Is Your Mate An ‘Inmate’?
Posted by Michelle Moquin on 3rd September 2009
While writing my blog yesterday on the Ponzi scheme, I briefly mentioned relationships that are created with inmates. A question had popped into my mind as to whether inmates had access to the internet. So I did a quick google during my write, and came across some very interesting websites.
I found a website , Prisoner Life, that helps connect people with inmates to create a pen pal relationship. It talked about how befriending a prisoner through writing letters, and the affect that receiving letters has on prisoners. I found out that loneliness is one of the greatest challenges they face each day.
And that Mail call may be the lowest point of their day, if one doesn’t receive a letter. Communication is essential in the rehabilitation process. Studies have shown that those inmates who have people on the outside taking an interest in them have a much lower recidivism rate then those who do not. Not surprisingly, women are rarely recidivist, but men have a high recidivism rate.
When I read this, I felt sad and compelled to start up a pen pal friendship with an inmate. Who knows if I ever will….it was just a fleeting thought. Is that crazy or what?
And just a little side note before I end this post. Here is a little didley that I found on the website:
At the end of 1996, 1,571 per 100,000 blacks in the U.S. were incarcerated; this compares to 193 per 100,000 whites incarcerated.
What does that tell you about our judicial system? What does it tell you about racism? Those numbers are over ten years old. I wonder what they would look like today.
Readers: I would love to hear from any of you that have started a relationship, either a plutonic friendship, love, whatever, with an inmate. What has your experience been like? Blog me. This is such an intriguing topic to me.
Zen Lill: It was good to catch up with you the other day too. How did the fashion show go?
Like you, prison pen pals have always blown me away too. Not because of the writing factor necessarily but because some create intimate relationships, fall in love, and some even get married, while the mate is still ‘in’…. ‘In prison’ that is. :) It is very intriguing to me.
Of course these days with internet dating, and even blogging, one can get to know someone very well through their writing, so it shouldn’t surprise us so much as to why. And when I think of how many people may actually be in prison that are innocent, it makes it less surprising that people will hook up and create a realtionship. Not to say that one can’t fall in love with a serial killer. Not my kind of life mate, but hey, there is evidently someone out there for everyone.
Helen: So maybe it wasn’t such a slow week and my peeps were trying to blog me. Sorry that you couldn’t, and thanks for trying.
Umei: You were obviously successful in posting your article – Thanks for the e-coli alert.
Got to run…Labor day weekend is almost here and I am so looking forward to 3 days of relaxation!
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michelle
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