Sunday Morning Post
Posted by Michelle Moquin on March 4th, 2012
Good morning!
Howie: You are a regular here on the blog. My blog is everyone’s blog. And like all of the regulars, I feel you can handle your own when it comes to dishing it out and receiving it. We all have been there, including me, at least a few times, and some digs have been from you. I used to have thin skin; I was very sensitive. But now, I can pretty much take anything – my skin has thickened. I may not like it, just like I don’t like so many things that are happening in the world. I feel deeply, but I try not to let it get to me, overwhelm me, so that I can think clearly and take action when it needs to be taken.
My job here is to post topics that I am passionate about, or that I just want to get out into the world. My life has changed over the years and I have very little time to dive into every drama that happens on my blog. And as you know, they happen all of the time. I think of my regulars as my side kicks, each and every one of you holds something very important for this blog. We are all very different, and each of you represent a group of people in this world. If we were all alike how boring that would be. So yes, I am delighted that you are still here.
That being said, it does not matter whether I agree or not. What I love about this blog is that people speak as they feel. And because of the anonymity which you all have except for a few who have chosen to be known, it allows you can say anything you want without anyone knowing who you are. Something that I do not have. – The truth is revealed whether you know it or not, like it or not. I can’t tell you how much I have learned about people by starting this blog, especially those that I know personally.
We all have feelings Howie, and we all can get hurt. That is what makes us human. My advice, if you don’t mind me saying so, is learn and grow. I can’t imagine a better place to learn about yourself through the eyes of others, strictly by what you write. It does not surprise me that this blog gets so much attention. It is truly like no other. There is no judgement on looks, facial expressions, dress, a person’s occupation, etc. You can be a woman and pose as a man, and vice versa.
If something negative is said over and over again, and it bothers you, look at it. Even if you don’t think it is true or it doesn’t bother you, does it have merit? Why do people think this way about you? Perhaps everyone is wrong. But then maybe not. Do you care to look deeper?…Do you care to change? My inquiry does not mean I’m asking you to. Just throwing it around.
I find it quite fascinating during the height of drama when comments are frantically posted…the reactions of readers/commentators. I have discovered many patterns over the years from those who put in good time here. And I can read into what reactions might happen before they actually occur. And I am usually right, which brings a smile to my face when a comment is posted and a reader reacts just how I thought they would. I am rarely surprised, yet the familiarity of the comments still delights me. No wonder there are schools and universities studying the writes. It is a continuing study of human nature and personalities in action. People are who they are, and they rarely change unless they want to. That, in my opinion, is just how it is.
Don’t like the dig? Evaluate it. Introspection is not always pleasant. So if you don’t want to look deeper, then my advice to you is to get over it and move on. After being here for almost 5 years, isn’t it about time? Know that most of my readers enjoy you and your alien chronicles – you are valued here. Don’t try to please everyone or be liked by everyone, or you’ll just make yourself miserable.
If I took to heart all of the men, and probably some women too, who think I am a man-hater, I would never be able to continue, if I let it bother me. But I don’t let it get to me because I know myself, not all of myself, as I am constantly learning. But enough to know that what I am doing in spite of those that oppose, is something good. My goal is much bigger than any drama that happens here. Not to say that important stuff doesn’t happen here; it does, or I wouldn’t be here. I am doing what matters to me. And fuck the ones who don’t support me, because they most likely never will. They are full of excuses, and don’t want to see the truth, but rather continue with the lies. My time is short here. I want to make a difference.
What I read every day and try to live by is this:
GOD, GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CANNOT CHANGE, COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS I CAN, AND WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE.
I am not lacking in the courage department to change the things I can. My challenge is accepting those things that I cannot change, and even when I know I can’t, I always try to look for a way…just in case. I don’t give up easily with things that matter most to me. That is where the wisdom part comes in. I’m working on it though…everyday. Can I prevent the likes of people such as Kent? I do my damn best and then I let it go. The universe works in mysterious ways. You of all people should know that. I know my day will come. In the meantime, I do what I can do, and it is all I can do.
My advice to you is to do the same. I don’t know if this is the kind of answer you were looking for when you made your comment to me. But it certainly inspired me to write all of the above, and for that I am grateful to you. I HOPE you’ll stick around and continue to delight us in what ever manner you choose.
And apologize to Al. He was only supporting you like a true good friend.
Al: You are a good friend to Howie. One that everyone wishes they had. With respect to the readers, I HOPE you don’t mind me giving a bit of advice as well. Why do you let people who have no part in your life affect you so much that you no longer want to be here? Please read my comments to Howie about pleasing everyone. You know you too are always welcome here. If you don’t mind me saying, “Fix your computer, get over it and move on”, and continue to delight the ones that do enjoy you. I for one am a fan.
Alycedale: You do have a way with words that hits the nail on the head. I love it. Words, I am sure many women have experienced and will heed. Thank you.
Olga: Just caught your comment. Excellent observation as well, and well said.
Well, I guess in light of Kaia’s comment to me this morning, I think now is just as good of a time as any other. Since this blog is like family to me, I wanted to share that after 14 years of marriage, Doug and I have come to the mutual decision of ending our romantic relationship. We both still love each other but our feelings are nothing more than good friends. We are both happy with this decision, as it is what both of us want. I am grateful for the good years that we had together and I only wish him the best.
Now…I’m off to enjoy a beautiful walk with my beloved Lucy. The forum is open. Blog me.
Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my “loyal”(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.
Gratefully your blog host,
michelle
Aka BABE: We all know what this means by now :)
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March 4th, 2012 at 9:53 am
You nailed it Olga. Not only can’t they take constructive criticism they can’t take criticism that isn’t presented in a manner agreeable to their particular sensitivities.
March 4th, 2012 at 9:58 am
I have never written in before. but this deserves to be said. Al, you are not an extension of Howie. So why allow what happens to him to effect you so.
Your place here is yours. Not an extension of Howie’s. I for one could care less about aliens. I don’t believe in them.
But your posts make me laugh. Allow an old man to continue one of the few pleasures in his life, chuckling at Al’s posts.
Red
March 4th, 2012 at 10:03 am
Magical Food Combos That Fight Cancer
Researchers know that some foods can help prevent cancer. Now there is growing evidence that certain food combinations may offer more protection against cancer than any one specific food.
The following combinations of foods are especially beneficial. Eat them regularly—either at the same meal or separately throughout the week…
TOMATOES AND BROCCOLI
Results of an animal study presented at the American Institute for Cancer Research International Research Conference showed that rats with tumors that were given a diet of tomatoes and broccoli had significantly smaller tumors than animals fed one of these foods.
The lycopene in tomatoes is an antioxidant. Antioxidants are crucial for preventing cancer because they help prevent unstable molecules, called free radicals, from damaging cell structures and DNA.
Broccoli contains chemical compounds known as glucosinolates, which may be effective in flushing carcinogens from the body.
Also helpful: Combine broccoli or other cruciferous vegetables, such as brussels sprouts and cabbage, with foods that are high in selenium, such as shellfish and Brazil nuts.
A study published by the UK’s Institute of Food Research found that the combination of broccoli’s glucosinolates and selenium has more powerful anticancer effects than either food eaten alone.
BRUSSELS SPROUTS AND BROCCOLI
These potent cancer-fighting vegetables also are rich in vitamin C and folate, as well as phytonutrients that deactivate carcinogens.
When eaten in combination, brussels sprouts and broccoli may provide more protection than either one eaten alone.
Brussels sprouts have the phytonutrient crambene, which stimulates phase-2 enzymes, substances that help prevent carcinogens from damaging DNA.
Broccoli is high in indole-3-carbinol, a phytonutrient that also stimulates phase-2 enzymes—but in a different way.
ORANGES, APPLES, GRAPES AND BLUEBERRIES
Each of these foods is very high in antioxidants. In a recent laboratory analysis, researchers measured the amount of antioxidants in each of these fruits individually.
Then they combined them and took additional measurements. Result: The mixture of fruits was more powerful against free radicals than any one fruit alone.
CURCUMIN AND QUERCETIN
Curcumin is a phytonutrient found in the spice turmeric. Quercetin is a phytonutrient that is abundant in yellow onions, especially in the outermost rings.
According to a small study in Clinical Gastroenterology and Hepatology, people who consumed large amounts of these two phytonutrients had a reduction in the number of colon polyps, growths that may turn into cancer.
The study looked at a small number of people with familial adenomatous polyposis, a hereditary condition that increases the likelihood of developing polyps.
The phytochemical combination reduced the number of polyps by 60%. It also caused some polyps to shrink.
The researchers used concentrated forms of curcumin and quercetin.
You would have to eat two-and-a-half tablespoons of turmeric daily to get a comparable amount. To get the necessary amount of quercetin, you would need to have about two-thirds cup of chopped onions daily.
Recommended: Eat a variety of herbs and spices to get the most phytonutrient protection. Even small amounts used frequently will impact your health over time.
Among herbs, rosemary and oregano rank among the best phytonutrient sources. Ginger is another powerful spice.
TOMATOES AND FAT
The lycopene in tomatoes is particularly effective against prostate cancer?but only when it’s consumed with a small amount of fat.
Lycopene, like other members of the carotenoid chemical family, is a fat-soluble substance. The body can’t absorb it efficiently in the absence of fat.
It takes only three to five grams of fat (about one teaspoon of oil) to improve the absorption of lycopene from tomatoes. For example, you could have a salad with an oil-based dressing.
The type of fat doesn’t matter for absorption of lycopene and other carotenoids, but you might as well choose a fat that promotes health. Olive oil and canola oil are good choices.
MORE VARIETY, LESS CANCER
In a recent study published in The Journal of Nutrition, researchers divided 106 women into two groups. All of the women were asked to eat eight to 10 servings of fruits and vegetables daily for two weeks.
However, one of the groups (the high-diversity group) was told to include foods from 18 different botanical groups, including onions and garlic from the allium family, legumes, cruciferous vegetables, etc.
The other group (the low-diversity one) was asked to concentrate all its choices among only five major groups.
Results: Women in both groups showed a decrease in lipid peroxidation—important for reducing the risk of cancer and heart disease.
However, only the women in the high-diversity group showed a decrease in DNA oxidation, one of the steps that initiates cancer development.
The ways that chemicals work in the body, known as metabolic pathways, have a rate-limiting effect. This means that beyond a certain point, eating more of a specific food won’t provide additional protection.
Eating a wide variety of foods brings more metabolic pathways into play, thus bypassing this limiting effect.
Source: Karen Collins, RD, registered dietitian and nutrition adviser to the American Institute for Cancer Research (www.aicr.org).
A syndicated newspaper columnist and public speaker, she maintains a private nutrition counseling practice in Washington, DC.
March 4th, 2012 at 10:48 am
Michelle, now that you and Doug are no more that means the opening for the new MAIN DUDE title is open. My hat will definitely be thrown into the ring.
I can’t wait for the next class get together.
March 4th, 2012 at 10:52 am
I don’t want to sound too feel too good about something that you may not feel okay with. But I would be lying if I said I was not delighted with the fact that you are back on the eligible roles.
Chris
March 4th, 2012 at 10:54 am
I noticed that Doug took off his marriage tag on the blog. He was quick wasn’t he. I wonder if he will be as quick to give up the title TMD on your blog?
Sorry for you loss, but if any woman will hit the pavement running I know that it will be you.
BP
March 4th, 2012 at 11:04 am
Olga you can’t even get my name right.
Anonymous 4, what do you mean by “michelle, now that you and Doug are no more….?” Did I miss something?
March 4th, 2012 at 11:08 am
Michelle, I hope it wasn’t something I said. But I would be a liar if I said that I was not pleased.
I am at the St Francis. All you have to do is announce on the blog the time you will be in the hotel I will take it from there.
I will make my presence known to the staff and Harry now that you have made it public that you are free from any attachments.
Can’t wait to meet you. I am a little shy, but very discrete. This will be my last correspondence on the blog.
Trust me I will show you that Doug’s lost is every intelligent man’s gain.
Braydan
March 4th, 2012 at 11:09 am
Michelle, I’m glad it was amicable because I’m ready to throw my had into the ring.
John
March 4th, 2012 at 11:13 am
Michelle, I’m vietnamese. I have an import/export garment company here in Vietnam. I visit San Francisco/Los Angeles often.
I would love to talk to you about going into business with me. Since you are no longer attached, perhaps you would consider coming to stay in Ho Chi Min city for a few months and discussing it.
My company will meet all your accommodations in the style that would make you comfortable.
Ing
March 4th, 2012 at 11:17 am
Stacey, yes you did. Read the comment above after Olga. Michelle, I want to throw my panty into the ring. (-:
I live in San Rafael. We have a ladies night. I would love to invite you to it.
Eve
March 4th, 2012 at 11:24 am
Michelle, this is most interesting. I am doing a seminar in the area in April. I would love to throw my hat into the ring.
Let’s talk. I have your number. I would never have made a call, but as you are free to explore what the rest of the world has to offer I am certainly going to call.
I am announcing my intentions on the blog because, you used it to make your announcement and I don’t want you to think that I am a sneak.
But as the gentleman, Braydan said, I will never mentioned anything that occurs between us on this blog and if I may add, or anywhere else again.
You are an incredible talent. I may not be in Braydan’s economic bracket, but I am damn close.
But, somehow I don’t think money alone will win the fair damsel’s heart.
Robert,RT
March 4th, 2012 at 11:30 am
Michelle, incredible!!!!!!! you finally kicked that pompous man to the curb.
My brother has been pining for you for years now. If you are interested in a hot blooded Italian politician he will be on the next plane to the States.
He is single, divorced two years now. One 19 year old very sweet daughter. Rather good looking if a sister can be objective, 39, 40 in July.
Reads you three times a day and quotes you every day. Please, please see him before you get too caught up in the dating scene.
Arianne
March 4th, 2012 at 11:32 am
UNBELIEVABLE!!!!!!!!!!
Harris and I can offer our villa in Athens if you need to get away right away, or other accommodations if you wish. You know how to get in touch.
I wish you the best.
Ruth
March 4th, 2012 at 11:34 am
If you are looking for a real man, I can make that happen for you. Have truck will travel.
Actually, you may be surprised. I have a private jet. This good ole boy is loaded.
I know we have had a few words, but try me on for size, I’m not that bad.
George
March 4th, 2012 at 11:34 am
Men, you are just dogs.
March 4th, 2012 at 11:36 am
Michelle, If I can interest you in a visit to Qatar, my jet is always waiting.
March 4th, 2012 at 11:38 am
Michelle, I hope you don’t think me too forward. I would like to invite you to visit China.
You pick the province, I will make the visit exciting. I have been an admirer for years. Now that you have loosened yourself of that man, perhaps a woman can fill the emptiness.
Salimu
March 4th, 2012 at 11:42 am
Eve, I don’t see it.
I saw Jimmy’s post after Olga, which said nothing and the page before Braydan after Olga that said
I was told this by a friend who knows that I carry a torch for you.
She says she flirted with him [Doug on FB] and he flirted back. She could be setting me up because she has been stalking me for over a year now but I had to tell you.
Nowhere did I read Michelle saying she is not with Doug.
March 4th, 2012 at 11:43 am
You foreigners and niggers leave our Treasure alone. Michelle, good to see you got rid of that know-it-all asshole.
One look at his FaceBook page and you know what he is about, himself. Me I’m a one woman man.
I live in Marin. I own rental property all over the Bay area. Looking to leave the scene with him. I will pack you up and move you to, your choice.
No strings, one year free rent and if you don’t find me your cup of tea I will still provide the second free of charge, also.
Get it in writing, I always say. I’ll put it in writing. Drop the come ons. Take the real deal.
Tom
March 4th, 2012 at 11:45 am
and the only other one I saw around Olga was Kaia
[to Michelle] Your long successful marriage says it can be done.
Are you people on drugs?
March 4th, 2012 at 11:47 am
Michelle, I saw you naked at a Burning Man a few years back. You were awesome!
I have since spent a lot of time reading your blog. Fantastic!! If Doug, The Lame Dude, can’t see that, I would move to California if I though you would give me a shot.
I know that I’m too old 51, but a man can dream.
Love
Ralph
March 4th, 2012 at 11:49 am
I am a member of the Swiss royal family. I am most interested in meeting you.
Niklas
March 4th, 2012 at 11:50 am
Michelle, this could get crazy. I just want you to know that we are your family in Europe.
If we can help, you know how to reach us.
Love
Harris
March 4th, 2012 at 11:51 am
You men need to stop. Give the lady a break. She just revealed that her love is no more.
Allow her some time to think and heal.
Danielle
March 4th, 2012 at 12:28 pm
you are all NUTZ. Talk about jumping on the bandwagon….jeez
March 4th, 2012 at 12:35 pm
Red: I am Howies court appointed legal guardian. Maybe you think you could do a better job.
I have many medical responsibilities to consider here. Howie has many ailments, many of them progressive and fatal.
To name a few: Unstable Diabetes, a shot out liver, requiring a transplant, a back that has problems in 7 places, heart disease, he is legally blind, needing cornea transplants in both eyes. He has had a least a dozen operations that I know of, and not any cosmetic bullshit, but serious shit like tumors removed, heart surgery, and back sugery to name a few. He also has a handful of other ailments.
Used to be he was in the hospital 3 or 4 times a year, with average stays being 4 to 6 weeks.
Howie has not been in the hospital for several years now. I must be doing something right. And I am sure that someone is looking out for him other than myself.
He does not want to live out his days in a nursing home.
They would kill him in a week.
This is the truth, we are both the same age and I have my share of health problems too. And I am disabled as well.
Howie also has no family. I have never met a braver man in my life.
It is my JOB to take care of Howie and I take it very seriously. And guess what Red, I have feelings as well and for all I do for Howie, to be thrown under the bus (to quoute ZL) does not feel very good.
So Red, sorry to burst your bubble but Howie’s business is my business.
This information was never meant to hit the blog, but Howie gave me permission to tell it like it is.
Please do not tell me to stay out of his business.
There are just too many people to answer, that I can not do it in one day. Those expecting a reply from me will not be getting one today. Besides I have already said enough. I do thank all concerned.
Al
March 4th, 2012 at 12:41 pm
I guess I’m on drugs… Sorry Michelle, someone pointed me finally to last sentence of your post today. I’m very sorry to hear you are splitting up. Have you considered counseling?
March 4th, 2012 at 1:18 pm
Doug and Michelle: I am sorry to hear that you two are splitting up. I hope that you are both OK.
LUV,
Al
March 4th, 2012 at 1:28 pm
Hi Michelle
I know you to be a strong woman and will do what is right for you. Breaking up is never easy it seems no matter who you are or how amicable it may be.
Sending you both lots of love through your period of transition.
/SB
March 4th, 2012 at 1:42 pm
Michelle: I was not talking about leaving here. I was talking about leaving here, where I am at this moment.
I think you misunderstood me, it was 4 or 5 in the morning. Again I am surprised and sorry to hear about the split. I have never looked at facebook or tweetie in my life.
ZL: No one owes me any appologies.
Al’a'Mode
March 4th, 2012 at 1:42 pm
MIscha and Doug, hmm, I’m not sure what to say, it’s not I’m sorry though, I have been through this and I know if C and I can maintain a friendship you two can as well, sometimes things just change, doesn’t make either party a bad person. I wish you both the best. I think you’ve been admired and of course there will be a boatload of offers but dudes, really, how about a chill pill for a minute…sheesh…the woman is making a fairly profound life announcement and all you do is say ‘I’m in’ and ‘I’m loaded and will fly anywhere’ seriously, get a grip.
Kaia, when I read your comment, I thought of a time when I had a couple who I held up as ‘THE couple’ and then they separated amicably…now I usually don’t presuppose anyone else’s seemingly cool marriage. In fact, to me the laws of marriage and common law need to be rewritten, old time ‘family values’ were predicated by woman requiring a man for economic purposes and then we all got sold the cooing ramantoc love story an ‘create a family’ bill of goods…I’m so over it, and yet, I do remain open to love bc love is ‘god’ and if we all practice the compassion most religions call for, we’d all be a lot better off.
Mischa, you may or may not want to talk, if you do, I am here and I’m quite sure you know I am very non-judgemental of either of you.
Luv, Zen Lill
March 4th, 2012 at 2:35 pm
Arianne #13 Says:
It is interesting how Doug has gone from “The Main Dude to “you finally kicked that pompous man to the curb.“ He lost his title of “The Main Dude” because of one person’s say so. Will it stick? I certainly hope not. As a Human Being, Doug has not changed from the love of your life posted just weeks ago on your Birthday.
I have compassion for both of you and am truly sorry things did not work out.
Michelle:
People on this blog can lose their humanity if they have an agenda or an interest of their own. Some can be so cruel and do not give a thought to how it would feel if the shoe were on their feet.
I have given your Post today a good amount of thought. Why should I allow anyone to push me out of my position which I have worked for over 4 years to attain? I have had personal growth in the past year or so and I am proud of it. No one can take that away from me.
This ordeal over the past few days has been stressful for me. Perhaps I am overly sensitive to the things I believe in?
Thank you Social Butterfly (#4 March 3) for not jumping on the bandwagon and having a kind word to say about me because I am sure you do speak for many in saying you would miss me being here.
That is the reason I have stuck it out and continue to. I could have packed my computer and written something rewarding like a book or Screenplay of my own and earned some money for my efforts.
I have tried to reach people all over the world to help change the lives of many in dire circumstances. I also enjoy warning and offering assistance to aliens in their particular situations.
Last, but not least, when I read that I am assisting teachers expand the minds of children in writing and science classes and helping open their imaginations, I feel like I am doing something important for our next generation. Perhaps they will be a little more open-minded.
This is why I comment on Michelle’s Blog and will continue to do so. It will take more than some name-calling to get rid of me. We ALL make mistakes and I am guilty sometimes myself.
I need a day or so to regain my composure. It has been a stressful few days for me and I will return with my comments as usual.
HOWIE
March 4th, 2012 at 3:16 pm
Howie, a big hug for you.
March 4th, 2012 at 5:42 pm
Howie and Al kudos to your both.
March 4th, 2012 at 5:50 pm
I have been a patient follower of your for 4 years Michelle. It hasn’t always been easy staying out of one marriage proposal or another.
Here in India, the mothers are always trying to marry their daughters off to me. But from the first time I saw that picture of you after “Thank you for your loyal support,” I knew you were Indian.
Everyone says she looks so Indian. Beautiful, poised even in her exuberance. I knew the gods would reward me if I waited. That day has come.
How shall we handle this? No dowery will be required from you, I am very well off with millions. I need only to speak with your parents.
My heart is yours.
Madhukar
March 4th, 2012 at 6:01 pm
Bonsoir, Michelle.
I am a solicitor in England, but I am french by birth. I have been a silent admirer of yours for almost three years. It was not sudden. I am an experienced 32 year old ex model for several Avant-Garde agencies in Paris turned solicitor.
I may not be as wealthy as some of your other potential suitors, but I am extremely good looking and quite the intellectual.
England or France, your choice my tickets. Why not come over for lunch and stay for breakfast and return home first class.
Let our meet began a conversation that could lead to me being the next Main Dude or rather Le Mec Principle(LMP).
à bientôt, je l’espère
Philibert
March 4th, 2012 at 6:01 pm
Wow, once again, I am simply amazed with responses on this blog. So many people, such pieces of work…
Kaia, you are able to see what we created, and I appreciate your words. None of that is false, it has simply changed. Michelle and I have been together for 20 years, and married for 14 years, and it is amazing to read some of the responses herein, as if you people know the first thing about Michelle, myself, or the us that we created together for 20 years. You have no idea of the dynamics of our lives, by what, simply reading a few paragraphs every day?…simply incredible, the gall of some people.
Michelle and I love each other, but have acknowledged to each other that the level of those feelings have changed. The life that we lived together is a major part of each of our lives and the duration of our existence here on this plane. Twenty years, traveling throughout the world, creating, exploring, loving, learning and enjoying one another at levels that most people we know could only stand back and ask “How do you do it?” It was easy for us, most of the time. Now, our goal is to be a new example to people to see what can happen to a relationship as it changes and morphs into its next phase, whatever that may end up to be, and to remain the friends and create a harmonious and amicable new relationship that takes on from where the other dynamic has left off.
Things change, people change. Life goes on.
Michelle and I have always supported one another in all of our endeavors and will continue to do so as that is what so much of our relationship was built on. I continue to wish her the very best, and I always have and I always will.
March 4th, 2012 at 6:02 pm
Way to go Howie.
March 4th, 2012 at 6:10 pm
Michelle, this changes everything. I have ideas. Zen Lill I will rewrite your part so that you save Doug from some crazed billionaire bent on insuring that the field is clear so that he can have Michelle all to himself.
During the ordeal you and Doug find love and he discovers that the aliens that claimed to be in saving the earth are only interested in preserving the status quo of earth’s place as a cattle planet.
He elicits you and your powers to help in his plan to save the planet. Lots of hot steamy sex and violent scenes with you kicking much ass.
If I make this happen in the board room, I will definitely consider you for a screen test. If you can’t play yourself, there are plenty of cameo scenes that will be available or smaller parts.
Are you union?
Kent
Kent
March 4th, 2012 at 6:16 pm
That’s nice Doug, but the only “amicable” I’m interested in is you smiling as she walks out the door to greet me on the way to our date.
And be smart. Lose the title. You are NOT — “The Main Dude”, TMD, any more. You lost the right to that title when you stopped being her significant other.
This is Michelle’s blog and that title belongs to whichever one of us or the next guy or lady she chooses to honor with her acceptance.
You have abdicated, or been fired and no longer have the right to that title on this blog.
Lewis
March 4th, 2012 at 6:17 pm
Howie, thank you for your kind words. Lil, your thoughts are appreciated.
March 4th, 2012 at 6:21 pm
I am a professional tennis player. I will be in for the Bank of the West Classic. Would you like to be my special guest?
No rush we can talk privately until then or whatever makes you comfortable.
Sabrina
March 4th, 2012 at 6:22 pm
Sorry Doug, but face it, Lewis is right. Be a gentleman and don’t put Michelle on the spot. She has lots of friends on this blog. That title belongs to someone she holds dearer than a “friend.”
Be gracious and drop the title.
Douwe
March 4th, 2012 at 6:29 pm
Michelle, if I may offer some advice. Make a clean break of it. I haven’t met Doug(please lose the title), but since you fell in love with him, I am certain that he is something special.
But you have decided to move on. There obviously will be not lonely nights if you don’t prefer it. So why wait?
I have a lovely place across the Golden Gate. 4 bedrooms, 41/2 baths. Plenty of room for two hot girls to have fun.
Tiatiana
March 4th, 2012 at 9:03 pm
Michelle and Doug: One day and every one is treating Michelle as if she were for sale to the highest bidder.
Both resident bigots, the white nation guy and the white boy guy have been waiting for this moment all along. With about 30 other propositions you have gotten today.
People have no respect. And I am supposed to have something to say to them.
These guys give men a bad name, no wonder you women can’t stand us men. Look how Michelle is being treated, like a piece of property at an auction. These men are all pigs, every single one of them. Of course this is only my opinion.
Red: I am happy that you get some enjoyment from reading my comments. But please do not knock Howie, he does not deserve this.
There are many good people here, I now know who is who and what motives belong to whom. I sure don’t mix with today’s bloggers.
Doug and Michelle: Thank you for your support, you know that you have mine.
Al
March 4th, 2012 at 9:11 pm
Ditto, Al, the only peeps here who have acted humanely has been you, Howie, SB and myself…the rest of you could use a lesson in several things, and RobertRt, I am surprised you joined in like a bidder…hat in the ring, my ass…you’re all not tossing hats…it’s almost comical, almost…ZL
March 5th, 2012 at 2:45 am
Guten Morgen, I’m taking an early lunch so I can post this. Howie, my brother in-law says you have a hugh impact on his company.
He is a captain in Nato. I hope you will continue. We all make mistakes. You are on a blog made for them.
I have a few UFO stories, your contributions make it easier for me to discuss mine. People who read this blog don’t think I ‘m crazy.
You have a lot of friends. Don’t doubt it.
Gustaf
March 5th, 2012 at 3:18 am
Zen Lill;
Michelle and Doug has said that they have made the leap from lovers to friends without the usual drama. We don’t know when this became the norm for them. That is their business, but, they are adults so they certainly don’t expect each other to become monks.
This is Michelle’s medium so of course they expected some reaction from admirers who may have kept a respectable distance when they were a couple.
Doug undoubtedly has a medium in which he has received amorous attentions as a result of his using it to reveal their present situation.
As has been mentioned he as taken down his claim to be married in that medium. However, some may take it, others may reasonably take the public notice they have given to be a sign that they are ready to move on socially.
The internet has opened new opportunities for people to make acquaintances, family, business and yes, if you have forgotten social.
Why would you be surprised that I would use the medium as any other? Michelle will make the decision since it is hers alone to complete a connection if she chooses.
But I would venture a guess that she would have been a bit disappointed if no suiters expressed themselves upon learning of the availability of a class act like hers.
I am not only not ashamed to have thrown my hat into the ring I am delighted that I can. If not for this blog, I may have missed the opportunity to ever discover a possible mate among the billions of people on this planet.
If you are her friend, you should be cheering the opportunities this presents her to return to the social arena. I is usually way more difficult for a woman who has left the social scene to be the partner of a man to return than it is for the man.
If she refuses every offer made here, it will still buoy her self esteem because they say, You, beautiful, brilliant, bad-ass lady, are not going to go quietly into the night.
Be happy for her, support her, allow her this shower of affection from a medium that she has served well enough to generate the affection it is now showing her.
As you are friends to both do the same for Doug, and feel free to throw your hat in, if so inclined.
Robert, RT
March 5th, 2012 at 3:32 am
Al, Why is it when men make gentleman solicitations for a newly available woman the term “sale” enters the conversation? It never does for the man.
What does it real matter how many solicitations she receives? Until she signals she has had enough, the more the merrier.
Gretchen
March 5th, 2012 at 3:37 am
Al, as my thoughts go to it is not whether they were “waiting” or not that is the issue as long as they “waited” respectfully. It seems they did. They did not make their interests known so as to influence the first couple of this blog to part ways.
Once they learned those ways had been parted since there has been no etiquette established for others to inspect to discover if they may be socially misbehaving, why should any who have been “waiting” hold back?
Go for it guy and gals. She deserves to know that she is still HOT, DESIRED, and the world is her oyster. If you are ever in Kyiv, they will be on me.
Agrafina
March 5th, 2012 at 3:46 am
Michelle, your support of native American women has been a great comfort to me. I have lived on the Cheyenne River Indian Reservation here in Ziebach county all my life.
You are one of the very few who has thought of our misery. I see no reason for you not to find a new happiness to complete your design for your life.
Robert, RT, you and the others who have made respectful notices to Michelle for her affections I thank you for showing her that there is much love out there for her.
We love you too here in South Dakota. Enjoy your new journey.
Odahingum
March 5th, 2012 at 4:02 am
First Couple decided to quit or how long they have been in that mode. So how can anyone say you who have been throwing your hats or panties into the ring are being disrespectful?
If I were Michelle, I would be looking at Doug about now with a sly smile that said “See, I am still special, maybe not to you, but I am still Special.”
This is not a knock of you Doug. But it is Michelle’s blog! You are not stupid, you know that while it might be tacky for women to pursue you on HER blog, it is perfectly natural and expected for others to pursue her on HER blog.
Zen Lill, be a true friend and let her bathe in the affection extended her in good taste here.
Robert, RT, there is more than a bit of jealousy concerning your hat tossing, I know you need no encouragement, so I will only say Bravo!
Al, you may have missed this one. How do you know that the show of affection is not just that a show of affection. In any event it is Michelle’s call to say if they are obnoxious. Your initial protection reaction will be appreciated, I’m sure, as it was well intended.
Doug, like Michelle, I sure most of her loyal fans here wish you the best as you two move your separate ways, romantically. I say God speed.
Alycedale
March 5th, 2012 at 4:14 am
So now you have decided that you can be the thought police on the blog Zen Lill.
Please tell us just what inhumane act was committed when people who have waited until Michelle made public that she was through with Doug romantically before they made known that they had a romantic interest?
I see the color green.
I will not be deterred by you or anyone else who feels they know best concerning what is right when it comes to when others should they should approach a person of romantic interest who has expressed publicly they are romantically free from committed attachments.
Michelle this Los Angeles lady is interested also. I am 23, a law student in her last year with offers upon graduation.
I started law school reading you and you made more sense than any of my instructors. I would feel privileged if you considered my affections favorably.
Baylee
March 5th, 2012 at 4:17 am
Al, you have always had Howie’s back. I hope he will return the favor when you need it.
March 5th, 2012 at 4:23 am
WOW!!
Michelle, I would have never thought that you two would not be forever. I respect your decisions of course, and wish the two of you the very best.
If you are looking for some down time, I can offer you a roof to cover your head, food to feed your tummy and love to help you through the space you are going through.
You got the ticket, I’ve got the island.
Hafa Adai
Anna
March 5th, 2012 at 4:34 am
A Major Win
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March 5th, 2012 at 4:58 am
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March 5th, 2012 at 5:40 am
I hope the next “Main Dude” will be the forever love of your life. But if he isn’t, then gently edge him to the curve and look for another.
I’m sure it was a great run Doug, I wish you the best, but the fact is you are no longer “The Main Dude” on this blog. That title, while coined by you, belongs to the designated ROMANTIC partner of Michelle.
You have no problem admitting here and on your personal forms of mediums that the romance is over. It begs the question why here on her form of communicating with her audience you would wish to continue the charade.
Whatever the benefit or charge you may feel it gives you personally to be “The Main Dude”, You are no longer by your own choice and admission romantically in love with Michelle, hence that title is no longer yours to brandish.
Did you just feel that earthquake?
It was a 4.3. That settles it even the gods are weighing in on this one.
I’m done.
Belinda
March 5th, 2012 at 6:41 am
Oh honeys, and ZL police thinkers, no no no….I have found that since my own separate ways occurrence almost 4 years ago that there is no shortage of men, good bad or otherwise and they’re out there in all ages, RobertRt, that’s a myth, doll. Since day 1 I have been approached and my first outing a gorgie man made sure he bumped into me, so stop perpetuating some male myth about how unmarketable women are when they break up, there’s enough testosterone out there, more than enough, trust me…
I am not jealous, why would i be, she attracts admirers, so do I, we’re different types – and of course, I do wish Mischa the affection of another when she chooses to do so, perhaps this has been the M/D mode for a while, I do not know that and neither do any of you, I was merely stating that it would be respectful and more compassionate to accept the announcement and wish them both well, but no, everyone had to throw hats into the ring immediately as if our gorgeous blog host was running off today…I just thought it would’ve been courteous to have taken it in the info. Whatever…
I’m not blog police, I’m not MIscha’s keeper, I’m not Doug’s keeper either…carry on…it makes no matter…It’s possible they are both happily moving on already, though I do know this drill and so do some of you, hailing congrats and throwing hats in the ring seems an odd way to greet the news of a couple parting, that’s all, it’s me…
RobertRt, no amount of articulate words gets around what I just said above. Though I do not judge you for it. All the men and women here have good taste, Mischa’s the best.
Luv, Zen Lill
March 5th, 2012 at 6:46 am
see #56 for a response that’s sweet ad sincere, thank you, Anna of Guam, see people that’s what I’m talking about right there. – ZL
March 5th, 2012 at 9:02 am
Robert,RT,
I suspect Alycedale has nailed it. Anyone who chastises you for throwing your hat into the ring is just plain jealous. The only question is whether it is of losing you or of Michelle for gaining the possibility.
Any talk about appropriate times is just bullshit. When two couples make this kind of public statement they have moved on. Anyone interested had better make their interest known or lose out in the rush.
Congratulations to you Robert,RT and the others for showing the class act you are.
I just wish when my slob left me I had been coveted a tenth as much. We women need the same considerations the men are getting.
Congratulations Michelle, not in your loss(if you feel it as a loss) but in the success in which you have re-entered the social arena.
Gloria