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Posted by Michelle Moquin on 30th August 2014

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I am so tired of women being blamed for being sexually assaulted by men, when women are the victims. I am also tired of men making it a woman’s responsibility to make sure that what she is wearing isn’t too sexy, revealing, suggestive…you finish the sentence, to help them control their thoughts. Wha’at?? Why is it men want to control everything else in this world, but they somehow don’t want to control their own thoughts, or can’t, when it comes to seeing a woman dressed in a particular way?

Well…girls are getting tired of it too and deciding to fight back. Here’s the write from Think Progress.

Mormon Student Fights Back Against BYU’s ‘Slut Shaming’ Stance On Women’s Sexuality

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Keli Byers, a sophomore at Brigham Young University, is fed up with the Mormon church’s approach to women’s sexuality. And she’s fighting back in a big way: By publishing her complaints in Cosmopolitan, a magazine that’s become infamous for its coverage of sex.

Students who attend BYU — which describes itself as seeking to provide an education “in an atmosphere consistent with the ideals and principles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints” — have to adhere to a strict student conduct code that requires them to “live a chaste and virtuous life.” The school bans students from engaging in sexual activity, as well as requires women to adhere to a strict dress code. The young adults who break those agreements could face expulsion from the institution.

But not everyone is happy about those policies on campus. “The Church doesn’t see women as equal to men and how BYU is slut-shaming,” Byers’ piece explains. “The school’s honor code forces women to dress modestly — no skirts above the knee — supposedly to help men control their thoughts.”

According to Byers, the emphasis on sexual purity is particularly problematic within the larger context of the church’s approach to chastity. Byers describes growing up learning that women who become sexually active are dirty and used, like a chewed up piece of gum. Then, when she was sexually assaulted as a teenager, she was essentially blamed for the incident and banned from church for a month. “I was punished because a man had touched me,” Byers recounts.

Once Byers got to BYU, she joined an unaffiliated student group calledYoung Mormon Feminists, which ultimately helped her process some of her feelings about her sexuality and her relationship to the church. She says “the group helped me reclaim my sexuality and realize my sexual assault wasn’t my fault.”

Byers’ comments echo similar statements from another Mormon woman, Elizabeth Smart, who became a household name after she was kidnapped from her Salt Lake City home and held in captivity for nine months. Smart made national headlines last year when she said that growing up with a focus on abstinence made her feel like being sexually assaulted was her fault. She recounted a similar story about being told that girls who aren’t virgins are like chewed gum, and noted that she “felt so dirty and so filthy” after she was raped. Smart has continued to speak out about how our society shames victims of sexual assault.

Although Byers and Smart were both raised within the Mormon church, however, their experiences aren’t necessarily unique to the young woman who are part of that faith community. Other conservative Christian denominations have similar approaches to sexuality and chastity, and it’s very common for young girls to take “purity pledges” to commit to remaining abstinent until marriage. These messages are also reinforced in many of our public schools. Across the country, abstinence-only education courses teach kids thatsex makes them dirty.

Those lessons are imparted to both boys and girls, but the emphasis on purity ends up having bigger consequences for women, who are expected to bear most of the burden for avoiding tempting men. Byers is among several young women who have been starting to push back against these societal attitudes. Across the United States and Canada, students are demanding an end to “slut shaming” dress codesand abstinence classes that police women’s bodies to prevent them from distracting their male peers.

These types of clashes have particularly coming to a head within Mormonism lately. Feminists have been fighting to expand women’s role in the church, which doesn’t currently allow women to be ordained or take on leadership roles that aren’t primarily “supportive” to men’s work. As part of those efforts, some women are pushing back against the church’s traditional dress codes and gender roles by wearing pants to religious services.

“Talking about this could get me in trouble, but I want to start a discussion about changing an honor code that hurts women,” Byers concludes. “I’d rather be judged and scrutinized than silenced and shamed.”

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To think that some people were comfortable to vote for a creep with this cult as his religion for POTUS. They claimed to be devout christians, yet to defeat a black man they got in bed with a religion that says the man gets a whole planet of women to impregnate after death. That certainly beats a lousy 75 virgins by any count.

Big kudos and courage to Byers and Smart. Let’s HOPE they will continue to get their message heard and heeded by young girls around the country.

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James: I couldn’t agree with you more. We have young girls like Mo’ne taking on the boys and proving that she can not only hang with the best, but be the best. Good, clean, fun, and a great example of teamwork, and camaraderie.

Then swing over to the other side where you have a young girl learning how to fire an automatic weapon for God knows what reason because I certainly don’t have one. When I heard this story, I was speechless. So many questions flew through my mind. The first being, “What the hell were parents thinking when they put an Uzi in a child’s hands?” And then…”Who the hell thinks it is a good idea to teach a 9-year old to shoot an Uzi?” I am baffled, and beyond words. All I can say is this is absolutely sickening.

We need more young girls like Mo’ne Davis to be an inspiration to other young girls. She’s an inspiration to me. It is stories like hers that keeps me pushing for the women and girls on this planet to take their equality and get ahead and prosper. It is girls like Mo’ne that give me HOPE, because believe me, as much as I try to stay neutral and not let my emotions get the best of me, they sometimes do.

Readers: We are living in a world that is so polarized right now with both ends of the extremes being seen. Currently we have women wanting to be seen for more than their bodies…or at least for who they really are without being photo-shopped to perfection (That’s a nod to you, Celia – thanks for posting your comment). We have women shouting no to inequality, female injustices and stereotypes, and to sexual objectification in the media.

And then you take one look at the women in the music industry who couldn’t be more undressed and provocative, sending the message that their talent alone isn’t enough and they have to shed almost everything, baring almost all, to make it big. Some talent isn’t enough, so to compete they do what ever they can to get ahead, and make the big money. Unfortunately, it pushes those that do have talent to do the same…and there we have this perpetuating throughout the industry in a never ending cycle. Have you seen the music video “Anaconda?“! I think this says it all.

And now we have the reality show “Dating Naked.” Really. (Thanks Henry for posting.) I caught a clip of this awhile ago and I just couldn’t believe the BS that spewed to justify dating naked. Do you think a woman came up with this idea? Pretty soon porn will be a reality show, and no doubt some women will be lined up to be on that show.  Women are just buying into the drift that men perpetuate.

If we believe that men hold sacred and value, what isn’t just given openly and easily to others (like Steve Harvey’s book), then women are doing it all wrong by showing it all and giving it all up. Were buying into the drift that we need to do this to get ahead or to get a man. Harvey says it all – Men will do and say what they need to, to get laid, but if you do so before the vetted 90 days, you won’t be around after that – he’ll be onto the next. And coming from a man, I believe he’s right.

You may judge me for feeling this way about women in the media. You may say that they have very right do what they do and flaunt what they wish. And they do. But I respect my body. What I have to offer is sacred between myself and those I chose to share it with, and not for everyone and anyone to see and enjoy. To me there is beauty in the mystery and excitement of the unknown. If we just let the entire world see all of our beauty, what is left to the imagination and the anticipation of that special person we intend to share it with? If we don’t value ourselves, why would we expect men to?

I HOPE for more women to realize that we’re sending out mixed signals with our polarizing actions. I look forward to seeing women in the media take back their bodies and claim them as sacred. To realize their beauty and worth and present them to the world as such.

When women stop competing with each other and learn to support each other, then we will see real change for women.

I HOPE everyone is enjoying the 3-day holiday!

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Once Again…The One and Only Mo’ne :)

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 28th August 2014


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Lisa, and your daughter Debbie, Vivian,  all the women who wanted to be Mo’ne Davis growing up, and all the little girls, who because of Mo’ne, can now have an inspiration…a role model, to follow, I just couldn’t help but give Mo’ne Davis another day.

Here’s the write from The Bleacher Report:

Female Little League World Series Star Mo’ne Davis Proud to Pave the Way

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WILLIAMSPORT, Pa. — On the eve of Philadelphia’s Taney Dragons’ opening game at the 2014 Little League World Series, 13-year-old Mo’ne Davis sat in a quiet wooden dugout on one of the back fields following her team’s latest practice.

It’s amazing Taney is even here to begin with, in its first World Series in only its second year of existence since chartering in 2012.

We talk about the constant onslaught from the media. “For people that want to take pictures and stuff,” Davis, a South Philly native, explains, “I always say ‘no’ most of the time ’cause I get tired of it … ’cause I’m probably just tired at the end of the day.”

At the end of this day, she’s just finished long-tossing and taking ground balls for nearly two hours. Cameras are getting packed up into vans. Elbows have stopped leaning on the yellow padding lining the fences.

Most kids her age might struggle with the exposure, but Davis sees the positives.

“I was on Sports Science earlier,” she snaps back. “It was pretty cool.”

I ask if they came to Williamsport to talk with her. “I didn’t know I was going to be on. I was playing Ping-Pong and Zion [Spearman, her teammate, sitting in the dugout with us] spotted it. It said: ‘Sports Science with Mo’Ne Davis’ … even though they spelled my name wrong” (the ‘N’ is not capitalized).

Visiting the international stage of Little League baseball and walking past every other team that has made it this far, you’d think it was required that all the players wear their new gear every step of the way. Each regional team is a like a mini marching band in a different bright color. Instead of hearing music and seeing instruments, you hear plastic cleats on concrete and see two aluminum bats in each bag.

But let’s be real: Everybody looks the same.

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Mo’ne tosses signed baseballs to fans during the 2014 LLWS Parade.

Yet something about Mo’ne Davis stands out.

As much as the world wants to know her all of a sudden, wants to figure her out and tell her who she is, wants to remind her of all that she means—she knows herself better.

Even if Davis changes the Little League World Series forever, it doesn’t stand a chance at changing her.

And it’s so much more than her gender, her appearance and her clothing, which included a worn-in red Chase Utley Phillies shirt and Kevin Durant basketball shorts.

In talking to her, you find that she’s both magnetic and intimidating. But the beginning of her young baseball career was a bit less smooth.

“I started playing when I was seven,” Davis explains. “I knew a couple people on the team because of my cousin, but I didn’t talk to most of the teammates ’cause I didn’t know them.”

In Little League, kids ages four to six play in the T-ball division, so Davis missed the chance to hit a static baseball. She was also seven, without close friends, on an all-boys team.

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So forget inquiring about the first game she must’ve realized she was as good as, if not better than, most of the boys. How about hitting a moving fastball?

“I don’t remember [a first game] actually,” she admits, eyes widening, smirk forming. “But I remember my first baseball practice was with a pitching machine.

“I struck out, like, every time except for my last at-bat. I hit it off the end of the bat … it was foul and it rolled fair. It was my very first hit. It didn’t really sting. It was one of those off the very end. That’s how it was.”

How it is now: Davis grips a ball and blows her competition away. In the regional championship, she threw a complete-game shutout to help clinch her team the final spot in the field of 16. She struck out six, walked three and allowed just three hits.

She’s the celebrity of the Little League complex. She’s the center of the sports world this week.

But Davis isn’t the first girl to come this far—she’s actually the 18th—and she isn’t the only one competing in Williamsport in 2014. She’s rooming with Canada’s Emma March.

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Canada’s Emma March.

They don’t sit up late at night discussing their role in reconstructing gender lines in America. Do they share a little advice for each other?

That’s different: “Kind of. Sometimes.”

But for anyone who’s ever played baseball, you know it’s really about the game, the quirkiness and, of course, the competition.

“She tells me about how her teammates act, and I tell her how crazy we are,” Davis says. “But I don’t tell her too much, like, too much about baseball, how our team plays … I don’t really do that.”

Though Davis appears to be one of the most dominant players in Little League—and perhaps will prove to be one of the most impressive females to ever play—it wasn’t like that every step of the way.

“Well, my very first year I wasn’t the best, but I kind of got better. The next year, that’s when I was really starting to get better.”

Once that learning curve took hold, there had to have been only a few select gut reactions from an opposing team: awe or anger. And don’t forget assumption.

“Teams actually thought I was a boy. They didn’t know I was girl till, like, almost a year later. It was just weird.”

And of course, once her gender was known, there must be something else giving her a competitive advantage.

“Some teams thought I was cheating because my hair was long. They said I had more power when I was pitching, so I had to, like, hold it up in a ponytail.”

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“It was a lot of rumors going around. They tried to get me not to play,” Davis says, now cracking a smile and a shrug. “But we just kept playing.”

She’s also quick to give credit where it’s due. She remembers a longtime South Philly umpire—and ally—and how he routinely came to her and her team’s side, having called many of their games.

“We knew the umpire—Mike … I don’t know his last name—he knew us very well. He’d say, ‘No, they’re not cheating. She’s a girl … she’s just as good as every one of the guys on your team.’”

Davis wasn’t just playing against guys; she was playing against older ones. ”We actually played a year up so it was more different. It made us better. We came this far, so…”

And in talking to her, it’s that “we” that’s so central to this 13-year-old.

So how’s all this attention on the collective “we”? She explains: “We kind of take turns with people being interviewed. Some [teammates] don’t want to do it, but they still kind of do it.”

By “do it,” she doesn’t mean solely talking to reporters. “Not just the interviews, but most stuff … being together for so long. It’s been really annoying. ‘Cause teams just break up [sometimes]. But we’re still together on the field.

“It seems like we don’t fight at all.”

Except—I remind her—for that one fly ball. The one toward the end of their practice, misplayed out in center field, giving way to a chorus of strained voices that it should have been caught—especially with Game 1 the next day.

“Yeah…that fly ball,” she says with a sharp look.

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I ask Davis if she’d ever consider opting to play with girls in spite of the, at times, suffocating attention.

“No. I already play basketball and soccer with girls for school. I don’t think I’m ever going to go to softball. I hate softball. I even tried it in sixth grade, so I can say, I hate softball.”

Basketball, however, is what she really loves.

So we started talking about another female making history among the men: the San Antonio Spurs’ Becky Hammon, the first full-time female assistant coach in the NBA.

Says Davis of Hammon’s story and success: ”That’s cool,” in a matter-of-fact manner. A subtle reminder that “matter of fact” is perhaps how we should look at these stories. “They might win another championship … I’m rooting for the Warriors.”

I ask her if we’ll see a female head coach in the NBA in the next 10 years. “Maybe. Hopefully. Yeah, I could see that … maybe even the next five years.”

We discuss how Dallas Mavericks owner Mark Cuban said he’d draft former Baylor star Brittney Griner if she were the best available. Media members like ESPNW’s Kate Fagan had shot it down with narrow headlines like, “No woman, not even Griner, could play in NBA.”

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Brittney Griner (right) of the WNBA’s Phoenix Mercury.

Says Davis of that idea: “I think in a couple years, that will change. Hopefully because of this. Hopefully it changes.

“If it doesn’t, I will change it for myself.”

So when all’s said and done—in spite of the endless focus on her and Taney, and on the female-among-the-boys storylines—does she still embrace the power of what she’s capable of doing on this stage?

“I guess it’s my pride to pave the way. Hopefully we [Davis and March] will pave the way for more girls to come.”

Before she begins paving the way in Game 1 on Friday, one last thing Mo’ne just wouldn’t want you to screw up—after you make that “N” lowercase, include the apostrophe, and appreciate her athleticism rather than the fact she’s in a boys league. Beyonce’s “Run the World (Girls),” as has become a myth of sorts, is not her go-to.

“No,” she says. ”That’s actually not my walkout music.”

“My walkout song is ‘Girl on Fire’ by Alicia Keys. His [Zion's] mom says I look like Beyonce. But I really don’t, so I don’t know where that came from.

“It’s just that song.”

Want proof that Davis is on fire? She can’t go more than 10 yards without being stopped—more apt: stopping for—anyone and everyone. Their jaws slack, their eyes are big, their hands are out, they’re tearing furiously through scorebook pages to find that one space for that one signature from that one girl.

People don’t just want to see her; they want to be around her. You get that sense from the types of people who approach her: young kids, big kids, adults, boys, girls, black, white, American, Japanese, Caribbean.

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She is going to make a statement and have an impact in whatever she pursues. If it’s not through Little League, she’ll be a trailblazer in an older, larger baseball league. If not baseball, it’ll be basketball. And if not sports, it’ll be with her personality, her brain and her voice.

But first thing’s first: those sports. Where does Mo’ne Davis see herself in five to six years? In 10 years?

She thinks for a moment: “Probably be the point guard for UConn wearing No. 11, starting point guard.

“Then hopefully I’ll be in the WNBA.”

 UPDATE: Mo’ne Davis’ amazing story kept growing on Friday afternoon, as she pitched a complete game shutout to help defeat a team from Tennessee 4-0. Her team next plays Sunday, Aug. 17, against the winner of Friday night’s Texas vs. Rhode Island matchup.

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Wonderful Women Of The World

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 26th July 2014


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Gotta love this girl. This has been out for awhile. I haven’t seen it (until now), maybe you haven’t either.

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Posted by Michelle Moquin on 14th June 2014

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Another Vogue Magazine discovery…

Another Wonderful Woman Of The World

The Fashion Industry Teams Up with Born Free in the Fight Against AIDS

Born Free fight against AIDS

In the global fight against AIDS, South Africa is making extraordinary strides in reducing mother-to-child transmission. Now a philanthropic initiative called Born Free is teaming up with the fashion industry to lend a hand.

Los Angeles has its sprawl, Paris its lights, Beijing its smog. Cape Town, especially in the summer, is windy. On a perfectly beautiful, blue-sky day—one like today, as it happens—a wind can kick up out of nowhere and blow so strongly and constantly that you have to all but give up on trying to talk to the person right next to you. This happens with such regularity during the week I spend here in late February, the height of the South African summer, that I grow accustomed to the small army that emerges from my colonial-era hotel to tie down all of the lawn furniture lest it end up in the pool. These persistent winds are called “the Cape Doctor” because, for so many years, they were thought to be powerful enough to blow away all the pestilence.

If only it were that simple.

On this particular hot, windy afternoon, I find myself riding in the passenger seat of a black Toyota belonging to Dr. Michael Phillips. We are driving out of Cape Town through the eastern suburbs of Kraaifontein, on our way to the Bloekombos community, a former shantytown of poverty-stricken squatters—an “informal settlement,” in the technocratic lingo. Since the late nineties, the South African government has put a lot of effort and money into pulling this place onto the grid, building housing, schools, and one crucial clinic.

Phillips, a genial, soft-spoken 41-year-old black South African, grew up on the edges of the gang life that dominated his northern Cape Town suburb, went to medical school, and found work in an HIV clinic. Five years ago, he became a district manager for Kheth’Impilo, an ambitious public-health NGO that supports more than 300 facilities in the poorest—and hardest hit by HIV—districts in South Africa. As the landscape shifts to arid empty lots followed by mile after mile of shantytowns, Phillips recalls for me how South Africa became virtually synonymous with the AIDS crisis in the developing world. “South Africans endured a lot of bureaucracy around the availability of antiretroviral treatment with the previous ministers of health,” he tells me, referring to the administration of Thabo Mbeki, one of current president Jacob Zuma’s predecessors and an AIDS denier whose health policies, according to a 2008 Harvard study, led directly to the deaths of hundreds of thousands of people. But things have turned around dramatically since President Zuma was elected, partly because he had the sense to install an actual doctor as the minister of health. “Now,” says Phillips, “we have one of the biggest antiretroviral programs in the world, if not the biggest.”

See Victoria Beckham’s South Africa photo diary with Born Free.

Spending time with people like Phillips, you can’t help feeling the newfound sense of hope and optimism in South Africa when it comes to HIV/AIDS. I quickly learn that nowhere is this more evident than in the excitement around the issue of ending mother-to-child transmission. It’s been only a couple of years that a pregnant woman with HIV could take one pill—a combination therapy of three antiretroviral medications—every day of her pregnancy and practically ensure that her baby would be born free of the virus. “It’s one of the greatest inroads we have made in fighting this,” Phillips says. “Because you’re talking of a new generation. Parents are positive or mother is positive, but the child is born negative. A brand-new start.”

We pull into the Bloekombos community just after 2:00 p.m., as hundreds of kids in maroon school uniforms are just beginning to fan out across the windswept, rubble-strewn roads toward their homes, many of which are single-parent households. We pass one little girl with a backpack slung over her shoulder, walking very slowly: She is intently studying a piece of sheet music, singing to herself. Though there is now formal government housing in Bloekombos, with piped-in water and flushable toilets, a good many of the 30,000 residents still live in tin shacks, and one-third of them are unemployed. The prevalence of HIV hovers around 11 percent.

Today Phillips wants me to see the Bloekombos Clinic, which treats 300 people a day on average. Inside, he and a pharmacist named Lizette Monteith proudly show me around the facility: It is plain, well organized, and spotlessly clean. Cartoon posters on the wall—say “no” to teenage pregnancy and diarrhea (runny tummy) can kill babies and young children—lend it the air of a grade school, but one with lessons that have life-and-death consequences.

We walk into a lab where Monteith takes out a white plastic bottle with an orange-and-black label with the word tribuss on it and sets it down in the middle of a big metal table. It’s almost impossible to believe that this bottle of pills is the main cause of so much momentum in bringing the rate of mother-to-child transmission of HIV down to zero in Africa. First developed in the late eighties, antiretrovirals didn’t become truly effective until used in combination in the mid-nineties. But even then the regimen was brutal, often requiring up to 20 pills a day with debilitating side effects. “Now, when an infected mother comes in,” says Monteith, “you just have to give her one bottle of pills, not this huge bag filled with drugs.”

After we leave the clinic, Phillips takes me to the home of Barbara Matisane, a 30-year-old with HIV and a mother of two—a three-month old and a nine-year-old—both born negative thanks to Matisane’s determination to continue her treatment throughout her pregnancies and breast-feeding so that she did not pass the disease along to her children. Phillips calls her “the special one,” as she is now part of the Kheth’Impilo network, a social-auxiliary worker who helps other women to get tested, join support groups, and take their medication.

Take a look at the Born Free Collection.

Matisane represents a growing cadre of young mothers who, by taking charge of their children’s fates and becoming mentors to other afflicted young women, have turned a potential death sentence into a cause for hope. The influence of these “mentor mothers,” who may not have more than a second- or third-grade education, is confirmed when I speak with Robin Smalley, a former Hollywood producer who cofounded mothers2mothers in Cape Town in 2001, a grassroots organization that has reached more than 1.2 million people through programs in nine countries throughout sub-Saharan Africa. “These mentor mothers have really become a professionalized tier to support the rest of the medical team,” says Smalley. “And then, when they go back into their communities, they are fighting stigma in the townships, just by their example.”

Though Matisane’s house has running water and electricity, it is clearly not part of the so-called formal government-housing initiative that has transformed this “settlement” into a “community.” Indeed, her house is pieced together out of particleboard and corrugated aluminum, with a tangle of wires crisscrossing her ceiling and newspapers stuffed in the cracks between the roof and the walls. Matisane is pie-faced and ebullient in her red scoopneck T-shirt, blue jeans, and red tasseled loafers. Though the predominant language in this community is Xhosa, Matisane speaks pretty decent English, sometimes to unintended comic effect.

She was diagnosed HIV positive in 1998, when she was fourteen. “I was still young, and then HIV was like a bad disease. Let me put it that way: It was a baaad disease. I stole my medical file, I put it in my bed, because I didn’t know how to tell my parents.” Eventually she told them, insisting that the doctor said they must all go together to the clinic as a family. “I was not happy. Maybe if I cook, my mother would take the food and throw it out.” Before long, she joined a treatment action group. “I asked my family also to join the group and then they see that, OK, we can live with a positive person in the house.”

Suddenly, Matisane’s sister appears with three-month-old Neo in her arms—a plump, gorgeous baby boy with big brown eyes. I ask Matisane if it’s possible for her to describe the feeling of finding out that Neo was born without HIV, and she jumps out of her chair. “AAAAH! Yes! It’s so happy! I don’t know what! I feel like screaming!” She talks about the stress and fear of sitting in a corner waiting for the results. “The nurse ask me, ‘Why are you sitting there?’ I said, ‘I’m scared.’ And she said to me, ‘Come.’ When I come in, she said, ‘Wow, your child is negative. All because of you.’ I said, ‘He is?’ I’m proud of myself because I don’t forget to take my treatment every day, every night. I wish some of the other mothers could be as brave as I am. They can take that treatment every day, every time. And they must go to the antenatal clinic as soon as possible when they realize that they are pregnant.” She goes on, “While I’m sitting here, I’m on maternity leave, but my phone keeps on ringing day and night, day and night because of my patients. The thing is, I have the passion; the work that I do is always here in my heart. I’m proud of myself. I love what I am doing. I’m not doing it for me, I’m doing it for my children and my community.”

As Dr. Ashraf Grimwood, the CEO of Kheth’Impilo, later tells me, “Barbara’s journey is an example of moving from patient to health-care provider, from victim to hero.”

One surprisingly unwindy afternoon outside Cape Town, I have lunch with Dr. Linda-Gail Bekker, deputy director of the Desmond Tutu HIV Centre, and Erica Barks-Ruggles, consul general for the United States in Cape Town. We meet in Woodstock, a recently gentrified suburb on the lower slopes of Devil’s Peak that seems to be trying to live up to its name, with locavore cafés where modern-day hippies (and hipsters) hang out.

An intense, wiry platinum blonde with a pixie haircut, Bekker, who grew up in Zimbabwe, is one of the foremost experts on HIV in South Africa. She has been agitating for access to antiretroviral treatment and destigmatization since the late nineties. “Initially, with our patients, there was an overwhelming sense of ‘Well, that’s it: Your sexual lives are over, as is the likelihood of your having a child,’ ” she says. “And what changed—this was around 2004—is that there was a soap opera on our national television, and one of the characters had the virus and got pregnant. Suddenly it kind of hit us between the eyes that women had a right to be pregnant, and that it was all about living a normal life with this disease. For the six million South Africans who have it, let’s make it a normal, destigmatized condition, like any other. We don’t stop diabetics from getting pregnant. We don’t stop heart cases. So it needed that paradigm shift.”

I tell her about going to another clinic earlier that day in Hout Bay and meeting a woman with HIV named Thabisa, who has given birth to not one but six HIV-negative children. “And that is why there is so much hope: For the first time, we actually have things we can do that we know will work,” says Bekker. “And the big issue now is, How do you apply them? How do you scale it up to the degree that you actually can talk about an AIDS-free generation?”

Since 2003, countries coping with an AIDS crisis have been able to rely on PEPFAR—the U.S. President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief. Launched under President George W. Bush, it has since given $52 billion dollars to the cause. South Africa, which was long considered ground zero for the epidemic, was one of its first beneficiaries. As of 2013, 2.5 million people in South Africa were on antiretroviral treatment—the most in any single country on Earth.

As Barks-Ruggles tells me, “This is one of those mystical, magical issues where we continue to have bipartisan support in Washington, not because people are unrealistic but because people are very brass-tacks realistic about it.” So far, in South Africa alone, the chance of mother-child transmission of the virus has gone from 30 percent to less than 3 percent. “That’s a huge number of lives,” she says.

But the next phase for PEPFAR has begun: handing off the baton. “We use the term country ownership,” says Deborah von Zinkernagel, the acting U.S. global AIDS coordinator who runs PEPFAR. “Because in every country, we’re there to help, but the local governments are increasingly running the show, which is how it should be.” As the South African government has stepped up its involvement, for instance, it has built 3,000 new clinics.

Though fears about cuts to PEPFAR this year went unfounded (its funding has remained essentially flat for the past five years), this kind of commitment and financial aid from the U.S. won’t last forever, which is why it is more important than ever to find new ways to give African governments the support they need. One way to do that, of course, is to marshal resources from the private sector. (As Michel Sidibé, the executive director of UNAIDS, said to me, “Eighteen pills a day is now one pill a day—that’s the private sector.”)

Enter the American philanthropist John Megrue, the chairman of the private-equity firm Apax Partners U.S. Megrue has a long history of trying to solve the problems of extreme poverty and related issues in Africa. Once the Global Plan to eliminate mother-to-child transmission of HIV by December 31, 2015 was announced by UNAIDS, Megrue was approached by Eric Goosby, then the U.S. global AIDS coordinator; Sidibé; and Ray Chambers, a longtime philanthropist and special envoy to the United Nations, to be the private-sector voice at the table as the group came together to try and figure out, once and for all, how to reach this goal. Megrue founded Born Free, a foundation dedicated to the single task of pushing the not-inconsiderable success with reducing mother-to-child transmission in Africa over the finish line. One of the ways Born Free is doing that, says its president, Anna Squires Levine, is by “amplifying the effects of all the other people working on this topic already”—people like Robin Smalley at mothers2mothers and Michael Phillips of Kheth’Impilo. The trick now is to capture the American imagination. “We know there are huge movements in the U.S. that catch fire and make real change, and this is not one of them,” observes Levine. “If it could be, it would be huge.”

To that end, Born Free joined forces with Vogue to ask 23 designers who are mothers, including Diane von Furstenberg, Tory Burch, Sarah Burton, Donna Karan, Jenna Lyons, Donatella Versace, Carolina Herrera, Vera Wang, Liya Kebede, and Victoria Beckham, to create a Born Free Collection of women’s and children’s clothing and accessories based on the work of the Kenyan artist Wangechi Mutu, to be sold on Shopbop.com, an Amazon Fashion site. The limited-edition collection, which ranges from Alexander McQueen baby blankets to matching mother-and-child pleated skirts by Prada, will go on sale on April 23, with all of the proceeds going toward helping Born Free. (The MAC AIDS Fund recently announced it would match dollar for dollar all proceeds up to $500,000.) “The question was, How do you get the message out?” Megrue says. “You either go to Hollywood, sports, or the fashion industry, because all three have these huge megaphones.” He chose the fashion industry largely because of its history of facing down its own HIV/AIDS crisis in New York in the early nineties by raising millions and changing minds.

Watch the Born Free series here. 

Until about a year ago, Megrue had been entirely focused on policy issues and implementation—and not thinking much about public awareness, particularly in America, where coverage of the success of mother-to-child transmission rates in Africa has been all but nil. As Smalley puts it, “I find my most educated, brilliant friends don’t know about it. Because we don’t see babies born with HIV in the U.S. very often anymore, we sort of assume it’s not happening anywhere. It makes headlines, it’s so rare.”

It is another incredibly windy afternoon, and Victoria Beckham, who is in talks to become an ambassador for UNAIDS, is standing in a parking lot in Hout Bay in front of the Desmond Tutu HIV Foundation’s mobile HIV clinic (also known as a Tutu Tester), holding a little girl in an apricot dress. Annie Leibovitz is behind the camera, here to capture the Born Free initiative on the ground. Behind her there are three men hanging on with all their might to the lighting equipment, lest the wind rip it from their hands and launch it into the sky.

Hout Bay is a coastal suburb, about ten miles west of the center of the city. It is about as beautiful a place as I have ever seen. In one direction there is the harbor and the fishing village that surrounds it. Beyond that there are neighborhoods with names like Hillcrest and Beach Estate. This is a surfer’s paradise: The annual Red Bull Big Wave Africa competition is held here. But up the hill behind us, there is the Imizamo Yethu (in Xhosa, literally “our struggle”) community, which is also known as Mandela Park. It is a shantytown that climbs up the steep slope right behind where Beckham, Leibovitz, and her crew are trying their best to get the right shot. Imizamo Yethu is home to 15,000 people, yet has an extremely limited sewage system. Many of the residents use the Hout Bay Main Road Clinic, supported by the TB/HIV Care Association, when they need medical attention—which, as you can imagine, is frequently.

As I did a few days earlier, Beckham will tour a facility and meet the doctors and mentors and nurses—all women—who are, among other things, striving to keep the unborn from contracting the virus. She has been supporting various charities for years now, but she had long wanted to do something more.

“It’s taken a long time to find a charity that I really feel a connection with,” Beckham will tell me later, “and it’s kind of changed how I feel about everything, really. I have met a lot of HIV-positive women who told me their stories. My eyes were opened. I had no idea that this pill existed, and because of these pills, we are now at a statistic of 97 percent of babies born free of HIV. The statistics are nothing short of mind-boggling. Obviously I am a woman and I am a mother, and this touched me. I really feel like I can do something to make a difference.”

The Ethiopian model Liya Kebede, who already has a foundation dedicated to maternal health in her native country, “was surprised by how little I knew about this maternal-transmission issue, and how within reach it is.” All of the designers seem genuinely invested in the cause. “This kind of thing I am happily roped into,” says Stella McCartney, whose contributions include onesies, T-shirts, and dresses for children. “It’s a great way to balance fashion with something incredibly vital. I love the idea of pulling out working mothers in the industry and giving us something important to tackle for a change. I mean, you know, I love shoes, but there are more important things in life, like survival, and creating the next generation of healthy humans on this planet. That’s what’s so startling about this particular cause, seeing that kids, just because of where they’re born, are not given the same set of chances.”

When I ask her about what she designed, she says, “They’re approachable pieces. I already do childrenswear, so it seemed like a good idea to bring that into this project because it’s about seeing the connection between mother and child.” Of Mutu’s artwork she says, “It’s quite ornate; there’s a lot of emotion and storytelling within it. As someone who normally creates her own prints, I found it was sort of a new way of approaching design.”

Mutu, who lives in Brooklyn and just had a big show at the Brooklyn Museum, was born and raised in Nairobi, went to high school in the U.K., and then to art school in New York, where she has now lived and worked for more than 20 years. A collage artist, she cuts up magazines and blends them with ink and paint. Intriguingly enough, she mostly uses images from fashion magazines. (She chose two pieces for the designers to work with: one from 2003, from herAlien series, and the other “a kind of a sweet figure seeded with big red ponytails.”) “It’s funny how it comes all the way around,” she says of the fact that her work, based on things torn out of fashion magazines, will now be made into fashion that will be featured in fashion magazines. “But I sort of believe that’s how it all works anyway. Everything is connected. So there’s an interesting relationship between how this project is transforming people’s lives and bodies, and allowing mothers to raise healthy kids. It’s just phenomenal. It’s a miracle project. It’s the kind of thing I’ve dreamed could be done—a project where art and fashion are used to empower, to educate, to give someone who might not be as fortunate as those who are making art or fashion an opportunity to enjoy their lives, and even enjoy their clothing, perhaps. Thatis what is shockingly amazing: It’s pointing out what is possible.”

One Saturday night in Cape Town, I meet John Megrue and the CEO of Born Free, Jennifer McCrea, a senior research fellow at the Hauser Institute for Civil Society at Harvard University, at a dinner for the initiative for about 40 people at a Vegas-like resort on the waterfront called One&Only. As I watch the guests arrive, including UNAIDS’s Michel Sidibé and Caroline Rupert, the daughter of a South African business dynasty that owns Cartier, among other things, it strikes me that country ownership of the fight against AIDS can’t happen without the rich and powerful of Africa really getting behind the cause, people like Megrue’s South African cohost tonight. A woman named Dr. Precious Moloi-Motsepe,  she is the kind of person who could only exist in Africa: a doctor by training who is married to one of South Africa’s first black billionaires and also runs Fashion Week in Cape Town. She travels with her stylist in tow, an exceptionally pale white man wrapped in layers of fabric who towers above everyone. Wearing a slinky black Azzedine Alaïa dress, she reminds me of some otherworldly combination of Naomi Campbell and Diahann Carroll, with all the charm, glamour, and imperiousness that that suggests.

It turns out that Rupert works closely on film projects with her good friend Kweku Mandela, whom I also meet at the reception. He is Nelson Mandela’s 29-year-old grandson, who lives in Johannesburg but spends a lot of time in Los Angeles, where he has produced and directed both feature films and documentaries, including Mandela, about his grandfather, and The Power of Words, a project made for the Tribeca Film Institute last year. Wearing jeans, a gray T-shirt, and a dark denim jacket, Mandela seems to have picked up the L.A. custom of dressing down for semiformal events. When I ask how he got into show business, he tells me a story about watching Dick Tracy, starring Warren Beatty and Madonna, with his grandfather when he was a kid. When the credits rolled, he asked, “What are those?” and his grandfather said, “Jobs.”

The next morning, an op-ed piece runs in the Sunday Times under the headline born-frees set to make their mark. It is not about HIV/AIDS but about the 600,000 or so eighteen- and nineteen-year-olds—new voters—who were born right after apartheid ended and are now old enough to cast a ballot in the presidential election this month. I am reminded of something that Kweku said to me about why he chose the Power & the Glory café as the location for hisVogue shoot with Rupert and another Mandela grandson, Ndaba, who was recently appointed deputy president of the Pan African Youth Council: “Twenty years ago a place like this wouldn’t have existed, and the three of us wouldn’t have been able to be here together.”

In 2009, Kweku and Ndaba founded the organization Africa Rising, which is committed to honoring and carrying on their grandfather’s towering legacy while trying to tackle some of the continent’s biggest problems, including HIV. “Obviously our granddad was extremely passionate about HIV, and our family was also personally affected by it,” Kweku tells me. “So I think for me and Ndaba it’s actually a personal thing more than anything else.” They have lent their full support to Born Free. “I think it’s vitally important that, if we are going to stop the next generation from being infected by this epidemic, it really starts with newborns,” says Kweku. “It’s the first step.”

But Kweku and Ndaba are also, as one person put it to me, “using the media to change people’s perceptions of Africa, particularly young people.” They themselves may not be “born-frees,” this new demographic who are of great interest to South African politicians, but that is where their focus lies as well. “Now it’s got to fall on this generation; that’s the exciting part,” says Kweku. “We’re at the point where we can actually finally see the end of it.”

But as Linda-Gail Bekker reminded me, it’s important that we not get ahead of ourselves with all this hopeful born-free talk. “Now, for the first time, we really need the resources. This is where we say, ‘Don’t disengage, because we’re on the cusp of getting it right.’ ”

Wangechi Mutu agrees. “A lot of the issues in my country, and in Africa in general, are solvable. And what bothers me—and this is part of why I am doing this—is it’s really just about doing that one thing that gets everything going in the right direction so we can actually do something about it. The fact that one drug can allow the baby to survive, which happens in the U.S. all the time. . . . It’s a no-brainer. But it’s so great that someone has figured out a way to make these beautiful products, these pieces of clothing for sale, into messengers—disciples of this message about prevention of this transference of disease. Go for it.”

Her words bring me back to sitting in Barbara Matisane’s living room as she was lamenting the fact that her nine-year-old daughter, Uthandile, whom she has already educated on the reality of HIV/AIDS, was late coming home from school. She wanted me to see and hear for myself just how healthy and wise her little girl has become. Suddenly Uthandile burst into the tiny room in her school uniform and, speaking to her mother in Xhosa, asked if she could go outside and play. Yes, said Barbara. Her daughter pulled a box from underneath the bed in the corner, grabbed some sneakers and shorts and a T-shirt, changed behind a bedsheet hung as a curtain, and then ran out the door, like any other kid in the world.

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Readers: This is a huge breakthrough for women with AIDS. So much good juicy stuff here in this article and video, and so many wonderful ways to get involved with the Wonderful Women Of The World who have committed their time to support women. If it moves you, please get involved.

Clyde: I love reading posts such as yours. Thanks for sharing your story. Thanks to Howie too for posting his writes and getting you hooked in so that you would be exposed to and have to “tolerate” my “tirades.” Whatever it took, I’m delighted it happened. :) I HOPE your “broadening of political perspective,” and change in political party will ripple out to your friends and family. We could certainly use all the Dem votes in this coming midterms. Thanks too for supporting Grimes.

Karen: I don’t like the same same LSOS BS that the repubs voice here, but I don’t mind them visiting. Like I said to Clyde, whatever it takes. Repubs have flipped from reading this blog and, I will make a nod to Clyde, because it is the truth, “the links you and some of your enlightened readers suggest.” Perhaps more will too.

Jeffrey: Good questions. Perhaps you can clue me in. None of my friends talk to me about it either. It doesn’t bother me...just noticing. 

Dianne: Thank you for contributing to Grimes!

Happy Saturday everyone! Peace & Love…

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Wonderful Women Of The World

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 7th June 2014

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Good morning!

I love when I get to post something about Michelle Obama. She does so much and yet she gets more media time on the way she dresses (I do think she has great style) than what she does with her intellect.

Here’s a write from MassLive.

 

First Lady Michelle Obama attends Boston fundraiser

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First lady Michelle Obama declares the “keel well and laid” as she participates as ship’s sponsor in a keel-laying ceremony for a submarine that will become the USS Illinois, Monday, June 2, 2014, at the Electric Boat company in North Kingstown, RI. (AP Photo/Stephan Savoia) (Stephan Savoia)

BOSTON – First Lady Michelle Obama visited Boston Monday afternoon for a political fundraiser for the Democratic Congressional Campaign Committee at the Intercontinental Hotel.

The visit was tied to a tour by Democratic congressional leaders, including House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi, a California Democrat, called “When Women Succeed, America Succeeds: Women on a Roll.” Pelosi visited Lowell and Boston on the tour on Monday, accompanied by several of Massachusetts’ members of Congress.

The first lady’s visit was covered by a pool, which means a single reporter was allowed in. Pool reporter Laura Bassett of the Huffington Post reported that around 200 people attended, mostly women, along with 15 members of Congress. Boston Mayor Marty Walsh also attended. Ticket prices ranged from $500 per person to $32,400 per couple, according to the Democratic Congressional Campaign Committee. Obama spoke at around 4:30 p.m.

U.S. Rep. Katherine Clark, a Democrat representing Massachusetts’ 5th District,  who has focused on women and family issues, introduced Obama. Both Clark and Obama talked about the need for Democrats to retake the House in the 2014 midterm elections. Obama said Democrats must win 17 seats, which she called “a doable number,” if Democratic voters turn out.

The midterm elections are widely predicted to favor Republicans, with President Barack Obama struggling with problems with his health care overhaul and an economy that is only slowly recovering from recession.

According to a White House transcript of Michelle Obama’s remarks, the first lady stressed the job growth the country has seen under the Obama administration as well as other accomplishments, including the killing of terrorist Osama bin Laden, increased production of clean energy and increased access to health insurance.

“Barack’s last campaign was not in 2012,” Obama said. “Barack’s last campaign is this year, 2014, because that election in 2012, that election wasn’t the change we sought…it was only the chance for us to make that change. And frankly, if we lose these midterm elections, it’s going to be a whole lot harder to finish what we’ve started together.”

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Readers: No doubt, when “When women succeed, America succeeds.” But my tour, if I had one, it would be called something like this:  ”When women ‘woman up’ and support each other, we’ll get what we want…and then America succeeds.”

Let’s heed the first ladies words: “…if we lose these midterm elections, it’s going to be a whole lot harder to finish what we’ve started together.” I’d like to say it a bit harsher (because I can) …just so that we totally understand: “..if we lose these midterm elections, we’re screwed big time.” That’s the reality.

Michelle Obama also said a lot of women and minorities don’t vote in the midterms. 

She said that those in the room and others who support the president ‘‘need to call them and remind them that the midterms are coming and we need to give them a ride to the polls to make sure they get there,’’

She said that Democrats are 17 seats away from taking back the House, calling it ‘‘a doable number.’’

 

So make sure we encourage people to vote…take them to the polls if necessary. No excuses. And…I think 17 is a doable number too. Thoughts? Blog me.

Happy Saturday! Thanks for being here with me. 

 

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