Good morning. I just wanted to say hello since I have said nothing the past two days. I have left it up to all of you to do the talking and talking you did!
‘The happily ever after’ video seems to have struck a cord with many of you women who thought that you had found your ‘prince’ only to discover that he was lying and cheating on you. Mrs Crocker, Ruth, Malini, Anna, Mika, Bella, Karen, Sandra, Shulgareh, Shawn: Thank you for sharing your stories and thoughts.
I just have to add something here. The thing that gets me is women who have affairs with married men, and know they are married. It is one thing to have a one nighter unknowingly…we know many men will take off that ring for an evening and pretend they are not married. Some men will even get away with the lie for a time, but watch out if and when the woman finds out you have been lying and you really are married.
But when a woman knows from the beginning that the man she is fucking is a married man, and she is aware that he is cheating on his wife to be with her, that really pisses me off. And some women only go after married men. What is that all about? There have only been one or two times in my life that a woman friend of mine has informed me of an affair that she was having with a married man. Believe me, I gave her my two. I tell them to step inside the other woman’s shoes….’cause honey, in the end if you end up with him, guess what? You’ll be wearing those shoes…He’ll be cheating on you too. Don’t even think for one second that he won’t.
One of the biggest mistakes a woman makes is to ever think that she is going to be the one that he will be faithful to, when he cheated on his last love to be with her. – Ha! Don’t ever think that you can be the one to change your cheating man into a faithful husband. If you do, you’re a fool. If you know this and are willing to accept his cheating ways because you have to have him so badly….fine. At least you know what you’re getting into when you decided to be with him. But don’t ever think for a second he’ll change and be faithful, or you will be very disappointed.
And another big mistake women make is thinking the cheating man will leave his wife for you. I mean think about it. Hello…He’s fucking his wife and you. He’s got the best of both worlds. Unless he can’t stand his wife, is not sleeping with her anymore, and was planning on leaving her, why would he divorce his wife to be with you when he already gets to be with you and he has his wife to go home to?
Women think that when they give it up, sex that is, that is what will keep the man interested….that is what will get the man to leave his wife and come to her. Oh…that is not always the case. Women think that men cheat because they are unhappy in their marriage. That may be true, but some men will also cheat when they are perfectly content in their marriage because if they think they can get away with it, they will. Some of the comments we read the other day proves that. You may think he wants you for more than sex, and he may. But, if all he wants is sex from you and he’s content in his marriage, most likely he is not even thinking of leaving his wife just for you. Again, why would he?
Girls: All that being said, men would not be able to cheat on their wives as easily, if women didn’t have affairs with married men. It is as simple as that. Women need to realize this and stop screwing over other women. Are there not enough men out there to go after, that you have to go after another woman’s man?
If I were single I would never even consider being with a married man if I knowingly knew he was married. And if a married man approached me, giving me the story that he was not happy in his marriage and planning on leaving his wife, I would most certainly question him, and not take his words for face value. I would tell him to get his shit together and contact me when he was divorced…and then maybe I’d think about seeing him, that is, if I was interested.
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Hi Robert: How are you? American Violet sounds like a very empowering and inspiring movie. I look forward to checking it out. Thanks for posting. Readers: If you want a peek – check out the trailer. Dee Roberts is one bad ass bitch – these white men screwed with the wrong girl.
Anna: I am sorry for Guam’s loss of Victor Wuerch. We need more people like him fighting for the protection of our environment.
Well I wanted to comment on yesterday’s video but I’ll save that for tomorrow…or maybe not. We’ll see.
Happy Sunday and Happy Easter to those of you celebrating!
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