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Abortion Ban On Women In The Military

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 11th June 2010


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Okay, so picture this: You are a woman, an American woman in the military, fighting for your country in Afghanistan. You can picture this…Women in the military…No big deal right? Women are over there just like the men…doing what they signed up to do.

A man decides he wants to have a little fun, play around, you know…’hook up’. No big deal. A woman decides to do the same. Again, no big deal right? Ah…but wait, what if the woman accidently gets pregnant, or worse what if she gets raped, or gang raped, and then she discovers she is pregnant? Check out this stat:

According to NPR, “In 2003, a survey of female veterans found that 30 percent said they were raped in the military. A 2004 study of veterans who were seeking help for post-traumatic stress disorder found that 71 percent of the women said they were sexually assaulted or raped while serving. And a 1995 study of female veterans of the Gulf and earlier wars, found that 90 percent had been sexually harassed.”

And with this many women getting raped, some are going to get pregnant. Getting raped in the military by the men that you are serving with is a big deal in itself, not to mention how horrific. I mean, where is the camaraderie? But then to have to endure the discovery that you are pregnant, stuck overseas, and can’t get the care that you need even in a military hospital and even if you pay for it…now that should be criminal.

Right now, women who serve in the military in places like Afghanistan have nowhere to turn if they face an unintended pregnancy because of an abortion ban. Women in the military unfortunately get the raw end of the deal, and it’s time for it to end.

I received this letter from NARAL Pro-Choice America. You can help end the ban.

Dear Michelle,

We are just a few steps shy of ending a ban on military women’s ability to use their own money to access abortion.

Anti-choice politicians are digging in to keep the ban in place. One senator from Mississippi even called on his anti-choice colleagues to prepare for a big fight.1

We need to get emails into the Senate right away before our opponents can put their political plan into action. Contact your senators today.

More and more women are fighting in the military in places like Afghanistan, where abortion is illegal, unsafe, or strictly limited. Servicewomen facing an unintended pregnancy in these circumstances literally have nowhere to turn.

We can fix this situation just by giving women who serve in the military the same rights they would have if they had any other job. Ending the ban would mean that servicewomen could personally pay for abortion care at a military hospital where it’s safe.

Call on the Senate to end the ban on privately funded abortion services and oppose any further anti-choice attacks on women in the military.

We already had a huge victory: an important Senate committee (the Senate Armed Services Committee) voted to end the ban at the end of May. Now we must get a majority of senators to do the same when the bill comes to the floor.

We have our best chance in years to win, but anti-choice Sen. Roger Wicker (R-Miss.) has threatened to keep the ban in place, saying, “I guarantee you this will be challenged on the floor of the House and Senate with separate amendments.”2

Help us stop Sen. Wicker’s campaign to keep the ban on military women’s use of their own money to access abortion. Contact your senators today.

Thanks for helping us put an end to a cruel and politically motivated ban that puts our servicewomen at risk.

Readers: Why there was ever a ban to begin with is just mens’ way of, once again, trying to control women. Amazing that the men in the military can rape women in the military and the women can’t even get an abortion in the military hospital. In my opinion, not only should this ban be stopped, but women shouldn’t have to pay for an abortion out of their own pockets when it is the men in the military who are the perpetrators. But hey, if that is the only way for a military woman to be able to get an abortion, then we need to support this campaign to end the ban. Can you please write a letter? Thanks.

Zen Lill: I got your media photo but was out all day with a client. I hope that the event went well! So..did you all do nails for the 8 hours and break the record?

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my ‘loyal’(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

Gratefully your blog host,

michelle

Aka BABE: We all know what this means by now :)

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The Readers Have Spoken

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 5th June 2010


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Now it’s my turn.

Sonny: Well, I guess you got an eye full from my readers – They were certainly flapping their lips. – bet you wish you had kept your mouth(s) shut now. I say ‘mouths’ because you can’t fool me. I wouldn’t be surprised if you and ‘disappointed’ are the same person. In fact, I would bet on it. You are just a tad upset that I hit you where it hurts aren’t you? And now with all of the comments from my readers you probably just want to bury your head and hide. I guess it’s a good thing no one knows who you are so you can quietly disappear.

I’ll speak for myself as Zen Lill has already given her two. And FYI: I won’t be as gentle and accepting of your ‘points’ as ZL. Your points are not taken at all, and they are not accepted by me.

Pt1: Bragging about it “spoils any natural beauty that you have.”. I think Bert said it best, thank you, but I’ll add my two. If you’ve been reading my blog which I doubt you have, or you would know, my blog is rarely about me. And when I do speak about myself, I don’t brag about my beauty. Okay maybe a few times, but so what if I did? A fact is a fact as many of my readers have pointed out.

And another fact, besides posting a new picture now and then, which yes, I do enjoy doing, I prefer the attention to be off of myself and on the subject at hand which to me is way more important than a beautiful face. But, don’t misunderstand me, if my beauty is going to help get me where I want to go, if my beauty is going to inspire someone to take action in something that is important to me, then believe me I am going to put my pretty face out there along with the rest of my assets to get what I want. Don’t men do that too? The difference is, I’m going to use all that I have to get where I want to go without putting others down to get there.  Which brings me to your next point….

Pt2: Bragging about it “is an insult to women who may not have these equal physical attributes” (being boasterous is an unatractive quality no matter who it comes from because not all can make those same claims.) I think Ike made a great point, but I’ll add my two also.

If you’ve been reading my blog, which now I’m sure you haven’t, you would know that the last thing I would do is make any woman feel uncomfortable reading my blog. I am a girl’s girl. My goal is to uplift women….my goal is to empower women…my goal is to combat the criticism and cruelty and give women the courage to stand up for themselves and not take this kind of crap that men feed them daily. Yeah, there’s enough men out there putting women down as you and aka: ‘disappointed’ have just displayed.

I’ll say it again: Most men and women who read know that I am a girl’s girl through and through. In fact, men like you who try to keep women down, who know how much I promote and support women, have often called me a man hater more than a few times on my blog. I deal with it. They call me a man hater because I expose men and the atrocities that men do against women, against our planet….whatever. And I will continue to do so until women take their rightful place beside men, and if we have to leave the men behind, so be it.

Pt3: Bragging about it “says that women are mere eye candy (and we all know that a woman is much more than her physical appearance)” Who said that women are mere eye candy? I never did, and the women who read my blog would never think that I would ever think that about women. That is a fact. And in respect to me basing my worth on my looks: I won’t even take the time to address that ridiculous statement.

So…why not dis ‘disappointed’? He’s the one who chimed in only when I posted Zen Lill’s photo. She’s been commenting on my blog almost daily for two years and he only makes a comment when I post her picture, to tell her she’s not all that. Obviously he’s been reading her comments but he only responds and comments over the ‘physical appearance’.  Talk about someone who is only seeing ZL as mere eye candy. Oh yeah…but you can’t dis ‘disappointed’, you and ‘disappointed’ are one and the same aren’t you?  Obviously that is what you think. It goes without saying that I am aware that there is so much more to women than their physical appearance. Do you? I think I’ve made my point.

However, don’t get me wrong, do I recognize physical beauty when it is in front of me? You bet. I recognize all the amazing qualities that women embody. Whether we want to admit it or not women are considered second class even in this country. So, as I said above, if a woman wants to use all of her assets: brains, beauty, charm, and whatever else, to propel her to where she wants to be, I say go for it, and I support her 100%. Again, if you were an avid reader of my blog you would know that about me….you would know that is how I feel about women.

As far as saying that,  “good looking women (and you both are) are not rare”. I’ll just answer with, “Decent men (and you aren’t) are rare.”

My last point: I shine daily on my blog and it is not just because of my beauty, but from the readers that inspire me here every day. So go back into the archives and read, or stick around and read. You have no idea the type of girl I am. You’ll soon learn that your quick judgement of me and Zen Lill is way off, and you’ll be eating your word salad with fact free dressing. (I just had to use that again:)

So…Sonny aka, ‘disappointed’: I do have more to say to you. “Your ego got the best of you…your ego got bruised, and you’re taking it out on women. Typical of many men. Get over it. Women have to get over much worse things men say and do to women daily, and we have a lot more to endure than just a bruised ego. “

Doug: I love your poem – can’t wait to hear the words when you put it to music.

Linda: Right on.

D.C. Al: You said it better than I did.

Cybil, Julia, Ellen, Lois, Michelle, Regina, Barbara, Helena, Luisa, Marianne, Ito, Sua, Eileen, Dorrie, Noreen, Fredia, Marlene, Fala, Dung, Zela, and all the other girls that possibly tried to get in a ‘brag’ but couldn’t: I love it! – You are all beautiful in so many ways – keep bragging the facts!

PS I would love to say more about the other topics but I must go eat…I’ll address the other comments tomorrow. Thanks.

Peace out…

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my ‘loyal’(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

Gratefully your blog host,

michelle

Aka BABE: We all know what this means by now :)

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What Is Real, And What Is Satire?

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 30th May 2010


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Ronald: When anyone posts an article with too many links it gets filed in ‘awaiting moderation’. Sorry, I didn’t see it yesterday, but I put it through today and I read the article. Life never ceases to surprise me anymore. And although the article that you posted is true, there is so much satire out there that the general public is getting confused about what is real news, and what is just writers having a little fun.

I touched on this the other day in my write, when it was written in the Borowitz Report that Goldman Sachs had shorted the Gulf of Mexico. Now that, as I had written, was satirical news, but it was believable, and in reality really could have happened. (And, honestly I wouldn’t doubt it.)

We have a difficult enough time getting to the truth, now in this crazy funny world, we need to discern between what is real and what is satire.  So how do we do that? Well, I just happen to be able to answer that question….or at least scambusters can.

Readers: This is an excellent read because the news is so important to us. This news is our connection to each other, and to the events around the world.  And because news travels fast it is easy for a rumor to get started and spread like wildfire. We know how fast true stories spread – well, fake ones have the same power, and we need to be able to discern the difference between the two. Scambusters shows us how, and addresses some areas you might not have thought of:

Fake news stories, bogus product reviews and even satirical websites can all fool us into believing something that’s simply not true.

Sometimes the intention is to turn us on or off to a particular idea or purchase decision. Other times, it’s supposed to be just entertainment.

In this week’s issue we explain the latest tricks and techniques and offer some guidance on how to spot and avoid them.

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Fake news stories help crooks lure victims into all sorts of traps. We’ve reported previously on how scammers distribute emails with links to a sensational but fake news article or with an attachment that carries a deadly virus payload.

http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=8JUKO&m=1gXQlyufF0tWfo&b=rDviwyk3etz3hAdugGkfeQ

http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=8JUKO&m=1gXQlyufF0tWfo&b=6eoSFJsf1h8w5IOMx.B65A

Either way, the aim is to install malware on your PC when you click the link or open the attachment.

But in a new twist, con merchants are trying to pass off their websites as genuine newspaper or TV sites to convince victims about whatever it is they’re trying to sell.

The really frustrating thing is that often they are not breaking the law. They invent a legitimate-sounding name for their “publication” or fake TV news station and dress the web page up to look like it’s a real report.

Pretending to be impartial, the report usually either promotes a particular product or explains how you can easily make a fortune on the Internet.

Sometimes, they carry videos that purport to be objective TV news reports explaining just how fantastic this new product or money-making idea is.

The aim is to either get you to hand over a lot of money for a questionable or even worthless purchase, or join a pyramid or multi-level marketing scheme, in which you then have to recruit others to buy from you and they must, in turn, find more people to join. And so on.

It’s easy to get taken in but you can easily spot what these con artists are up to with two easy check steps:

* Be skeptical if the page is promoting a miracle product (like health cures or how to run your car on water) or an easy-money scheme. Remember that in real life these rarely, if ever, exist.

* Do a search on the name of the TV station or publication. If it’s a scam, you’ll generally find that there are no other pages or news reports from the same supposed newspaper or TV station.

In fact, you’ll more likely find someone else reporting it as a con trick.

Satire sites — for entertainment or mischief

While we’re on the subject, it’s worth mentioning another type of fake news site you might come across on the Internet.

These are so-called satire sites in which the operators just make up news stories — often about political figures or celebrities.

Sometimes, their motive is to entertain — just like a skit on a TV satire show like Saturday Night Live. Other times people with an axe to grind or just a desire to make mischief are at work.

There are several well-known and popular fake news sites, the best known probably being theonion.com. Their offerings can be very thought-provoking — as long as you know what they’re up to. In other words, ”news” from The Onion is not true — but it can be very funny.

More serious are sites that let people create their own hoax stories, for example claiming that an individual has been arrested. The user supplies the name and the site generates both the story and a link to it.

The important point here is never to act on or pass on any information you read or view unless you know for sure whether it’s true or false. Then you can let the recipient know.

Bogus product and travel reviews

Another sneaky and dishonest trick that’s become increasingly common on the Internet is the creation of bogus reviews for products and services.

A long time ago, we reported on web awards that charge fees. You pay your money and you get your five stars.

http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=8JUKO&m=1gXQlyufF0tWfo&b=XGLp11ZYRmIaEpvKSTnyUg

More recently, this sort of scheme has been used by less reputable software producers to create the impression they have one of the best products on the market.

And now, with the advent and widespread use of consumer product reviews, a similar technique fools people into thinking a book they’re considering buying or a hotel they might visit is top-rated.

Authors and hotels have been known to pay others or just invite employees or acquaintances to give them top ratings online, to encourage more purchases.

They’ve even done things the other way — giving low marks to competitors.

This year, for instance, on a trip to Mexico, Scambuster Keith found among the reviews for his hotel one describing it as “paradise” and another claiming it was overrun with bugs, warning travelers never to stay there.

(He went anyway and, fortunately, found the first description nearer the truth!)

Some big online organizations like Amazon (for books) and Expedia (for travel) have introduced measures to try to halt this phony review process — for example, making it clear whether a reviewer has genuinely purchased a product or stayed in the place they’re writing about.

Five review tips

If you use other people’s ratings to influence your buying decisions, here are five things to consider:

1. If a review is written anonymously or uses a nickname, don’t count on it. If a name is given, check out the author’s other reviews. With some travel sites, you can actually email the author to find out more.

2. If a product has only one or a handful of reviews unanimously claiming it’s wonderful, be skeptical. Even Olympic judges rarely give top marks across the board.

3. The more reviews, stars or marks, the fairer the scoring is likely to be. If there are a lot of reviews, sample comments from appraisers right across the spectrum — from ravers to rubbishers.

4. Longer reviews and those written by experts in the field are more likely to be honest appraisals. The writer has taken the time to think things through before delivering a judgment. Ignore the one-liners.

5. Remember the old saying “One man’s meat is another man’s poison.” Just because someone else liked something doesn’t mean you will. Purchasing decisions are down to you — you can’t blame others.

It’s a well-known fact that you should never believe everything you read. Since humans first started committing their thoughts to writing, they’ve been using their skills not only to record thoughts and history but also to purposely mislead and dishonestly influence our opinions.

The only difference is that in the old days they used chisels and then quill pens. Today they use keyboards, manufactured opinions and fake news sites.

Good stuff huh?

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Ahoo: Of course she was. I had a brain malfunction. Thanks for enlightening me. :)

Hannah: My aplogies. Madaline knows that Iran is a top priority. But presently, she is helping Azza and the rest of the TAO. I am sure she will head back to Iran when she is able. Be safe.

Lydia: We are both in agreement. It is disappointing because I have liked their films before. Actually I have only seen one, but a few others have been on my list to view. Additionally, I liked what you had to say though. You took my point even further, made some very valid considerations, and enlightened me to things I didn’t think about, so thank you.

Peace out everyone…I hope that you are enjoying the long weekend!

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my ‘loyal’(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

Gratefully your blog host,

michelle

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What Do You Get When You Mix Photographers And Non-Profits Together? – PhotoPhilanthropy

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 29th May 2010


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The other day I was reading Ode Magazine and while flipping through the pages I discovered some beautiful photography that was shot in Uganda. The article titled ‘The Net Effect’, talked about how mosquito nets are vital in countries like Uganda where Malaria kills one person every 30 seconds(!)

At a displaced persons camp near Gulu in northern Uganda, a woman and child shelter under a mosquito net.

Malaria is one of the biggest killers in the developing world. Nine out of 10 times a young African Child is the victim of Malaria. In Nigeria alone, a population of roughly 150 million, each year half of all Nigerians come down at least once with Malaria; 300,000 children die from the disease. The Malaria transmitting mosquito, the Anopheles mosquito, comes out and feeds at night, so if a family doesn’t have a net to hang over their beds, the chance of getting infection is high. Unfortunately many families can not afford these nets.

Thankfully the Malaria Consortium, the world’s largest organization dedicated to fighting Malaria, operates in more than 20 countries distributing free mosquito nets to those in need. They not only provide these nets but they teach prevention and provide medical treatment as well.

What was different about this very brief article was that it was not only informative of the need for mosquito nets in places such as Uganda and Nigeria,  but I got the opportunity to also discover and read about a non profit, called “PhotoPhilanthropy” (Don’t you just love the name?).

So you may ask, ‘What does one have to do with the other?’

Well….let me tell you. The founder photographer Nancy Farese, a local girl, provides photographic support to non-profit organizations to help document and promote causes. Farese  pioneered the concept of Photophilanthropy: Promoting Social Activism Through Photography, to encourage and reward people who use photography for social purpose. Isn’t that cool?

Farese, a veteran social documentary photographer, believes that through the camera lens you can, witness both the desperate need for action as well as the heroic efforts of the non-profit organizations who are striving to meet these challenges. And when people, like myself, are moved by the powerful photos that they see, it can inspire people to take action.

The photograph above was taken by William Daniels. Daniels was awarded the PhotoPhilanthropy Activist Award 2009, which acknowledges excellence in social photography, for the photos essay, which includes the one I posted above, that was featured in Ode magazine for the said article.

I like the whole concept that Faresh has created with her business. People around the world are photographed so that we can be witness to their lives. The photo essays are designed to educate and engage people in a wide variety of social campaigns, and at the same time, the photographers are recognized for their amazing work. But most importantly, the concept comes around full circle as the non-profits get exposure for what they are trying to do for their cause:  The people…the animals…the environment, etc.

I love when people take their creativity and meld it with something that really matters. I am all about being creative in as many areas in my life as I can. And if I can help others and incorporate my creative talent at the same time, well then…I am just as happy as I could be.

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Hey ZL: How wonderful that Lily actually picked out that book for you – what inspired that? She’s such a cool girl. :) Anyway it does sound very interesting – maybe I can borrow when you are through? Enjoy your weekend eh? With all of those studs out there after you, I can imagine that you will. :)

Hannah: I am a bit confused about your comment: ‘If this message gets through, would you consider sending back to Iran?’ Is the ‘you’ missing in this sentence? Blog me to clarify please.

Dolores: That is not an easy question to answer in one simple sentence. I did not read that post in the Huff, but perhaps I can still give a simple answer, although easier said than done. The first thing that comes to mind is transparency and regulations, and that is done by voting people into office that are working for the people and not the banks and big corporations.

Perhaps this comment from Anonz will help: ‘Sure I have more money that I will every be able to spend, but if you are too stupid to regulate me, and too stupid to make me pay my fair share of taxes, and if you continue to allow me to set up corporations with all the rights of a living person, I WILL CONTINUE TO GET RICHER AT YOUR EXPENSE.’

Hi Josh: Thanks for taking the time to write your letters. And yes, everyone should do the same. These big corps need to be held accountable for their ‘accidents’. As we’ve said here so often, people don’t police themselves – regulations need to be in place. And Liability limits need to be removed – 75 million obviously doesn’t even scratch the surface when it comes to the damage done – pennies for BP. And if there is no detrimental consequences (hit ‘em where it hurts – their wallets), why bother taking the precautions?

Ken: You were used. Simple as that. Those ‘drill baby drill’ republicans were only on your side when they needed you. Once they no longer needed you, you were dropped like a hot potato. That is their MO. Learn from it.  It is the time – Obama is your saving grace.

Hi Shri Khan: Believe me, I am very aware of the risk that you and others take by reading my blog. And I assure you, all precautions are done on my end to protect everyone’s identity. You are in my thoughts – The plight of women is something I never stop thinking about. Hope is there for all of us.

My pleasure Mollie. :)

Suzy: Loved the video – thanks for sharing.

Hey Evelyn: How are you? Great article – so informative and important. Thanks too for sharing.

Doug: Thanks for posting. I usually like the movies that Zeitgeist puts out, and I like this video clip too. As Robert said, it is a feel good video, but what is the Solution?  And racism and sexism are huge issues in this world, that prevent a sense of ‘one’ community – ‘world citizens’ is still a concept that hasn’t arrived yet. I, like Robert, am a little skeptical too when people promote a better way but don’t give us ideas. But hey, the inspiration is there. Now we just have to ‘do something’.

I can tell you what does not sit well with me though is the fact that they are putting Obama side by side with Hitler and Stalin. He doesn’t belong in that picture…any picture with those two. I understand their gripe about the system – it’s mine too, but Obama is creating change. I know you know this. We’re pretty messed up. Change takes time. As Obama has said, “Hey, I’m just the president. I’m not a miracle worker.”

Hi Ruth: I hope you and the girls are well.  I hope Anonz gets better soon.

Helen: Me too.

Peace out everyone….

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my ‘loyal’(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

Gratefully your blog host,

michelle

Aka BABE: We all know what this means by now :)

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Sex Trafficking In The U.S.?

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 25th May 2010


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When I read this article I found it to be quite shocking. Not because of the subject matter but because of the subject setting – We’re talking sex trafficking, and yes the sex scene is here in the U.S.

When I think of sex trafficking, I think of some of the places that I have visited overseas, and warned to be extremely careful… “Don’t travel alone as a woman.”

Yes, we are aware of the plight of women and young girls in other countries; even last year I blogged about the young girls in Tijuana, Mexico who are kidnapped and forced into prostitution. They are eventually smuggled through a dangerous corridor that leads them to the U.S. in places such as New York’s illegal brothels, where they live as sexual slaves till whenever.

In a report in 2005, as many as 17,500 sex slaves are smuggled into the US each year, according to the federal stats. That stat is disturbing enough.

But now I read that young girls living here in the U.S. are ‘tricked’ into becoming prostitutes by boys not much older than themselves. It is a problem and it is growing.

Child prostitution has become a national problem in this country. Yes, I know that you have trouble believing that. You don’t want to believe it, so you tend not to.

“Widespread sex trafficking in children?”, you may be saying to yourself. “Sure, it happens overseas in places like Thailand and Moldova, and while there may be some of it here there’s not that much of it in our country.”

Based on a months long investigation and some reportorial digging, I’m here to tell you that you are wrong. We all are. We’re in denial.

In covering news for more than 60 years, I’d like to think that few stories shock me anymore. But this is one of them. We ran across it late last year and the more we dug, the more disturbing it became.

Eighty-year-old men paying a premium to violate teenage girls, sometimes supplied by former drug gangs now into child sex trafficking big time? You’ve got to be kidding. Nope. That’s happening and a lot more along the same lines.

The business is booming. One of the worst areas for it runs along lines running roughly from Seattle to Portland, to San Francisco and Los Angeles, to Las Vegas. But no place in the country is immune.

To pick just one example among many, Portland, Oregon is without doubt one of the nation’s treasures. It has been voted one of the best places to live and work. But according to police, the city and its outlying communities has become a hub for the sexual exploitation of children. In a recent nationwide sting by Federal, state and local law enforcement agencies, Portland ranked second in the country for the number of rescued child prostitutes. And according to Doug Justus, the workhorse sergeant in charge of Portland’s tiny Vice Detail, many of the children caught up in this are middle class kids from the area.

The girls, sometimes as young as 12, often 13-16, are lured by a “front man” in his mid-to-late teens. He becomes her “boyfriend,” taking her to dinner, buying her nice things, sometimes meeting her parents. The girl eventually moves in with him. Then he says they need money to continue being together. First, she’s enticed to sleep with his friends to pay the rent. Soon she’s turning tricks for what police say is an endless supply of older men willing to pay top money for sex with very young girls. Other times convincing the young adolescent girls to sell themselves happens very quickly.

“It is an out-of-control problem. It’s unbelievable,” say Justus. “I’ve only done this vice-squad job for three years. I’ve been a cop for 29. If you had told me three years ago that a 14-year-old girl would go to a food court, meet a guy, and three hours later be selling herself, I’d a said, no frigging way. It happens every single day, every day.”

It is a very lucrative business, according to Justus. “An average pimp with one kid will make between $800 and $l,000 a day. That’s seven days a week, 30 days a month,” he said. And the pimps usually have a stable of young girls. No wonder so many criminals in the drug trade have turned to it which they have in droves. There’s less chance of being caught, less chance of being prosecuted if caught, lighter sentences — if any — if convicted.

There is, and has been for a long time, a national “War on Drugs.” There isn’t one on child prostitution and what amounts to a slave trade. Only feeble efforts at best.

Justus is frustrated that the Portland police have only two full-time vice investigators, compared to dozens of drug investigators.

“I’m not a politician. I’m just a cop. But if I’m a criminal and I got busted for drugs and I had a regional (drug) task force over here. And there’s another task force over there, and there, and then I know there’s only two vice investigators in the city of Portland, let me think. I think I’ll sell women because what are the chances of me being caught?”

The story we’ve prepared is not about prostitution per se. This is about child abuse. This is also about statutory rape and compelling prostitution among the young. All are difficult to prove. A major reason, according to police, is that it’s extremely difficult to convince a young girl to testify against their pimps and “johns”. They are afraid.

Sgt. Justus told us the story of a 16-year-old girl whom he convinced to “roll” on her pimp. But before she could testify against him she disappeared — and her pimp walked free. Justus has spent the last year looking for her and fears she’s dead.

How many children are being peddled on the streets of Portland and in other cities and towns, to say nothing of the Internet (Justus and other law enforcement people say Craigslist, along with other Internet sites, are major factors in the spread of child prostitution)? Hard to know about the real numbers. The most conservative estimates are that at least 100,000 American children are being victimized. Many experts say they believe it’s closer to 300,000 or more.

Whatever the number, it is a national outrage and disgrace. And the problem is growing, not diminishing.

If you want to see the video related to this story, click here.

Readers: I thought the number of sex slaves smuggled into this country was bad enough, but when it is reported that hundreds of thousands of girls are being victimized in the U.S., that is just shocking to me. Is anyone else shocked by this stat?

My first thought is: Why are the parents of these young, under 18-year old girls, allowing them to move out and move in with their so-called ‘boyfriend’ in the first place? My father would never have allowed that.  And who are the role models in these young boys lives? Why haven’t their fathers taught them to respect and revere young women? These young girls could be their sisters, their cousins, and yet they have no problem pretending a mutual friendship and tricking them into prostitution.

It used to be that you never needed to worry about the young boys – they got a slap on the back from dad with one hand, and a condom thrusted in their other hand, along with a wink as they walked out the door. Getting a girl pregnant was ‘the issue’. Not anymore. Parents need to wake up  and get hip to modern day misfortune. It is way different and much more serious than it used to be.  Girls can live through an unwanted pregnancy, as traumatic as that can be. But thrust into the throes of prostitution by boys, and having to endure as a sex slave to men, is not something one can easily put behind them.

What is happening to our young boys? The answer is they grow up and turn into men (not all) who take advantage of young girls by paying a pretty price to have sex with them. So much for men being good role models. How are young girls ever going to have a chance at any decent relationship, when they can’t even trust a young boy’s friendship, not to mention marriage, when men of marrying age are taking advantage of them in the worst way?  When does this revolving madness of the plight of women end?

On a side note…I was talking to a friend the other night who had just turned 50. I asked him about a few girls that I had met through him, and if he was still seeing them. He responded by saying that he wasn’t dating them; they were just friends -he could be their father. He then went on to say that he hasn’t dated much because when he meets women who are closer to his age, he discovers that they hate men by then. I laughed, but inside I thought, ‘This is so revealing. That simple sentence speaks volumes.’

Thoughts? Comments? blog me.

And on another note…I just wanted to let you know that I was informed that there were several countries blocking my readers from posting their comments. In order to figure it out, most of the comments were presently being blocked. I apologize for the frustration it has been causing. I have been frustrated too, as I miss reading your thoughts, and articles etc. I was told it may take another day or so to figure it all out, but it seems from the comments this morning that perhaps it is resolved. Thanks for your patience. As much as I would like to say that I will never have issues again, that is unlikely.

Zen Lill: Friends or acquaintances, no matter – You are influential; more than you think. Every time you tell us a story, I notice how people listen to you. I say, keep those martini glasses and host a party. :) Thanks for the article too – good stuff.

Terry: Love the name of your party. Of course open with this column, and please write back and let us know how it went. Thanks!

Hi Peter: Nice to hear from you again.

Janice: Thanks for your persistency. Another great article on the benefits of Vit C. You don’t have to convince this girl to soak in it a few minutes a day. Oh, and congratulations! I wish you a blissful pregnancy and a healthy baby.

MoveOn: Thanks for the heads up.

Mike: Hello. Nice to see your name in print too. I realize that you are not trying to be silent. I know that you have been shut out like the rest of my readers. I just wanted to give and shout and tell everyone that they were missed here regardless of the reason.

Valeri: I wrote my blog post last night only to wake up to your post from yesterday. Thank you for linking the article! – Olga Murray is one amazing woman doing incredible things for young girls in Nepal. And you’re right, not all white people are bad. Murray is a fine example of a woman who takes the plight of women and young girls seriously to do something about it. I am so inspired by her. Now if we can just help the young girls in our own country. Unfortunately it is going to take more than the price of a pig, but so worth the time and the effort too.

Hi Doug: I am sure Valeri can answer for herself, but I disagree. l don’t think that Valeri is stating that because Murray is white she is kind and loving. I don’t think the color of her skin has anything to do with it at all, and I believe Valeri doesn’t either. I’m confused of where you came to that conclusion from her statement.

However, I do think it means something that the woman is white. She is a white woman doing something for otws, when so much of what is posted here is about whites only caring about themselves and theirs, and loving their own kind: Other whites. Many whites (not all) not only do nothing for otws, but they try very hard to keep them down, to say the least. I believe the point Valeri was making, was just simply that not all whites are bad.  A valid point that many people make here.

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my ‘loyal’(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

Gratefully your blog host,

michelle

Aka BABE: We all know what this means by now :)

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