International Women’s Day: No different than any other day
Posted by Michelle Moquin on March 9th, 2011
International Women’s Day was yesterday. A century mark of celebration. But as I said in my title, for some, the day was no different than any other.
As much as I support International Women’s Day, a global day celebrating the economic, political and social achievements of women past, present and future, for many it was a disappointment, a sorry celebration…and only a reminder of what little rights women have in some countries…and for some, a slap in the face telling women that there is little HOPE for equality in the future.
While women marched in celebration in HOPE of their future, men continued to paw like the dogs that they are, groping at women and girls in a disgusting sexual-free-for-all: their standard protocol. As if the opposite sex were nothing but objects to be used and abused at will. And no day, not even a day to celebrate women was going to change anything, not their support of women, nor their sick behavior.
As I read on-line the stories of this supposed day of celebration…as I peruse the comments from women who write on my blog, I feel a rage so strong in myself that I too can not sleep. And yet, the rage I feel is not even close to the rage that women who experience this abuse undoubtedly feel.
Reading the comments from Lucas to HUSN addresses the depth of pain and suffering that these women endure, that they feel their only way to salvation and freedom is the death of the men that abuse them.
Lucas: Not to take away from your comment, because it moved me. I truly feel your sympathy and your sadness for these women, so I do not want to diminish your sincere heartfelt words. They have touched me and inspired my next words.
As a man, a man with rights, a white man, who is the stronger sex, and who does not need to worry about being treated less than animals, groped, physically abused, raped, or murdered by women, you could never even imagine what it is like to be a woman living in fear of her life from men. Therefore as much as you sympathize, you can never truly empathize, what it is like to be in the body of a woman.
I do not say this to put you down. I do not wish that you could empathize or women would be just as horrific as men…I would not wish this disgusting behavior on anyone. But I, like the women, and being an eye-for-an-eye kind of girl, should this abuse happen to me, I too would wish for the abuser to experience the exact same pain and suffering that I have.
And being a woman, therefore, when I read the comments from HUSN and Afaf, and Lashkar Gah, their experiences thankfully may not be mine, but their words resonate with me, because the only thing different from them and me, is that I was blessed to born in the United States.
I understand your sadness as I too feel it deeply. But I also feel the rage. So yes, these women wish for a slow painful death to their men because they are living a slow painful life. They are at the lowest that they can imagine being…there is nothing worse. And perhaps some may wish death upon themselves to relieve them of their pain and suffering, when wishing death upon their perpetrators is a wish that may never come true.
Do you blame then for wishing such? I do not.
These women wish for death to their men, not only because they have suffered so deeply, but because they can see that these men will never change, and a slow painful death to them is their retribution, their only recourse, their only HOPE. And no, the white man, the man in power is no help in making an effort to demand that their men change.
So I ask again, do you blame them for wanting death to take their men? I do not.
And when Madaline’s name is spoken amongst these women, I hear my own heartbeat talk to me.
HUSN, Afaf, Lashkar Gah, and all of the other women who suffer at the hands of men: I hear you. You are always in my thoughts…in the forefront of my mind. I have thought many times, “Perhaps it is time”, but I can not release Madaline as you wish at this time. I am sorry. I wish I could leave you with more inspiring words, but please do not lose HOPE. There will be a day. I can not say anymore. May you be strong and safe. With love ~ Michelle
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March 9th, 2011 at 10:21 am
Does Objective Reality Exist, or is the Universe a Phantasm?
http://twm.co.nz/hologram.html
March 9th, 2011 at 10:53 am
I’m tired of telling folks today that they have a bit of ‘shmutz’ on their forehead
March 9th, 2011 at 10:56 am
Hijjii Says: ?March 8th, 2011 at 2:42 pm
NAVIGATOR:
The crew wants to know if you really do read this blog. And if so, can they use it to reach you?
Hijjii
March 9th, 2011 at 11:09 am
Super Sex Every Time
Brigitte Mars
Naropa University
Couples who enjoy sex regularly tend to live longer than those who rarely or never have sex. Sexual activity purges congestion from the prostate gland and relieves pain by stimulating the release of endorphins.
Yet millions of Americans struggle to have satisfying sex, or any sex, because of physical limitations. Medications can help with problems such as an inability to get erections or vaginal dryness, but they don’t always work — and can carry the risk for side effects.
Better: Natural remedies that improve energy and libido as well as sexual performance. In my 40 years of specializing in herbal medicine, I have found them to be quite effective for many people. (The herbs and supplements noted here are readily available at most health-food stores and online.)
LUBRICATION
Vaginal dryness can be as problematic for a woman as erectile dysfunction is for a man. Women naturally produce less moisture (in the vagina, as well as in the eyes, skin and other parts of the body) as they get older. But it’s one of the easiest sexual problems to correct — and without the use of store-bought, chemical-filled lubricants.
Try one of the following remedies. If that doesn’t work, try another until you find what works best for you.
Barley water.
Barley water is an emollient that also nourishes and strengthens vaginal tissues. Cook two cups of light pearled barley in 10 cups of water for two hours. Strain, and reserve the water.
Drink a glassful three or four times a day between meals for at least three weeks. If it helps, continue doing it. It can be kept in the refrigerator for up to three days. (You can use the leftover barley in soups and salads.)
Acidophilus. Dryness is sometimes caused by an overgrowth of vaginal yeast. Before going to bed each night, insert a capsule of acidophilus into the vagina. It inhibits yeast and helps the vagina produce more lubrication.
Important: Don’t use an enteric-coated capsule — it won’t dissolve readily. Use an acidophilus gel capsule.
Chemical-free lubricant.
Mix one ounce of softenend cocoa butter with one tablespoon each of powdered dong quai (an herb in the parsley family), licorice root and marshmallow root, along with one tablespoon of powdered wild yam and two tablespoons of vitamin E oil.
Optional: Two drops of essential oil of rose for a pleasant aroma.
Roll the mixture into suppository shapes about the size of your little finger. Store them in a glass jar in the refrigerator for up to six months. Insert one in the vagina daily before bedtime.
LOW LIBIDO
If your sex drive is lower than you (or your partner) would like…
Eat black foods. According to Traditional Chinese Medicine, the kidneys govern sexual vitality. Foods with natural black color, such as black olives, black sesame seeds, chia seeds and black beans, strengthen the kidneys and improve sexual energy and performance.
Bonus: Black olives and chia increase the production of mucilage, important for sexual lubrication.
Muira puama. This is a South American herb that traditionally is used as an aphrodisiac and to improve erections as well as orgasms in men and women.
It’s a warming herb that increases circulation. If you have cold hands and/or feet, you probably have impaired circulation to the genitals as well. Muira puama can help.
Dose: One-half cup of muira puama tea… or 10 to 30 drops of tincture, mixed with an inch of water or taken straight, three times daily. Also available in capsules. Natives of South America sometimes apply the cooled tea directly to the genitals as a sexual stimulant.
DHEA, an over-the-counter hormonal supplement that’s converted to testosterone in the body, can increase libido and sexual responsiveness in women and men.
Important: Improper dosing can cause acne, the growth of facial hair in women and other side effects — including an increased risk for some cancers. Take DHEA only under the supervision of a doctor.
ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION
The arteries that carry blood to the penis are just slightly wider than the head of a pin. Even slight buildups of plaque (atherosclerosis) can impede circulation and make it difficult for a man to get and/or maintain an erection.
The same things that improve overall cardiovascular health, such as lowering cholesterol and blood pressure, can improve a man’s ability to achieve an erection. Also helpful…
The Deer. This is a Taoist exercise that removes energy blockages, stimulates hormone production and improves erections. Sit on the edge of the bed, and rub your hands to warm them. Hold the scrotum with one hand. With the other hand, massage right below the navel in a circular motion. Do it 81 times, then switch hands and rub in the other direction 81 times.
Follow this with 36 Kegel exercises, in which you tighten and then release the pubococcygeus muscles — the same muscles that you would use to stop urine in
midstream.
Foot massage. Once or twice a day, massage the entire foot, paying particular attention to the sides of the heels. The meridians (energy pathways) that support sexual potency run through this part of the foot.
Yohimbe. Yohimbe bark extract is among the most effective natural products for improving erections. It increases blood flow to the genitals while at the same time impeding the flow of blood out of the penis — important for keeping an erection.
Dose: One cup of yohimbe tea… or 30 drops of tincture, mixed with an inch of water or taken straight, 30 minutes to an hour before sex. Also available in capsules.
Caution: Yohimbe can elevate blood pressure and cause insomnia. It also interacts with many common drugs, including antihypertensives and heart and diabetes medications. Use it only under the supervision of a doctor and never more than twice a week.
Omega-3 fatty acids enhance circulation and help the nervous system function better. Eat fish (such as salmon, tuna, sardines) twice per week or supplement with fish oil (follow directions on the label).
BETTER ORGASMS
Men and women who eat well, exercise regularly and are comfortable with their bodies experience better and more frequent orgasms. Also helpful…
Arginine. An amino acid called L-arginine is a vasodilator, which means it helps to widen or open up blood vessels. Arginine cream can be applied to the clitoris or penis before sex to increase arousal and the intensity of orgasms. You also can take an oral capsule form to increase blood flow to sexual organs. Follow directions on the label.
Personal interviewed Brigitte Mars, herbalist, a founding member of The American Herbalists Guild and instructor at Naropa University, Bauman College and Boulder College of Massage Therapy, Boulder, Colorado.
She has been practicing and teaching herbal medicine and nutrition for more than 40 years. She is author of The Sexual Herbal: Prescriptions for Enhancing Love and Passion (Healing Arts). http://www.BrigitteMars.com
March 9th, 2011 at 11:11 am
Ah Misch, that’s too bad about Madaline and timing, I would not lose a moment of sleep if I heard today on the news that suddenly every male in the ME fell into a coma and slipped away or that they met a violent and slow seizure like death, either one works…as long as women could be freed of pigs in human clothing.
Oscar, usually I go to Mammoth in the Sierras bc I know that large mountain like the back of my hand though it’s haevy stuff ‘Sierra cement’, yesterday was local only bc I had to get home same day. I do also love Deer valley/Park City, Utah with it’s light ‘champagne bubbles’ snow, in CO I only know vail and Beaver Creek, would love to ski Aspen sometime, I love renting big houses where lots of people stay and ski, though I prefer skiing in small groups. I would also love to schralp the Alps again and really want to check out Italy’s Dolomites someday, I could speak ski-nglish for days so I’ll end it now : )
I just got #2′s comment, it’s ash Weds already? Hmmm, I’m so not aware of religious dates anymore, is that bad?
Al, I hear ya…and I like that you don’t feel compelled to engage with just anybody here either : ) and if you don’t want a pet name, then that’s that, although I will reserve the privilege of aclling you Al’a'mode, yes?? hahaha…
Ok, gotta roll today, gotta go make some men get off their buns and meet their freakin’ promised deadlines, no more laid back Lily, they will meet the sterner though very Zen, Zen Lillian and get it together – now. Or I’ll fire em’ off the roof : ) hee hee…
Luv, Zen Lill
March 9th, 2011 at 11:14 am
Those of your residing in San Francisco may be interested in this event.
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Are you concerned about high home phone bills for yourself or a friend or loved one?
Do you expect to reach LOCAL emergency services when you dial 911?
Do you depend on the LifeLine program to lower your monthly phone bill?
Are you worried that you are paying more for home phone service and getting less in return?
You have an opportunity to voice your concerns at a PUBLIC HEARING hosted by California Public Utilities Commission (CPUC).
A proposal currently being considered by the CPUC would reduce simultaneously REDUCE SERVICE and RAISE RATES. Among other things, this proposal would:
Add a new fee to your monthly bill for receiving calls on your home phone.
Reduce standards for reaching local 911 emergency services.
Eliminate the right of some home phone customers to choose their long distance company.
Eliminate your right to automatically receive a paper phone book.
Increase the fees for calling 411 directory assistance.
The CPUC proposal downgrades basic home phone service to allow cell phone companies to receive public subsidies to serve high-cost rural areas with wireless LifeLine service.
Currently, in order to receive public funds, a company must meet the definition of basic service and high standards of reliability expected of landline home phones.
The CPUC proposal increases rates for landline phones by letting phone companies add a new fee to your monthly bill for receiving calls on your home phone, and letting them increase the fees they charge each time you call 411 directory assistance.
ATTEND A CPUC HEARING IN SAN FRANCISCO TO HELP US MAKE SURE THE VOICE OF THE CONSUMER IS HEARD! Share your personal story with the CPUC and let them know how these changes will affect you, your family and your community.
San Francisco
March 10, 2011
2 p.m. and 7 p.m.
State Office Building
505 Van Ness Avenue
For more information, please call:
Michael Richard, AARP: (916) 556-3016 or mrichard@aarp.org
March 9th, 2011 at 11:20 am
Bravo! A must see short video in honor of Women’s rights
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkp4t5NYzVM&feature=player_embedded
March 9th, 2011 at 11:21 am
I wish everyone would stay out of our business. It is between Al and I.
I respect your wishes, Al and I will hence forth only think of you as Sweetie. I will address you as you wish as Al.
And Shelby that borders on stalking, I think.
Linda
March 9th, 2011 at 11:23 am
Linda, if I were you I would back off. I smell a gay man. Or one who is past getting it up.
Shelby did you get close enough to observe his package?
Well, girl D-I-S-H!
March 9th, 2011 at 11:28 am
That was an excellent video. It echoed visually the words said here over and over every day.
Thank you for sharing
Mia
March 9th, 2011 at 11:38 am
LOL – Linda wrote wish everyone would stay out of our business. It is between Al and I.
Um, hello? This is a public forum. You put it out there its between all of us now.
March 9th, 2011 at 11:50 am
Hey Al, remember me? I was your “first.” You asked me after coitus if I was your girl. (Now you know its me.)
Don’t listen to those bitches. I can attest you are definitely not gay. You may have a gentle touch but you’ve definitely got a rod of steel that any woman would be so lucky to ride on.
March 9th, 2011 at 11:57 am
Apple does it again!
Apple announced today that it has developed a breast implant that can store and play music. The iTit will cost from $499 to $699, depending on cup and speaker size. This is considered a major social breakthrough, because women are always complaining about men staring at their breasts and not listening to them.
March 9th, 2011 at 12:00 pm
Suzanne, thanks for posting that vid. I just sent it around to some pals : ) and I’m going to put it on my home page asap (when my males get their work done, the ZL whips’ a crackin’ today!) bc every day people/sheople/men should and will be reminded of this info. Love it. – ZL
March 9th, 2011 at 12:28 pm
Now you are talking. This is a woman’s blog. So if the women feel like ogling a man on it, so be it (As the Prince said). Now there’s the world’s most perfect Gentleman. You could do worst than mimic his behavior, Big Al. And that goes double for the rest of you wannabe lovers out there.
Amazing how men can get uncomfortable when mere words are tossed their way. But they expect us to accept sexual harassment in all its disgusting forms as fucking par for the course.
I say tough shit if Al can’t take it. As for Linda –what a wimpy pussy. Get a pair of stronger ovaries and tell Al you will call him whatever the fuck you want to.
Me, I’m going to call him Big Al. Why, the number one reason, because I can. Number two because I live with a 5’6″ asshole and Big Al is 6′ plus(how much Big AL?) sweetheart. He feels the angst of us women.
My little man is always trying to compensate for his little size by being the loudest asshole in a room. He comes with a dick to match his scrawny size.
Why you ask did I settle with the creep? Money Darlings, MONEY! He has so much money that I can spend it without a peep from him. Of course he allows me to because I am 6’1” of gorgeousness. who he believes loves the ground he walks on. But ——
I cheat on him every chance I get. I fucked his uncle because I can’t stand the bastard, my boyfriend I mean. The uncle is quite nice, ‘though that is skewed because he is married.
He keeps asking me to marry him, but I don’t think I could marry this lousy fuck even for that much money. I would share the above article about better sex with him, but this guy can’t even eat pussy right. I can’t see the above message helping him any.
So I visit this blog to let my mind rage freely. Now I have to put up with Big Al acting all sensitive to being called Sweetheart. Bet if I came over and sat this fat, wet, juicy, sweet pussy on your face, you’d let me call you sweetheart, Al.
Hell, as fine as I am if I visited your space, you’d let me call you whatever the fuck I wanted to, unless you are gay.
I got lots of gay friends, mine you and I can hook you up. If that’s your speed. I’m okay with it. My last lover was a lawyer for a big patent firm. She had hands like a man but a body like a Barbie doll, and a face that belied her deceptiveness.
It was heaven for 3 years. Until she made partner and had to go looking for a man to marry. I introduced the bitch to my best friend Chuck who was gay and also needed a wife for a front.
They hooked up and decided to go straight. I dropped modeling when I was 17 to move in with that bitch for 3 years and she dumps me for a gay man.
Revenge baby was my mission! I went back to modeling and I stayed in touch with Chuck so I could get that revenge. I don’t blame Chuck. Steff could talk a blind man into believing he could see.
Yeah, Zen Lill, sometimes even you are right. This time it was the bitch at fault. I was a woman on a mission and I would have gone for the jugular, but she had been good to me when we were a couple so I still had a tender spot for her.
All I did was hook Chuck up with a male model in the business. I knew Chuck’s fondness for slim six-pack looking sweet thangs.
As compensation for dumping me Steff introduced me to one of her rich clients (you guessed it my pint sized wonder, Brad) who fell in love so quick I thought at first she paid him to get rid of me.
That was until I found out how lucrative a corner on a few patients can be. This asshole sits on his ass and makes a billion dollars a year from a few patients, and I have to shake my half-naked ass on a runway for a few thousand bucks.
Tell me how good men have it!
I spend and spend this guy’s money but he never says pooh. When I am not spending it, I am stashing it away. What’s a girl to do when she is in a relationship with a man who she despises and who is a lousy fuck to boot?
So, I take my frustrations out on you Big AL. You can take it. I read some joker posing as an alien referring to the possibility that you will one day sport the title of Alien to the worlds you visit.
Hells bells, if you are going to be an Alien on other worlds, don’t you think you should work on the hyper sensitivity to being called Sweetheart, sweetie or even Big Al?
Whoever heard of a space traveler who couldn’t take a joke that was worth a damn? I mean I watched my moms old collection of Star Trek and only the Klingons couldn’t take a joke.
And hello, Al they were the bad guys.
So unless you want a lot of readers to think you are going to be a hard ass klingon when you get your space wings, I would lighten the fuck up.
Besides only that Anonz(what I wouldn’t give for a piece of you) gets the play you got from Linda.
How many men on this blog would love to be in your shoes? Women clamming to be a little part of your sunshine. And you tell them to get a sun lamp cause you ain’t into being all that cozy with your rays.
Okay, I’ve ranted enough. But don’t you wish your sweetheart could write like me? Can’t you just imagine what I would be whispering into your ear with my legs spread, and you on top pounding away for dear life?
Sure you can boys! Just close your eyes lay back and say “Claire.”
Later
March 9th, 2011 at 12:37 pm
Get a grip girls. It gags me when you all write about how great your pussy is or what your body looks like, how big your boobs are, how you are the best lay, etc. How shallow you all are if you think your body is your best asset and that’s what you must put forth. You’ve bought right into the man’s world of defining what you are – a piece of ass. You all make me sick and are a disgrace to women the world over.
March 9th, 2011 at 12:43 pm
Hey Earl, you brought me back with that iTit. Apple also has another product out for called the iDick. It is a dick implant that can store and play music, for a little more it has built in excuses for “why I was such a lousy fuck today”. It will cost $699 to $999 depending on the length and girth size.
This is also considered a major social breakthrough, because women have been rightfully complaining about having to listen to lame excuses for their partner’s premature ejaculations or just being an all around lousy fuck when he dosen’t.
Now they can just ignore the fuck’s excuses and lay back and enjoy their favorite music. Or be treated to a well thought out lie put to their favorite musical score.
DYWYGCWLM
Claire
March 9th, 2011 at 12:56 pm
DYWYGCWLM? what a fucking joke Claire. I dont see no pulitzer in your future. You might want to check out your local community college for further education.
March 9th, 2011 at 1:14 pm
That is so sexist Ethel! You have bought into the man’s propaganda that women shouldn’t use their bodies to their advantage.
Gag on, if you must. But allow other women to use every asset they have to get ahead. Men do. Check out the Old male movie stars. The “casting couch” was as much into play for them as the women. They gave it up to any gay male that wanted it.
The same is true today. Men will do anything to get ahead. Studies have shown that taller men get ahead over their equally talented shorter male rivals.
Why shouldn’t a woman be proud of her body. She would be a fool and not be a realist if she didn’t use her looks to get ahead. Any intelligent woman knows that men think with their dicks.
Look around you Ethel. Ever see an unattractive woman as the head of the secretary pool or sitting in the front office.
Just because a woman is pretty, or beautiful dosen’t mean she is dumb. That is another piece of male propaganda.
And why shouldn’t a woman be proud of her sexual skills. When men are labeled with that title, we are supposed to swoon. But a man downs a woman for having the same skills.
Fuck that Ethel(thanks Claire, that felt good).
Women should do and say whatever makes them feel good. Many athletes think their bodies are their best assets. Men at the top spend hours with personal instructors trying to look good. They spend even more trying to buy a good looking wife(what do you think Claire’s point was?).
If I get in the door because a man chose me over the competition because he liked my body’s appearance, how inept would I have been if I knew that I was a knockout and I did’t use that asset.
Would you be as lenient if I left off an outstanding mental asset on my employment application?
Face it Ethel we live in a visual world. The Attractive get the breaks. So if you have it, flaunt it to your advantage.
And the prerequisite to being able to flaunt with attitude is having the right attitude about yourself.
You can’t flaunt it, if you don’t believe you are all that. My advice is don’t wait for a man to be your affirmation.
So Ladies tell yourself that you are all that and act accordingly.
Oh, and Ethel if you have been reading the arab ladies comments on this blog, then you should know that men don’t need a visual stimulus to think women are just “a piece of ass.”
Look what they did to women covered from head to toe. They groped and mauled them. We shouldn’t dress or act any way but the way that pleases us.
Women are the only judges of whether they want to feel like “a piece of ass.” God knows that just what I wanted to be on several occasions for that special man of mine.
But it was my choice. Neither a male nor you have the right to decide that for me or any other woman.
Alycedale
March 9th, 2011 at 1:28 pm
Sure ya right Earl? You were the same white boys that made fun of Rap. It was ebonics to your inept ass. Now white boys are mimicking it in every form of commercial enterprise.
Pulitzer is a reward for white boys to white boys or those who have the limited intellectual horizons that cause the white boy to lose control of every industry in the industrialized world once he lost the monopoly on forcing the OTW to buy only from him.
They next time you want to refer to Pulitzer as the epitome of acclaim. Think of the Baseball hall of fame.
It is full of white boys who couldn’t hold the jock straps of OTWs that play the game. But they were superstars because they were only playing other white boys.
As in your critique of Claire. You hear through a mindset of a person who needs someone of authority to tell you what is “Good, Bad, or Ugly.”
You wouldn’t know if it was style, class, or innovation unless someone told you they were.
Claire, you go girl! When you are a star this asshole will be wearing his pants down around his ass claiming he’s styling ’cause some one told him “now that shit is in style.”
No, you are the joke Earl. Look around you at who’s laughing. Your kind has bankrupted America with their shortsightedness.
DYWYGCWLM – Sho ya right.
Delores
March 9th, 2011 at 1:32 pm
Earl, ha, ha, haaaaaaaaa.
You slipped in your little sexist joke and Claire jumped in and spanked your ass and you couldn’t take it. Just like a man you can dish it out but you can’t take it.
I love it. She spanked your ass like you stole something.
DYWYGCWLM
March 9th, 2011 at 1:34 pm
Alycedale you are bad as she is. Because a man does it this way, we should too? Please! I’m not talking about what you do for or with your man, that’s between the two of you. Being proud of your sexual skills is one thing, but if you value yourself and your partner, your sexual skills should be a special thing that’s cherished.
“You have bought into the man’s propaganda that women shouldn’t use their bodies to their advantage.” WHAT?? Show me what man told a woman not to use her body! That’s all they care about AND PROMOTE. Ever been to HOOTERS? Seen the pimps on the corners? Women need to be smarter, you included.
“Men will do anything to get ahead” so your answer is we should too. Look what men have done to the world and their women. Do you really thing they are to be emulated? Apparently you do. You like what you see in them and what to be the same.
“If I get in the door because a man chose me over the competition because he liked my body’s appearance, how inept would I have been if I knew that I was a knockout and I did’t use that asset.” Why don’t you just show up at your next job inteview naked? That ought to guarantee you the job, right?
By the way, I have an UGLY female boss.
Until you and others on this blog, MALE AND FEMALE alike realize that we are not our bodies, the human race cannot make progress. Skin color, gender, age is not who we are, its just the packaging folks. Men and Women truly being equal means taking the sexuality OUT OF the equation.
March 9th, 2011 at 1:42 pm
Alycedale, I am a middle class working white woman living in the heartland. I have no black friends and very few acquaintances of any color but white.
I have been a republican all my life. But the more I read what you write the more I want to read. I love the way you take life and make it make sense.
Suzanne
March 9th, 2011 at 1:43 pm
Very amusing to see men writing under female names and females writing under men’s names professing to know what is best for their gender. Delicious entertainment today.
March 9th, 2011 at 1:45 pm
hijjii
contact by telephone only
navigator
March 9th, 2011 at 2:46 pm
Ethel do you even know what you are saying? You talk as if you are a feminist, but you use all the buzz words men use to control women.
For example your statement. ” Being proud of your sexual skills is one thing, but if you value yourself and your partner, your sexual skills should be a special thing that’s cherished.”
By “cherished” you mean keeping it between you and your man. Fuck that. I am woman hear me roar! I will talk about my sexual skills as I see fit. It your mores are such that it makes you squeamish to hear sex talk then excuse yourself.
But don’t try to use a man’s tactics to shut me up by inferring that it cheapens me to do so. Whether I talk about my sexual prowess or not that doesn’t give a man the right to feel he can have sex with me. That is the bullshit you are implying with that tone.
Next you will be implying to the girl who was raped, “if your dress hadn’t been that short, or if you hadn’t been drinking, or if you hadn’t etc, etc,.
You have been brainwashed by men’s bullshit. Why should my sexual skills be a “special thing?” Men share theirs with anyone they can fuck.
Girl, you are in need of a special evaluation from Alycedale. That bullshit about hooters is straight from the man’s bible on making women feel cheap about themselves.
I’ve got one for you. Have you ever heard of Chippendales? Men strip for the pleasure of women and they are lauded as studs. Women do it and they are labeled as cheap.
Read a book by a woman’s woman. Your analogy that working at HOOTERS makes a woman no better than a prostitute is male bullshit. Men go there to see other women’s tits but tell their women that negative shit you just spoused.The reason they tell their women that shit is to keep their women from showing what they want other men to see.
Hence it is “special.” When a man tells you something about you is “special.” What he is really saying is that I want you to keep that available only for me.
So under that philosophy a woman’s sexual skills “should be a special thing that’s cherished.” Of course, because he wants to be the only one availing himself of her skills. While he, of course, is sharing his with anything he can get his sorry dick into.
You are lost if you are comparing a woman using her body with a woman earning a living working at HOOTERS. Listen to your self. You have made the word “using” a negative thing when it refers to a woman’s body.
That is straight out of the holy books of every religion started or promoted by man. That is the reason muslims use to force women to wear burqas. You have been brained washed to a degree beyond this discourse.
What does a pimp have to do with a woman earning an honest living working at Hooters?
Women can work were they want and do what they are legally allowed to do with their bodies without men gaining the right to violate their space or dignity. Did you not hear about the woman who sued and won for sexual harassment while she worked at Hooters?(http://abcnews.go.com/US/story?id=96429&page=1)
You quote me and ask – ““Men will do anything to get ahead” so your answer is we should too.”
My answer is HELL YES!
Who says we are emulating men by being successful? We can be successful and do it better, much better than men have.
“Apparently,” shit! What I like, is not the issue. What I want is if anyone should have it all let it be women.
And this statement with its man implanted implications says it all about your indoctrination at the hands of men. And I quote before I dissect.
““If I get in the door because a man chose me over the competition because he liked my body’s appearance, how inept would I have been if I knew that I was a knockout and I did’t use that asset.” Why don’t you just show up at your next job interview naked? That ought to guarantee you the job, right?”
Again you equate a woman dressing how she wants to look for an interview with offering sex for the job, if she dresses “sexy.” When you go to a runway show and see the half naked models does it cross your mind that they are offering sex?
So why does it then, if a woman dresses sexy for work? Because a man has told you that he is entitled to make advances to a woman dressing “provocative.” He of course being the judge of what is provocative. Not unlike the muslim that allow a man to beat, rape or kill a woman who shows too much skin because islam tells him that it is provocative.
Using your logic, he is entitled to beat her or worse.
Get a grip on what you are accepting as fact. None of that shit is true. As a matter of fact a woman should be able to walk down any street in the world stark naked without any man feeling that gives him the right to make overtures to that woman.
If you feel otherwise, then talk to Alycedale, you are beyond this discourse.
Your next statement. “By the way, I have an UGLY female boss.” So, what? Intelligence is not based on looks, but the opportunity to show that you have that intelligence is based on what you look like. Ask any OTW, if you doubt it.
Au Contraire, we ARE our bodies. But that doesn’t mean we should be discriminated against because of its appearance. Those are horses of two different colors. But the male has blurred that distinction for you and you are lost in the meaning.
I hope not forever. But I am not clever enough to help. This white girl defers to you Alycedale.
Claire
March 9th, 2011 at 2:46 pm
Delores must mean just another racist hiding behind a computer, I don’t give a shit what color you are. Throwing out “my kind?” How the fuck would you know what color I am? Quick to fucking judge is what you are. A Pulitzer Prize is a U.S. award for achievements in newspaper and online journalism, literature and musical composition. I wrote my opinion that DYWYGCWLM would never qualify. I didn’t get ruffled by her joke. Her writing sucks. And no, I don’t wish. If MGCWL her, I’d send her butt back to school. Gwendolyn Elizabeth Brooks was the first black woman to win a pulitzer. In 1950 for poetry. Ms. Brooks won during the time segregation was active. ANYONE willing to pay an entrance fee can have their work considered. Maybe you need to get that super sized tampon out of your ass and get your butt back to school too.
March 9th, 2011 at 3:00 pm
NAVIGATOR
Are we on the same link?
We are presently in cloak over the Cumberland River. We are using a (615) area code. If this is the link you have we will call tomorrow. If it is not we will all Saturday.
That is if your area code is (727)
Hijjii
March 9th, 2011 at 3:48 pm
Earl, please, there are plenty of black players in the baseball hall of fame, that doesn’t mean that the whites who were allowed in there before the league was integrated belong there.
And it doesn’t detract from my implication that the pulitzer is anything but a white boys opinion of what is good writing just because they gave one to an OTW.
I was not judging what color you are Earl. I was responding from the white boy point of view you were expressing. Clarence Thomas is black but if I responded to any of the bullshit he espouses, I would respond in the same way I did to you.
Let me correct you, if I may. Your statement is “A Pulitzer Prize is a U.S. award for achievements in newspaper and online journalism, literature and musical composition.”
Mine is that this “award for achievements” is not selected in a vacuum. It uses criteria and political influences of the white boy as a sieve before it gives someone a pulitzer.
The first Pulitzer Prizes were awarded June 4, 1917. Now check to discover when the first OTW won a Pultizer. Unless you are white you will see that my point was well made. For that matter check to see when white men deemed it necessary to award a woman a Pulitzer?
Excuse me you said 1950. I guess it took 33 years for a black to rise to the level of being able to compete with a white boy for a pulitzer. I’m sure the significance of that is lost on you. But that should make it glaringly obvious why I put little meaning to your value on the pulitzer.
It’s all politics, white one-upmanship politics. I give no special consideration to an award made by the white boy. Hence it matters not that he deigned to give one to a woman or an OTW to persuade me that it is an impartial selection process.
Neither does your anger with me for not accepting the pulitzer to be all that you want me to take it as persuade me to give it any more merit. It is merely another white boy controlled award that is used to instill a particular way of thinking on the masses. One that favors the opinions of white boys when it comes to all things that matter.
I’ll wager that one day a Pulitzer will be given for rap as awards are now given for what was once “race music.” After all the white boys movies, stars, and other icons have all embraced the once negative labeled “ebonic” the root of Rap.
Maybe it will be the same group that told you that the pulitzer was a great prize for achievements in newspaper and online journalism, literature and musical composition, that will one day tell you that Rap is a unique and outstanding art form.
I wonder how many of the millionaires making a living selling Rap to you and yours took their butts back to school?
I will make a bargain with you though, I will take this “super sized tampon out of (sic)my ass” if you will take your tiny little weenie out of your hands and put it back into your pants. Maybe it will help you think better.
Delores
March 9th, 2011 at 4:07 pm
I know exactly what I am saying Claire and I stand by all I wrote. You come across as a very insecure woman who is using her sexuality to make her self feel better about her place in the world. You’ve misconstrued the meaning of so much of what I’ve wrote. You seem to have nothing else to offer but your body. You’ve made that abundantly clear. I actually like men and women and I’ve been fortunate to have been loved by both. I doubt you’ve ever experienced true love with ANYONE. You didn’t understand at all my comment about something to cherish. Probably because deep inside you know you aren’t worth it. I imagine that is why you go off on the term “special.” All you have to offer is your cunt. The (I can’t honestly say lady) doth protest too much, methinks.
“..But don’t try to use a man’s tactics to shut me up by inferring that it cheapens me to do so. Whether I talk about my sexual prowess or not that doesn’t give a man the right to feel he can have sex with me. That is the bullshit you are implying with that tone.” You are assuming here and or projecting your own experience. I never said that and then you go on to put further useless meaning into words I didn’t say “Next you will be implying to the girl who was raped, “if your dress hadn’t been that short, or if you hadn’t been drinking, or if you hadn’t etc, etc,.” Projection! Sorry, I am not Italian.
I don’t believe you even know what you are writing. You said that I bought into the man’s propaganda that women shouldn’t use their bodies to their advantage.” I wrote that’s not true. What man doesn’t want a woman to use her body to someone’s advantage? Hooters is a chain started in Florida by men. They became quite rich on their franchise. It wasn’t a woman who had the business idea. I don’t care how many women want to work there or earn a living there. The business didn’t start with a bunch of men sitting around saying how can we empower women?
“Why should my sexual skills be a “special thing?” Men share theirs with anyone they can fuck.” Obviously you have some low-grade men in your life if you have this expectation of all of them. If you want to fuck anything that walks, more power to you. And you are right, there is nothing special about that.
“Women can work were they want and do what they are legally allowed to do with their bodies without men gaining the right to violate their space or dignity.” That’s mostly true, but they cant work wherever they want. Didn’t you see the video Suzanne posted today? “…a woman should be able to walk down any street in the world stark naked without any man feeling that gives him the right to make overtures to that woman.” I agree with that statement but that is not the basis of your writing I objected to. I agree with that statement because the truth for me comes from RESPECT. “By the way, I have an UGLY female boss. So, what?” That comment was for Acedayle who wrote “Ever see an unattractive woman as the head of the secretary pool or sitting in the front office.” The answer is yes.
Unlike you, I am not limited by my body. I don’t have the need to use my body to push limits. It does not define me. I am a strong woman with a sense of self who values her body and I use it as I see fit. Perhaps like you. But the similarities end there. I have class that you dear, do not. You lie to your partner, cheat on him, use him, brag about it, and offer to open your legs for strangers. You prove yourself to be no better than a man. I cannot respect a woman like that. There really is nothing “special” about you, as you said.
March 9th, 2011 at 4:15 pm
Earl get a pair and tell that nigger to shut up. Of course we decide who wins a Pulitzer. It’s our Pulitzer. If niggers want to give awards to their writers. Get a nigger to die and leave behest on that behalf.
Otherwise shut the fuck up and be happy we decided to give the black bitch an award.
Damn, I’m not apologizing for my fore fathers founding this great nation. I said fore fathers not fucking fore mothers.
Frankly, I don’t know why we gave those cunts the right to vote in the first place. The camel niggers have the right idea. Keep them bitches in corrals. That way we can fuck them when we are in the mood and keep them out of sight when we aren’t.
Whites on this blog STOP apologizing to uppity niggers who would know their place if they tried to bring that shit to Biloxi. Here we will set a nigger straight in a second.
George
March 9th, 2011 at 4:33 pm
Ethel:
I think you know what Alycedale meant when she said you never see an ugly woman …. namely that men pick women with their dicks. Your reference to having an Ugly female boss is the kind of cheap dodge men use to avoid the recognizing the obvious, as in there is no more discrimination because the President is black.
I repeat this discourse will not help you. You reason from mental point of view men have given you, the sad thing is you may not even be aware of it. Stay chase for them.
Respect is a cultural thing. We learn to respect what our culture tells us is a good thing. For you that appears to be what some males have defined for you.
I decide for myself what I will respect. I have chosen to respect the fact that you honestly believe you have the answers, hey, if you’re happy with it. I’m okay.
March 9th, 2011 at 4:49 pm
LMAO! There you are George, you stupid fuck! It’s been a while. I thought you were dead. Still not taking your pills, I see…well, you do seem to be taking the blue ones and leaving the red ones alone…
March 9th, 2011 at 5:32 pm
Hear me clear. No man or woman has defined me. No man or woman is above me. I am WAY older than you. You’ve stated the obvious: You have learned respect from your culture. You then try to dispute it and say you decide for yourself. Which one is it little Claire? It is obvious to me that your culture is a cess pool. Hence you were given no respect and therefore have none for yourself. You are the one has to live with your karma and reason with you body. My power extends beyond my current female body. Perhaps that is why I dont feel compelled to wield it as a weapon. When your body is dust, I’ll still be here, choosing any form I like, sharing my “body” with whomever I choose. But know this: whomever I choose to share my essence with, it comes from a place of love and light and honesty, out of mutual respect, not one-upmanship, deceit, ego or insecurity. (I was able to ascertain the real you with your last posting so ha-ha thanks for the fun. I should have taken Anon-24′s posting more seriously it seems. Now go girl, stick those ta-tas out and fight for your way in the world.)
March 9th, 2011 at 6:57 pm
Okay, what is it Ethel? Are you upset because I am beautiful. Blame God. He gave me these good looks and long legs(is that redundant?). Can I help it if men want to pay for the privilege to be in my company.
And why shouldn’t I make them pay dearly? Athletes market their bodies for the top price because nothing is permanent.
I’m 24 fine, and probably going to get finer before I start to decline. I got it all looks, tits, ass, yes lots of ass for a white girl, and I’ve got liquid blue eyes the kind the camera loves. So I am in demand.
Why shouldn’t I make the bastards pay to play. Sure I like sex but I prefer girls. If I have to fuck these shit for brains, little dick wonders, I need to get paid.
So hate me if you must, but lighten up on the you are going to live forever, wishful thinking. And as for Anon24, there’s a man’s opinion for you. If a woman gets a little too aggressive for him to take, she has to be a dyke or a man in disguise.
Anon24 – sorry honey but those tiny gonads aren’t what makes a man the beast he is. It’s his proclivity for thinking they do. And if I frighten you so, go lie down for a while; it”ll go away. But when you wake, I’ll still be a woman.
Claire
March 9th, 2011 at 7:04 pm
uh, huh, I like it too anon#24. But I am not getting the vibes you are. It seems like a hot cat fight to me.
Your turn Ethel.
March 9th, 2011 at 7:13 pm
No body is working here. This blog is hilarious. I haven’t laughed as much since i watched EDTV 11 years ago.
March 9th, 2011 at 7:31 pm
STFU George
March 9th, 2011 at 7:43 pm
Doug, main dude, I freakin’ roared at your George comment mostly bc you beat me to it! hahaha…!
This place is active with (feminist) psyche disecting tonight, me – think I’ll stay out of it this time bc I’m busy with my daddy and he says I’m the best there ever was/is, and dammit I believe him and even without him (oh wait, he’s dead now anyway), I am as all that in any given moment as I want to be, mind/body and spirit, and you can bet your ass it’s special, every time.
& If you want it special everytime, I would cut and paste that sex piece above and use it, or hey, I mentioned Dr Ignarro, the other day – yes, his cocktail is L-argenine, L-citriline, folic acid, vitey D/E and Vite c (powdered absorbic acid dissolves all this best and is best for absorption), creates a nitous oxide efefct in the body, great for workouts, heart health and stiff members : ) take it every 3-4 hours or 3x’s daily (depending on how much sex you want to have) try it or anything from above, how do I know these things work, well I am daddy’s little girl ; )
- and trust me, the cocktail is tried and true bc I don’t settle for little dicks, crappy muffin munchers or just lame sexual sessions of any kind, that’s for wussies who have ulterior motives. My motive is for everyone within the sheets to leave satisfied but usually what happens is everyone passes the hell out from exhaustion, oh yeah…
We can all be good in bed if we want to be, but if your ‘using’ someone for bigger gains, and everyone can sense that, chances are, they are probably not giving you their all anyway, small dick, big dick, or no dick…disclaimer: unless your indulging in a consensual usery (a one time only and both parties know it).
Btw, I heard on CNN that romance is over after 3 years now (as opposed to that 7 yr itch) bc it’s been proven, we get on each others nerves (I thought Woody Allen already proved that out in ‘Sleeper’ twenty years ago)…so I guess I’ll just switch it up every 2-3 to keep it fresh – hmm, unless there’s someone who can be a love and talk/tell some good stories : ) and take my cocktail regularly like a sweet baby, just to keep me happy. And now, I think I’ll sit back now and enjoy the flying words!
Caio, ZL
March 9th, 2011 at 7:45 pm
it is a hot cat fight, Scott, and I can’t wait to hear more, the hot 24 yr old and Ethel, who I think means well but is probably very religious, just a guess…ZL
March 9th, 2011 at 10:36 pm
I love this blog. But I know Zen Lill is really the Main Dude sometimes and sometimes Michelle or one of her friends. The Character as much as I love her cannot possibly be real.
Daddy’s little girl, right. I’ll grant you that you two as a tandem know how to keep the blog excitement going.
Now who really is the hot stuff you claim is Zen Lill with the snap shots. I expect to see her face any day now on the web.
Love the moniker too. Zen Lill.
Bobby
March 9th, 2011 at 11:07 pm
Hafa Adai:
I just got off work. I looks like I missed the live action. Zen Lill is always hot. But the Miss Claire is heating up my screen. If you are as hot as you say you are and I have no reason to doubt your word I can understand why you feel trapped in that relationship.
Come to Guam. I am five nine also but I got the parts that count. And I know how to use them. I’m not rich but have a pretty good job. I’m single and some say I’m handsome.
I’m 22 just graduated from UVHawaii and I am ready to make it happen.
Len
March 9th, 2011 at 11:38 pm
Bonjour mon amies. I just got up and I am reading this blog. I couldn’t wait to read everything before I post because it is difficult sometimes to post here.
I’m agreeing with you Zen Lill. Kill the bastards. We have a large group of muslims here in France. The young men are so like the rest of the boys here except they hide a nasty secret.
They force their females to be prisoners of their sick religion. They can have all the fun they want with other girls but they want their females to remain chaste virgins ready to be forced into marriage with one of them after they have had their fill of sex with non muslim girls.
They are sick fucks. Hypocrites and monsters. They treat us girls so nicely. They act like they are such gentlemen, but one look at how they force the muslim girls to dress and what they do and say to the ones that attempt to live as they do. And you know they are evil, sadistic bastards.
I don’t know about killing them all, I haven’t lived in their shoes but I do know what I have experienced being in school with them. They are devious monsters. They pretend to believe as we do but they think they are better because they have allah provides them with virgins.
Religion is their excuse to be beast to their females. They won’t try that shit with us but they will terrorize their female at the slightest provocation.
Michelle
March 10th, 2011 at 3:23 am
A physician is not angry at the intemperance of a mad patient; nor does he take it ill to be railed at by a man in a fever. Just so should a wise man treat all mankind, as a physician does his patient; and looking upon them only as sick and extravagant. -Lucius Annaeus Seneca, philosopher (BCE 3-65 CE)
March 10th, 2011 at 7:47 am
From a things reality one can be certain of its possibility, from its possibility one can not be certain of its reality.
March 10th, 2011 at 9:23 am
Bobby, I will consider it a compliment that you think I am often Main Dude and/or Mischa herself, that is indeed a huge compliment. I assure you that I am real and I will post face shots or any other shots if and when I feel like it. Do you recall I was stalked earlier this year, yeah, well, you’re not me and I don’t intend to leave myself open to injury or further annoyance so you or anyone else can gaze into my deep dark eyes or stare at my hot cross buns : ) I have reason to believe that this ex-stalker person is keeping safe distance but is still very much interested in me and wanting to know more just bc, well, bc they too find me hard to believe, for a variety of reasons…
I may not have liquid blue eyes, nor am I 24 anymore (and good riddance to that age anyway, I was led by my ego and temperament more often than necessary back then although all of the malkes I tortured back then have since forgiven me : ), nor do I believe that my looks are anything extraordinary but my in person package (you only get my personality here, and yes, I hear about how different I am all the fucking time, sometimes I wish I were more like everyone else though being a big blond firebrand ain’t half bad) apparently is a deal maker, again, for a variety of reasons, possibly bc I am a composite of Mischa/Main dude and myself all rolled into one, hmm, come to think of it I want me now : ) a recent word from someone not native to American culture: ‘rambunctious’ I love it, call me rambunctious, call me a firebrand, call me a hot talking mama, call me whatever you want, I act like me and if that’s so hard to beoive, you probably wouldn’t hang well with me in person : ) that’s not a rank or anything, it just is. Like a George, who thinks his closeted raciosm or sexism would go under my radar bc he’s a handsome man, ha, methinks not…I’ve had lots of experience with approaching men, trust me, I am a beacon, part of that is looks or actually it’s more ‘le look’ which is a bit different than just ‘looks’ – mostly I am told it’s bc of my smile/that I look like I’m having too much fun(I smile/laugh a lot)/the most spirited convo in the rooom/etc…and that, Bobby, is enticing, so if you wnat to attribute 3 cool peeps into one, I am down with it!
Misch, I wanted to tell you a comment a female pal said to me, ‘when I was in my twenties, I hated women, they seemed all to be petty and competitive and ready to dress like a tart or like a frump but always ready to throw me under a bus over a man, men were linear thinkers, easy – feed em fuck em so I hung out with males only. and in recent years, I don’t like men so much, they lie a lot and they’re self-centered and I started finding more likable women, there are some good ones though some are still competitive about men, and NOW as of this year 2011, I am again finding them petty and willing to shred their friends and so now I only like you. But no pressure or anything. I’m not gay but when you’re libido finally gets it’s fill, you wanna get married?!’ She claims I am the only trustworthy person she’s ever met, a straight shooter (ah, that’s true, I may not always say what you want to hear but I say it anyway…can be annoying I’m sure but I like to make sure I understand YOU so I make observations). I think she knows me better than any Alycedale or anyone else here so I’m saying it bc I wonder why women are so willing to toss a woman under the bus bc they think they know you better than you know you, agian methinks – NOT.
On that note, the termite guy is here and calling me (oh noooooo) so gotta roll…Luv, Zen Lill