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Shake Your Bootie Sunday

Posted by Michelle Moquin on June 23rd, 2013

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Good morning!

Hey…it’s Sunday. What could be more fun today than a little twerking, especially when it is done to some classical music. You don’t know what twerking is? Ahh…you are in for a visual feast – Enjoy!

Twerking To Classical: Twerking Gets a High Class Makeover

One of America’s newest favorite pastimes is Twerking, the subtle art of rhythmically flexing and gyrating one’s posterior to music.

Sadly, this relatively new form of dance often does not get the respect it deserves from the performing arts establishment.
- in some cases these dancers have even been suspended from school for practicing their craft.

To help demonstrate the merits of the dance we have assembled a montage of some of the most skilled twerkers on the Internet, set to Aram Khachaturian’s Suserov Par (Saber Dance) from the final act of his ballet Gayane. It is our hope that seeing twerking in this new context will help foster a wider appreciation for the budding dance form.

With any luck we will soon see patrons of the finer arts lining up to see acts likeAtlanta based Twerk Team perform to Verdi’s La Traviata at the Met.

Peter Gelb, we’re looking at you.

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Readers: Modern day “Twerking” is a bit more seductive than the original traditional “Mapouka” dance – however both are amazing and fun to watch. Tell me those aren’t the best bootie bumps you’ve ever seen. Girls: I know you’re bumping your butts in the mirror right now seeing if you can hang with these girls. Are you as good at shaking your stuff? Blog me.

Happy twerking.

peace & love. 

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Wonderful Women Of The World*

Posted by Michelle Moquin on June 22nd, 2013

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Good morning!

Here is an update on the female teacher who was fired from her job because of her abusive husband. Little did I know that in all but 6 states you can be fired from your job for being a victim of domestic violence. And shockingly California is not one of the 6 states.

Isn’t that crazy? Really…we need to be so much more involved when we punch that ticket at the voting booth. Just who are the representatives that passed this sort of bill? I have no idea, but I can tell you that the only party that is fighting to bar employment discrimination and protect employment rights of victims who have survived domestic violence, etc., are…guess who? The Democrats. No surprise there that the repubs aren’t supporting women.

Thank you to *WWOWSenator Hannah-Beth Jackson (D-Santa Barbara), and Rep. Lucille Roybal-Allard (D-CA-40) for getting something going in California. Jackson introduced SB 400, a bill to protect the employment rights of survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking. And Roybal-Allard, introduced H.R.1229 – Security and Financial Empowerment Act.

Let’s HOPE these pass (write to them if you care about this), and more Senators from other states will join in and introduce similar bills.

Here’s the write:

In All But Six States, You Can Be Fired For Being A Victim Of Domestic Violence

By Bryce Covert on Jun 20, 2013 at 5:00 pm

Last week, Carie Charlesworth, a teacher in California and a victim of domestic violence, was fired from her job because her abusive husband invaded the school parking lot and put the school on lockdown. While her abuser was sent to prison, she was also punished for his crime by losing her employment.

The school’s action -– firing her because she is a victim of domestic abuse –- is sadly legal in most states. Just six, Connecticut, Hawaii, Illinois, New York, Oregon, and Rhode Island, have laws on the books that bar employment discrimination against victims of domestic abuse or sexual assault, according to an up-to-date document tracking these laws from Legal Momentum. State Senators in California introduced a non-discrimination bill in February, which has been referred to committee.

 

Illinois and Hawaii, as well as New York City and Westchester County, go further to mandate that employers offer victims reasonable accommodations so that they can stay at work: “things like allowing you to change your work telephone number or changing a shift so someone can’t stalk you and find you,” Michelle Caiola, a senior staff attorney at Legal Momentum, told ThinkProgress. Fourteen states protect victims who need to take time off of work to go to counseling, court, or seek medical attention due to their abuse.

For their part, the Bureau of Labor Statistics has found that only about 15 percent of employers have a workplace policy that specifically addresses domestic violence.

 

The laws are sparse, but the abuse at work is not. One study found that nearly three-quarters of abused women were harassed by their partner while at work. Homicide is a leading cause of workplace deaths for women, second only to roadway incidents.

 

But discrimination like the kind that Charlesworth experienced can lead victims to shy away from reporting. Of the 4 million workplace crimes committed against women from 1993-1990, less than half were reported to the police.

 

The loss of a job thanks to abuse can end up cutting off a lifeline to end that abuse. Three-quarters of women report staying with their abuser longer because of economic reasons. “We know that economic abuse is frequent in these situations, and abusers often try to get the victim fired in order to increase her financial dependency on him,” Kim Gandy, president and CEO of the National Network to End Domestic Violence, told ThinkProgress. By showing up at a partner’s workplace, in many states an abuser can put her job at risk, potentially driving her back into his arms.

 

Beyond the patchwork of state laws, “there is no real protection at the federal level for this,” Caiola said, although bills to provide employment protection are introduced “in every session.” In fact, the Security and Financial Empowerment Act was introduced in the house on March 15, which would bar employers from discriminating against domestic violence or sexual assault victims. The bill has been referred to committee and doesn’t have a vote scheduled.

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Readers: What are you thinking? Blog me.

Social Butterfly: Your comment made me laugh, because I have noticed the same thing with comments in past articles I have posted.

Peace out. 

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Flap Your Lips Friday

Posted by Michelle Moquin on June 21st, 2013

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Good morning.

I realize that I post many stories about the abuse and atrocities that girls and women go through. Why? Because even though it is prevalent here and around the world, I am still shocked by it all, and posting what I can gives a voice to these women. I don’t think I will ever get over it or used to it – thankfully.  I don’t want to. I HOPE that no one turns a blind eye when it is so widespread.

Because if it becomes the norm, and more people start to say, “Oh it is just the way men are,” (Yes, some people already say this about men!) less will be done to stop it, and the more women will be abused and blamed for whatever reason…she shouldn’t have teased the boy…she shouldn’t have dressed like that…she shouldn’t have gone to the party alone…whatever. All excuses. And excuses that gives men permission to do it again, and again, and again. And all the while blaming the woman, when it is the man or the boy who is the perpetrator, and should be blamed.

I just get so sick of it. But not sick enough to not blog about it anymore. It is on my mind more than I would like it to be and more than I would like to admit. But I am a lucky one and so many others are not. So I feel the need to support my sisters in whatever means I know how.

I know because of the way I am, people, and even some readers here, say I am a “man hater.” Those words mean nothing to me. They have no effect on me whatsoever. Bring it on. If I or other women are such “man haters”, ( I will speak for myself) it is not because they are men – it is only because of the things men do.  I find it baffling that men (and even women) even dare say to me that I am a “man hater,” when it is the men on this planet that are the haters. I mean, I am not the one doing harm. Women are not the ones showing hatred. Men are the ones that do the abusing, killing, and enslaving of women on this planet, world wide. I am only reporting it, and I am accused of hating? If anyone hates, it is the men hating the women. Why else would they be so destructive and abusive. It certainly isn’t because they love us to death. No pun intended.

And when I hear that women, stupid women, walk lockstep behind their man, taking on his thoughts and beliefs, even bending over to be spanked(!), I just get livid. And as I stated yesterday, I lose faith in womenkind. And I don’t want to. I want to believe that women will change because I have little faith that men will. They don’t need to.  Many like the way it is. They don’t have anything to fear.

But we women, we have so much to fear when it comes to the men in our lives and their propensity to perpetrate sick behavior. Which is why we still need mothers and fathers to raise our young boys to respect girls and women. We can’t give up on that. And we also need our young sisters to support their sisters, by encouraging them to do so, and providing inspiring examples…so that they will grow up to be women who support women. Or women are just not going to survive.

This brings me to today’s write. Sadly, here is a perfect example of a young girl who was raped and her community is re-victimizing her by harassing her, and not supporting her, in a time where she really needs sisterly love and support.

Indiana Town Shames Rape Victim, Speculates About Her ‘Promiscuous Behavior’

Several high-profile cases of sexual assault have shown the consequences of rape culture: From Rehtaeh Parsons’ suicide to the Steubenville rape trial, these girls were re-victimized by the harassment and public shaming that followed the sexual assault.

Now, a 14-year-old in Elwood, Indiana who is eight months pregnant faces ongoing harassment simply because her neighborhood sees her as a very young pregnant girl. But a reporter at the Indianapolis Star writes that her town does not know the full story of the 17-year-old boy who physically overpowered her after she told him “no.” On Tuesday, he faces sentencing for three counts of child molestation.

At the same time the girl has encountered vicious public shaming from her community, she and her mother Kristy Green have spoken out because they worry her assailant will walk free in juvenile court:

“I can’t walk out the door without someone calling me a whore or slut,” the girl said. “I used to have a lot of friends, or people I thought were my friends, but as soon as this happened I just isolated myself.”

The repeated vandalism incidents at the family’s home — including the words “whore” and “slut” scrawled on the garage doors — were reported to police. But Green said no charges were filed because there were no witnesses to the acts.

Her daughter also has been the target of mean-spirited rumors and speculation that her pregnancy is the result of promiscuous behavior.


This ordeal is all too common for victims of sexual assault — a reality that affects not just U.S. teens in school, but also pervades military and sports culture. The Chicago Tribune Editorial Board recently noted that “it’s still news when a rape victim stands in front of the cameras to state what ought to be obvious, which is that she has nothing to be ashamed of.”

But the people in Elwood — lacking the details of the rape due to privacy in the juvenile court system — reverted to alienating the teen for her pregnancy because they assumed she must have been “promiscuous.” That’s true for many teen moms across the country, who are often on the receiving end of this stigma precisely at the time they most need support. Public awareness campaigns attempting to prevent teen pregnancy often put inordinate focus on “slut-shaming” abstinence over comprehensive sexual health resources.

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Readers: What a rude awakening for any young girl, first to have to endure rape, and then go through rejection from girls she thought were her friends.

I have said enough this morning. Anything more to add here? It’s Friday…Blog me. 

Mike, TMI had heard nothing about this story until I googled it. And then I still didn’t find much out there, except for this write from 3 weeks ago. Todashev was interrogated in his home and was denied having a lawyer represent him. He was also accused of caring a knife and attacking an agent, which is difficult to do when he wasn’t in possession of one. Now the kid is dead, and reportedly murdered by the FBI. I’m curious to see what more will be revealed and what will come from this.

Social Butterfly: Nice to hear from you. Yeah, I bet that added day is an adjustment. Happy to hear life is good though. Thanks for posting the write on Ms. Deen. I have been hearing all about it on several stations. And the big question seems to be, “What does Oprah think of her now?” I love Oprah but her opinion on this matter is no better than anyone else’s, although she does have influence. Deen made racist remarks. It will be interesting to see what transpires.

Got to run – Enjoy the Summer Solstice! Peace out. 

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my “loyal”(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

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michelle

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“Juneteenth” A Day Late

Posted by Michelle Moquin on June 20th, 2013

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Oops. 

Good morning!

Well…I meant to post this on the 19th, yesterday, and I even had it already to go in my queue. But lately I have been losing track of the dates, not the day (that would be disasterous in my business), just what date it is. And days seem to fly by. Is anyone else feeling this way?

Anyway…what can I say? Better late than to not recognize such an important day. For many, June 19th is just another day. For so many others, Juneteenth was Freedom Day.

From the Huff Po:

What Do We Tell Our Children About Slavery?

June 19th may not be as widely celebrated today as it was for more than a century, but it remains one of the most important dates in this nation’s climb from slavery to freedom.

In the late spring of 1865 — two years after Abraham Lincoln signed the Emancipation Proclamation into law, two months after the Civil War’s official end and within days of the president’s assassination — most slaves were still not free.

In Texas, the Confederacy’s southernmost hold, the task of informing the slaves went to Major General Gordon Granger. Riding into Galveston on June 19 armed with General Order No. 3, he made the announcement: from that day forward, all slaves would, at last and forever, be free.

June 19, or “Juneteenth,” as it is now called, commemorates African-American’s “independence day.” That this hard-won freedom has yet to be fully realized is no secret. That our images of slavery remain distorted is a surprise.

In this 150th anniversary year of the Emancipation Proclamation, two recent films pivot on the era: Lincoln and Django Unchained. In Lincoln, slaves are unbelievably absent; inDjango, they’re unbelievable.

On television, PBS aired a three-part documentary, The Abolitionists. In it, the role of slaves and free Blacks in abolition was — with the exception of Frederick Douglass (one of the most famous men of his day) — non-existent.

On the side of progress, a new biography, Thomas Jefferson: The Art of Power, by Jon Meacham, is the first to unequivocally relate the relationship between Jefferson and Sally Hemings. The enslaved 14-year-old half-sister of his deceased wife, he took her to Paris and kept her at Monticello, where he fathered their six children.

In 2010, nearly two centuries after his death, for his transgressions, the Texas Board of Education removed the third president of the United States from the state curriculum. With Texas as one of the country’s largest textbook-buying blocks, that statewide decision cast a chill on the publishing industry and endangered historical accuracy nationwide.

Slavery. It’s complicated.

As Mark Twain wrote in Life on the Mississippi (censored and expurgated for decades by his publisher for observations as pungent as this): “I missed one thing in the South — African slavery. That horror is gone, and permanently. Therefore, half the South is at last emancipated; half the South is free. But the White half is apparently as far from emancipation as ever.”

He was half-right. 150 years after Emancipation — because the refusal to confront slavery’s wrongs plunged the South into Jim Crow segregation — slavery’s grip remains powerful and painful. Black and White, it haunts us all, keeping us bound to the past. Straining every institution and discourse, its wounds cut deep.

So, how do we heal and move on? What can we tell our children about slavery to prevent the continued spread of its toxicity for generations to come?

1. Tell them the truth (in age-appropriate doses).
Slavery is a system of institutionalized terror that denies freedom to some for the benefit of others. Slavery in America lasted 246 years (1619-1865) and destroyed an estimated one hundred million lives.

2. Rethink the phrases we take for granted.
No one is “born a slave.” Nature does not make people slaves; people enslave other people. Slaves were people tortured for profit; priced and bartered like furniture.

3. Be clear about your values.
We condemn and punish those who steal a watch or a car. Are human beings not worth the consideration due a watch? Don’t absolve George Washington as a slave owner because he freed some of his slaves in his will. If you were his slave, would that satisfy you?

4. Model healing, not abuse.
Every child knows what is fair and what is not. Demonstrations that divide children into groups of slaves and masters reinforce privilege and powerlessness. Educate them to justice, not to slaveholding.

5. Avoid easy explanations and stereotypes.
Not every Northerner was an abolitionist nor every Southerner pro-slavery. The North ended slavery decades before the Civil War, but profited from it to the end. The whips, lashes and chains used to enforce slavery in the South were manufactured in the North.

6. Celebrate the good.
The more I learn of slaves, the more I know of heroes. Among them, Arnold Cragston, a slave by day who rowed others to freedom by night. In her Midnight School, Milla Granson taught fellow slaves to read and to write the passes that would set their minds and bodies free.

Today, on Juneteenth, we are reminded that only by confronting what is wrong can we make things right. To see ourselves as part of the struggle is to empower ourselves as part of the solution.

© Janus Adams 2013

Janus Adams, author of Freedom Days: 365 Inspired Moments in Civil Rights History, is founder and publisher of BackPax children’s media. The newest title is STEAL AWAY: Escape to Freedom on the Underground Railroad – a book, audio, and board game set. Her website is: www.JanusAdams.com

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What did you think of the write? What does Juneteenth mean to you and yours? Blog me.

Social Butterfly: How are you? It has been a long time. How is the new job going? Thanks for posting that insane story. What is wrong with these women? Can they really be that dumb to put up with, and gladly accept this kind of sick behavior from men? I’m losing faith fast in womankind when I see women lower themselves to such a level – what a disgrace to strong thinking women. I have no words left to express.

Peace, Love, & Freedom for all…

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Aka BABE: We all know what this means by now :)

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Senate Makes Major Move on Immigration Reform

Posted by Michelle Moquin on June 19th, 2013

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Good morning!

Yes, I’ve been watching the news and hearing all about this waste-of-a-time-far-reaching-anti-abortion-bill that the repubs are so focused on when it has been said that it will no way pass the Senate and Obama will veto it. Do we women need to be concerned? I don’t think so but one never knows. The politics are pretty crazy lately.

There are so many important things to be concerned about – legislation that needs their time…jobs…immigration…and as usual the sick repubs just can’t seem to keep their business out of our vaginas, with so much time spent trying limit our rights and freedoms. These are same repubs that claim to defend the constitution, yet they want to take away our constitutional right to choose.

And did you hear what Rep. Michael Burgess (R-Texas) said on Monday? He stated that abortion should be banned as early as 15 weeks after conception because he has witnessed male fetuses masturbate at that stage.

OMG, if you didn’t think that men (s0me, not all) only cared about themselves and their sexual needs and self-preservation, this is a perfect example for you to take notice and go “hmmm.” If it wasn’t a crazy and true statement made by someone that represents a part of our country – Texas (ahh..that makes sense)…someone who was voted in by the people (of Texas), it would be funny.

Let’s not forget this when the mid-term elections roll around again in 2014. If Burgess is up for re-election, vote the man out, with all of the rest who are trying to take away our rights and freedoms.

I’m not going to give them any more time this morning – I’ve given it enough.

Let’s focus on something important…something that deserves time. How about “immigration?” I think this is the latest from ThinkProgress. If not, please enlighten me.

84 Votes

Jun 11, 2013 | By  ThinkProgress War Room

Senate Makes Major Move on Immigration Reform

Immigration reform including a pathway to earned citizenship moved one step closer to reality today as the Senate voted overwhelmingly, 84-15, to began debating and amending the bipartisan bill that passed the Judiciary Committee last month. Unsurprisingly, all of today’s no votes came from Republicans, including those leading the opposition to the bill: Sens. Jeff Sessions (AL), Mike Lee (UT), and Ted Cruz (TX).

While many of those who voted to take up the bill today are expected to oppose it in the end, today’s vote is the latest sign of strong momentum. By contrast, the vote to take up the 2007 immigration reform effort, which ultimately failed, was a much narrower 64-35.

Good news also came from the other side of the Capitol today, with Speaker Boehner (R-OH) predicting that the bill will become law before the end of the year. In another positive sign, Boehner also refused to rule out passing a bill through the House with mostly Democratic votes.

Finally, the president also held an event today with DREAMers and a bipartisan group of others who support reform with a pathway to earned citizenship.

The only unfortunate news on the immigration front today came from Sen. Marco Rubio (R-FL), who appears to want to have it both ways once again. Rubio was reportedly asking his Republican colleagues to refrain from coming out in support of the bill so he could use the appearance of a lack support among Republicans as an excuse to drag the bill to the right. Discouraging fellow senators from supporting one’s own legislation is a relatively unheard of move.

new poll out today shows that 81 percent of Latinos polled reject the notion of the “border-security first” approach that Rubio is inching toward. That includes 76 percent of Latinos who have voted for a GOP candidate in the past. Instead, Latinos want to see the pathway to citizenship and border security implemented concurrently, just as it is in the Gang of 8 bill Rubio himself helped author.

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Yw: I HOPE you and Ym will get together soon, if you haven’t already.

Zen Lill: Thanks for your comment. In my opinion, killing is never simple, even in theory.  Just to be clear, I am not condoning murdering one’s husband for no reason. Nor do I agree to make it “look” very self defense to condone murder. I won’t go down that path of thinking.  I am not saying you are either. However yes, I agree with you, about killing him. If you are protecting yourself and you do get the opportunity to shoot him before he tries to kill you, make sure you kill him, with one shot or many if necessary.

Readers: If I was not clear, let me get clear now. If you are being physically abused, or even threatened to the point where you fear your life, and the hairs on the back of your neck get raised, most likely your life is in dire danger.  Listen to your gut. Make sure that you protect yourself, and if necessary kill the man before he kills you. By not having a gun and leveling the playing field, you could be endangering your life, and your children’s lives. In my opinion the best way to protect your children is to keep them away from the abuser/perpetrator. If you’re dead, you can’t exactly do that.

Madeline: I used to go the movies all of the time. I can’t even remember the last movie I went to. I have no idea what is even out there. Your comment filled with conviction leads me to believe you are correct. And if so, we need more women writers. Speaking of…

Wendy: With your experience in the film industry, I think you have a new career in film writing waiting for you. Go for it.

Kady: Interesting. Thanks for enlightening me.

Peace out. 

Lastly, greed over a great story is surfacing from my “loyal”(?) readers. With all this back and forth about who owns what, that appears on my blog, let me reiterate that all material posted on my blog becomes the sole property of my blog. If you want to reserve any proprietary rights don’t post it to my blog. I will prominently display this caveat on my blog from now on to remind those who may have forgotten this notice.

Gratefully your blog host,

michelle

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