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The Beauty Of A Positive Role Model

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 10th June 2012

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Good morning!

Zen Lill: Awww…thanks for the comment. Here’s another fantastic article supporting girls. This one’s for all the women out there who are a positive role model:

The Beauty of a Positive Role Model

 

Girls today can look up to any number of remarkable women: elected officials, business leaders, athletes and yes, a few celebrities. But if a girl is going to reach her dreams or even change the world, she needs a woman in her corner to help her see her full potential. This woman is not in the spotlight. You won’t read about her in a magazine or see her on television, yet she has the power to change the world. She is a mother, a doctor, a teacher. She is a positive role model.

We sometimes think that being a celebrity is the same as being a role model. But a role model is actually someone you can touch, talk to and dream with. When you think about that, you realize it is critical that we celebrate positive role models and the work they do: being present in girls’ lives, sharing the moments of the day that shape ideas and opinions on the world and pointing out opportunities and possibilities that girls might not see on their own.

I’ve been working with the Dove Movement for Self-Esteem recently to shed light on the beauty of positive role models. These women not only help girls achieve their goals, they help them shed fears and insecurities that can hold girls back. Consider this: When girl’s feel bad about their looks, 60 percent avoid normal daily activities like raising their hand in class or even going to the doctor. That means that girls do not show up for life when they don’t feel good enough or pretty enough. A role model can help girls see beauty as a source of confidence, not anxiety.

Some women may think they haven’t done anything extraordinary that merits the attention of a girl in their life. But here’s the thing: everyone has the opportunity to make a difference in a girl’s self-esteem. This weekend, over 250,000 girls and their moms will gather in Washington, D.C. for Girl Scouts Rock the Mall, a sing-along that celebrates friendship and community service. You can watch the event live onDove.com. I’m going to be there to introduce four remarkable women who represent women everywhere — they are accomplished, but they have also overcome obstacles and self-doubt to forge their own path in the world. By sharing their stories, I hope to remind women everywhere that they, too, can inspire a girl in their life. All they have to do is reach out to one girl.

This exciting program will shine a light on positive role models everywhere. Starting this weekend, moms can access videos with stories of amazing women on Facebook.com/Dove. Moms can watch these videos with a girl in their life and start a conversation about girls’ goals and dreams using an accompanying viewer’s guide. Throughout the summer, women can also share stories of other amazing women the world should know about. The idea behind this effort is that all real women who are positive role models should be famous.

I like that idea. I think it is time we celebrated the real work that goes into shaping the hearts and minds of the next generation of leaders. Someone wisely said: “Girls cannot be what they cannot see.” So let’s celebrate the women girls see and interact with everyday who set a positive example. If you’re in D.C. this weekend, join me for Rock the Mall, and please check out the stories of some amazing women you will certainly want to introduce to a girl in your life.

And speaking of role models, I’d like to give a special mention to the woman who truly inspires me and helped me become the woman I am today: My mom. From a very early age, she sacrificed a lot to help me achieve my goals of acting and singing. Her example taught me that, regardless of age, we should listen to people and encourage their dreams.

To my mom, and to positive role models everywhere, I say thank you.

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Hear hear…I echo that last line. Positive role models are always Wonderful Women of The World!

Readers: It was a late night, dancing with my girlfriend to the tunes of Michael J and Prince. The DJ was rockin’ the house and the dance floor was jammin’. A little too crowded for my liking, but that didn’t stop me from swinging my ass and shakin’ it down with the best of them. It is a beautiful day in the San Francisco Bay!  Enjoy yourselves wherever you are!

Peace & Love…

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my “loyal”(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

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michelle

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Wonderful Women Of The World

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 9th June 2012

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Good morning!

I’ve given the title of Wonderful Woman of The World to Jennifer Siebel Newsom beforefor her efforts to eradicate sexism. I’ve blogged about “Miss Representation“, her film that exposes how American youth are being sold the concept that women and girls’ value lies in their youth, beauty and sexuality. The film had its broadcast premiere on OWN: Oprah Winfrey Network in October of 2011.

Here’s the trailer of the film if you haven’t seen it:

I’m blogging about Newsom again today because of my passion to support and empower women, and because even more so lately with all of the efforts to limit and control women, enslave women, etc., I feel that anything that helps inspire and empower women, needs to be in our faces as much as possible, so that we as a society will take the necessary actions for a shift to take place in our society.

Awhile ago I joined Newsom in her efforts by signing up for her weekly e-mails and inspirations on how to be a voice in our community. I’ve taken the pledge to use my voice to spread the message of Miss Representation and challenge the media’s limiting portrayal of women and girls. It is rampant in our society and I know many of you, my readers, feel the same as I do: We want it to stop. But wanting it is not enough.

Today, I want to encourage you to do the same, and take the pledge. I’ve made it easy: Click here. For those of you who may not want to take the pledge for whatever reason,  but still want to support women and girls, I’m posting a list, thanks to Miss Representation, of things that you can do, steps that you can take to amplify the voices of women and girls everywhere, motivate men and boys to stand up to sexism, and shift our culture towards equality:

Watch the film…or even better, host a screening.  And then:

1. Tell 5 people about the film and share one thing you learned from watching it.

2. Parents- watch TV and films with your children.  Raise questions like “What if that character had been a girl instead?”

3. Remember your actions influence others. Mothers, aunts and loved ones- don’t downgrade or judge yourself by your looks. Fathers, uncles and loved ones—treat women around you with respect.  Remember children in your life are watching and learning from you.

4. Use your consumer power. Stop buying tabloid magazines and watching shows that degrade women. Go see movies that are written and directed by women (especially on opening weekend to boost the box office ratings). Avoid products that resort to sexism in their advertising.

5. Mentor others! It’s as easy as taking a young woman to lunch. Start by having open and honest conversations with a young person in your life.

*W*W*O*T*W*

Readers: The key to change is combining awareness and action. If you want more ways to get involved, visit Miss Representation’s website. Are you with me? Thank you!

Blog me. Peace & Love…

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my “loyal”(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

Gratefully your blog host,

michelle

Aka BABE: We all know what this means by now :)

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Wonderful Women Of The World

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 26th May 2012

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Good morning!

I wanted to post this last Saturday but as you know, my blogging didn’t go exactly how I  planned.

Bullying has been a hot topic in the media lately.

At Marlothomas.com, we’re always talking about women who have pushed the limit in order to accomplish something great. Traciana Graves grew up in a loving home, but she suffered heartbreaking bullying throughout her school years for how she dressed, spoke and even how shewalked. She turned to music for solace, dreaming of one day becoming a singer (which she eventually did!). Her savior during that difficult bullying phase was a popular boy named Joel. He stood up for her, and later, he became her beloved stepbrother when their parents got married. Then Joel went to college and pledged a fraternity — and the unthinkable happened: a hazing incident took his life.

Instead of letting that personal tragedy cripple her, Traciana faced the world. She fulfilled her lifelong dream of being a singer and then dedicated her life and career to ending the one practice that almost tore her world apart: bullying. Traciana didn’t let fear, grief or discouragement stop her. She is truly fearless! Watch the video below to learn more about her inspiring story.

Three fearless lessons Traciana learned that you can try yourself:

1) Create a personal mantra — and live by it. Traciana’s cure for bullying consists of the “Three Ps”: purpose, power and potential. Be mindful of your purpose. Always know your power. Understand your potential.

2) Everyone has negative experiences. It’s up to you to translate yours into positive actions that help yourself and others.

3) Always speak up for injustice — don’t be afraid to do so! A shift in the world starts with you.

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Readers: So…I got a phone call from a a friend who said, “Hey did you see the poem that guy posted to you on your blog the other day?” To which I answered, “What poem and what guy? I don’t remember any poem.”  And he promptly said, “You know, the guy who said that he “could worship the dick that got to pleasure itself between those beautiful thighs…”. “Oh yeah…that guy. I wouldn’t exactly call it a ‘poem’”, I laughed. But then I remembered…he did write a “poem”…a very cute 4-liner. And my friend said, “Put it to the cadence of, ‘I would walk miles and miles over broken glass …with her lass’”. I did, but his is way better if you ask me.

Kudos to you, Ankur for such creativity. I never in my wildest dreams would ever think a man would say such words about me, nor consider taking such actions of admiration. Such a sacrifice or offer satiates the ego in a way that modesty forbids further discourse. Oh…And by the way, I’m a pretty nice girl. I would probably say more than just a few words if I met you, that is…before I discovered IAT.  :)

Social Butterfly: Thank you for posting such an important topic with respect to our health.

3//9c: My condolences. I knew none of the contingent, but I know what it is to experience loss.

Mike, TM: Okay, so if Robert, RT is correct with respect to your moniker, I have to say, “I like it”. Very apropos. Thanks for humoring me and making my life a bit easier. I like to recognize my readers in any way I can, and especially if they are posting many comments and are considered a “regular”, as of course, you are.

Social Butterfly, et all: Happy Memorial Day! I’m in the fabulous city of San Francisco this weekend and I am so delighted to be here. And yes, I am going to celebrate our beautiful Golden Gate bridge’s big 75th – can’t wait to indulge in the festivities. I HOPE you all are enjoying yourself as well.

Peace & Love…

xox

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my “loyal”(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

Gratefully your blog host,

michelle

Aka BABE: We all know what this means by now :)

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Wonderful Servicewomen Of The World

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 17th May 2012

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Good morning!

Unseen: Trailblazing Military Women Forced To Fight For Recognition, Equal Treatment

After a rocket-propelled grenade sent the Black Hawk helicopter tumbling out of the sky over Iraq, the medics got to work fast on the co-pilot, Capt. Duckworth. Standard operating procedure: cut away the desert-camo uniform before burnt fabric melds with burnt flesh. Get at the wounds. Stop the bleeding. Save what’s left.

When you show up at Walter Reed Medical Center in that kind of condition, you show up naked, with nothing except the hospital gown. So you’re given a “comfort kit,” a little backpack containing some toiletries and clothes. Duckworth awoke there around Thanksgiving 2004, a few weeks after the shootdown, to find a comfort kit waiting with slippers, a shaving kit and men’s jockey shorts.

She had to laugh.

“It was great. I don’t have feet, so I can’t wear the slippers, and you know, I just had my legs blown off, it’s not like I’m gonna shave my legs any time soon,” she chuckles. “I don’t have jockey, I’m not gonna wear men’s jockey shorts.”

Tammy Duckworth had just become the first female double amputee from Iraq, losing one leg above the knee and one below, but she had been a woman for a while already.

“They just had kits for men,” Duckworth says. “It never occurred to them to make kits for women.”

Duckworth is one of more than 282,000 American women who have deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan during a decade of war, according to Pentagon figures. That’s more than six times the number of women deployed in the first Gulf War and more than 35 times the number sent to Vietnam.

(An interactive timeline of U.S. women at war can be found here.)

The 207,308 women currently serving on active duty comprise some 14.5 percent of the U.S. armed forces, according to the military. While more than 2 million women have served since the Revolutionary War, some 1.9 million of them are currently living — an unprecedented generation of women at war. The number of female veterans hasdoubled since 1990 and is expected to skyrocket given further drawdowns in the Middle East.

They are helicopter pilots, linguists and flight nurses, mechanics, mental health administrators and homeland security-force directors, intelligence officers and combat correspondents, Ph.D.s and amputees, Purple Heart recipients and prisoners of war. Over seventy have become generals. Two, one in the Army and another in theAir Force, have four stars.

Duckworth, who received the Purple Heart, is one of 868 servicewomen who have been wounded in Iraq and Afghanistan. One hundred forty-four have been killed.

tammy duckworth

Tammy Duckworth looks on as President Barack Obama departs from the White House in November 2009.

 

Yet while women are undeniably at war, the full extent of their roles and capabilities still isn’t formally recognized by the military brass. Today’s servicewomen perform many of the roles that official policy says they cannot. Often, their service and suffering remain ignored by or invisible to the Pentagon and the public.

“First thing we can do for women veterans is to raise the awareness that women are veterans,” says Maj. Gen. Irene Trowell-Harris, director of the Center for Women Veterans at the Department of Veterans Affairs and the first African American woman to reach the rank of general in the National Guard.

Of the 1.2 million positions available throughout the military, 252,179, roughly 21 percent, are closed to women, according to a Department of Defense report to Congress ordered under the defense budget bill for fiscal year 2011. At the report’s release in February, the DOD announced plans to open 14,325 more jobs — an additional 1.2 percent of that total – slated for implementation on Monday.

All graphics by Chris Spurlock. A detailed table can be found here.

“The Department of Defense is committed to removing all barriers that would prevent Service members from rising to the highest level of responsibility that their talents and capabilities warrant,” the report says. But it continues, voicing the concern of those who oppose women in combat: “There are serious practical barriers, which if not approached in a deliberate manner, could adversely impact the health of our Service members and degrade mission accomplishment. Change of this magnitude requires sufficient time and resources.”

Incremental reforms, however, don’t address the fundamental problem: a segregated system that denies women the chance to compete for the most elite positions in the military — typically the fast track to advancement through the ranks — as well as the respect that their service and sacrifice has earned.

That hasn’t stopped Duckworth, named President Barack Obama’s assistant secretary of Veterans Affairs in 2009 and now a Democratic candidate for Congress in Illinois. Yet for every Duckworth, thousands of military women remain trapped between the Pentagon’s policy and practice, between rhetoric and reality.

‘LET’S NOT TELL HIM UNTIL THE WAR’S OVER’

American women have served in the military since there has been an America to serve. During the Civil War, women on both sides disguised themselves as men to enlist. More than 400,000 women served during the World Wars, but as the United States demobilized, the military pushed women back to the homefront.

During Vietnam, Congress began to recognize that more women were needed for the U.S. military machine, repealing legal provisions that had prevented them from comprising more than 2 percent of the nation’s troops. With the end of the draft in 1973, the military turned greater attention toward recruiting women, but struggled to treat them as equals — the Pentagon’s 1988 “Risk Rule” officially excluded women even from support missions if they were deemed as likely as combat troops to take a bullet.

The first Gulf War soon proved this doctrine untenable, however, as a clear gap emerged between the risk rule and the facts on the ground.

Rhonda Cornum lived in that gap. The call to war was a big change for Cornum, a biochemistry and nutrition Ph.D. recruited by the Army in 1978 to study wound healing — when Iraq invaded Kuwait in 1990, she was primarily conducting research on helicopter pilot performance and helmet-mounted displays. For Operation Desert Storm, the Army assigned her as a flight-surgeon to an attack-helicopter battalion, directly contravening the risk rule.

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You know, women aren’t supposed to be in combat, Cornum recalls a colleague telling her at their staging grounds in Saudi Arabia just before the U.S. air assault on Iraq.

“Right, I know that,” was her answer.

Do you think the colonel knows you’re a girl? he asked.

“I said, ‘Well, I’ve been living in the parking space next to him in the Dhahran Airport parking lot for the last four months,’” she says. “‘If he doesn’t know by now, let’s not tell him until the war’s over.’”

This kind of doublethink was a standard part of Cornum’s experience in the Gulf. “So when people would come around or dignitaries would come,” she says, “they’d send me off to the motor pools.”

Yet by the end of the Gulf War, Cornum had participated in roughly one-quarter of her battalion’s attack missions. “One time, it didn’t go all that well,” she deadpans.

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Rhonda Cornum deplanes after being released from Iraqi captivity on March 6, 1991.

 

On the last day of the war in 1991, Cornum’s Black Hawk was downed by Iraqi forces during a rescue mission. She broke both her arms and a finger, tore knee ligaments and, yes, took a bullet, but nonetheless managed to crawl out of the wrecked bird. She and the two other survivors of her eight-person crew spent a week as Iraqi prisoners of war before being released.

“Nobody made any comments about, ‘Oh, she shouldn’t have been there,’” says Brig. Gen. Cornum, who was awarded the Purple Heart. “My boss got promoted again.”

A 1993 Government Accountability Office study concluded that the some 40,000 servicewomen who deployed to the Gulf performed well on all fronts. Congress quickly repealed legislation dating to the 1950s that barred women from flying in combat and serving on combat ships.

Yet while the Pentagon also lauded servicewomen’s combat performance, the official expansions of opportunities for military women did not include ground combat. Instead, Clinton Defense Secretary Les Aspin replaced the risk rule in 1994 with the “Direct Ground Combat Definition and Assignment Rule,” still the military’s official policy. Aspin’s rule gave women more options than the risk rule, but it also severely constrains them, excluding them from ground combat that could involve hostile fire and physical contact “well forward on the battlefield.”

His rule also gave the services broad discretion to further restrict women from positions that entail physically demanding tasks, special operations, direct combat, stationing or cohabitating with combat troops and a lack of privacy.

With the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks and a global “war on terror,” America’s definition of combat radically changed. The Pentagon’s policy, however, has not.

An April report by the Congressional Research Service argues that the Defense Department’s embrace of counterinsurgency strategies should prompt officials to rethink more than 14,325 positions. “Recent changes in Army doctrine have in many ways called into question the ground exclusion policy, or at least, the services’ adherence to it,” the report’s author writes.

“In 1994, we didn’t know what was coming,” says Rajiv Srinivasan, who led an Army platoon as a lieutenant in Afghanistan. Now, he says, “There is no front line, no protected circle where we can hide the women.”

ATTACHMENT VS. ASSIGNMENT

The military is about to roll back the part of Aspin’s rule that bars women from officially serving in direct ground combat units below the brigade level — allowing them to be assigned at the narrower battalion level, in specialties in which they are already serving. It will also lift the portion barring women from serving in units or positions that co-locate with direct ground combat units that are closed to them. The Army accounts for the majority of the 14,325 affected positions.

Army Maj. Gen. Gary Patton, the Defense Department’s principal director for personnel policy, says the changes are a response to servicewomen’s performance during the past decade of war. Like many throughout the chain of command, he says the new policy isn’t a change in at least one way: women are already mission-critical.

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Maj. Gen. Gary Patton discusses the DOD Women in Service Review at a Pentagon press conference on Feb. 9.

 

“Women have shown immense courage and have contributed greatly to our mission — we simply could not accomplish our objectives without them,” Patton, who served as a top commander in Iraq and Afghanistan, says in an email.

This line of reasoning also acknowledges that the military has for years tacitly violated the spirit of its own policy, if not the letter. While the 1994 rule bars women from being officially assigned to combat units, they can still be assigned to support positions “attached to” combat units. Thousands of the “new” positions opening to women are just formal assignment, rather than attachment, to units they already serve with, according to Pentagon spokeswoman Eileen Lainez.

Both Patton and Lainez cite as an example the position of Army tank mechanic among those newly opening to women. But Spc. Latoya Lucas served in a comparable role nine years ago.

Under Aspin’s rule, Lucas could not be assigned to an infantry battalion or brigade. She could, however, be attached as a mechanic to an infantry division, as she was to the 101st Airborne a month after the 2003 invasion of Iraq. She was part of an engineering unit tasked with resupply and infrastructure work in Mosul, an Iraqi provincial capital where fighting was heavy.

“DOD’s policy regarding women in combat was due for a revision,” she says, “particularly because so many [Iraq] and [Afghanistan] female veterans have found themselves in combat situations.”

Lucas was one of them. During a supply run, she was blown out of her Humvee when it took a direct hit from a rocket-propelled grenade. She suffered burns, shrapnel wounds, broken bones, hearing loss, paralysis and traumatic brain injury, as well as intestinal damage that required a permanent ostomy — surgery to reattach her intestine to the surface of the skin.

“I will have these ailments for the rest of my life,” Lucas writes in an email. “When I look at my scars, I cannot help but feel resilient. You have to be.”

She received her Purple Heart at her bedside during her five months at Walter Reed. A year later, she was forced to retire, even as she continued what would total two and a half years of rehab to regain her mobility. Now a public speaker, she continues to serve in a different way: Late last year, she was appointed to the VA’s advisory committee on women veterans.

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At the committee’s annual meeting in late March, Lucas sits toward the end of a long table surrounded by glass and a projector screen, her sleeveless white shirt an outlier in a roomful of somber suits. Dark lines of scar tissue snake across the rippled skin of her bare arm. She asks about the transfer of medical records for combat veterans — a particular concern to women seeking treatment for injuries that, officially, they shouldn’t need.

“Did you serve in theater?” asks Michael Cardarelli, the VA’s principal deputy undersecretary for benefits and one of the only men in the room. From the head of the table, he can’t see her scars.

Like Lucas, Staff Sgt. Marti Ribeiro officially should not have been in a position to take fire, but she did. A combat correspondent who spent eight years with the Air Force, Army, Navy and Marines, she deployed to Afghanistan’s Bagram Air Base in 2006, accompanying medical convoys to remote areas without local doctors. The Army deployed such clinics in set locations rather than going door-to-door, so the locals needed significant advance warning of their arrival.

Unsurprisingly, that also made the convoys vulnerable to attack. The first night that they set up on the fringes of the northeast province of Laghman, bullets started flying. When the weapon on top of Ribeiro’s Humvee jammed, the driver got out to give suppressive fire while Ribeiro provided cover. Returning fire under fire earned her a Combat Action Badge.

By the end of her last deployment, the 5-foot-9 blonde also had a nickname, “Combat Barbie,” and was suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder, traced to trauma from combat and from a sexual assault by a fellow member of the military. Yet she faced raised eyebrows when she sought treatment: The first time she walked into a VA clinic, an older male veteran asked, “You lost, darlin’?”

(More on the issue of military sexual assault in the second installment of this series.)

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Marti Ribeiro at an Afghan village in 2006.

 

Given the military’s official policy, Ribeiro says, women veterans face dismissive treatment from the VA’s staff, too. “They’re getting denied filing for PTSD because they’re not allowed in combat,” she says. “The VA’s looking at them going, ‘You’re not allowed in combat.’”

In their February report, Defense Department officials say they have learned much over the last decade “regarding the demands of operating for extended periods at the limits of human capability.” But until they’re satisfied that women won’t hamper units operating at those limits, they say, broader changes to the 1994 rule remain off the table.

FORCE-READINESS AND THE FAST TRACK

Pentagon officials say they plan to develop gender-neutral physical standards and use the coming changes as a step toward more fundamental reconsideration of the 1994 rule. “As a former infantry battalion commander, I can tell you I wish I’d had the opportunity afforded by this change to policy,” says Patton, the personnel policy director. “Commanders want the best talent available to maximize their unit’s capabilities.”

The 14,325 positions, Patton adds, mark the beginning of a process, not the end. Defense officials often hedge, however, when it comes to eliminating gender restrictions entirely, with the caveat, “where feasible while maintaining force readiness.”

Translation: Barring outside pressure, enlisted infantry, special operations units and other elite, especially intense military positions are likely to remain denied to women for the foreseeable future, as is the advancement that comes with them.

That’s not to say women cannot rise through the ranks, as Duckworth, Trowell-Harris, Cornum and others have demonstrated. But while women account for 14.5 percent of active-duty military personnel, they make up just over 7 percent of general officers.

The Defense Department calls these figures “strong,” because far fewer women than men serve for more than 20 years, and it generally takes longer than that to reach a senior rank. (Generals, for example, typically put in 30 years.) Given that, the DOD’s February report concluded, women are not disadvantaged under the current assignment policy.

Yet the Military Leadership Diversity Commission reports that while the percentages of occupations open to women “do not appear inordinately low, exclusion from these occupations has a considerable influence on advancement.” In the Army, where only two-thirds of positions are currently available to women, four in five general officers came from the third of positions that are not.

“You’re keeping women from rising from the ranks,” Duckworth says. “You need to have some real combat under your belt. You want them to have a shot, just like you would want anyone to have a shot.”

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Tammy Duckworth with her Black Hawk in Iraq, 2004.

For her part, Duckworth says she stayed with the military because she “fell in love” with the physical and psychological demands. And given clear physical standards, she argues, there is no reason to keep women out of infantry or special ops. “Let’s not bar a few women who might be capable of doing it,” she says, “same way we wouldn’t bar a man from a desk job.”

“Any general who doesn’t think, any politician who doesn’t think women can handle it” is sorely mistaken, says Srinivasan, the platoon commander. As for space-sharing and privacy, he says, “We’re all adults.”

The “legacy thinking” restricting military women is a kind of “iceberg,” says Cornum, alluding to her work on the “comprehensive soldier fitness” program, which treats psychological well-being like physical well-being. “That’s one of the skills we teach,” she says, “to recognize that you have an iceberg, a deeply held belief that may be getting in the way of you seeing what’s going on around you.”

In any case, she says, future servicewomen have time on their side. “Eventually,” she says, “everybody who believed the world is flat died off.”

‘THE INVISIBLE ONES’

For veterans like Latoya Lucas or Tammy Duckworth, the costs of their service are visibly striking, undeniable. But when women’s wounds are tougher to spot, since they should not officially be facing the rigors of ground combat anyway, the military bureaucracy has often left them unseen or unaddressed. This blind spot forced Ribeiro to take her story public, and it nearly cost Jennifer Crane her life.

Crane, whose first morning of Army training was Sept. 11, 2001, arrived at Bagram, in Afghanistan, in 2003. Bagram was then just a seven-mile circle of wire around three concrete buildings and a mass of tents. Crane principally served as a paralegal for the Judge Advocate General Corps, but she still had to drive mine-pocked roads and patrol for Taliban fighters in dangerous territory.

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Jennifer Crane in Afghanistan in 2003.

“We were in a valley,” she says. “They could literally just stand on the edges of the cliffs and drop bombs on us.”

Within the first two weeks, she saw her first military funeral after a friend who deployed with her dropped dead of a heart attack. By the latter half of 2003, she found it difficult to eat or drink, and became consistently, critically malnourished and dehydrated. To her superiors’ credit, she says, they tried to send her home, but she managed to convince them she’d pull through — until her heart began racing and the base medics were unable to slow it back down. At that point, she was at constant risk of a heart attack herself.

Spc. Crane was forcibly evacuated from Afghanistan. Her official discharge was administrative separation: adjustment disorder. “I couldn’t ‘adjust’ to wartime service,” she says of the Army’s assessment, with a hollow laugh. “A physical condition, not a disability.”

Years later, the Defense Department began recognizing such cases as post-traumatic stress. “If I would’ve known then what I know now,” Crane says, “I might have been able to get actual retirement from the military.”

She was home in time for Christmas, but it wasn’t home anymore. Nightmares kept her from sleeping much, and even while she was awake, she’d have sudden flashbacks, feel like she was back in Afghanistan. Loud noises or lights, from sirens to fireworks and thunderstorms, would leave her hyperventilating or unconscious.

Yet because Crane’s PTSD went undiagnosed, she says, she struggled even to seek help. “I stigmatized myself because I was a woman,” she says. “Other people, they’d been through it, lost limbs, been in firefights and everything else. I really discounted my own experiences. Quite a few years self-medicating, getting rid of the nightmares, the flashbacks. Getting rid of myself.”

In 2004, Crane started using cocaine, which ended her nightmares by keeping her awake — she barely slept for a month. Her boyfriend kicked her out, and her drug use left her unwelcome at her parents’ house, too. She started self-mutilating. After attempting suicide, she was admitted into a VA program, where she was diagnosed with PTSD. By that time, however, she was far gone: After the five-week VA program ended, it was “right back down the hill,” to crack.

She spent two years homeless. “I had decided I was gonna let the drugs kills me,” she says. During that time, she started paying her dealers in sexual favors.

In a desperate moment, she says, she prayed for help, for someone to save her. “And 12 hours later,” she laughs, “I was arrested.”

After her arrest, for possession of crack cocaine, Crane was allowed to enter the drug court program in lieu of serving time. She moved back home. The program, her parents and the one friend who stuck by her saved her life, she says.

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Jason and Jennifer Crane.

That friend, Jason, is now her husband. Their daughter, Hailey, turns 4 on May 17, a few months before Crane is to begin nursing school. She was recently awarded a fellowship to work at the VA.

The military and the VA have come a long way in treating veterans since 2003, Crane says. She remains concerned, however, for the latest waves of returning troops, especially the women. People still tell her she doesn’t “look like a vet.”

“I had high commanding officers question me once, about how I had PTSD if I was JAG Corps,” she says. “I think them allowing women to be in more ‘combat fields’ could dramatically impact the respect women get in the military.”

Military women who do not have combat decorations, high rank or visible war wounds often do not receive enough respect from their peers, Crane says. But the greater problem, she says, remains the skepticism that meets such women when they seek treatment or other help.

“It’s the invisible ones we’re struggling with,” she says. “These veterans could just fall through the crack. And we may never hear from them again.”

‘LET’S NOT WAIT TOO LONG’

Defense Secretary Leon Panetta has directed the services to update him on military gender integration in November. His department’s upcoming changes carry the caveat, however, that the Pentagon respects Congress’ intent to “remain the arbiter of the ground combat exclusion policy.”

Servicewomen have found some advocates in Congress. Duckworth hopes to join them. But as in the Pentagon and the court of public opinion, there are those on Capitol Hill who turn a blind eye to or even dismiss women’s service.

“What else has she done? Female, wounded veteran … ehhh. Now let’s move on,” Rep. Joe Walsh (R-Ill.), the freshman incumbent Duckworth is looking to unseat, said of his opponent in March. “Wearing the uniform should immediately earn everyone’s respect,” he said in a statement after the minor furor his earlier comments caused. “It should not, however, earn everyone’s vote.”

Through a spokesman, House Armed Services Chairman Buck McKeon (R-Calif.) declined to comment.

On the campaign trail, the Pentagon’s February announcement of new openings for women elicited opposition from then-presidential candidate Rick Santorum, once the third-ranking Republican senator and a favorite among social conservatives. “I do have concerns about women in front-line combat,” Santorum said. “I think that could be a very compromising situation.”

Retiring Sen. Olympia Snowe (R-Maine) counsels patience, predicting in an email that “barriers that prevent women from serving in certain roles will continue to fall in the years ahead.” But Rep. Niki Tsongas (D-Mass.), who serves on McKeon’s armed services committee, says women have waited long enough. “Let’s not wait too long to do more,” Tsongas says.

On her first trip to Afghanistan, Tsongas recounts, she had lunch with a female first lieutenant, whose brother had worked on Tsongas’ campaign. Three weeks later, the woman was killed by an improvised explosive device — a testament, Tsongas says, to the combat risks women already face.

“I think the steps they’ve made also acknowledge there’s an inevitability to this,” she says of the Pentagon, citing estimates that women will comprise as much as 25 percent of the military by 2025.

Beyond Capitol Hill, however, Cornum says her decades in the Army taught her that any policy change will come slowly, citing “don’t ask, don’t tell,” the longstanding, now-repealed ban on openly gay service members. Positions like hers started becoming available to women, she says, because the military found it increasingly difficult to enlist enough men.

Retention remains a problem for the armed forces, with multiple deployments sidelining ever-greater numbers of veterans. “We live in a country where the same 500,000 to a million people have been going to war over the past 10 years,” says Srinivasan, the Army platoon leader. “Anyone who is willing to volunteer, more power to them. Who is our nation to judge?”

Ultimately, necessity may force the end of the 1994 rule, though the military’s stated plan is to radically reduce ground combat operations in the coming years. “We cannot exclude an entire force of very capable people who can do those jobs,” says Duckworth, who became a Black Hawk pilot because aviation was the closest she could get to ground combat.

After her shootdown, Duckworth refused medical retirement. Now a lieutenant colonel, she still drills with the National Guard.

“We’re warriors,” she says. “We’re not victims.”

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Connie: I only read my comments this morning from yesterday, but I had to respond to your because I did not see the comment posted from Anonymous, the day before,  (I thought Alycedale was the last) so I had to check it out. I agree with your sentiments. Truly beautiful. I will have to comment more later…I am so late. Got to run.

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Posted by Michelle Moquin on 13th May 2012

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Good morning!

If you’ve been reading here, everyone knows how I feel about women…my love for and support of women…how women continue to inspire me over and over in so many wonderful ways. And of course, being women, mothers are no different. And since I truly believe women will change the world (and are changing the world!), Mothers, of course, are changing the world too.

Mothers Who Will Change the World

Mother’s Day is a day to celebrate our mothers. It’s for brunches, flowers, and time spent with your beloved mom. But for millions of mothers around the world, it’s a day they’ll lose to one of the world’s most preventable causes of death — waterborne disease.

Mother’s Day is another day where in many countries women will be responsible for finding and fetching water for their families. All the water they need for drinking, washing, cooking, cleaning. They’ll walk miles, carry heavy burdens, wait for hours and pay exorbitant prices. The work will be back-breaking and all-consuming. Often the water will be contaminated, even deadly. In these instances, they’ll face an impossible choice — certain death without water or possible death from illness.

Once they are old enough, their daughters will join this effort. They’ll spend countless hours trying to provide this basic life necessity. This includes women’s struggle to access basic sanitation. The global clean water challenge can be summed up in one word: ‘dignity.’

This Mother’s Day, transform the life of another Mother when you honor your mom. Visit Water.org and honor your mom or another beloved woman who has touched your life. This small action will provide health, hope, and opportunity for millions.

“Your love, support, and commitment to making the world a better place has shaped the person I am and the women my girls will become.” Join Matt Damon and honor your mother in the Water.org Mother’s Day Campaign.

*S*U*P*P*O*R*T*M*O*T*H*E*R*S*

Readers: I am off to celebrate with my mother and give her extra support and love, as her mother – my grandmother, at 94 years old, just passed away two weeks ago. We are blessed that she has finally moved on, but we miss her dearly.

I HOPE every mother reading here and out there have an amazing Mother’s Day. And if there is any mother who is alone with no one to share in the celebration, know that me and my readers are thinking of you and sending gratitude and love to all of the mothers out there.

Happy Mother’s Day!

I love you mom! 

Make everyday Mother’s Day.

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