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Breakthrough In Women’s Health

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 2nd August 2011


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Good morning!

 

BREAKING NEWS: Birth control is covered by insurance companies for the first time ever. Through the Affordable Care Act, co-payments and deductibles will be eliminated. Hence,  birth control will literally be “free” – Finally a president who cares about women’s health - Thank you president Obama!

Birth control now covered: Goodbye, co-pays. Hello, preventive care.

By Katie Rogers

If you’ve ever had to endure fluctuating birth control prices, the hunt for the generic or the hassle of the monthly refill, take heart: The Department of Health and Human services is now recommending that birth control be covered by insurance plans under preventive care.

This news is a historic development in the debate over women’s health care. The new guidelines take effect today, just over a month after a committee of the National Academy of Sciences’ Institute of Medicine recommended that prescription birth control, breast-pump rentals, counseling for domestic violence and annual wellness exams and HIV tests be covered by virtually all insurance plans.

Plans beginning on or after August 1, 2012 will cover birth control and other preventative services, including voluntary sterilization, and the new requirements will take effect Jan. 1, 2013, in most cases.

It’s no secret that the debate over contraceptives — from education about them to access to them — has a long history, but it’s not as divisive as some might think: 28 states already require birth control to be covered by insurance.

Last week, The Post hosted National Academy of Sciences’ Institute of Medicine committee member Linda Rosenstock for a live chat. Here’s what she had to say when it came to the recommendation her team made for insurance companies covering birth control as a pre-existing condition:

What pre-existing condition does birth control “cure”?

It is important to understand that our committee looked at the evidence for what services work to improve women’s health. Unintended pregnancy accounts for about half of all pregnancies in the U.S. each year and these pregnancies can cause health problems for both the mother and the newborn. There is compelling evidence that contraception counseling and methods are very effective ways to avoid unintended pregnancies and to allow women to optimally space their pregnancies.

Readers: This is great news for women. Any comments? Any thoughts on anything? Blog me.

Peace out. 

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Am I Having A Heart Attack? Pt 2

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 1st August 2011


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As Promised…

Girls: If you didn’t pay attention to this article yesterday, today is the day you should make sure to read. 

Be Heart Healthy

Some signs are surprising — especially for women

One of the symptoms for a heart attack in women is pain in the shoulder blades.

One of the symptoms for a heart attack in women is pain in the shoulder blades. — Photo by: Rosanne Olson/Getty Images

Symptoms more likely in women

Women have a higher risk of dying from a heart attack than men do, partly because they often don’t realize they’re having a heart attack and partly because they delay getting help.

Women are less likely than men to have the typical “Hollywood heart attack.” Chest pain was not the main symptom in about 46 percent of women who had a heart attack.

Women are less likely than men to have the typical “Hollywood heart attack,” says Sharonne Hayes, M.D., cardiologist and director of the Mayo Clinic’s Women’s Heart Clinic in Rochester, Minn. Chest pain was not the main symptom in about 46 percent of women who had a heart attack, studies show.

    • Pain in the arm (especially left arm), back, neck, abdomen or shoulder blades: When the nerves of the heart are irritated because the heart isn’t getting enough blood, discomfort or pain can radiate out to many places in the body. The pain often is described as an uncomfortable pressure, tightness or ache. “If you can put a finger on it and say, ‘It hurts right here,’ that’s much less likely to be a heart attack,” says Pamela Ouyang, a cardiologist with the Johns Hopkins Bayview Medical Center.
    • Jaw pain: Jaw and throat pain are quite common, says Ouyang. She says the feeling can start in the chest and move to the throat — as if someone is choking you — and then to the jaw. But again, it’s not always obvious. Sometimes people “go to the dentist, because they think it’s a toothache,” when they actually had a heart attack.
    • Nausea and vomiting: Women are more likely than men to have this symptom, and they may think they have a stomach flu rather than a heart attack.
    • Overwhelming and unusual fatigue: Fatigue is generally a symptom of 21st-century life, so it’s often overlooked as a heart attack sign, but it’s extremely common, so beware if you’re unusually exhausted.

Is it a heart attack or just heart burn? Tomorrow you’ll find out how to tell the difference.

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Lea & Anna of  Guam: Thanks to both of you for your comments. Anna, as I have said before I would love to come out for a visit. And I appreciate the open invitation.  Someday I will be able to make it there. Hafa Adai. 

 Kelly: You’re welcome. 

Peace & Love & Good Health.

Blog this BABE

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Am I Having A Heart Attack?

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 31st July 2011


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I realize that I post articles quite often about health and staying healthy. Why? Well, simply because I care. 

Am I Having a Heart Attack?

Some signs are surprising — especially for women

Spending precious minutes searching for information about heart attack symptoms as you experience them is not wise, doctors say, because “time is heart muscle.”

“If you think you’re having a heart attack, that’s not the time to try and figure out whether you’re right,” says Gordon Tomaselli, M.D., president-elect of theAmerican Heart Association, who adds he has patients who have done exactly that.

And yet, among the most commonly searched subjects online is “heart attack signs,” according to the search engine Google. In fact, the number of searches for that term has increased by a whopping 90 percent in the last five years or so, according a company spokesperson. Searches for “Am I having a heart attack?” alone have risen by more than 35 percent since 2008, the company says.

One reason people are searching online for emergency information is that it’s not always easy to tell whether you’re having a heart attack — even doctors have a tough time knowing without tests. If you suspect you’re having a heart attack, call for an ambulance immediately. And don’t be embarrassed if it turns out you’re not.

“It’s not always straightforward,” says Tomaselli. “If you develop the classic symptoms — pressing chest pain, sweating, nausea — then you’re pretty clear that there’s a big problem that needs to be dealt with quickly.” But, he says, many people, especially women, may develop completely different symptoms when experiencing a heart attack.

Common symptoms in men and women

You should pay particular attention to the following signs if — like more than half of all Americans — you are over 50, have high blood pressure, have high cholesterol, are a smoker or have a family history of heart disease. A heart attack occurs when the blood supply to the heart is blocked, damaging the muscle. Chewing aspirin (either one regular or two baby) helps the heart by thinning the blood.

  • Chest pain: Most people do call 911 or get to the hospital if they feel like they’ve got an elephant sitting on their chest, but even this most common heart attack symptom may be hard to recognize. It may just feel like a squeezing that lasts more than a few minutes or goes away and comes back. “It may be a chest fullness that they don’t recognize as pain,” says Tomaselli, who is also chief of cardiology at the Johns Hopkins School of Medicine. “Sometimes it doesn’t particularly hurt. It’s an uncomfortable sensation.” If chest pain lasts more than five minutes, go to the emergency room.
  • Shortness of breath: You may feel you can’t catch your breath, even when resting. This breathlessness often occurs before the chest pain.
  • Dizziness or lightheadedness: You may feel as if you will pass out.
  • Cold sweat: Sweating when you are cold or have a chill.
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Readers: Stay tuned for “symptoms more likely in women”.

Kelly: Yes you can still go, and yes I can make this happen for you. It is a done.

Shanira: Thank you for writing to me. I hope that it does not happen to The Republic of Southern Sudan as well. Your new country has been a long time coming…a lot has happened to your people. I know that it isn’t over and things are still being worked out, but I am wishing and HOPEing for the best, especially for the women and girls as they have suffered the most. My best to you and yours.

Bab: Murdoch’s thoughts of “lying low” may be too late – I’m sure there are others whose vision of him “lying low” is deep underground.

 

Peace & Love & Good Health….

xoxo 

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my “loyal”(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

Gratefully your blog host,

michelle

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Wells Fargo Preyed on OTW’s

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 28th July 2011

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Larry, Melosa Just more of the same same that both of you were talking about the other day and yesterday.

Wells Fargo Target Of Justice Department Probe; Agency Alleges Discriminatory Lending

WASHINGTON — The Department of Justice is preparing a lawsuit against Wells Fargo, the nation’s largest home mortgage lender, for allegedly preying upon African American borrowers during the housing bubble and steering them into high-cost subprime loans, according to three people with direct knowledge of the probe.

The company, the fourth-largest U.S. bank by assets, is currently embroiled in pre-lawsuit negotiations with the Justice Department in hopes it will settle the accusations and avoid a public lawsuit, these people said.

The allegations mirror those in public actions taken by the Federal Reserve and a separate lawsuit filed by the city of Baltimore.

Last week, the Fed said that perhaps more than 10,000 borrowers were inappropriately steered into subprime mortgage loans or had their loan documents falsified by bank personnel. Wells Fargo agreed to pay $85 million to settle the civil charges. It did not admit wrongdoing.

In its ongoing case against Baltimore, Wells Fargo stands accused of using those same practices, but deploying them against black borrowers in majority-black neighborhoods, an act commonly known as “reverse redlining.” The city alleges that the bank targeted black borrowers, knowing they’d ultimately default on their loans, but did not fear shouldering the cost because Wells sold those loans to investors. Wells Fargo denies the allegations.

“We have a very strong commitment to serving all customers along the credit spectrum, and we do so without bias,” said Vickee Adams, a spokeswoman for Wells Fargo. “That’s the type of responsible lending that we practice.” Adams declined to comment on the Justice probe.

The previously-undisclosed Justice probe, which is being led by the Civil Rights division’s Fair Lending Unit, lends credence to the city’s lawsuit, sources told The Huffington Post. The official overseeing the office, Assistant Attorney General Thomas E. Perez, previously served as secretary of Maryland’s Department of Labor, Licensing and Regulation, a consumer protection agency that regulates mortgage and foreclosure terms and houses the state’s financial regulator.

Taken together, the various investigations paint a picture of a lender that profited by knowingly targeting less-sophisticated borrowers, in particular preying upon those communities that traditionally lacked access to a full range of consumer credit products.

They also add up to significant blows to the bank’s once-pristine reputation. Widely seen as the most innocent of the biggest mortgage lenders, Wells Fargo executives were spared the humiliation of having to answer critical questions in public from the Financial Crisis Inquiry Commission, and unlike its competitors, the bank’s pre-crisis activities were never the subject of the commission’s hearings.

But over the past year, that reputation has begun to crumble.

Wells Fargo has fought lawsuits from Baltimore and the city of Memphis alleging that the bank preyed upon black borrowers; settled claims it illegally steered credit-worthy borrowers into subprime loans and misled investors about the risks of mortgage-backed securities it sold; and fought investigations and regulatory actions stemming from revelations that it employed so-called “robo-signers,” the agents directed by lenders to process foreclosure filings en masse without examining the underlying paperwork.

The bank, along with four other companies, is also the subject of confidential audits by the Department of Housing and Urban Development that accuse the lender of defrauding taxpayers in its handling of foreclosures on homes purchased with government-backed loans, HuffPost reported in May.

Wells Fargo is in the middle of negotiations to settle state and federal allegations that it mistreated borrowers and in some cases illegally foreclosed on them. It could cost the bank billions of dollars.

The Justice probe signals that the agency, after battling claims that it’s been too easy on major mortgage firms in the wake of the financial crisis, may be toughening its approach. Its fair lending unit has about 60 open matters, Perez said in a June 1 speech. It currently has more than 15 ongoing investigations involving allegations of discriminatory lending.

A Justice Department spokeswoman declined to comment on the Wells Fargo investigation.

In an April 5 report to Congress, Perez’s unit said that some of these investigations would lead to lawsuits or settlements this year.

“We’re a majority African American community, and there are people in this city who take great offense when institutions take advantage of a community’s historical lack of access to credit, and in some cases lack of sophistication, by putting them in loans they can’t afford,” said George Nilson, Baltimore’s city solicitor. “It’s offensive behavior and we shouldn’t tolerate it.”

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Linda: Thanks for sharing your story. I had a feeling a man didn’t have to get permission from his wife. And it is no surprise that he doesn’t even get asked to share it with her.

As far as the women voting as their men tell them to – ugh! I hate hearing that but I know it is too true. Women outnumber men in our country, and we still can’t get enough women to vote women into office. And I’m not jut talking about any woman. But it sure would be great if women supported men, like men support men. Men will vote in the worst man for the job just because he is a man. Although don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying we women should do that too, because some of the women such as Palin and Bachmann are not women I will support. However the more women we support in politics, the more women will run…at least I HOPE. And I HOPE women who are avid supporters of women will enter into politics. It’s time.

As far as envying the independence of minority women, revel in your  own independence and join the force. It’s never too late. As Henrietta stated with respect to white male control of our government, “Most of those draconian laws stood until women and OTWs became a viable force in America’s politics.” We are a country of women that are blessed to be able to speak our minds – don’t let yours go to waste. As I said, “It’s time”.

John: Thanks for your offer but I  can not accept it. What can I say? You and other men are just going to have to wait until the women feel the men are ready to go.  Women have had to wait for whatever reason men deemed necessary until men felt they were ready. Some women have waited for 2000 years and some are still waiting.

If you love women so much…if you know you’ll miss your mother and sister so much, how about doing them proud? How about getting involved while you’re here on this beloved planet that man has created to his liking, and start supporting women and advancing women’s issues? That would be a good start. Then how about taking some of that 200 million and fund a charity strictly in suppot of women  and women’s issues, and run it in honor of your mother and sister? Now, that would do them proud.

Until men “man-up”, and support all women, treat them as equals, this opportunity is strictly for girls. John,  I look forward to seeing what you do with your life in support of women.

Stanley: With respect to Madaline, your assessment is so true, and you are no doubt a definite reason why Madaline wouldn’t beam you the fuck up. Try getting a new attitude, and supporting all your fellow Earthlings, and perhaps one day that will change. But until then,  your “position” solely remains on this planet. I’ll echo Jose…”lucky for you”.

Zen Lill: Huh…so interesting. I just recently asked my girlfriend if she was asked by her husband’s doctor for her approval. She said that he made the appointment, went in, and had it done without any word from her. So, it really surprises me that they asked if you were okay with the decision. And what if you said “No”? We all know what would happen if a man objected to his wife’s tubal Ligation.

Peace out.

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my “loyal”(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

Gratefully your blog host,

michelle

Aka BABE: We all know what this means by now :)

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“Permission” From The Husband

Posted by Michelle Moquin on 27th July 2011


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The Most Shocking Thing My Mother Ever Told Me About Sex (And How It’s Shaped My Politics)

Recently my mother told me something shocking. When she decided that her family was complete and sought a tubal ligation from her doctor (aka “to have her tubes tied”), she was told that her husband would have to sign a form giving his consent. This was not during the dark ages, but the dawn of the 1980s. And this was not some third world country practicing sharia law, but Texas. (Yes, I can already hear some of the 3rd world jokes many of you are making about my home state right about now. To which I say, “Hook ‘em Horns.”)

Her story was a stark reminder that it really wasn’t that long ago that our country was stuck in the dark ages when it comes to women having the right to control our own bodies. It was also a powerful reminder that while abortion remains the most divisive reproductive rights issue — and the one likely to garner the most headlines — it is not necessarily the most important. There are countless reproductive rights issues that affect all women — including those who may not consider themselves pro-choice. These are the issues I consider most at stake with the ongoing assault on Planned Parenthood. And it is through these issues that President Obama may end up leaving his greatest legacy.

Last week a nonpartisan panel convened by the Institute of Medicine recommended that insurance companies be required to cover birth control for free as a form of preventive care under the new health care law. If the government follows the panel’s recommendations, this could end up being not just one of the most important moments in the reproductive rights movement since Roe v. Wade, but the most important moment ever. (Click here to see some of the most important reproductive rights cases besides Roe v. Wade.)

poll released during the 50th anniversary of the birth control pill found that cost remains a key barrier for couples when it comes to using contraception. As I have noted in a previous column, ”though it seems like it would be a no brainer for insurers to cover birth control rather than face the prospect of eventually covering another dependent, a 2007 Mercer study found that while about 70 percent of insurers provide coverage for erectile dysfunction medications, (as in Viagra) HALF of all health insurance plans do not provide contraceptive coverage.”

Though legally and theoretically available to all, contraception has certainly not been accessible to all, with class status and education historically being one of the indicators of contraception use and family size. (A recent analysis found that low-income men who abuse their partners often hide or sabotage birth control as another form of controlling them.) With poverty being a key indicator for dropping out of high school and incarceration, this means that the ability to control the size of one’s family is a social and political issue that affects many others.

I surprised a reporter recently when I said that I consider family planning the most important domestic or international political issue, because from my vantage point it affects almost all others in some way, shape or form. Wars are often fought over land or resources that people are trying to protect (or take) so that their families can have them and benefit from them. The environment struggles in large part from overpopulation and overuse. People often turn to crime, like theft and dealing drugs, because they lack the skills or opportunity to support their families, or themselves, any other way.

This is why I have always been baffled when those who claim to care about these issues, and others — particularly abortion — don’t treat access to contraception as one of their most important political issues too. But if the Obama administration makes headway in removing the financial barrier to contraception — for all women — it will have made one of its greatest policy contributions not just to women, but all families.

Keli Goff is the author of The GQ Candidate and a Contributing Editor for TheLoop21.com, where this piece was originally published.

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ReadersI found this article interesting. What are your thoughts? 

With respect to getting “permission” from husbands….It is the woman who gets pregnant, the woman who gives birth, and once again she should be able to decide what she wants or doesn’t want to do to her body. And once again, men are given a say…and not just a say. This was/is not “law” to my knowledge, but a husband had to give a signed consent in order to give his wife “permission” to “have her tubes tied”.  Is this still the case?

Let me say that I think it is something that a couple should discuss. But ultimately, it should be the woman’s decision and she shouldn’t have to get “permission”, a signed consent from her husband in order for her to be able to do what she wants with her body.

And what about the men? Are men required to ask “permission” from their wives before they get a vasectomy? Again, I think it should be a discussion between the couple but I know women whose husband’s have had a vasectomy and I don’t recall them telling me they needed to sign a consent to give him “permission”. My guess is they didn’t.

But it is not surprising a woman would be asked though is it? Has anyone experienced this? Have any of my readers had to sign a consent for their wives? Or for their husband? Blog me.

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