The Ugly Stereotyping Of Adrian Peterson
Posted by Michelle Moquin on October 21st, 2013
Good morning!
This write is sickening, and yet not surprising considering how our society stereotypes people, especially OTWs, by quickly jumping to conclusions and judgements without knowing the real story.
The Ugly Stereotyping Of Adrian Peterson
BY TRAVIS WALDRON
ON OCTOBER 17, 2013 AT 1:52 PM
CREDIT: APAt first it seemed that the death of Minnesota Vikings running back Adrian Peterson’s two-year-old son would come and pass through the sports world as the tragedy it was, with only a little misplaced criticism about Peterson playing football just two days after the death. Less than a week later, it has already devolved into a discussion about Peterson’s fatherhood, with columnists casting Peterson as the stereotypical black absentee father who, in the words of some, shares some of the responsibility for the child’s death.
That began when it came out that Peterson had only recently found out the child was his — it wasn’t, as early media reports assumed, the oft-photographed Adrian Peterson Jr. — and that Peterson the elder first met him as the child lay on his eventual deathbed. Along with a speeding ticket and a dismissed resisting arrest charge, that gave New York Postcolumnist Phil Mushnick all the evidence he needed to insinuate that Peterson shared responsibility for the tragedy, and it has only gotten worse since various media reports told the world that Peterson has allegedly fathered seven children with multiple women, none of whom he is married to, though he has two with his current girlfriend.
Since then, the Baltimore Sun‘s Susan Reimer has asked “where is the outrage” about Peterson’s alleged promiscuity, CNN’s Don Lemon has said Peterson “appears to be more MIA, than MVP,” and a whole range of blogs and entertainment types have both implicitly and explicitly cast Peterson as an absentee father who cares nothing about his children or the women who gave birth to them (many of them, at the same time, referring to the women flippantly as “baby mamas”).
Even if it isn’t the columnists’ intention, immediately painting Peterson that way perpetuates convenient stereotypes, which is easy to do in a world where both the black absentee father and the deadbeat professional football-playing dad are well-known tropes. But here’s the irony: in his column, Mushnick criticized the media for painting Peterson as a great person even though we don’t really know him — then characterized him in an entirely opposing way even though he doesn’t know anything about Peterson or his situation either. Neither do any of the other writers casting Peterson as a deadbeat know how involved or uninvolved with his children he is or the specifics of any of these situations. According to media reports, Peterson regularly pays child support. Other reports made it seem that Peterson was working to become a part of Tyrese Ruffin’s life before the child’s tragic death. According to one of the mothers, Peterson visits their child regularly during the offseason but could “do better.” The same, I’d imagine, could be said for a significant number of America’s fathers, absentee or not.
Data, which only Lemon used to try and make a cogent point, indeed suggest that children are safer and better off in two-parent homes. But single-parent homes exist throughout the country — they aren’t unique to African-Americans or whites or football players or any single group — and this child may have ended up in one whether Peterson had seven children or one. We don’t know. We have no way to know. We don’t know what led to Peterson’s circumstances. We don’t know what type of father he is or isn’t. We don’t know why he wasn’t more involved with this child already, or if more involvement would have saved the child’s life. Instead, we’re putting Adrian Peterson into a mold we think we already know, that of the absentee black father — football player or not — who isn’t there for his kids and never will be. And substituting a stereotype for what isn’t known at all misses what is plainly evident: another man beat a 2-year-old to death.
We could focus on that, on why child abuse is so rampant in America in both single- and two-parent homes, why four children die a day due to abuse of some sort, why 80 percent of them are, like Tyrese Ruffin, younger than four, why 30 percent of those who survive will one day abuse their own children. Of course, there isn’t an easy stereotype for that, since according to national statistics, child abuse “occurs at every socioeconomic level, across ethnic and cultural lines, within all religions and at all levels of education.”
Perhaps Adrian Peterson could do better. Perhaps he could have been more responsible then and can take more responsibility now. I certainly hope he supports his children not only financially but physically and emotionally too. The truth is, though, that both individual situations like this and larger issues surrounding both child abuse and fatherhood — including, yes, black fatherhood — are far more complex than any of the columns or discussions that result out of situations like this ever allow. Instead, they devolve into rants about (mostly) black fathers leaving their “baby mamas” and children behind, deadbeats turning the wheels on a cycle of deadbeats. Far from being productive, it’s lazy perpetuation of stereotypes that aren’t correct.
We don’t always have to run there. Sometimes it’s enough to admit we have no idea, to just mourn the tragic death of a 2-year-old child, and let Adrian Peterson and his family, no matter its size or situation, mourn it too.
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October 21st, 2013 at 2:40 pm
STOP DENYING GLOBAL WARMING COTINUED:
Amazon Rain Forest — Drying and Dying
Yesterday I posted a comment about the News Media denying Global Warming. The Amazon rain forest’s dry season lasted three weeks longer than it did 30 years ago, and the culprit is global warming.
Rain falls year-round in the Amazon, but most of the annual deluge drops during the wet season. (The rainy season’s timing varies with latitude.) Scientists think that a longer dry season will stress trees, raising the risk of wildfires and forest dieback. The forest’s annual fire season became longer as the dry season lengthened, according to the study, published today (Oct. 21) in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.
“The length of the dry season in the southern Amazon is the most important climate condition controlling the rain forest,” Rong Fu, a climate scientist at The University of Texas at Austin’s Jackson School of Geosciences, said in a statement. “If the dry season is too long, the rain forest will not survive.”
The new findings forecast a more parched future for the Amazon rain forest than the climate report released last month by the Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change (IPCC), the study authors said. The IPCC models predict the Amazon dry season will last three to 10 days longer by 2100.
But with the dry season already spanning an extra week each decade since 1979, the Texas team said the future effects will be more severe.
“The dry season over the southern Amazon is already marginal for maintaining rain forest,” Fu said. “At some point, if it becomes too long, the rain forest will reach a tipping point.”
Fu and her colleagues analyzed rainfall patterns across the Southern Amazon rain forest since 1979, and plugged the data into 50 simulations from eight climate models. The climate models from the IPCC’s AR5 report, released in September, reported smaller dry season changes than actually measured since 1979. This means the IPCC models likely underestimate future predictions of rain forest climate change effects, the researchers conclude.
Global warming can limit tropical rainfall across the southern Amazon in two ways, Fu explained. First, shifts in the southern jet stream can block cold fronts that trigger rainfall. (In the Northern Hemisphere, extremes in the northern jet stream pattern have been linked to wacky weather, such as the unusually warm winter in 2012.) Rising surface temperatures, attributed to global warming, also make it harder for storms to start. The heat inhibits “convective energy,” keeping warm, dry air near the surface from rising and mixing with cool, moist air above, changing weather patterns.
The Amazon Rain Forest is akin to the lungs of our planet. The Amazon absorbs water and the jungles take in Carbon Dioxide from the air and gives off Oxygen — enough to consider the Amazon Jungles as the “Lungs of the Earth.”
Climate is changing faster than scientists anticipated. How long do we really have? — No one really can answer that question.
HOWIE
October 21st, 2013 at 7:29 pm
Blacks will never get a break from the racist element in this country. Here is a comment I got from huff post.
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that is what pops up in yr head. Obama is known to make deals in exchange for something for his wife. Evidently, there are no takers this time around.
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1 second ago LeTA0
It cannot compare to what pops up in your head. “Obama is known to make deals in exchange for something for his wife.” How racist is that! Truly a sick mind at work.
Evidently, you people will say anything to denigrate the man and his family. At least your title is appropriate.
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October 21st, 2013 at 7:30 pm
Howie, If we could just get a modicum of common sense to prevail.
October 21st, 2013 at 7:37 pm
Also, sometimes returning to work helps keep your mind off incessant mourning and grieving for a bit, to help you regroup. I wonder who these people are that tell us how much emotion someone is supposed to display and what it means if one displays more or less emotion? They never seem particularly kind and loving themselves but instead seem to be snoopy busybodies full of self-righteousness.
October 21st, 2013 at 7:47 pm
I’m a fine cuban lady married to one of those tiny weenie white boys. He has reminded o every day of the 9 years we have been married how lucky I am to be married to a white man. For me I feel lucky only because he is worth $20 million american dollars.
I sit around with him and his friends dissing black men. So of course he had to do a job on this guy. My husband is 6 foot three and 219 pounds of sculptured muscle. He carries a licensed concealed glock 10, and looks for some OTW to eye me so he can confront him.
All that boy with a 4 inch, fat little stub when it is its hardest. If I wasn’t getting real dick every now and then, so much of this pussy would have dried up from lack of attention, I would be as stuck up as most of those white bitches who think they have been fucked good by their white boys.
The simple truth is penis envy. They just can’t stand the fact they are inadequate in that department.
October 21st, 2013 at 7:50 pm
Travis, the problem with you and the rest of your liberal brethren is that you are a bunch of apologists who paint stories in broad brush strokes. The real tragedy here is two-fold; the death of any person at any age in any situation is absolutely tragic and unnecessary. Let’s state the obvious and get that out of the way.
Beyond the fact that Adrian Peterson has a confirmed 5, potentially 7, children out of wedlock is losing the forest for the trees. That issue; of wedlock, absentee fatherism, etc. are much greater societal problems than Adrian Peterson – he is a mere reflection of them.
The real question is: Why is it that someone who has played in the NFL, at an MVP caliber, for 7 seasons would have a son in a situation like this? Not just an out of wedlock situation – a situation where a 2 year old boy would ever cross paths with a 27 year old, steel-pipe wielding, psychopath.
Adrian Peterson makes $13,900,000 in 2013 alone – so one game check is equivalent to $868,750. The cost to raise a child in 2013, in the United States, from birth to 18 years old is $241,080. So for 60 minutes of work, Adrian Peterson makes 3.6 times the US Department of Agriculture figure of the cost to raise a child (http://money.cnn.com/2013/08/14/pf/cost-children/). Not for a year, not for adolescence, for an ENTIRE childhood.
THIS, Travis, is the problem. It’s the selfishness of this individual. Beyond the selfishness of having 5 or 6 or 7 children out of wedlock, it’s the utter disconnect between how a person with so so so much, could leave their “child” in a situation with so so little. The obvious response is “nobody could have known this would happen” – of course not, but the fact of the matter is the rest of the details just do not pass the smell test.
So, before you jump on other columnists and bloggers for expressing their opinions on the situation – perhaps take a few moments to reflect on the fact that in 16 and a half minutes of a football game Adrian Peterson makes enough money to raise a child from birth to adulthood. He has no excuse and you and the rest of the media should take a few moments to reflect on the reality what you are actually saying with those words.
October 21st, 2013 at 8:00 pm
Carol, I have to differ with you on your contention that all white men have small dicks. My brother has a very skilled 7 inches that he knows how to put to very good use. You americans are so pre occupied with race. I married a small dick southern racist. When I say small I am being kind. If it weren’t for my brother Gustaf I would have left the useless bigot years ago.
But he was nice enough to send for my brother in the third year of our marriage because I hadn’t gotten pregnant and I was threatening to leave him because I was so lonely. I knew he didn’t want to lose this tall very blond sky blued daring.
He was desperate for a blond child. Well thanks to my brother’s cooperation We have given him 5. Three boys and two girls all blond and the spitting image of their father, my gorgeous brother.
October 21st, 2013 at 8:02 pm
Flip side to that? As it said, he hadn’t known about the kid for most of the child’s life, and was trying to become a part of the little boy’s life. What do you expect him to do? Swoop in and take custody of the child right away, when he’s traveling gods only know how many days of the year, and rip the kid away from everyone and everything he knows? Give money to the mother? Yeah, he regularly pays child support.
Money isn’t the issue. Fact of the matter is, the person taking care of the child, more than likely inadvertently, put the child in a dangerous situation. It had tragic results. Regardless of how much money he makes, it’s not Peterson’s fault. It’s not that difficult for a man to not know he has a kid, especially if the relationship he had with the mother ended poorly.
October 21st, 2013 at 8:02 pm
The point of this article, Andrew, is that we DON’T KNOW about the extenuating circumstances. Adrian Peterson just recently learned the boy was his. Who is to say he hadn’t already paid child support, or made the arrangements to start.
And there are “27 year old, steel-pipe wielding, psychopath[s]” all over society, no amount of money could protect a child from a person their parent chose to expose them to. Yes, having babies outside of a committed relationship is a big problem in our society, but let us not blame Adrian Peterson for the tragedy that befell his son.
October 21st, 2013 at 8:03 pm
Andrew, Mr. Judgemental, you are aware that he did not even know of the childs’ existence until a few weeks before his death? Or are you just so in a rush to be self-righteous that you ignored that fact? Why has no one impugned the character of these mothers, who are ultimately responsible for their birth control and decision to have the child. Doesn’t seem accidental, nor do these women seem that virtuous.
October 21st, 2013 at 8:07 pm
Carol#5, that isn’t always true my husband has a 61/2″ dick. That is plenty enough to satisfy me, if he could keep it up long enough. As it is he has to eat my pussy for a half hour so I can get off and then he puts it in wiggles it a few minutes and cum all over the place.
I make him pull out, shoot off and I try to suck him back up. So far no luck.
October 21st, 2013 at 8:18 pm
Sorry Carol you could be worst off. My white husband has a 8 inch weapon. He fucks me like a bull in heat. He rams that thing in me so hard that I hurt for days afterwards. I hate fucking him. Otherwise he is a very wonderful man.
He is not a bigot. He respects women and all races. I love his sense of fair play and our 3 children, all grown, adore him. I married him when I was 23. I had lost my virginity at 14 and I had a ton of sexual experience. All with tiny dick white men. So when he came along and showed me that big dick I was hooked.
The fires two years I was so enamored with the size of that thing that I excused the pain. It was when a black guy cornered me at the Opera and invited me to his booth. I had gone by myself and we fucked through the entire presentation.
HEAVEN is being made love to in a way that your vagina gets so wet that you drip every where. He wasn’t as long or fat as my husband, but he moved in side me so good that I exploded with ecstasy.
We had a short 4 year affair until he got married. I cried for two years. But that was 14 years ago. We reunited at his wife’s funeral last month. I haven’t had the nerve to suggest sex. But it is on my mind.
October 21st, 2013 at 8:20 pm
Here is my only problem with this entire situation. How does AP have these love children when he’s super Christian man.
You couldn’t escape hearing him profess his love for the sky God last year when he was running for 2000 yards. Since he’s not married I was under the impression he didn’t have any kids. During all his one on one interviews there was no talk or appearance of a girlfriend.
How many kids does he have or know he has.
October 21st, 2013 at 8:21 pm
Real journalism requires facts and speaking on the issue at hand. Today we seem to have sensational seeking journalist, looking for the next big story without looking at the facts and what is important.
Adrian’s parenting skills are not the issue here, it’s the fact that a child was beaten to death by a grown man who has abused other women and children. The Don Lemmons of the world need to focus on what’s important. They have effectively pulled the story away from the child and made it about the father, which should not have happen.
October 21st, 2013 at 8:27 pm
Why is it a secret That’s his business. Nasty on both their parts for not using protection. The women see dollar signs. Football playing don’t last forever.
October 21st, 2013 at 8:39 pm
“The Kansas Supreme Court unanimously decided to indefinitely suspend the law license of former Kansas Attorney General Phill Kline, best known for aggressively attacking Planned Parenthood and abortion-provider George Tiller after being elected. Tiller was later killed by an anti-abortion activist.
In its 154-page decision, the court found that Kline committed 11 violations of the Kansas Rules of Professional Conduct while in office.
October 21st, 2013 at 10:01 pm
This Fucking Piece of Shit (phill kline) Should BURN IN HELL with bill o’reilly
FOR TERRORIZING Doctor George Tiller MD ~ R.I.P. !
Now for some words on ‘Billo The Cuckold’ o’reilly from the Rev Phelps…..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v…
~ ironic ?
October 21st, 2013 at 10:01 pm
Kline is currently an assistant professor of law at Liberty University in Lynchburg, Virginia, Jerry Falwell’s former Liberty Baptist College.
What an example for Christianity they set, huh?
October 21st, 2013 at 10:02 pm
I don’t remember anyone criticizing Brett Favre when he chose to play after the death of his dad. For him it was to honor his father who would have wanted him to play. For others it is therapeutic to work through tragedy.
Football is also a team sport and players may feel that they have a responsibility to not let their team down even if it is a difficult time for them. As to Peterson’s personal life would it have been too much to ask for these people to show a little respect to Adrian Peterson and his family?
October 21st, 2013 at 10:03 pm
Mark, Wow! Just so you know, you can make babies and marriage is NOT a requirement for being a parent. Also, his religious views are his business, not yours. Do you think you are God or something?
October 21st, 2013 at 10:06 pm
Your little face smiles up at me
and in your brown eyes do I see.
Your heart so full of love,
You are my miracle from above.
For I’ll be happy if only I can see
Your little face smiling up at me.
October 21st, 2013 at 10:40 pm
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Your sister came over to my house crying because you lost $40,000 to that crook. What do you have for brains? Didn’t you tell me that you read this blog every day? Then why haven’t you learnt a damn thing?
You are a FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Gottdamn you I could have used that money.
To think I have been sucking your nasty dick for 11 years and the most you ever gave me at one time was $9500.00. And here Wendy says that you sent $40,000.00 to a total stranger. What the fuck do you need another $million dollars for?
Why god gives the dumb as dirt hillbillies like your all that money almost makes me a non believer. To think I almost let you put that pretzel up in my ass last Saturday. You can forget ever getting that close to happiness again.
What would your brother think if he knew you were trying to stick your funky dick up his wife’s ass? God, I hate you. $40,000.00 to a perfect stranger, What did I ever see in you?
I almost called you when she left, but Rick came home and my senses came back and I realized that everybody thinks we hate each other. WELL NOW I REALLY DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
$40,000.00 to a perfect stranger, you ignorant piece of shit.
October 22nd, 2013 at 12:09 am
I’m going to sleep, thinking of you.
If I’m lucky you will be in my dreams.
October 22nd, 2013 at 7:11 am
#4 Carol, I think your comment comes the closest to how I feel about the whole matter, while some might calculate his money and how much it costs to raise a child, or question his values, religious or otherwise, if its one thing I’ve learned it is that if your quick to judge harshly, usually your own inner self talk is tough and you judge yourself harshly also, you may expand this into other areas of life bc it is one holistic system whether you believe it or not, kind of like gravity, you don’t have to believe in it, it’s there…
…so try breathing a little humanity into the situation before you judge, his son died – that’s a tragedy. How about some compassion/empathy for that? If playing ball the next day feels okay to him, why would he or should he seek anyones approval/disapproval of that? Loving people would just say, sorry for your loss and I’m sorry you just found out about him bc now you won’t have a chance to know him.
Carla, just curious, why would you marry a man with a 4″ dick? For 20 million on down the line? Not judging…seems like a trade off was made and your not happy about it, you do get my empathy for lack of proper trips to heaven bc money cannot buy that. Maybe you need a side squeeze?
Sabrina, why would a man with an 8″ dick not be open to hearing what you want in bed, maybe you could suggest that being rammed all the time is just in need of some changing up, if he’s an otherwise good man, he’d likely want to hear that your not enjoying his 8 that way all the time anymore or did I miss something else?
Kristi, try the squeeze technique, sister, (saved my pal from a life with a premature ejaculator). If he’s not willing to do it, thats telling in and of itself…
I can tell you the moment of your liberation will be when you say kindly, this doesn’t work fr me, this does and if need be get your own hands dirty ; ) and let me tell you that if you do not, you have opened yourself to a life of limited communicating with that person, you cannot expect anyone to read your mind or be perfect in bed without your participation. If you want heaven, then ask for heaven, if you’re not finding it with him whoever he is, keep looking…heaven may be lurking for you right behind an opera curtain.
Luv, Zen Lill
October 22nd, 2013 at 8:15 am
Just wanted to add, for you dudes, just bc you think sex is over bc you’re done (& what kind of passé’ thinking is that anyway?) just remember you have a mouth for talking sweet or nasty and tasting her sweetness – depending on her needs not yours, you’ve also got hands which should be caressing, squeezing, etc….again depending on her needs, not yours.
You want women to want you then do what your particular woman wants where it counts bc even if she doesn’t leave you for it, or snag it in the side, she cannot possibly keep up with the ‘respect’ thing you crave if you do not please her in bed…so give it up and get with the pleasing program. If you let yourself do this for you and for her, the rewards to your man psyche are tenfold, trust me on this…
Women of MM blog, just like babies grow up to be annoying and darling teens and young adults, it is as such with your man, things change but penis sizes dont, if you dont want a life of raising baby to adulthood everyday and you dont want sex with an under average sized man everyday, then maybe reflect on those life decisions longer and walk away…? Maybe life would feel more passionate with less money but more heaven? Maybe you don’t want heaven and that’s okay just don’t expect your man not to want it. In other words, we are responsible for our own pleasure, and that’s a topic even so-called women’s magazines don’t stress…they’re too busy getting you to conform and please men!
I hope you understand I’m just trying to help and I wish race wasn’t such a big issue in the states and I also wish we could speak more openly about sex also, I know there some here who will think ZL is oversexed just for touching on the subject a lot…but in my world I am perfectly well adjusted sexually and otherwise. And I wish my GFs who speak openly to me would do the same at home, see what I mean about communication skills…? It’s scary sometimes but oh so worth it…
-ZL
October 22nd, 2013 at 8:59 am
My wish is that you all read my words with compassion and empathy and luv bc it’s very hard not to sound ‘instructional’ and we are dealing with a subject that is very subjective to every human, the nuances and obvious about sexual/sensual aspects of our lives. I don’t know it all but I do know a lot. I try in my holistic hypnotherapy to practice luving empathetic listening skills, here us no different though I do call ur as I see it (& that’s MY truth, not necessarily yours) and that ends my disclaimers.
-ZL
October 22nd, 2013 at 9:00 am
And my typos
October 22nd, 2013 at 9:09 am
Zen Lill, I live in Takasaki, Japan. Japanese men are as bad as some of your white men in America. They have tiny things too. Perhaps that is why they resent the black soldiers we sometimes see in the streets.
I am writing because I smiled deep inside as I was reading Carla’s post. Me, too, Me too, I heard myself saying to her post. Not to the money as my husband does quite well but he is far from $20 million, but to here reaching ecstasy with another lover.
We women marry what is available here in Japan. We really have very little choice. The men see to that. They have a system that totally favors being a man. My “me too” moment came when she said that if she had not satisfied herself with “real dick” from another lover she would have never known ecstasy.
I assume that lover was black, it was for me. He did not allow me to see what he was putting into me. I was over awed by how truly black he was. I stared so much he came over and introduced himself to me.
He said “I don’t bite, I saw you staring and I just thought it would be polite to say hello, hands across the sea and all that, you know.” I remember every word. I sometimes play his beautiful voice saying it in his perfect Japanese over to myself so I can come with my husband. My black god has returned to America and it is all I have left.
But for the 8 glorious months we had, my life was a miracle. When he made love to me the first time, I felt the full of him after a few strokes of his huge cock. I was so wet from the want of him that he had no trouble entering areas of my vagina no man had ventured into. It was WONDERFUL. The way he moved that huge throbbing black as the darkest night love song, inside me took control of my senses and carried me to a place I had never been.
We would meet in Toyama about an hour and a half drive from Takasaki. He suggested we meet someplace that would not compromise me. I suggested Toyama because I love the beach. Even now as I write I can feel that wonderful creature between his legs that obeyed him so explicitly. And as I felt then I do now,the need that I just have to see it.
OMG, when I did it was huge! I admired it and was awed that he could get that into me. Why was I not split open like a melon facing a dull fat thick blade? Even as I was thinking that I eagerly took that thing of incredible pleasure into my mouth and sucked and licked, and sucked. I would never stop I told myself until he pulls it from my hands.
He moaned and asked if I wanted him to cum in my mouth. I bopped my head yes and felt the explosion of warm soy sauce in my mouth. I sucked to get it all. He placed his hands between my legs to feel the wet excitement of me again. I stopped because I knew we would ride the currents of ecstasy again this day.
Akemi
October 22nd, 2013 at 9:14 am
Zen Lill, what is the squeeze technique? Thank you Michelle for this blog. Normally I would never be able to talk about sex in that manner. But your confidence and the response of others on this medium that you provide for open and honest discussion of everything is just wonderful.
I not only get to express something that has been hidden away, I get to discover there may be a solution to my dilemma.
October 22nd, 2013 at 9:19 am
Zen Lill, my girlfriend emailed me this link Zen Lill Says:
October 22nd, 2013 at 8:15 am
and said we have to talk. Do not mess with the minds of the women in the Netherlands. The men here know how to pleasure the women. We do not need the know-it-americans to interfere.
October 22nd, 2013 at 12:49 pm
Hear’s a new way for Huff Post to justify denying your post. I responded to the HP article “Fox News PR Used Fake Accounts To Push Back At Negative Commenters” http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/21/fox-news-fake-accounts-comments_n_4135788.html
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LeTA0
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The right is paying people to rebut your critical comments everywhere on all the blogs. How many times have you seem a post on hp that makes you squirm because the comment seems to be so dumb in support of one of the Right’s issues as to be downright stupid?
No amount of logic will appeal to their common or logical sense. The just keep coming back with stupid comments that say they are either brain dead or just being obstinate for the sake of making an argument.
Well now you know. They are being paid to make comments to rebut your post.
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Their response was: “Due to the potentially sensitive nature of this article, your comment may take longer to appear publicly.”