

Lea, Peter, Anna, Jose, and all the Chamorros: I HOPE that this is the last of them.

Mike: I know you’re being rhetorical, but I can’t help but answer your question: No. What do you think of the book that I wrote about?

Ellen: You can thank Evelyn for that. And I like your little addition too.

Oscar: Courage comes in all sizes. Take small courageous little steps in support of women that you don’t normally do. Like writing your representatives – thank you for doing that. But don’t stop there. Did you read the article that I posted a few days ago? Sometimes it takes courage to just stand up to your friends, especially men who you see abuse women even in the slightest. Instead of turning a blind eye (which I am not saying that you do), say something….man up. Be courageous…and perhaps it will be contageous. :)

Got to run….

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my ‘loyal’(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

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“Just Noticing”: Observations Of A Blogger

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 22nd August 2010


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“Just Noticing”….

  • That some people just really shouldn’t be parents.

Though his parents previously vowed to get help, 2-year-old Aldi Suganda Rizal — the Indonesian toddler who caused a sensation in May when video footage of him smoking a cigarette turned up online — continues to indulge his nicotine habit.

CBS reporters tracked Aldi and his parents down in a tiny fishing village on the island of Sumatra. As if on cue, Aldi appeared, cigarette in hand, alongside his mother, Diana. The new footage is perhaps even more disturbing than the original clip. In several shots, the toddler — said to have started smoking at just 11 months — uses one already lit cigarette to light another.

“If he can really quit smoking, he will definitely be a very healthy boy,” Diana says. She noted her son is currently enrolled in a government-sponsored rehabilitation program, but continues to throw tantrums and even vomit when he can’t smoke. “I can’t stand seeing him hurting himself. What can we do but accept it as it is?”

Authorities have called Aldi “a victim of his environment,” as Indonesia is the only country in the Asia-Pacific region that has yet to ratify the World Health Organization’s framework on tobacco control.

Readers: Perhaps you have seen this before. It has been in my queue for awhile and today I decided to post it. I can’t “just notice” this one. This one deserves some judgement as this is truly disgusting. If this isn’t the worse form of child abuse I don’t know what is. And if ever a parent should be held for child abuse this is it.

Doug: My pleasure. By the way, speaking of our garden…do you think you could cut down that tall Bamboo in the corner? I think it would look better in our zen garden if the bamboo was “even” as you suggested. This is kind of fun communicating with you over my blog. It’s like that commercial where the couple is sitting on the couch and texting each other. :)

Peter: Hello….With all of the unemployed contractors out here and all of the work over there, I can’t imagine you won’t get an influx from the mainland. Hafa Adai.

Boys: Heed Peter’s words though: “Bring your best behavior.”

Bob: that one is too cute….puts a smile on my face with the visual. Thanks. Hope you are well.

Helena: How are you? Wow those stats are incredible – A prescription drug that kills more people than an Cocaine and heroine; illegal drugs combined.

I agree, get the drug companies to pay for it. They have to start being accountable. If they can just manufacture drugs and then throw them out there to the public without demanding any kind of mandatory training for these doctors who are going to prescribe there drugs, that is just lazy, uncaring and irresponsible. It seems the attitude the drug companies have is that once they manufacture these drugs, they market the hell out of them, make a ton of money, and then they get to wash their hands of any responsibility, should any issue come up. They can blame it on the doctor for prescribing it in the first place. Like the article said, “They’re making a killing.” Thanks for posting.

Lourdes: Happy you enjoyed it – I love it too.

Hi Ruth: How are you doing? I like this too. And the lesson learned depends on how one looks at it. Thanks. I hope you and the girls…all of your girls are doing good.

Robert: I liked your opinion of the matter. Once again “racist” rights hiding behind the title of “religious” rights. And now they have to claim “deeply” religious because no one is buying their BS,  so they need to take it to the next level…a “deeper” level of BS.

I notice how the racist whites can always twist things to their advantage. Another thing that came to my mind, being a designer, is how Angle can say on the one hand that the color black is evil, yet in regards to “fashion” the “Little Black Dress” or “LBD”  is just so chic and sophisticated. A woman wouldn’t be fashionable unless she had a least one “LBD” in her coset.

And the same stands for a “Black Tie” affair. Now I don’t think she’d be calling her “LBD” or her husband’s “black” tuxedo “evil” now would she? Or if one attended a funeral wearing “black”,  ”black” wouldn’t be considered “evil” but a sign of “respect”…expected attire from one who is “deeply religious”. – No “evil” attached to the word “black” in these cases.

Like you, and I, and others have said, racists just love to twist things to their advantage justifying their racist attitudes, by claiming to hide behind their “deeply religious” values. And most white media doesn’t call them on it. We need more reporters like Maddow and Olbermann in the media.

Oh “just noticing” that more comments have come in, and the racists are having their say. I’ve said enough. Hope you are well Robert.

Readers: What are you “just noticing”? Blog this BABE. Enjoy your Sunday! Peace out.

6:09 PM: Sorry. Just got home from a day in the sun and “just noticed” that the comments were off. The comments were on when I posted but it must’ve happened during the saving process when Doug pointed out a typo that I later corrected.

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my ‘loyal’(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

Gratefully your blog host,

michelle

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When Did Our Justice System Change To “Guilty Until Proven Innocent”?

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 18th August 2010

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A little over a month ago, on my way to see a client, I was busily reading my directions to his house and missed a “right turn on arrow only” sign, and proceeded to make the right turn. Oops.

I landed at another small intersection 20 feet away, which didn’t feel like I should have been there, but I waited till that light turned green before I crossed it. It was a bit confusing. At the time I had no idea that I had even broken the law, so I was quite surprised when an officer waiting on the opposite corner pulled me over when I crossed through the second light.

I did get a ticket, not for running a red, which would’ve been a moving violation and a more expensive ticket, but for failing to obey the traffic sign. I was nearly in tears as he handed it to me. I have a stellar driving record and I like to keep it that way.

I bring this up not because I am pissy about the ticket; that goes without saying. But because of what I experienced when I went to the courthouse to “deal with it”.

I can’t even remember the last time I got a ticket, so as I was standing in line in room C-10 to resolve the ticket, I noticed a yellow flyer. The heading of the flyer said, “Resolving Traffic and Minor Offense Citations – Frequently Asked Question”. “Hmm…reading material”, I thought. “I might learn something while I’m here.”

And in fact, I did learn something – Enough for me to want to blog about it here. Note: This is for Marin County, California. It may be different in your county and state.

  1. Why can’t I dispute my ticket today? The Court hears testimony from both the defendant and the officer in contested court, and needs at least 30 days to subpoena the officer.
  2. Am I qualified to go to traffic school? You are eligible for traffic school if you meet the following requirements: You have a valid driver’s license, do not have a class A, class B or commercial class C driver’s license, the current violation(s) did not occur within the past 18 months.

I have no problem with the above.

3.  Why do I have to post my bail to fight my ticket? Vehicle code section 40519(a) and (b) requires the Court to collect the deposit of the entire bail amount for the purpose of guaranteeing your appearance at the time and place scheduled.

Okay, this I have a problem with. The fact that if I feel I am innocent of the traffic violation or charge, and I want to fight it, doesn’t matter. I have to hand over my cash, as if I was guilty of the charge, before I get my day in court to prove otherwise. Hmm…sounds to me like I am guilty until proven innocent. When did our justice system change?

Now that I am paying for this charge before I have legally been found guilty, which could take up to months before I get my money back, should I prove I am innocent, just how easy is it going to be to for me to get my money back, and just what do they do with it while I am waiting for my day in court? Unfortunately this little yellow flyer of “frequently asked questions” didn’t answer my questions.

4. How do I fight my ticket if I don’t have the money to post my bail? You can contest your ticket without posting the bail by obtaining a bail waiver from the Traffic Commissioner in “walk-in” traffic court.

FYI: Walk-in traffic court allows you to request a payment plan beyond the 90-day option. (see pt. 6 below) Walk-in traffic court is held every Monday, Tuesday and Friday at 10:00 a.m. To appear in walk-in traffic court you must register first at the Traffic Counter in room C-10 before 9:00 a.m.

So if you happen to be there already on a Wednesday or Thursday, or it is after 9:00 am, and you can’t pay the bail that you didn’t think you would have to pay to fight your ticket in the first place, sorry….you are going to have to take off work again (if you are employed), and come another day to appear in walk-in court. Or…

5. I want to pay my ticket but I don’t have the money right now. What are my options? You can request a payment plan from one of the clerks at the counter, request a one time 30-day extension or request that your bail amount be converted to community hours.

6. What are the payment plan options? The 30/60 day payment plan has no set up fee and you may put down however much you can afford at the time you set up the plan. The remaining portion must be paid over the next two months. The 90 day payment plan has a $35.00 set up fee and 25% of your bail amount is due when you request it. You must pay the remaining portion in three even installments.

Okay, so if you have a little bit of money on you, and you can afford to fork some over, there is a payment plan that just may work. My ticket was $219.00. What if I was a person living paycheck to paycheck, with no extra cash, as many people are today in this economy? Or what if I was unemployed as many people are? Just how easy is it going to be to make this payment, even if I took the 30/60 day plan offered and paid $19.00 that day. I would still need to come up with $200 over the next two months. That would be a lot of money for me, a person on a limited income not to mention if I was unemployed.

The 90-day payment plan is even worse. Yes you get more time but you’re paying for it in the $35 set up fee. Plus you now need to pay, 25% of the bail at the time that you request this payment plan. If we are working with my $219.00 ticket, one would still need to come up with $35 + $54.75 for a total of $89.75 that needs to be paid. If one is penalized for asking for a 90-day payment pan, what will be the fee for appearing in walk-in court and asking for a plan that is beyond 90 days? I don’t know, but I bet it is more.

Readers: If any of you know, blog me.

Okay…so what if I really can’t pay anything? I am jobless and broke. Oh the court says, “We have a solution for that too.” This brings me to pt. 7 on the yellow “FAQ” sheet:

7. What are Community Service hours? This is volunteer work that you can perform with court approved organizations in lieu of paying your bill. There is a $27.00 set up fee and for every $10 of your bail, you must perform one hour of volunteer work.

Okay, just face it. It doesn’t matter whether you are innocent of the charge or not, you are going to have to fork out some cash. And if you really can’t afford to pay this ticket that you are planning on fighting because you feel you are innocent, you’re going to have to volunteer some of your time too, until you get your day in court.

So let’s figure this one out. Because I am broke, and on a very limited income or unemployed, I opt for the least amount of money out of my pocket. I decide to volunteer. I fork out the $27 for bail and I sign up for community service hours. Basing it once again on the $219.00 ticket, I will have to spend roughly 22 hours of my time performing volunteer work for a ticket that I don’t feel I am guilty of.

What happens when I go to court and I am found not guilty of the charge? Who is going to give me my time back? How will I get reimbursed for the 22 hours of my time in my life, that I gave to volunteer simply because I was guilty until proven innocent?

I think of the wealthy who have no problem writing a check, and going on with their lives. And then I think of so many people who cannot afford to pay their ticket.  People who opt for either a payment plan, which gouges them of even more money. Or they opt for volunteering which gouges them of their time…their life. Something that is not tangible for the court to hand back. Sorry, if when you go to court and you are found innocent, you simply do not get back those hours of your life.

(FYI: My court date would’ve been in November. Plenty of time for me to pay my entire bail via a payment plan, or work off my Volunteer hours before I have the chance to fight my ticket. Yes, you can opt for a speedy trial but then you are waiving your right to appeal personally for arraignment and that in itself is not a good thing to do if you are fighting your ticket to win. And an entire other subject that I don’t want to delve into right now. )

So I conclude that I cannot help but think, the system is once again set up for the rich, and a scam to get more money and free labor from the poor.

It is easy for the rich to pay their ticket. They simply take out their checkbook and write the check. And the poor, who cannot afford to pay, are either paying more for time, or giving their precious time away regardless if they are guilty or not.

Now, I am not saying that all of the people who are rich are guilty of their charge, nor am I saying that all of the poor are innocent of theirs. But what I am saying is that when one has to pay in advance of the verdict, according to this Vehicle code section 40519(a) and (b) , and the court is basically saying that you are guilty until proven innocent, it is the ones who can not afford the bail that are going to suffer. It is the poor.

Comments? Rants? Experiences you want to share? Blog me.

John: Thanks. Love when a man makes up his mind to doing something and commits to it right away.

Claire, Anna of Guam: Thanks for passing it on.

Thanks Saul!

Lea: I agree but there are decent men out there too that can help, they just need to man up. Hopefully they will follow John and Mike’s examples of change.

Zen Lill: My pleasure.

Doug: I got that one too. PS. You left your phone at home.

Mike: Thanks for your commitment too.

Have a great day everyone and drive safe. :)

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t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

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Human Trafficking. Men: It’s Time To Man Up

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 17th August 2010


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Readers: Happy that you all enjoyed “Flying High” yesterday!

In late, out early. So this is all I’ve got today…

Ms. Zen Lill found this in Ms. Magazine, and e-mailed it to me thinking it would be a good write to post here. I thought so too, so here it is – Thanks ZL!

We talk about human trafficking quite a bit here. Men: Want to get involved? Want to be able to do something? Well here’s your chance to man up

Drum roll please…

10 Things Men and Boys Can Do to Stop Human Trafficking

Human trafficking is modern day slavery. It is the use of force, fraud, or coercion to compel another person to provide labor or commercial sex against their will, and it is one of the fastest growing criminal enterprises in the world.

The Renaissance Male Project believes that men are complicit in this crime when they purchase sex because they create the demand by allowing others to exploit women and children for profit. Men must play a role in ending this form of modern-day slavery, a vicious industry that exploits and perpetuates the suffering of hundreds of thousands of women and children in the United States and around the world.

The Polaris Project estimates that:
27 million are enslaved globally.
14,500-17,500 individuals are brought into the U.S. as human trafficking victims each year.
1 million children enter the global commercial sex trade every year.

There are specific actions that men and boys can take to end these atrocities:

1. Challenge the glamorization of pimps in our culture
Mainstream culture has popularized the image of a pimp to the point that some men and boys look up to them as if they represent legitimate male role models, and they view “pimping” as a normal expression of masculinity. As Carrie Baker reflects in “Jailing Girls for Men’s Crimes” in the Summer Ms. issue, the glorification of prostitution is often rewarded, not punished, in pop culture:

Reebok awarded a multi-million-dollar contract for two shoe lines to rapper 50 Cent, whose album “Get Rich or Die Tryin” (with the hit single “P.I.M.P.”) went platinum. Rapper Snoop Dogg, who showed up at the 2003 MTV Video Music Awards with two women on dog leashes and who was described in the December 2006 cover of Rolling Stone as “America’s Most Lovable Pimp,” has received endorsement deals from Orbit gum and Chrysler.

In reality, pimps play a central role in human trafficking and routinely rape, beat and terrorize women and girls to keep them locked in prostitution. Men can take a stand against pimps and pimping by renouncing the pimp culture and the music that glorifies it.

2. Confront the belief that prostitution is a “victimless crime”
Many men view prostitution as a “victimless crime.” But it is not. For example, American women who are involved in prostitution are at a greater risk to be murdered than women in the general population. Research also shows that women involved in prostitution suffer tremendous physical and mental trauma associated with their work. Viewing prostitution as a victimless crime or something that women “choose” allows men to ignore the fact that the average age of entry into prostitution in the U.S. is 12 to 14 and that the vast majority of women engaged in prostitution would like to get out but feel trapped. Men should stop viewing prostitution as a victimless crime and acknowledge the tremendous harm and suffering their participation in prostitution causes.

3. Stop patronizing strip clubs
When men think of human trafficking, they often think of brothels in countries outside of the U.S. However, strip clubs in this country as well as abroad may be a place where human trafficking victims go unnoticed or unidentified. Strip clubs are also places of manufactured pleasure where strippers are routinely sexually harassed and assaulted by owners, patrons and security personnel. Men rarely consider whether women working in strip clubs are coerced into that line of work, because to do so would conflict with the pleasure of participating in commercialized sex venues. Men can combat human trafficking by no longer patronizing strip clubs and by encouraging their friends and co-workers to do the same.

4. Don’t consume pornography
Pornography has the power to manipulate male sexuality, popularize unhealthy attitudes towards sex and sexuality and eroticize violence against women. Pornography leads men and boys to believe that certain sexual acts are normal, when in fact sexual acts that are non-consensual, offensive and coupled with violent intent result in the pain, suffering and humiliation of women and children. In addition, a disproportionate amount of mainstream pornography sexualizes younger women with such titles as “teens,” “barely 18,” “cheerleaders,” etc. Targeting younger women socializes men to develop appetites for younger and younger women and creates a pedophiliac culture among men. Victims of human trafficking have also been forced into pornography. Men can stop the voyeurism of sex and sex acts that fuel human trafficking by refusing to consume pornography and encourage others to do the same.

5. Tackle male chauvinism and sexism online
Contrary to the myth that men do not gossip, men spend a significant amount of time online discussing their sexual exploits. The Internet provides many men with the ability to mask their identities while indulging in racist, sexist and violent diatribes against women and girls. Choosing to be a critical voice online is an extremely important way to educate and inform men and boys about their choices. Men can change this culture by starting threads in online forums that cause men to talk about their attitudes towards women and how these attitudes and behaviors are linked to human trafficking.

6. End sex tourism
Men in the U.S. and other “first world” nations routinely travel overseas and have sex with women in developing countries. When men engage in these practices, they do not acknowledge the fact that many trafficked women and children come from developing countries-even in countries where prostitution is “legal.” Traveling overseas grants men a great deal of anonymity. As men, we have a responsibility to confront the men that go overseas and participate in sex tourism.

7. Talk to men and boys about men’s issues in male spaces
The only way to change men is by engaging spaces where men and boys talk and develop their ideas and attitudes towards sex and sexuality. Males spaces such as barbershops, locker rooms, fraternities and union halls are the real classrooms where boys learn to become men and where men develop most of their ideas about how to interact with women. If men do not feel comfortable talking about these issues in male spaces, they can drop off informational brochures and make themselves available to talk with other men and boys when they have questions or concerns. As men, we need to turn male spaces into circles of accountability where men learn about non-violence, social justice and ending violence against women.

8. Support anti-human-trafficking policies
President Obama declared January 2010 as National Slavery and Human Trafficking Prevention Month. However, more substantive legislation is required to end human trafficking. Men can educate themselves about the issues by visiting anti-trafficking organizations and by asking their elected officials what they have done to support or sponsor anti-human trafficking legislation. One of the most important acts men can do to stop human trafficking is to support anti-trafficking legislation at the local, state or federal level.

9. Support creation of “John Schools”
There would be no human trafficking if there were was no demand for it. Strategies aimed at ending human trafficking must focus on eliminating the demand. “John Schools” are education programs designed to educate customers apprehended by law enforcement who attempted to purchase sex. By teaching the legal and health effects of buying sex and the realities of prostitution, such schools impart knowledge that can reduce demand, making men conscious of how their actions can spur on human trafficking. Learn whether or not your local community has a John School. If not, encourage your local prosecutor’s office or city counsel to start one.

10. Raise sons and mentor boys to challenge oppression
No boy is destined to be a “john,” a pimp, or a human trafficker. Raising young men in circles of accountability to be respectful and protective of all women and children is one of the most important things men can do to stop human trafficking. Talk about human trafficking as a modern form of slavery to help convince men and boys to become allies in the fight to end this form of oppression.

Editors’ note: What do you think of these suggestions? Please comment and discuss!

Comments? Thoughts? Show me some lip – Blog this BABE

…Peacin’ out…

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my ‘loyal’(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

Gratefully your blog host,

michelle

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Intimate Moments With Insects

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 15th August 2010


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I love my sleep. I have said so here many times.

Our tenant, who is a tad fearful of spiders had a spider problem a few weeks ago. When she started waking up with spiders in her bed, it understandably became more of an issue.  We had the exterior of our house sprayed with an environmentally safe pesticide. Remove their food, they go away – Okay, problem solved.

Many, many years ago while studying fashion design in la-la-land and living in Hollywood, I woke up twice with dead cockroaches underneath me in my bed. Yuch! I’ll take spiders any day. I never kill them.  I always gently scoop them up and put them outside. Okay, spider problem solved.

Cockroaches – that’s a different story. Let me just tell you, I do not scoop them up and take them outside. I complained to my landlord. Like in New York, Los Angeles has its share of roaming cockroaches. However New York has the biggest ones I have ever seen. And in Bangcock, they sell cockroaches, or at least critters that looks very much like cockroaches, on the street: A delicacy. Not my kind of delicacy, but the Thai seemed to covet them.

But I digressed –  my landlord in Hollywood, at that time sprayed the interior of my rental with this pesticide, that to this day if I ever smell it, I know exactly what it is that I am smelling. And if I ever do smell that smell and I can skidoo out of where I’m at ( hopefully it is not some restaurant I am about to dine at), believe me I will as quickly as I can. Reminders of waking up with cockroaches isn’t exactly something I want to remember.

Nor is the memory of being woken up in an old boyfriend’s bed with a potato bug trying to nestle up in a warm spot. ( I thought you’d like a picture just in case you’ve never seen one – this bug is about 2.5″ long. I even found a website for those of you who want to learn more.:) It took me a few seconds to realize it wasn’t my boyfriend trying to subtly fondle me and wake me up with a dose of pleasure.

I threw back the covers, flicked the critter off nestled in my pubic bed, and I screamed a scream that I am sure the neighbors to this day still remember. All I can ever think about is how lucky I am to be a light sleeper and that I didn’t fall into an erotic dream where I might have spread these thighs to invite my little friend in for some hot lovin’ with me. Got the visual? Sex with bugs – Hmm could be someone’s turn on. Not mine – Ugh! The thought!…

Evidently talking about bugs brings me back. And perhaps I’m giving TMI. (Too Much Information)

Ah yes, so here we are at the present moment…the topic at hand…Can you guess what it is?

This Bedbug’s Life

I had been a professor of entomology for 15 years before I saw my first live bedbug. It crawled out of a plastic film canister that had been mailed to me by a distraught student in the Boston area who had no idea what it was. I was so thrilled to see a live bedbug, I showed it off to every graduate student I ran into that day: Cimex lectularius – a small, flat, wingless, brown ectoparasite that hides in cracks and crevices in human dwellings and emerges under cover of darkness to feast on human blood.

That was in 1995, and none of my students had laid eyes on Cimex lectularius either. A century ago, bedbugs were ubiquitous in New York – so much so that their presence in an apartment wasn’t considered sufficient legal cause for withholding rent. Bedbugs, one judge remarked in an early 20th century lawsuit against a landlord, “can be dealt with by the tenant by processes known to all housewives.” But with the midcentury advent of synthetic organic insecticides, these insects all but vanished from urban landscapes (and pretty much every other kind of landscape) in North America.

My Bostonian bug turned out to be one of many on the forefront of an unprecedented resurgence. Global travelers now bring in a steady supply from around the world, inconspicuously undeclared in checked bags and carry-on luggage. Today, bedbugs have been found in all 50 states, as well as Guam, Puerto Rico and American Samoa, and bedbug-related calls to pest control operators are escalating at a fantastic rate. From June 2009 to June 2010, there were more than 31,000 calls in New York City alone.

Now, bedbug-related lawsuits can lead to thousands of dollars in punitive damages for mental anguish, embarrassment or humiliation.

Everywhere New Yorkers go – theaters, stores, offices, schools, trains, ships, hospitals – bedbugs go, too, hidden in folds of clothing, bags, backpacks and purses. Getting rid of them has become more than any housewife could ever be expected to handle. Even professional pest control operators are struggling to keep up, because bedbugs have become, for the most part, resistant to the old pesticides that once were so effective, and relatively few viable chemical alternatives exist.

We reserve a special kind of enmity for bedbugs because, though humans generally do not like being anywhere other than at the pinnacle of a food chain, there is a particular horror associated with being consumed while relatively helpless, asleep in what should be the security of one’s own bed (or chair or couch). With bedbugs, it’s personal – unlike cockroaches, ants, silverfish and other vermin that are attracted to our possessions, bedbugs are after us. And they’re remarkably adept at circumventing our defenses: They not only attack while we sleep, but they also inject anesthetics, so as not to awaken us, and anticoagulants, so that in every 10-minute feeding they can suck in two to three times their weight in clot-free blood.

Bedbugs win neither praise for their sophisticated technique, nor very much respect for the fact that they don’t carry diseases, as most bloodsucking human ectoparasites do. Although their bites can cause unrelieved itchiness, bedbugs take only blood and leave no pathogens behind. In contrast, lice spread typhus; mosquitoes carry the viruses that cause yellow fever, dengue, encephalitis and West Nile disease; ticks transmit the Lyme disease bacterium; and fleas can bring the bacterium that causes plague.

But lack of involvement in spreading disease is hardly an endearing attribute. In fact, precious few aspects of bedbug biology are endearing. They don’t build their own houses or care for their young, and their sexual practices are bizarre even by insect standards: Because the female bedbug has no genital opening, the male inseminates her by using his hardened, sharpened genitalia to punch a hole through her abdomen. With no elaborate courtship ritual, males in a frenzied pursuit of sexual congress often blunder into and puncture the bodies of other males, occasionally inflicting fatal wounds.

To top it off, almost every aspect of bedbug behavior is mediated by airborne odorants, almost all of which are, when detected, repulsive to humans.

What, if anything, is there to like about a bedbug? They certainly like us; we probably have no greater admirers in the insect world. They like the way we live, unlike most vertebrates, in permanent homes. (Bats and birds, which also build homes, are hosts to several of the bedbug’s close relatives.) Bedbugs do not discriminate among humans on the basis of race, creed or socioeconomic status, and they’re happy with almost any interior decorating style; they are as happy in a French provincial nook as they are in a contemporary cranny. The bugs’ climate preferences are essentially an exact match to our own, and a small wingless creature couldn’t ask for a better traveling companion – airlines have opened a world of possibilities for a species that can’t get very far on its own six legs.

Perhaps the one good thing about bedbugs is that they provide a rare point of agreement that transcends race, religion, culture, nationality, tax bracket and party. It may be one of the few remaining universal truths – urban or rural, red state or blue, everyone agrees it would be great if bedbugs would disappear once more.

May Berenbaum, the head of the entomology department at the University of Illinois, is the author of “The Earwig’s Tail: A Modern Bestiary of Multi-Legged Legends.”

Readers: I found this story fascinating.  Obviously I’ve had some intimate moments with bugs. Bedbugs are not on my list and I don’t plan on having any type of relationship with them intimate or otherwise. – How about you? Bothered by bugs in your bed (or just your mate?:) And spider stories you want to share? Have you been intimate with insects? Blog me.

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